My daughter found a stray cat, called humane society, and decided to keep the cat. We then got everything done that was needed and now he is called Ben. Very soon Ben went into the washroom, got hold of the toilet paper and you know what happened. So the toilet paper goes to the basket, my towel keeps getting dropped consistently on the floor. so now it has to be placed on the door hook instead of the hanger.
Blind strings were pulled, Picture frames from the tables were broken, some ornaments were thrown out because they were damaged, and the need to become a nose blind are the few things to talk about. To make it short there has been lot of acceptable adjustments, and regardless of all that we still have a cat name Ben.
Ever wonder why we make these acceptable adjustments? Why do we get a cat or a dog and take the responsibility to take it for a walk everyday regardless of the weather; and the kicker is that we have to pick up the poop as well. Why is it that important for the human beings to even take care of their pets? And why some time we care more for our pets than the other human beings? What is the driving force behind all that? These questions made me think about the acceptable adjustments.
I was surprised that it took a cat to give me the inspiration to understand acceptable adjustments. When you come to think of flexibility, we all carry it inside so we can make acceptable adjustments. Its just some of us can’t adjust and accommodate the changes, thus can’t see the potential and power the love. Naturally and directly it is ingrained and connected to our core, where we are raw the animals. (Read love triangle)
As a social creature we just can’t live our life choosing our intellect alone. The power of our nature can literally rob our happiness and contentment right out or our living years.
If we ignore our emotions and hormones or the chemicals related satisfactions of life we end up living our mortal lives at sub standard levels. Being an intellectual entity we can’t live life without the intellect either, so it falls on the shoulders of the individual to make the choices to create balance.
I personally believe in zigzagging through intellect and nature because emotional intellect holds very powerful cards especially when it comes to a mortal life.
Love is one of the core element not just installed by our education alone we bring it along from before birth. Our education changes people and turns them into the beasts. By nature we actually are ripened and dressed with the potential human jewellery before the fear based education of the prejudice. Just look at the us interacting as babies. There is an other reason why we can’t ignore the importance of love, since it effects our emotions it can bring extreme happiness, sadness and without a doubt mental health problems. If a child loses love it can have an impact on his/her life permanently.
Watch out for the love loss or robbing others of love in the name of God or your belonging group. In my views robbing someone of love is a spiritual crime because if it hurts you, you don’t want to inflict the same pain on the others.
Ask yourself why does it hurt to lose love, you will open up a different book you have not red yet. Emotional intellect is needed to solve our modern days problems. From our wars to individual animosity and related toll to the individual and the humanity is all related with the love loss. (Read love triangle).
Your life is your project and you are the CEO, if you have a problem you recognize it, acknowledge it, accept it, own it, and then do something about it. If we all start to do something about it we will be going places where we have not been.
If you have extreme beliefs, always remember your mortality and your jewellery of compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love that is what makes you a human being. Wear your jewellery not only for the belonging group, but for yourself and all humanity as a whole because you are the thread of that fabric so the stronger you are stronger the fabric.
If you have prejudice in you, still acknowledge your mortality because a temporary journey should not be accompanied with inner demons of judgements, they don’t only harm others, these inner demons have the potential to rob you of your happiness as well. In a temporary life there is nothing else more important than your inner happiness and contentment.
The harms of thinking superior to others can erode your happiness because in the end of the day deep inside you know that you are going to live like everyone else in the same boat. You have been fed the wrong information to believe that you are better than others. If you are better, then why do you have the same fait. You get hungry, sick, old and die the same way. What makes you special is, that you are a spiritual part of the same body of God or humanity. Genetically you have passed the same test as others did, so own it to be a human being. Wear your jewellery with pride even if you have parents with the disorder of prejudice. You don’t have to be exactly like your parents.
Our problems are related with our education so accepting being an evolving organism would help to acknowledge that our knowledge has never been complete. Thus straying from ancestral education is actually doing something about the foundational problem.
If the individual’s family installs the prejudice he/she has to work against it, as he/she becomes an adult. A logical look at the prejudice is understanding the source, misunderstanding of our sense of belonging is the culprit in the foundation of our wars and collective disputes so make sure to start making some acceptable adjustments.
I saw the blue jay’s exited fans on news, they were screaming and literally out of breath with emotions. Could not help to think about the sense of belonging and the mixed blend of the fans and even the team. Looking at the athletes, they are all mixed, Black, White, Latinos or from other areas of the world but the blue jays, and the fans were from all races as well but proud of being Canadian because blue jays are a Canadian team.
The teams are mixed with the players from all over the world but they play for certain nations, the nations can be proud or get mad about the winning or losing, so what is at play?
It is the sense of belonging to the nation and that nation is not the same what we have had even fifty years ago. The things have been changing very fast so we have to change with the changes.
The teams have been created by the players to play for a price. You could be a Canadian but play for the Americans or vice versa or you can be Russian and play for the Americans or vice versa so what is blending all the differences. Is this the evolution people are so afraid of, if it is harmless in the sports it is harmless in the countries and religions as well we just have to over come our prejudice. What we need is to keep evolving so it spreads the tolerance. It can only happen if we all learn to make some acceptable adjustments.
If we all have been given the total freedom and equal rights, potentially we all should be able to live in a melting pot societies, but it can only be possible with the education of the sense of belonging to the humanity as a whole instead of a group. Israel can only solve the problems with equality, by force there is lots of love loss thus perpetual killings thus more love loss so the behaviours can’t change. The conflicts can go on for thousands of years if we don’t acknowledge the ramifications of the love loss.
Majority of the societies especially the developed ones have changed, just look at the populations. There are not only people from all over the world there are mixed and bi racial new generations. These factors compel the societies to accommodate all the changes and adopt to the changing times.
Conservatives lost badly in the elections because they are not changing according to the population, the equal individual human rights should be must in every political party. Conservatives shamelessly, unethically and unlawfully chose Christians from the refugees of Syria because they want the country to be a religious country. Canada is a secular democracy with the law and order which protect the individual human rights.
Fighting the changes is conservative and old group or religious ideologies so make sure not to stand on the wrong side because the time always judges you in the future. So make some acceptable adjustments now, otherwise time will leave you behind just like the Block Quebecois. Language police this day and age is a joke it is related with the extreme prejudice, and against the human rights. So we all need acceptable adjustments to help us cross the lines of prejudice to become a part of the humanity.
I learnt at early age about the power of being a social creature, I always went to the movies with the friends. Once I wanted to go, but my friend did not have the money, which made me realize that I was willing to pay his way regardless of not having very much money myself.
Sometime we need to know what is the money for, it is there for us to use it for our living years and whatever makes us happy we need to buy that. If it is looked at a little deeper you will find we all willingly spend our money on others, from family, friends, community, nation and religions do get their good share.
Mates have even bigger share because as a man or woman we all go to school to get a job to buy a home to get a mate to make a family. It is almost like we are hypnotized there was a term called twitter pated, I heard in a cartoon program while I was watching TV with my kids.
By the power of our nature, we dance with the rhythm of life yet we believe we are using our free will. The orders of nature have so much power that we can’t control, regardless of our education and evolution babies keep coming.
We work hard to get the mate, yet we don’t have the respect and trust for their contributions. We look at them as an enemy and react strongly with hate because of our potential love loss, we care more about the pets, pick up poop and do whatever is needed but not for the mates. If everyone put the same efforts in the relationship with their mates as the pets we would have absolutely different divorce rate. It is the love loss what makes people hate each other and makes them unable to make acceptable adjustments.
I did not want to go to the movie by my self. Why? there is a big why, Why do we gladly spend our money for our social needs. Why do we invite friends? Why do we get together? What makes us want to even have pets. Why a dog gets special treatment you take it for a walk and pick up the poop, what is so powerful behind all that, that we all have to make acceptable adjustments?
We can go that far for a dog or a cat, but not for our mates, we all have the ability and capacity to love, so we should have a little more respect for our mates especially when we have children with them. If you have to spend money, its there to spend for you on the things they are important to you.
Don’t use each other because you lose respect not only for each other you don’t have respect for yourself either, so it is not a good palace to be. The disappointments usually don’t exist if you don’t have expectations, so stand on your legs and respect your fiver so you don’t use others to get what you want, remember it is all about the reciprocation all around whether it be with God, society or mate. Understanding the value or personal fiver should not be underestimated. There is a big difference between needs and wants so be a good CEO to know the difference.
The CEO with a free will looks at the whole life not at a department, moments, situations or circumstances. It is the requirement for the CEO to be able to look at life beyond the present issues, including mortality, if you can see life as a temporary period your perceptions can change and your response to your life circumstances can potentially be different.
If you can’t look at your life beyond your relationship to any one particular department, you are underestimating and undermining your potential and potentially you can become destructive to your happiness department just because you are looking at your life as a small department.
It is like picking a tree in a big forest and running around it until it becomes so big and important that you even forget that the whole forest is there for your consumption. You just can’t limit your life to stop the journey of your potential.
If one does not start to look beyond that one particular department of life, he/she has the potential to make him/herself feel out of control, fearful and hopeless. Without hope we are spiritually bankrupt, any life style promoting a total control works against hope thus spirituality. Without personal hope and spirituality man is naked and is susceptible to self-destructive behavior, like listening to and becoming a victim of politics of the sense of belonging without the questioning.
Personally I believe any individual who has knowledge which is extraordinary and coming from unexplainable source ranks in the lineup of Godly people. Einstein was a gifted man so was the Mozart or Leonardo da Vinci depending on how you look at the knowledge. Their extraordinary knowledge came to them from the same channel. I don’t compare science or music with each other or with religion but I like to look at the transformative power of knowledge, which can transform the humanity.
The whole process of exploration is not completely understood or known. Extraordinary knowledge of science, music or religion is assigned for select few, not everyone has the ability to tap into the next level of horizon.
An Aa Haa moment or opening of the gates of inspirational knowledge has been the key for our evolution and destruction at the same time, yet we still are not able to explain with our rational knowledge.
I am naturally very curious and have had the thirst for the knowledge all my life. If any knowledge can help humanity, I am all for it. I respect spiritual side of all religions, but when it comes to politically charged argument I would like every individual to learn to separate spirituality from politics. I want everyone to know that the unaccountable number of human individual death and sufferings brought on to the mankind has always been related to the political side of the religions. Every religion claims that their knowledge is complete and is the way to God.
This vary statement is political and it stimulates the sense of belonging to the group not to the whole humanity.
If you ask any religious person, they will tell you that they wish the whole human population can come to their religion. What does that mean? It means that everybody else is wrong and only we are right.
If every religion is right that means, we would never be able to get out of our pigeon holes and will always stay in a competitive mode so we can conquer the world. This archaic politics has to change because we don’t go to war with the swords and spears any more.
Competition is not the only way to excel even that is the only way we have learnt from our ancestors. The knowledge of putting more efforts and succeeding into anything is not true for everyone. What happens if we don’t succeed regardless of the efforts, it could have the destructive implications on the individual.
From losing self-esteem to living a discontent life to unhappiness and resentment against God, these flaws are called spiritual deficiency.
To fix these deficiencies individual has to become a CEO so he/she can read lines as well as in-between the lines and understand all the knowledge as a whole not partially.
How much control a man has? (It’s up to you) If you can claim that the next breath is in my control you have control, otherwise your control is dependent on the oxygen you breath in and you don’t have any control or even any contribution into the supply line of the oxygen.
I think as a CEO the individual should consider himself as a note, and God as an empty space. Then he should write a melody he can enjoy for his mortal life. The CEO has a responsibility to speak or sing when it’s his turn and be silent when the silence space is needed, to make a perfect harmony.
The harmony may be different for each individual, but the responsibilities are the same. As a CEO it’s your responsibility to create the melody what suits you in this temporary life. If you function best with more silence space in your life, that means you want the God to drive the car of your life. If it ends up in the ditch to you, it would be meant for you, but that is what God did not mean, because God created man as a CEO with the free will.
If you are on the other extreme you may be banging your drum without any rhythm, a lot of noise may make you feel in control but a lot of control makes life smaller than it can be, because if you are constantly running you may cut your life shorter and rob the quality you may have with the a good melody. By allowing the silent spaces to play a role you make your temporary visit happy and healthy and potentially longer. You may enjoy your mortal life better than otherwise by using God’s wisdom to create a nicely rhythmic melody by using acceptable adjustments.
If you kook for the reasons of the popularity of the religions you will find the knowledge of civilization, which has brought us up from a savage beast to self sacrificing lamb, there is no doubt the religions have helped us to step up but it has taken us too far on the other side because now we have become victims of our sense of belonging.
After all the civilization and evolution we have learnt nothing more than the divisions, and surprisingly enough we are still entrenched, ready to kill and die for our religions.
As a CEO we need to look at our actions, if they cross the lines of humanity we have gone too far from the spirituality. Why does it take to an earthquake or a tsunami to bring us together? Why can’t we shake off the shekels of the politics of the sense of belonging? Why has politics taken over the spirituality of religions?
If the religions can’t come together to accept their differences and serve the humanity with spirituality as they were supposed to, then we all should become a CEO to compel them to follow the spirituality and nothing but. If we fight over who is right and who is wrong, it’s time to seek the knowledge pure of the politics of sense of belonging.
The biggest hurdle in the way of real civilization and spirituality is the sense of belonging. An individual has the most difficult time standing up against their own belonging group, because they can be labeled and condemned as traders.
No politician or a religious leader wants to lose the power so the individual has to become a CEO so he/she can judge the politics and vote for the whole humanity and spirituality over the clan, race, gender, nation and religions.