Love triangle part three.

 “Main terey deevay baalda tun marray deevay ball malika.”

These are the words I heard as a boy from my mother. I don’t know where she had learned this but it was like poetry she sung which got stuck in my brain. It was such a long time ago that I can’t find the source and I must state that the author is unknown.

The translation is that and I quote,” I light your lamps, O God you light my lamps”. 

This may appear simple but to me, the whole philosophy of my Blog is explained in these few words. Religious beliefs or not, the importance of a human individual can not be denied, so in a spiritual nutshell, individually we all need to recognize our value. God can easily say that I did my job by providing you a perfectly functioning internal and external universe so you can live and enjoy your mortal life while you reciprocate. If you always want more into your life you may put more efforts into it and you must understand how. For example, you just can’t go to a mosque or a church and pray to grow bigger muscles. You have to go to gym lift heavy weights and work hard to make your muscles grow bigger. At the same time never forget your mortal nature and the abilities I have installed within you. You are more responsible for your actions and achievements that you have been taught to believe. Your belonging groups have political agendas and political reasons to make you believe that you are insignificant, unimportant, weak and a sinner, so it is your duty to be a CEO and recognize the politics behind all the rules, traditions and customs of your belief system.   

Back to the love triangle.

This triangle has been an ongoing subject for me because it connects us to our core and help us as an individual to understand what we were meant to be. Our continuous potential is ingrained into us to reach where God had meant for a human to reach. Whether we get there or not has a lot more to do with human beings than what we have been preached. We have the ability and choice to make the predictions of holy books come true or change the outcome. 

You can believe in doomsday and intentionally use weapons of mass destruction and get it over with or choose to start working against it. We have the know-how and why we have things going wrong right now with global warming-related weather extremes. Ozone can be changed for the better or worse depending on humanity how it believes pessimistically or optimistically. When you believe in God it is or at least it should be all about hope and optimism yet most of the religious people believe in doom and gloom for this world. Yes it is all rosy in heaven, my question is if you are not happy and content in living years how are you going to change in heaven? I would bet you are going to give even God a really hard time to please you. 

If God asks us I gave you the continuously evolving potential why don’t you keep evolving? We have been doing a pretty good job but in select departments of life. Our religious extremists from all schools of thoughts have been coming in the way. Most of them believe that we will be destroyed by God even it has not happened for thousands of years and it may or may not happen for another million years.

This belief says that God is like a human being who gets mad and is vengeful. Uses politics of carrot and stick or in other words heaven or hell. We have been using this philosophy for training animals and if you believe that we are no more than animals then keep believing that. To me, I am an optimistic being and have hope that we would be proven one day that we are not just like animals we are the vessels God brings spiritual tasks into physical reality with. We have been ripped right from our beginning. We have been created to be a choice maker who can overcome animal instincts regardless of its strength. Humanity has been evolving regardless of constant resistance from the people who want to keep the status quo. There always has been and will be a segment of the population of the world is willing to help the weaker and vulnerable so regardless of animal size and strength we are still working to evolve for the better and it is all because of our natural makeup. We can go and try to understand scientifically how our life came to existence or why do we believe in God while we are still continuously evolving. Whether it is scientifically proven or not this Godly matter is not for the mass it has always been still is and will always be for the individual. How one lives a mortal life with ease and gives up all the material things and people they come to love and attach. Our reality is mortality so our wisdom is and should be how to live a life as a visitor. Especially if we are the CEO of our lives. Understanding and living life with numbers and science may be good for certain kind of individuals who are willing to help coming generations but most of the time or logically a short visit should be lived with success in all areas of life. For instance, if you are just living intellectually physical satisfaction, emotional and spiritual fulfillment can be lacking so the real happiness and contentment take a back seat yet in mortal life. It could be a loss for an intellectual being. We need to zigzag between intellect and our physical mortal life, choosing one is just not for a living human being, we are not an animal nor we are just a spirit so understanding and ourselves as a mortal human being is important. Our mortality should overrule everything but fortunately or unfortunately depending on how the individual thinks. We somehow live our lives sacrificing our most important things and don’t even experience our lives to the fullest just because we want to be right.

We bring along and are dressed with compassion, forgiveness, trust, respect, personal sense of justice and above all the ability to love and sacrifice. If you are stuck into the intellectualism and never enjoyed physicality what a mortal life offers. It is a loss, sure one can live with numbers and science but our spiritual jewelry should not be undermined. Since spirituality is universal and is present in all human population and people from all walks of life. Race, color, gender, nationalism or belief systems are taught and passed on knowledge.  Ability to be spiritual, I would say we all bring it along from before birth. If we wear our human jewelry with pride and prove that we are not just created as animals, we will prevail and change the outcome what most religious people have been predicting as doomsday.

If I am expected by God to be a human being and evolve to continuously reach my continuous potential then I have to put some efforts into my evolution in all departments of life instead of locking myself into the boundaries of human insecurities related belief systems whether it is scientific or religious. One can choose to stay into those boundaries for themselves but should not insist on and force others around to keep with them.

We all have our duties to perform as the purpose of our life and I happen to believe that I have a duty to reach my continuously evolving potential. I believe in God, spirituality, and humanity over any human knowledge. Religious, scientific or otherwise we still have to evolve and learn to live with each other in peace. I know I have high expectations from people to overcome their politics of a sense of belonging to their respected groups but as I said before I am an optimist and I hope people can see their extreme will always be related to the politics of their sense of belonging to groups.

I strongly believe if we stay trenched into differences of our belief systems we may use our weapons of mass destruction and bring the predicted outcome onto ourselves. God may not have the mission to physically kill himself but if we destroy our planet before reaching to stars we can not only take the spirituality out of us at the same time we can take physical abilities of God away as well. There may be a spiritual world after humanity but right now it is human beings duty to make God physically meaningful by evolving in all areas of life equally.

Just look at history and all our advancements in all areas of our life, from science and technology to medicine to social systems, it is all done by living breathing human beings. Sure with the help of God because we can’t survive without the blessings of God. Like physically functioning bodies, properly functioning universe to provide us with oxygen. We should all be humble with our progress and evolution because we can only function with the help of the things we have absolutely no control over. God lives in throughout humanity because human beings find that their lives are not possible without the help of that unknown. We may solve our riddles of life with time but our real task is to learn to live with each other without political killings.           

We have no control where and when we are born, we have no solid and scientifically proven, or with video evidence to prove that there is a world and life after we die. Other than what we have been taught by our belonging groups. We don’t know what and who God is?  So to me what happens after life should be left for the afterlife, we should stop sending people to live after death just because we don’t agree. Instead of going to wars and killing each other over who is right about the things we don’t even know. We need to take personal and individual responsibilities to perform properly in our living years because God’s work is done by living human beings. Find me a physical good deed done by a dead person, a physical action spiritual or otherwise requires a living breathing functioning human being.

Responsibilities of continuous evolution are on the shoulders of each and every one of us period. If we start to put ourselves in a box because of our political influences or put ceilings on our thoughts, we are doomed before even we get somewhere. From natural disasters to accidents to unknown events are still the things human beings have to learn about, understand, adapt to, survive to follow and reach our continuous potential. We need to not only think about the words from our taught knowledge, but we also need to understand what is going on inside of us as an individual. To understand clearly, our knowledge has several departments not just science and technology or religion exclusively. We have to learn about emotions and politics of a sense of belonging to our groups as well. We need to understand why do we all have free will and why we should be individually responsible for our actions.

Why do we have the potential to love and sacrifice for others or even strangers? Why two perfect strangers have the ability to create a family? Why people help each other without hesitation during some kind of disaster? Why are we willing to go to war for our belonging groups and especially for our coming generations? Ability to sacrifice, where did it come from? Do you think it is a taught behavior? I individually don’t believe we do exactly everything that we have been taught.

To me, there is clear evidence and several examples of people like Mozart in music and Leonardo Deviancy and countless child prodigies. Did they learn or they have brought that knowledge along from before birth? Neglecting everything that is not scientifically proven is wrong for human beings because we are not just the numbers and we are constantly evolving, so no human knowledge, scientifically proven or otherwise is complete. It will still stay incomplete because we are in the process of infinite evolution.

Becoming an extremist in religious or scientific knowledge is against our evolution especially for a mortal individual so keeping arms open, respecting each other and adapting to constantly changing the world is the way it should be.

If you are an individual who is number oriented and want to research, you should research the ability to love, emotions, research human beings behavior so we can understand our sense of belonging to our groups which gives birth to ego, pride, and honor. Research to overcome our desire to be right research the reasons for our wars and why do we rob each other of love.

I would love to know love and why it is so powerful that it can make or break the human individual. A song comes to mind and I quote, ” Some say, love, it is a razer, that leaves your soul to bleed. I say, love, it is a flower, and you its only see. End quote”.

There is a connection between soul and love that is why we need to understand spirituality to overcome our racial, color, gender, religious, and national differences.  

I am explaining what I know, it may change with more evolution but for now, we need to take our responsibility to understand. As a human individual we can’t just follow what we have been taught we have the responsibility to explore and reach for our continuously evolving potential. We need to understand our emotions a lot more than we have been because I believe in understanding life not only in its departments but in its entirety.

You can be a very good doctor or a scientist but if you don’t understand your mortal nature to see the gray between black and white you could lose out on enjoying what mortality has to offer.  Yes, it is your happiness and contentment if you have missed out on that you have missed out. If you are a religious fanatic and want everyone to be just like you, you missed out on compassion and love so without these two you lost your spirituality and you should know a religious belief without spirituality is just nonsense and totally political. 

To understand love one has to know the differences of the love triangle divisions and then learn to equally divide it because its the individual who suffers yet has the power to create balance in personal life. If you feel that you are not capable of taking charge you have to dig into your reasons. Ask yourself why are you able to make everyday decisions in all other areas of your life. Like, waking up, eating, sleeping, go to work or school but you somehow can’t make decisions to create balance in your day to day life especially when it comes to family nationalism and religion.

When you start looking for the cause just see if you can find your political sense of belonging as a reason. If it is out of control and you lean towards belonging groups authority more than yourself and your loved ones. You owe it to yourself to create balance in your sense of belonging and your sense of freedom to be a better human being.

I personally think, feel from my soul, and passionately would state from my heart, that it is absurd to kill yourself or your loved ones over the approval of your belonging groups. Sure they have a place in our mortal life but it is only us as an individual who has a say in our life. If we live in a society where an individual does not have a say, it is oppressing. In today’s world, it should not be acceptable regardless of where you live. All nations, groups or entities should be answering to someone. Equal human rights should be the foundation of all constitutions 

If you think an individual has a say just look around where you are and around the world. Where you will find a lot of people who are brainwashed to the point that they can’t choose to use their personal sense of justice to create a balance between themselves, loved ones and belonging societies. They fight and leave their wives over their mother or family because their society says so.

In eastern societies, mothers are dominating and people are taught to respect mothers but not wives. In the west, a wife would have more rights over the mother because of social influences. It is a son’s duty to create balance into his triangle to put everyone into their own love compartment. Passionate love for wife or partner 33 %. Instinctive love for mother and family 33% and the rest for Universal love for the society he belongs to. If one can’t balance the responsibilities is not a good CEO so they would not be able to create this love triangle and choose one over the others.

Suppressive and authoritarian societies are notorious to promote mass over the individual to keep power in a few hands. Interestingly to me, it is the individual who dictates how much care they have for themselves, their loved ones and their belonging group. That is why regardless of the individual strength and equal human rights even the democratic and advanced societies are full of people with extreme and self-harming imbalances. From anorexia, bulimia, anxiety, depression, and even suicide for just to fit in, impress or being buried under the desire to be admired by the people around are common.

If you can’t balance between you, loved ones and the people you belong to. You need to get some spiritual strength and become the CEO of your life. Being a CEO helps the individual to become strong enough to create a balance not only in personal life but in all areas of association with others or even belonging groups.

All three corners of the love triangle surround the raw animal core, one may and can think that is what makes us believe that we have evolved from an animal. This core is where you are divided into two. You can call it human and animal as I say it, or you can call it good and bad or third choice would be God and Devil. This is where you can decide to choose, which side you are going to act under. This the reason why we can act differently at different times in the same lifetime. You can not judge an individual from their one action that is why we have lenient rules for juveniles. The maturity may or may not happen because of our inner core side of strength.

This core is where the human becomes a dancing bottle of extreme, this is where you can drink even God’s alcohol, get drunk and lose perspective of being a human being. Everything of being a human being is in balance, you can choose to be spiritual and not experience a physicality of mortal life. For instance enjoying the taste of food, the touch of other human being and good feelings of doing something for others. A life spent without the physical fulfillment of any kind or experience is not a successful and balanced mortal life.

It is just following an extreme, if you go to other side and live like an animal exclusively you just can’t experience spirituality related fulfillment so we can’t feed our you part as it is required to live a balanced life of a human being. If your good side overpowers, you dance for God exclusively and if your human side constantly beat animal side it may create extreme and swing backward to make you lose the battle and end up dancing with the Devil exclusively. Remember no one is purely good or bad we all have the potential to be good or bad at different times of our mortal lives, our two sides which I described in the title of this blog make us human beings. We are not metaphorically speaking angels, ants or bees, they are genetically designed to follow orders so thinking angels are somehow better than human beings is not true. To me we are human beings with free will, our actions are our personal choices so we are superior to angles because of our ingrained desires. We are beings with constant conflict from within, if we can act spiritually regardless of our animal instincts we are dealing with our selfish side to act selflessly. This contrary nature is not easy to live with, so acting to suppress our desires makes us superior to other creatures and yes even metaphorical angles. Ability to have compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice, and love brings us to a status where angles can’t reach.  Now to the politics of this, our belonging groups want us to be subservient like ants and bees so they preach us to be like angles. The motive behind all that is mass over the individual, to me in the spiritual world there is no injustice not even for one individual. If you choose to violate anyone’s rights it is political and yes even if it is for the mass. In an ideal world, the rule number one of spirituality is ” Don’t do to anyone what you don’t like done to you or your loved ones.” Remember as an individual we have a short life to live, and as a mass, we carry on living so this individual mortality should be respected by the mass with the same spiritual things like compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice, and love. Back to the inner core. My first triangle and the title of this blog is,

Who flipped my triangle, God, Devil and human being.

As human beings deep inside of our core God is our one side and Devil is the other. The core which is surrounded with love. If you believe God and Devil before you,  the world should function with or without human beings. Interestingly if you take human beings out of the equation altogether both sides automatically disappear with the human beings, so God and Devil both become like a ghost town. Everything is there but has no value until human being comes around. Remember it is the living breathing human individual who experiences and judges good, bad and the ugly side of extreme. If good and bad somehow vanishes human would still survive as neutral but removing human beings means stagnated and meaningless stillness. Existence and meaningfulness of God and Devil is dependent on the existence of living breathing human beings. It is the human being who puts physicality into the actions of good and bad. Spirituality means nothing if it is not actions based. Action is the one which is not done without the help of human physicality, so yes God and Devil are not to worship or hate. They can’t physically act on their own until we give them horsepower of human beings. That is why taking responsibility to be a spiritual being is a must for the modern day science loving and technologically savvy human individual. If your belonging groups want you to be warrior ants or worker bees, make sure to understand politics of a sense of belonging and rise up to be a spiritual human being and act accordingly to your real nature.

Our actions of good and bad can change with the education that is where our love triangle becomes crucial for our inner and outer peace. It can light you up or put you in the dark just like a light switch. The potential of becoming good and bad has been, is and will always be there for us. Our main and strongest influences are Love, Nationalism, and Religions. That is why we need to become a CEO of our lives so we can learn to own our actions, so we don’t do to anyone what we don’t like done to ourselves or loved ones.

That is one way of taking charge of what goes on inside of our core, otherwise, the politics of our belonging groups overrides our personal sense of justice. We become puppets and lose what makes us human beings. By losing our status of being a CEO we become not only susceptible to committing spiritual crimes against the others we even lose our sense of justice to the point that we can’t recognize even the innocence. We let the animal or our bad side win and let it take over our whole being yet we are taught to blame Devil for our actions. That weakness of the human individual is the one which feeds Devil to stay strong in humanity our human reason why humanity just can’t live in peace. It never has been, is and will be a group of people, it always has been, is and always will be an internally torn individual who has been letting the internal dark side win. That is why an individual’s inner peace is so important, and achieving inner peace is almost impossible for the individual who can’t claim their CEO status.  

This is where you are highly influenced by the love you receive or don’t as you grow up.

Love, whether it’s universal, passionate or instinctive, is what makes us separate from the other animals and helps us to become workhorses of God because we do good things out of loving feelings not out of our physical genetics, you can only learn to override animal desires with the love you have learned growing up. Learn to balance all the corners of triangles to achieve inner peace to be spiritually healthy or enlightened especially when it comes to the love triangle.

Logically, if you find a new love, you can’t just disregard your kids who you instinctively love. You can’t just live your life for the community and disregard your family or leave your passionate love for other people. Just look around and see it happens all the time, our history is full of examples. Saati is or was a tradition from the Hindu religion where a wife would have to be burned alive with the husband’s dead body. This can explain how influential an individual or society can be. It all comes down to making a personal choice.

Balancing is not easy especially when you are brought up with the politics of a strong sense of belonging to your belonging groups. Always remember as an individual you are created and are designed with free will ingrained within you. Yet with opposing and conflicting core as well so it is very important to understand your personal authority and learn to self regulate.

You come with or are blessed with free will and personal sense of justice from before birth, which automatically makes you a potential CEO from before birth. Being the CEO of your life makes you utilize your abilities to make the right decisions. Unfortunately we can be influenced so to be a good person spiritually for yourself and others around is a personal choice so it can go either way.

Why I said a good person spiritually is because if you believe you will become a good person by the approval of your belonging groups it is not enough. You need to know and use your personal sense of justice to be spiritually good. If you only know what your belonging group says remember it is political so you may be influenced to make choices. Remember if it is political it’s not spiritual if it is spiritual it can’t be political.  Doing good is not bound in groups it has been, and will always be universal so committing a spiritual crime against some innocents who are belonging to the opposing group is still a spiritual crime if it is done for a group you choose to belong you are under the political influences. If you have a strong personal sense of justice and you to act accordingly, it will automatically be spiritual and for humanity as a whole.

If your good side supersedes your animal side your instinct, would you be spiritual and Godly? You spread very well to nearby people within the group you choose to follow or belong to, but you would also be able to become good even for the opposing groups as well. You choose spirituality over your religion, nation, race or gender. Since your insecure side has the potential to throw you off balance you can be susceptible at any given time. These imbalances can influence you to, not only give a bad name to love, it can lead you to become animal more than you should. Our animal traits are dangerous because we are becoming very smart as well so a smart animal has the ability to hide bad intentions and use cunning politics to use and abuse even God for political purposes never mind people around.

Trust, forgiveness, sacrifice, respect, and compassion gives real meanings to love just like education of spirituality makes an individual be a good human being? Love has the power to transform humanity, one individual at a time.

If they are taken away, love is no more than just a word. You will be influenced by your animal side to use love word to manipulate others to commit spiritual crimes even against your own loved ones. Yet love is the one which can provide the highest level of security to us. We rely on it from childhood to advancing age. Our families and societies survive and thrive on our love yet we are taught to rob each other of love by our nations and religions because it is a known fact if the human individual is hurt they will seek revenge so they can easily be used for political purposes. A loss of love has the potential to hurt us deeply in the core or I should say it can make our soul bleed.

Since  each and every one of us is equally torn in the core, our surrounding love is not only the responsibility of the individual we need to understand it even as societies. An unhealthy person has the potential to not only become bad for other individuals they can be bad and burden for the society in general. If the surrounding love is balanced,  individual can benefit from it to win the battle of the core and in the long run, society benefits from it as well. If you are able to get good loving education from all corners of love triangle you would be able to overcome and be able to dominate your animal side.

It takes the strength of a CEO to run all departments of life including creating balance in the core. Our religions and societies have been trying to teach us an education based on the wrong strategy they want us to kill the animal side and become only a good or Godly being but this can take away what a human being is all about. This wrong education is the main reason why human societies are still entangled with social and spiritual crimes.  

You can’t just kill the animal inside of you because that is your physical side which holds very important cards as I said even God and Devil can’t survive without human physicality. First of all, you just can’t live without a physical body period. Your body puts physicality into your spirituality, all the good depends on your physical actions and you can’t perform well or period without a physical body. It creates balance in all the enjoyments of mortal life and reminds us to come down on the earth to live like a human being. It reminds us to be happy in all circumstances instead of reaching to achieve something and sacrificing everything including happiness and contentment and then die. Knowledge of mortality is constantly reminded to us by our animal side but our belonging groups insist on us to kill the animal side. The politics behind this is to make us subservient so we comply and sacrifice for our belonging group. We don’t enjoy our mortal visit and then we die which is absolutely against the mortal individual. As a CEO it does not fare to you so the best way is to find balance, not choosing one or the other as extreme what makes us all a human being. It is in making deals and creating a balance so you are not torn in the core. Doing justice to others and yourself is to live like a loving human being with inner peace.

When you are taught to serve, pray and die it is control related political education with bias.  This has nothing to do with God or spirituality. It wrecks and stinks like a politics of control for the mass which is unfair to the individual. If it is not about equal human rights to all, it means it is not from God. We are here to do God’s work but our life is given to us to enjoy our mortal journey as well. If you are a CEO you should be able to see the politics hidden behind our religious rules, tradition, and customs. If you are the one who believes we are no more than ants, or bees you are not looking at your free will and continuous evolving potential as God’s Will.  If mass rights promoters hide their insecurities related prejudice and discrimination against the individual, it is a spiritual crime because politically are you getting God involved in human insecurities.

By now if you have achieved your CEO status you have become an opinionated being so the people around you who have politically tainted strong religious opinions they are not going to like your way of thinking regardless of your character, always remember you have to live with yourself all the time so being torn inside is not a good place to be especially if you have limited time to live.

As a CEO if you keep eye on and personally judge your belonging groups’ related rules, traditions or customs you will and you should always stand for justice. If the injustice is done especially by mass against the individual it is like a big bully pushing their weight around yet no one is standing against. Remember it is the individual who is mortal and loses a life, as a mass we keep going so any rule which violates individual rights should be stood against. 

As a CEO you have a personal sense of justice, if you don’t use it you can develop some inner conflicts and suffer from some consequential disorders in your already mortal life.

No one can care about your personal and all rounded health more than you because it is you who suffers. You should keep a focus on clean and inner conflict free mortal life. If someone is robbing weak and vulnerable right in front of you, stand up for them because it may not be religious but it is a spiritual thing to do. Injustice is not part of spirituality regardless and yes even it is based on religious preaching so don’t let the politics of even powerful sense of belonging effect your spiritual truths because at the end of the day you have to live within yourself. If you ignore this fact you may end up with inner conflict-related illnesses.

Always remember personal and even in general justice system is like spirituality, it is and it should be simply and purely truth based. Cheating in any way is a crime plain and simple. If we meddle with spirituality and justice system with the politics of our sense of belonging they lose their importance and value especially for you as an individual.

One can say if you have justice system ruling a nation you would not need politics just like if an individual is ruled by a spirituality that individual does not need religious knowledge or religious preaching to be a good person.

Now look around and observe the root causes of our personal, social and in general world problems. They all are related to the political influences of the sense of belonging to our groups.

At home a father or mother want their kids to be raised according to the rules of belonging national traditions, and customs of their religions or in general what is popular in that society in the era they are born in to. If the kids don’t want to follow, well it is obvious there would be conflicts and bad relationships of a love triangle. The root cause is political influences we feel from our belonging groups. If it is against spirituality or justice, it is too bad what people are going to say is very important to us so even our love takes a hit.

I divided our love into three parts for a reason, one should become a CEO who can easily understand and deal with everyday problems and as a CEO we all have a duty to balance it with our personal sense of justice.

If you choose with your personal sense of justice you would be able to create balance in love triangle otherwise you would choose one over the other and suffer the consequences.

Love has nothing to do with saying the word to each other, its all about doing loving things for each other. It’s about believing, trusting, respecting, using compassion and sacrificing unconditionally. It is not an external thing nor it is for the other person or people. Its what happens or what goes on deep inside of you at the soul level individually. Remember you have to be honest with yourself and others equally others may go away but you have to live within your skin till the day you die.

Sure hormones play a role in exaggerating our emotional responses but love itself has roots deep into our soul that is why some people can’t forget and forgive love loss. A lot of killing goes on every day, it has always been and will go on until we really understand what we really are. We can’t overcome the pain of love loss so revenge of love loss will go on.

We as societies and as individuals should take notice and avoid robbing each other of love at all cost, even if it is demanded by the politics of our belonging groups remember our perpetual wars are fueled by our personal and individual love loss.

Ability to love itself comes along or we all bring along from before birth, it may change with our life circumstances but it is not what it is. Its all about our capability to love each other. This capability is not a learned behavior, its ingrained deep into our DNA or I should say, soul.

We have lots of love stories in all human societies explaining how far a human individual can go for it. We have the capability to sacrifice even the ultimate. We kill and die for all three corners of the love triangle all the time. Passionate love is at an individual level, instinctive love is at the family and personal friends level and universal love is for nation or religion. We go to wars for it, kings have left their kingdoms for it, it has the power to change people’s behaviors towards their belief systems. It can heal or make you sick. What is it? Why don’t we understand it? Why do we seek it regardless of age and mortality? If it was a learned behavior it would be undone able as well. Humanity has spent more efforts and resources on love than any and every other thing put together. Start seeking the reasons for your actions and you will end up on love as a starting point, either for love, to secure love or seek revenge for the love loss.

Look at it this way if you say I love you don’t be political. Use compassion and put yourself in the receiving end before acting.

Look around and see how much of this is going on around you and catch yourself if you yourself are playing the game of love the wrong way. Dig in and be honest and straight forward with yourself. Catch yourself if do or feel this way.

I love you but I don’t really care about you.

I love you but I don’t really trust you.

I love you but I don’t really respect you.

I love you but I can’t really sacrifice anything for you.

I love you only because of social influences, I have to fit in with the social norm.

If you here or feel the word love from yourself or others and that word does not consist care, trust, respect, and sacrifice then that word “love ”  may be politically tainted and yes even if it is from yourself. People with insecurities can use this as tools to manipulate, use and abuse, others to secure their own beliefs. Whether it is financial, sexual or otherwise, individuals, people, nations and even religious entities extensively use the love word for their own and personal interests.

It is up to the individual to see whether the word love consists and carry its value. If you think the word love is empty of its meanings, you have to know more about it. Why does the word love has so much strength in it? It is just because of compassion, care, trust, respect, and sacrifice!    

When you mix your religious rules, especially if they are based on political influences of belonging groups, there would always be room for injustice. Spirituality with injustice is no spirituality. Justice is not justice if it is not blind to color, gender, race, nation or religious beliefs.

I doubt you can expect true justice from political appointees just like you can’t expect a mullah, priest or rabbi to agree with spirituality over their religious differences. They have been fighting for thousands of years for the politics of a sense of belonging to their religions so why would you expect or hope they would change in the next two thousand years.

Politics of sense of belonging is too powerful for a mullah, priest or a rabbi to become a CEO and stand against their own religion to preach spirituality based equal human rights for all regardless of friend or foe.

Lady justice has been blindfolded for a reason but that reason has never been pure of political influences. Our groups influence the individual to the point that one group’s justice is an injustice to the other belonging groups. Meaning one can commit a spiritual crime against other human beings even the innocents’ ones yet be hailed as a hero by their belonging groups. It is the most common thing in today’s societies of the world.

Spirituality is buried and deep under the politics of a sense of belonging, it is so far deep that even in modern days with all the advancements we still can’t stand individually against our belonging groups. We have created a political environment that we made individuals kill their own and personal sense of justice.

If mullah, priest, and a rabbi of the past were able to follow spiritual truths there would not be religious wars plain and simple. Our political sense of belonging is like an infection that has spread throughout humanity. We still have not been able to cure ourselves of this illness because no one has preached equal human rights until the present time. Still, our conservative friends want to keep the status quo, give the power to groups and actually they still keep their dream alive to rule the world with power and keep everyone else as slaves to their belonging groups. The world has been changing right before their eyes yet they still believe in prejudice and discrimination based politics. They still are not willing to come out of the boundary lines of the religions and talk about equal human rights. They are in minority yet very loud and use violence to be relevant. They do not or can’t believe that a human individual is the CEO of their lives. They are unable to comprehend that a human individual can have a personal sense of justice and is able to self regulate. A real and personal sense of justice is above and beyond the political influences so if an individual is able to evolve to the point that they can question all the injustices done by the belonging groups can be frightening for political entities. This personal sense of justice is in the foundation of our good and loving actions. This ability is the one that made us evolve and become human being from an instinctual animal. This ability is the one that makes us go crazy to the point that we have the ability to even kill ourselves out of guilt.

Opinionated CEO, learn to recognize the stink.

Happy New year to all with the best of happiness, health and success in all areas of life in 2019 and beyond. Dancing bottle.

I watched a movie that I don’t remember the name of the movie but Clint Eastwood was in it. In one scene he said and I quote,

“Opinions are like an asshole, everyone got one.” Even I don’t remember the movie but the sentence has gotten stuck inside my head so this is the topic of today. It is the first day of 2019 and the first blog of 2019 and it is first for me to use the word “asshole”. I hope it does not offend people.

I am going to start with my opinion and I know everyone has a choice so you don’t have to agree or use my knowledge in your practical life. Unless you feel that your life can use some help to improve the enjoyment and remove some negativity from your temporary journey. If your opinion is that your life is fine the way it is and you don’t need any improvements, just learn to use a little compassion to live with people with different opinions.

If you feel or think you have some kind of stink in your hole, it is you who has to clean it up. Always remember your sense of belonging to a group or their politics, is not only bad for people you discriminate against. Its bad for you personally as well especially if you are a mortal being. Good and bad knowledge will always be around but as a CEO of your life you have to pick and choose what is the right path for you individually. Believing that it is okay to sacrifice your personal happiness and contentment in the name of your belonging group think again because your happiness and contentment is far more important than you think. Your personal life is your gift from God to you directly, if you waste it on politics of racism, prejudice and discrimination it is your loss. If we are unhappy and discontent just because we want to fit in, impress or want to be admired by our belonging group. Remember what is at stake, being mortal a real essence of life is measured by the accumulation of happy moments. In order to be happy at the deep level of your soul you have to have your jewelry. This human jewelry is the food for your spiritual side and if you are starving in that department you are not a good CEO for your personal life project. A belonging group can’t be worried about your stink, they actually promote and encourage it for you to become nose blind so you are not even aware of your stink.

Cleaning up the stink of your negative emotions like hatred as well as your prejudices and discrimination can help to achieve balance in your mortal life. If you don’t care how you live your life, remember your free will is there for a reason. Choosing to belong to a group regardless of their politics of hatred goes against that reason. God created human being to have choice and you still have a choice to understand that there is humanity as a whole is available to belong to. Choosing humanity as a whole can actually help to heal the individual spiritually.  

Living a mortal life without wearing human jewelry means life without compassion, empathy, forgiveness, sacrifice, and love. If you don’t have these positive emotions in your mortal life your soul would be starving and that would be by your personal choices. Side effects of a starving soul are unhappiness, unfulfilled and discontent life. Do you really want your group politics to have that kind of clout over you? Do you want their approval bad enough that you yourself rob your own most important things a mortal life should have?

Most problems faced by humanity today, whether they are related with an individual at the individual level of relationships or related to the community at higher level when we think collectively. Our disputes mass versus individual or groups versus other groups are based on our individual and communal opinions. Whether they are related to our nationalism, racism or organized religions, they all end up starting with our assholes. Knowing more about our own assholes is not only important, but it is also crucial as we advance into our own evolution. If we don’t learn to live with each other and ignore the knowledge of others, just because we don’t know enough of our own origins of opinionated views, how will we act?

It is especially essential with the availability of weapons of mass destruction and the individual with out of control sense of belonging sitting on the trigger. If this individual is an opinionated individual who’s opinion is influenced by the sense of belonging to certain group of people, how will they act?. Politically charged individuals can be dangerous because they know that if they commit a spiritual crime in the name of their belonging group, they would be hailed as heroes, yet their actions can be criminal in the court of international law or even spiritual world. It is important for us all as individuals to understand the reasons of why human individual is blessed with the free will. We need to know more about the consequences of our actions and our responsibilities.

We have nuclear weapons to destroyed everything above and beyond the individual and communal relationships, we have broken individuals to dysfunctional families and even communities. To top of all that mortal individual life. Yet we still are willing to sacrifice our personal, individual happiness and contentment over our politically charged opinions.

Communal, national and religious differences are fueled by politics so they are not going to change. The individual has even bigger and urgent responsibilities to join humanity as a whole. Accepted mass opinions have not only been the causes of individual sufferings in the past they still are just as bad for the individual as they were in the distant past. Our progress has not changed us especially in being innocent victims or victims of human rights violations of political wars or religious disputes. You can dress it up or put lipstick on a pig, plain and simple you just can’t hide an ass hole related politics. Religions have tried it by owning God but not only it failed miserably, they also started to commit spiritual crimes against each other yet in the name of God.

If you sense, feel, think or someone tells you that your opinion has a stink of prejudiced and discrimination, don’t be proud of it because pride is one of the kids from an extreme sense of belonging to a group of people along with ego and honor. That clearly means your opinion is not yours exclusively, you have been influenced politically. If you believe in belonging to humanity as a whole your prejudice and discrimination would melt away with the personal sense of justice you already possess. You will not only consider others equal to you but it will make you believe in equal human rights for all because you would be able to see God in all.

Belonging to our groups teach us to disrespect and believe human beings from other groups are enemies. If every group preaches this education to its young ones what does it do to humanity as a whole? If a group has prejudice and discrimination for others, others automatically would have counter prejudice and discrimination. Just look around the world and even in its history, can you find a period of time when humanity was free of assholes related wars or disputes?

Our opinions have been formed for us by our belonging groups and we have been, are and will let it happen until we all as an individual become chief executives officers of our lives. We have been sold fear, insecurities, and vulnerabilities by our own groups so we can follow, join and be used by our authorities for political purposes. The preaching s of securities have always been about the opposing or other groups as the boggy man yet the most hurt and damage is caused to the individual is from their own kind you don’t have to go far just start looking into the crime ratio in all societies.

Every society has its crime rate and most of the time it is not talked about, and usually politicians divert the public opinions to blame opposing or other groups for internal problems. We can’t seem to give others break but our own belonging groups get away literally with murders. What is the cause behind all that? Politics of sense of belonging otherwise a victim of a crime feels the same way whether it is caused by own kind or so-called enemy. We constantly and politically blame each others so our conflicts and wars are perpetually consistent. We can’t evolve to the next level regardless of our advancements in other areas of life.

Can we evolve to take a step into the new paradigm and belong to humanity as a whole? Can we learn to call spade a spade or is it in our DNA to fight and kill each other? Well, it has been happening and still is happening all over the world since the beginning of our awareness. Liberals and moderates always want to progress and advance in all areas of life but conservatives have been fighting back with whatever they got so they can keep the status Quo. They are preaching prejudice and discrimination even with pride, even it has been accepted as a spiritual flaw in humanity.

Using politics of a sense of belonging, by our belonging groups has always been part of our disputes. Throwing guilt trips or threatening to shun or even kill open-minded individuals has been consistent as well. Individual who wants to choose spirituality over religion, who wants to choose humanity as a whole over a belonging group of people have been looked down just because of the differences in opinions.

Life is not only lived in one particular way at any time of civilization by all people, especially in this day and age our opinions are vastly apart. All nations, races, genders, and religions have been, are and always be in need to evolve with time. If you happen to like past and want to keep everything like grand old past you will have to look at present progress with an open mind and learn to accept it as God’s will otherwise you will be unhappy because you have lost control or have been left behind.

Modern life is not like past, we did not have to work hard just to keep our bills paid. There was plenty of time to socialize pray and fast because we did not have that many people competing for the same resources. Today’s world has changed in all areas of life from modern technology, to computerization of everything to medical discoveries even understanding our health and ourselves at a genetic level, we have an understanding of birth control, stem cells, test tube reproduction, and cloning. 

If we can’t keep up with all the advances we are simply left behind. If you believe in taking a loss or staying behind for your self it can be fine for you because of your opinion but don’t just automatically think others should be staying with you. Especially you can’t just force others to have to smell like you. If you can smell your prejudice and discrimination try to keep up with the changing world.

Today we have a new religion for humanity and it calls for equal human rights for all. No gender, racial, national, or religious identity is required to join. If you are stuck into religious, or even wars of the sects especially you have to understand equal human rights can’t be spiritually violated. It is this simple, you just can’t do to anyone what you don’t like done to you or your loved ones. If you think it is not spiritual enough for you but an opinion of your politically charged preacher is spiritual, you need to spiritually grow up and smell the political holes to take your responsibilities.

All actions of the individual are personal responsibility because we all come with a free will. Why would God allow the human individual to have a free will? Ask your self if a leaf on the tree can’t move without God’s will why all this progress and advancements? If it was not meant to be by God. Today even human is playing a role in reproduction, stem cell-related healing flying without wings, swimming deep underwater without gills, digging deeper without claws, than clawed creatures. If we have stayed in our past we would still be like other creatures. All the progress and advancements came from the people who took matters into their own hands. Sure there is  God’s will because they were able to do all that with the help of oxygen they have inhaled before their actions.  Interestingly it is not only God’s work, but the physicality has also been put into it was, is and always be related to living breathing human beings.  

There are people who live life in a smaller and comfortable circle, learn to live within a smaller circle is not for human beings because we are designed to evolve. Just look at our physical body if you lift weights you grow bigger muscles, you go to school to stretch your brain become smarter, you adapt to evolve, you get sick your immune system becomes sophisticated. There is nothing in human body which is not subject to evolve. We are designed to have potential so it is our duty to seek that potential and keep passing on to our coming generations. If you try to fence yourself or your coming generations in, block them from evolving you are actually going against God’s will because of your political reasons. Remember I said you will be left behind, just look around and see where do you fit? If you are left behind by the world it is you who is at loss, so don’t play a game of complacency with your coming generations because they will blame you for their shortcomings.

A life lived in smaller circle is mostly for its security, logically, practically and physically there is no security for a mortal being. If you preach to your coming generations to seek security as a purpose of life it is not what God had meant for humanity. We need to live life boldly look at our limiting factors, understand our emotions and keep eyes on today’s modern day war weaponry as well. We just can’t afford to be stuck into our group politics or its given identities anymore. It is time to join humanity as a whole and step into the new paradigm to stop our wars and waste of our resources to invest in our advancement as humanity.

If you like to know what is going on in the world it is in your handheld device you just have to want to look at it. The world is not what it was in the past so living according to today’s standers is not only essential for political reasons it is important for all of us not to be left behind. If your asshole is keeping you from advancements look around and learn where the world is going, where you are and why? In today’s world, there is no room for prejudice and discrimination so question your stink get some deodorant or better yet learn to accept equal human rights in your heart so you can actually find cure for you infection related disease. It is essential for a mortal being to live life pure of negative emotions related injustices for spiritual reasons.

Going too far too fast rips us internally so take your time to evolve give time to others around so they can catch up, be compassionate and understanding of their concerns of security. When you care too much about what goes on beyond personal life it goes against the wisdom of mortality. Being emotionally distant with broader views of life can keep you occupied to the point that you start to look down onto who is living with emotions. At the end of the day whether you live with or without emotions you are just visiting so choosing extreme views to discriminate against others or live a prejudiced life is a lose, lose situation.

Living constantly in an intellect takes emotional fulfillment away so living a mortal life without emotions is robbing oneself is clearly a personal loss. Small moments of happiness are just as important as a mortal life itself, yet we are taught and are personally willing to sacrifice and choose to live our lives beyond our emotions. This is equal to disrespecting mortality, not only that we even look down on the people who think differently than our belonging groups, we lose out on personal fulfillment as well. Our prejudice and discrimination start within the person who buys into everything blindly, what is sold to them by their belonging groups so it needs to be taken care of by the individual as well.

Not looking at long term effects or analyzing personally is personal neglect so it is the individual’s responsibility to behave accordingly. Emotional individual or not, all human beings are designed to be a multitasking entity so not enjoying emotional happiness while caring about worldviews or the other way around are individual tasks and choices. We all should be performing instead of forming extreme opinions and fall victims to our stinking opinions or traits like prejudiced and discrimination.

If you think your opinion makes you prejudiced and discriminating individual against others, you may have a spiritual disorder. The easiest way to cure your disorder is for you to learn to put yourself in the receiving end to feel what kind of feelings people get from your ways of thinking and believing. If we all individually start to do that our belonging groups will have to change their politics as well because the individual is the fuel to their prejudiced fire. If the fuel is not their fire can’t sustain. If as groups we can do that humanity can evolve to take a leap into potential peace.

Instead of looking back and try to avenge each other for the things our ancestors have done to each other, we should say never again to any and all kind of aggression. Our ancestors did the best they could with the best of their knowledge and level of evolution. Today we individually can and are able to judge and relate our disputes and wars to our old ways of governing. I can see if our past related ways of living to imperialism, nationalism and religious extreme and expansion related spiritual crimes. In today’s world if any group of people tramples on anyone’s human rights it should be punishable in the court of international law.

Our opinions have been and are still under influences of politically charged belonging groups and they have literally been trumping racism, prejudiced and discrimination right from the get-go. Ever since we have become aware of self-insecurities and weaknesses we tend to lean towards politics of belonging groups.

By nature, we are spiritually and genetically human beings but our real identity has been lost into our group granted political identities. We have been politically wrapped up with layers of identities, for instance, name, gender, last name, color, nationality, religion and everything in between like father, mother, brother, sisters bank manager, actor, driver, or a pilot etc. If somehow your personal identity has been lost or you feel even your personal opinion has been compromised and you have a stink of prejudice and discrimination against people belonging to other groups. Your best and only solution is to assume your real identity and become a CEO of your life.

A CEO clearly understands, judges and forms an opinion according to spirituality rules one, two and three. One don’t do to others what you don’t like done to you or your loved ones. Second, put yourself in other’s shoes before complying, acting on, or follow through your belonging group’s political will. Third use your free will and sense of justice to guide your actions instead of becoming a puppet. If you still catch yourself trumping about prejudice and discrimination start peeling off your layers of politically influenced identities to finally meet that human being who has been buried within you since the beginning of your life.

If you don’t know anything other than your nationalism and religion, always remember that why you have been blessed individually with oxygen? Why your umbilical cord has been cut? Why do you have a personal sense of justice and above all why do you have the ability to use free will?

If you still feel that you have to act according to your group politics, start to think about how important it is for a mortal being to live life comfortably in their skin. Ask a broken soldier who wants to commit suicide and is a victim of committing unjust actions against innocents in the name of their belonging groups and even in the name of God. Having to fight personal demons constantly is too great price to pay especially if you are a mortal being.

The human being is a strange package of spirituality and physicality so emotional whims and thought through ideas can sometimes clash. If you ignore your inner being who is spiritual and judges your own action to helps you to self regulate. When things come out as inner conflicts or you judge yourself too harshly you may end up with behavior-related problems.

If you start to rob your own happiness and contentment it is just a start of bigger problems to come. If you lose self-value start to worry, it is better to learn and learn fast how to live in a physical body comfortably. Living without awareness of spirituality has its price and that is paid individually by losing happiness, contentment, and satisfaction. If you are a mortal being, losing these things is way too much to sacrifice. Human beings have been given choices for a reason and that reason is what makes everyone a CEO of their lives.

Ask yourself if you really feel like a CEO of your life project? If for some reason you are not, don’t you want to know why not? Remember it is you who has to pay the price. If you think it’s worth paying the price of happiness, contentment, and fulfillment for group security. Think again, for a mortal being there is no and I repeat there is no security for a mortal. If you still want to sell your soul to the Devil and be unhappy and unfulfilled that is your choice and opinion of course.    

Let’s look at recent history of the events, for instance, looking at American elections, it seems as if the nation is going through a major shift. Since they are in the middle of it, it is a tug of war between conservatives and liberals. What will happen I am not going into it but what I see is that this trend is not limited to one nation exclusively. From Syria to broken down Russia and Yugoslavia to Brexit to Arabian and European turmoils everything points towards this big change in the world. Every few years of democracy Pakistan has been going through martial law because people just can’t separate state from their religious beliefs. Politically tainted religious activism can be not only a deadly mix for the individual it has the potential to rob the individual of spirituality as well. Conservatism based identity-related prejudice and discrimination has been keeping our world from taking the next leap of evolution.

Humanity has always been going through changes but they were always isolated and limited to certain areas of world. These days things have changed so drastically that even our news is not from the newscasters anymore. Everyone has a cell phone with live video connection directly connected to internet. What does it do? What has it done to the communication industry? Just look around and see it for yourself.

These changes are like an open can of worms and can’t be reversed, they can’t be called good or bad they are just the changes we have to adapt to and move on. Being conservative is not a good thing to be in this day and age of the technical world. It automatically makes you visible to have a prejudiced and discriminating stinking ass hole. Everyone has to adapt to the facts of life today like global warming related climate changes. Today you can’t just say these things are God’s will exclusively or God is mad at us. 

As of today’s human beings we just can’t say that, earthquake or storms are God’s punishment to people. We are sophisticated enough to understand that we can’t fool people with our old style religious fear-based politics. It is like you believe in God to the point that you believe even a leaf on the tree can’t move without God’s will but you believe in beheading and chopping hands off over individual crimes. Can you see the disconnection? If a leaf can’t move how can a whole human being commit crimes against humanity?

It is time to call spade a spade, human individual’s importance comes with responsibilities and if you call spiritual crimes committed by them as valor based bravery it is pure politics because it is good for one group of people and bad for the others. If you carry on that path soon you would call all the criminal are innocents if they commit crimes only against others but not against their belonging groups. It is time to reflect on the human individual importance, value, and responsibilities. Discriminating against others for political purpose is not cool, it is downright a spiritual crime especially if you believe that you are a religious and Godly person. If you believe even God is prejudiced and discriminatory like you, you have just committed another spiritual crime.

Like global warming, we need to look at and adapt to our political changes because they are facts of life. No one can close the environmental door or block political changes. Humanity has always been changing, is changing and will always be changing. If you want a proof you don’t have to go far just look into our history you will find a graveyard full of human dynasties, empires, isms, and religions. Whatever is popular today may not carry any value tomorrow so understand things with universal values like spirituality God and humanity as a whole.

If you stay stuck into your group based politics you are not functioning as what God has created you for, you are meant to be an evolving entity with a continuously evolving potential, just think what I said, I am going to say it again, that you have a continuously evolving potential. What does it mean? let’s say your brain expands to adapt by creating more neurons to learn further. As you push you just keep going to learn more and more and there is no end to it. See what it means to have a continuously evolving potential. Where is it taking us? Why do we put hurdles in our own progress? Who are these people who want us to stay in the designated boundaries and Why?.

Discard all these politically tainted religious boundaries to evolve boldly to forge ahead so we can be what God had meant for human to be. If you still think you are an inferior, valueless, worthless sinner you have been brainwashed by an opinion or I should say a politically stinking asshole which wreaks with the smell of prejudice and discrimination. If you want to get rid of your smell take charge become a CEO who has a free will with a personal sense of justice. Don’t do to others what you don’t like done to you or your loved ones especially in the name of God.  

NUTS AND BOLTS OF PERSONAL HAPPINESS.

   

NUTS AND BOLTS OF PERSONAL HAPPINESS. Last one for 2018.

All the best of health, happiness and success of all kind to all. Not only happy new year but new and happy spiritual years. Hope we can keep our politics limited to our governing systems and remove our politics from our religions and science.

Happiness, contentment and satisfaction in mortal life is as important as the oxygen itself. If you live an unhappy life you can understand the real value of happiness if you start to think about your mortality. An otherwise healthy individual should be able to achieve some level of happiness if they can think from out side of the situation they are in. In past I have talked about my triangle called health, happiness and success. If you are not healthy whether its physical, emotional or spiritual plain and simple you just can’t logically be happy. If you are not healthy and happy there is no valuable success for you individually regardless of what others think about you. It is the most important thing for a mortal being to understand that this is an exclusive  journey for you and interestingly enough that you are the one who is responsible for your accumulation of personal happiness.  

If we somehow ignore all that and get stuck into climbing and achieving constantly higher levels of life on the price of happiness. Potentially and eventually we have to end up leaving it all behind. We may leave a lesson for others to learn from our imperfect way of living. Success is not to impress others, to fit in or to be admired by others, its exclusively for your personal fulfillment and if you are personally unfulfilled all your living years. It maybe is a waste of time for you but not for others, others may benefit from your efforts. Steve Job comes to mind for an example. People still benefit from his life legacy but he had a life unfulfilled for himself. He has been gone only a few years and already regardless of his contributions not very many people talk about him. If I am writing about him it is not because of his contributions to humanity but his personal unfulfilled legacy of a mortal life.

If you are an individual who gets fulfillment from working and enjoy achieving things make sure to keep your focus on mortal nature as well because its not something what is not going to happen to you. It is a bitter fact of our life you may have not been talked about  often enough.

Spirituality is an action based wisdom of mortality.

When religious people act like a group of people as power to influence and enforce even good way of living. They have surrendered to politics of sense of belonging based on prejudice and discrimination against others or even their own kind whom don’t follow the religion as strictly as an extremist would. That makes their actions and preaching politically tainted. If they preach good actions, good for you because spirituality is an action based wisdom of mortality. Remember your good actions would take you to the right path of God otherwise you stray from spirituality and become a speechless follower of a cult like group of people. You lose your voice of a Godly CEO, become insignificant and you even start to believe yourself as a designated sinner. 

All the wrongs start when religions start to claim that the path to God is exclusively under their umbrella. God, spirituality and good deeds of human individuals are not political or exclusive to any one particular group of people. These things are universal so if any group try to own these with exclusive rights that is just plain and simple politics. As individuals we should or we must snap out of these politically tainted belief systems, speak against and take a stand for spirituality related equal human rights. Respect each other as cells of God almighty.

No one and I repeat no one has exclusive rights on good actions, spirituality and God. Its all between God and a human individual. When the middle man comes in three wrong things happen immediately.

One it makes politics of sense of belonging over power or take a hold onto any and all belief systems. Second makes the individual unimportant and unworthy of having a direct connection to God. Third good things become good for some exclusively but bad for others which automatically makes even their God discriminatory and prejudiced. Do you believe if God is prejudiced or discriminatory? If you do you need to know spirituality is the one makes a path to God not politics so you need to clean up your belief system. That is if you really want path of God, reaching and doing Godly things is not in following some rituals or certain kind of prayers it is in reaching to understand practical prayers. Serving humanity helping the weak and needy according to the best you can do is near and dear to spiritual God. Cleaning politics out of your belief system and believing in serving humanity as a whole is an individual task for you to achieve spirituality. God is not for any one particular group of people otherwise by now we would have a winner so believe not in politics but in universality of the spirituality and God. 

If you ask a parent to love one child more than other or others or be prejudice or use discriminatory behavior against their own children. Even as human whom are bundles of emotions can think that is wrong how can we expect from a spiritual entity like God to be discriminating and prejudiced against some groups and not others.

A human individual is a human being regardless of the affiliation of belonging to certain group so claiming that even God is discriminatory and prejudicial, how can we as individuals come out of these injustice related traits? I can see only one way it is possible and that is if human individual start to believe that they are worthy enough to connect to God directly. Now are you up to this worthiness and are able to implement that in y0ur personal, individual and a mortal journey? Ask yourself why not? You will easily find that middle man or your belonging group wants to have political control on you. They brain wash you to believe into that you are weak, insignificant, unclean, unworthy of directly connecting to God. Ask a mother who cleans her child if her child is a sinner and not worth of her love.

You just can’t find a way to connect to God directly if you yourself have been telling yourself that you are not worthy of it. Ask your self, if your feelings of unworthiness has something to do with the middleman and why is that?

When you are able to see the politics behind your religious rules, customs and traditions you will actually achieve and become a chief executive officer of your life as you have been created or evolved. Topic of creation and evolution is quite a topic everyone love to assume with their limited and constantly evolving knowledge. I just don’t understand why so much passion in being right while it is all based on assumptions exclusively. Whether you believe in God or not, you are created or evolved remember if you are still learning everyday new things, inventing and exploring  how and why do you think you know everything there is to know. Why you claim such knowledge same way our ancestors did? They killed each other over this sense of belonging related ego and we still are doing that. Why can’t we evolve from this even it is an unquestionable fact that we are always learning and evolving. We need to evolve especially in this area because as an individual we all come with the free will and personal sense of justice.

Your will to choose has always been there, still is there and will always be there to help you to choose. Since you have given your powers away to the politics of your sense of belonging, it will play a major role into your conformation to be a subservient to your belonging group. You act or even dress up according to your belonging group rules, traditions and customs and you are unable to see beyond being obedient. You self regulate not to look beyond the interests of belonging group and even sacrifice over the politics and commit spiritual crimes against other human beings. Quite a down fall for the individual who has brought free will, personal sense of justice, compassion and love from before birth.

You let politics of your belonging group come in and play a role in your every personal action. Where do you fit your personal and individual responsibilities. If you don’t take charge, pick, implement and follow spirituality instead of politics of religions. You yourself become responsible for making or at least contributing into religion becoming a political entity. Since God, spirituality and humanity as a whole has nothing to do with politics, your actions or even intentions of your actions are under the influences of the politics of your sense of belonging.

Politics has its place in humanity but spirituality based actions bring peace of mind, satisfaction, happiness and contentment for human individual. That becomes even more important personally, especially if the individual is mortal. Fortunately or unfortunately we all are aware of our mortal nature whether we like it or not so we need to do some soul searching while we are living.

In a mortal life spirituality brings out or makes individual to become aware of their real purpose of individual life. A political group on the other hand uses individual’s life for political purposes, sacrifices them to gain power and control on others or opposing groups. If you as an individual let yourself be used for political purposes it is your prerogatives but always remember harming other human beings especially the innocents ones carries a price for you individually as well. You have been granted free will to be responsible for your individual actions regardless of your group politics.

When spiritual crimes are committed under the guidance of religions you may think you are doing it for God, you may have to use your CEO status to see clearly. Personal peace of mind and guilty feelings are a very high price to pay especially if you are a mortal being. It is like a living hell. Just ask a war veteran who is thinking about committing suicide. Damage done by the politics of nationalism and religious affiliations are not curable by our groups because they are the one who caused it. Imagine what you can lose by getting damaged by losing  hope, faith in God and spirituality altogether. Following a political religion blindly may have a bigger price to pay especially for a mortal and temporary being.                                                                                                                 

Becoming depressed, anxious or losing hope and faith in your temporary visit is far too much to pay for the approval of a group of people especially if there is an option to belong to humanity as a whole. Take charge, choose spirituality to follow God personally and directly. Choose your actions over prescribed prayers and fasting to get in heaven of these living years. Remember God needs you to be alive to take care of Godly fairs because spirituality is useless unless human individual put their physical backs and shoulders to it.

Take care of your living years by believing in action based spirituality you will become comfortable in your skin, if you believe you have done good things practically you will feel good about yourself. That will make this life heavenly by removing fear of hell real happiness is not in approval of belonging groups it is in living a practically reciprocating life. If you are emotionally injured, the best solution is to bring practical prayers into your living years that will help you to feel fulfilled. A mortal but fulfilled life  is the purpose of a mortal life.

God needs human individual’s physicality to become relevant, your personal actions to follow God are not based on politics they are the foundation of spirituality and God himself.

Choose spirituality over belonging groups it will help you to choose humanity as a whole as well. It stimulates your personal sense of justice which is a crucial part in becoming an overall healthy human being. Personal sense of justice with the free will we have had all along from before birth but we could not use it because we have been conformed by the education and politics of our sense of belonging to our belonging groups exclusively.

Importance of human individual becomes easy to recognize and understand when we start to see spiritual actions take physical form through the human individual. I dare you to remove human individual and see if the spirituality can function. It is a matter of understanding God, what God is, why God is and how God is? Without understanding the importance of human individual nothing is possible. You can see politics and nothing but. Even cow is respected in Hindu religion more than a living breathing human God. Lack of understanding can create all the prejudice and discrimination which gives powers to some on the expense of others. Those others don’t understand themselves so they don’t understand God and become unquestioning followers of whatever is preached.

Equal justice to all is a pillar of spirituality which can some it up that most of our politically tainted religions fail the test of spirituality. Since they preach only they can take the individual to heaven after death automatically that means all others would go to hell which means they even make their own God a discriminatory and prejudiced entity just like human being. Human individual has to understand that God is an understanding and understanding of this reality is based on spirituality not politics. If a religion is used for political purposes it is not a spiritual system period. I believe we need politics in our day to day life but spirituality has its place as well so mixing the two is dangerous. As groups we have been doing it all along which harms individuals as victims of spiritual crimes and as criminal of spiritual crimes so mixing politics of the state and religious beliefs is just wrong and impractical. Sure it has always been part of our politics but these days we don’t kill each other with swords, we have weapons of mass destruction so we need to clean up otherwise we can have a day of judgement caused by our politics not by God.

Since spiritual world is private and personal to the individual so there is no room for mixing politics with spirituality. Individual came with ability to understand free will and individual powers to make even God relevant. They can choose to clearly put politics and spirituality in their compartments. Remember if even God can’t bring spiritual actions to physical reality how important a living breathing human individual can be, yet we kill each other over a cow what some people eat and some worship so our governments should separate religions from our politics science and justice systems.

Find that importance and assume your personal and individual responsibilities to be a human who came with free will and sense of justice. If you don’t value yourself you can be used by other human beings to be sacrificed or you yourself choose to become a mob without the thoughts of being an individually responsible entity never mind Godly entity.

If your actions are going to rob you of your happiness, contentment and install personal guilt, don’t you want to protect yourself from yourself. Our wisdom of life is to understand mortality and understanding mortality makes us vulnerable and vulnerabilities should make us humble. We individually are responsible to put everything in perspectives for ourselves before our actions. Unfortunately we are so immersed into the politics of our sense of belonging that we neglect to care to know who and what we really are.

Free will and personal sense of justice has been with us individually since the beginning of our awareness but we have been brain washed to be weak from the beginnings as well. In today’s world individual is not what we have been in the not too distanced past. Today our politics has changed and even some of our groups are finding out that a stronger individual is an asset to the group instead of weakness so individual has been gaining strength. Democracy and equal human rights are new normal so conservatives have been politically losing ground and they can’t use religious politics to control today’s free world. Interestingly in today’s world with the help of internet people know and care what happens in the world so spirituality is still alive and well, not perfect but still a progress in the right directions.

Today‘s equal human rights are bringing humanity closer with the help of internet. There is a next step or I should say a new big leap an individual has to take and that is to think beyond belonging groups and join the humanity as a whole. Assume personal responsibilities to question even own belonging groups for wrong doing and especially not following the wrong doing of the belonging groups.

These responsibilities are the foundation of next ways of governing systems. Law and order should not only be for the individual anymore. All corporations, political entities even governing authorities or systems should fall into that position as well so we can stop spiritual crimes committed by all entities whether they are individual or collective especially in the name of nationalism, religion or God.

Sure we have united nation already but it is a justice system without the law enforcement so it is an impotent entity until it gets teeth. It has veto system which is a sign of discrimination and prejudice, it is a political authority for few nations not for the whole world as it claims to be. We need something even if it is not perfectly working but there should be efforts to improve and enhance just like we do in every other thing we do as humanity.

Honesty is a universal truth, in past it was related with Godly ways interestingly today it is connected with science. Today if something is scientifically proven it is accepted as truth. Trouble is that as human beings we think differently so our truths are not seen as the truths by the politically opposing groups so scientific of not we still argue and fight over things just to be egotistic.

It is common for businesses to put each other down to promote their product. Humanity just can’t afford to bring this business like behavior in our governing systems because a governing system should be based on justice to all, equal human rights and spirituality. God has been bought and sold for political purposes by our politically tainted and business oriented religions, not only they put each other down they actually go to war and kill each others innocents yet in the name of God.

They have been doing it for thousands of years, if you bring the politics of sense of belonging out and just use the spirituality they preach world would become a better place. We may not need to worship in the greed of heaven or for fear of hell after all. Even today’s scientifically savvy human being can be aware of spirituality related personal peace of mind, satisfaction, contentment and happiness. We all naturally want to be hopeful, optimistic and seek happiness and contentment. Why are we created that way? What does it prove? Just start asking this question to find the truth, whether its spiritual or scientific, you may find out that we are not perfect and we may still will be fighting with each other over our politically tainted truths but we can improve and be better.

Fighting over God or our unknowns is one thing but fighting over science of global warming is just absurd. Everyone can see right before their eyes but politics of our sense of belonging to our groups makes us susceptible, only because we are unable to deal with our emotions like ego, pride, honor. Remember the mother of all these is our sense of belonging to our groups. Understanding politics of sense of belonging to our groups can open the door for consolidation and ability to tap into spirituality so we can all belong to humanity as a whole. Eradicate prejudice and discrimination related politics from our religions to create peace on earth and bring inner peace to the individual to live an emotionally, physically, psychologically and spiritually happy and satisfying mortal life.

Spiritual jewelry.

If you are taught to believe in virtue, honesty, compassion, sacrifice, justice, kindness and above all love for all people around you while you are growing up. I call them as spiritual jewelry of the human individual. If you are raised with all the values but just for your belonging group of people it is all just a waste because if it is for a group of people exclusively it stinks like prejudice and discrimination and these two has no place in humanity as a whole, humanity as a whole depends on the system of equal human rights. Politically either you are a human being or you are a member of certain group sure you can be both at the same time but it takes an individual to be a chief executive officer of their life. Being member of a group is an identity like Canadian, American, Pakistani, Muslim, Christian, Black, White, Male, Female, Gay or any other identity like a manager of a store, Doctor or Plumber etc. They are not real identities of us as an individual, they belong to our installed knowledge. Being born from a human family makes us human beings and is our real identity so why can’t we surpass beyond our installed knowledge to see and accept our real identity?

We raise our kids with knowledge of spiritual jewelry yet hand them a gun or a bomb to shoot or blow up some innocent beings. If you are wearing your spiritual jewelry it is for humanity as a whole so if you individually comply to the politics of your belonging groups and don’t take personal responsibilities as an adult. You have been robbed of all the human jewelry you were dressed up with by your own belonging group. If the value of the jewelry is only for your belonging group, it is not for you yet it should be for you exclusively as a human being. Since these jewels are not physical things their values are only recognized when a living breathing human individual becomes a wearer.

It may appear so but I believe our thoughts don’t belong to our brains because our brains are there to do the thought process exclusively, that is why we are able to learn new things from our teachers or our societies. To me they have been brought along by the entity who lives within our functioning body and brain. That you part of your triangle(read you body and brain) makes them alive or give physicality to our thoughts to make our realities. No matter what you have been taught, eventually its you who makes a choice to make things happen or in other words give life to things you have been taught good or bad.

That is why it is so important for individual to find their you part inside, so they can put end to all the injustice we do to each other as mass of people. If everyone’s umbilical cord has been cut at birth and we are able to make decisions individually. We can do things independently and call the shots in all other departments of life then we should all be able to question the right or wrong done by the political side of our belonging groups as well. Especially when it comes to the politics of sense of belonging to our belonging groups. You can’t just empty your pockets for them or let them rob you of your spiritual and personal jewelry to be so called secure.

Your spiritual jewelry is what makes you an evolved human individual. We are no different than other creatures, we function, eat, drink, live, get sick, old and die just like every other living creature but our jewelry exclusively makes us human beings. You can’t be proud of being born as a human being unless you display your jewelry in your living years. A clothing wearing creature who can drive, fly, swim deeper make weapons of mass destruction, exterminate each other, bring hell to innocents with the power of knowledge. With in the same body and brain our you part is equipped with the virtue, honesty, compassion, sacrifice, justice, kindness and above all ability to love for all.  

This worldly and political knowledge is not and I repeat is not a spiritual knowledge. Our spiritual jewelry is the knowledge we can be proud of. Sure all kind of knowledge is required to function as a society, but we should never let anyone rob us from our personal values or spiritual jewelry. Especially we should not let our own belonging groups strip us from the vary knowledge they have given us right from the get go. One can say they are the one who taught us about our jewelry, sure they did, most religions teach spirituality but looking into the history, or even in the present days our disputes are especially bloodier because of our politicized religions and God to kill each other.

If you think Saudi Arab and Iran are fighting over some oil rich fields, you probably just don’t want to see that a nice thing like religion can have an ugly side to it. The under belly of all religious wars is political control and power they have nothing to do with spirituality. Always remember when the knowledge is given to you especially the spiritual jewelry it becomes yours to use by choice, so be responsible and don’t let politics of sense of belonging rob you of your own values.

Today if everyone wear their personal jewelry, value other human beings and question politics of sense of belonging. Potentially it can create a war free environment because individually we would stop fueling the fire of prejudice and discrimination.

Our belonging groups have had their responsibilities but they failed us all as individuals so we can take charge and say no to killing each other in the name of our groups, nations, religions and especially not in the name of God. God has been an innocent victim of our politics as well so let’s start with God.

Stop killing each other in the name of God and then learn to treat each other as we want to be treated. No one is superior to others by clothing, technology, race, gender, looks, nation or religious beliefs. Our differences would lose meanings if everyone start to value and proudly wear their spiritual jewelry. As an individual we all have the right to defend ourselves then why do we let our own belonging groups rob us in broad day light, the kicker is we gladly let it happen.

Since our you part is made of the material what God is made of, God puts and keeps you together to make God meaningful. When you talk about religion, you can’t help but to talk about God. If you talk about God with total conviction and devotion other people’s opinion should not get under your skin. A belief system which teaches God’s will logically can’t be killing innocents. From capital to barbaric punishments are man made and created by mass to control and dominate the individual.

I can easily say most innocents have lost their lives, physically, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually suffered because of someone’s extreme views of their religions. Extreme in any human knowledge is illogical because human beings are an evolving entity so our existing today’s knowledge can be proven wrong with evolution. Which has been happening all along but our history shows we have had extreme views all along as well. It belongs to certain segment of population who is comfortable with the status quo which I would say mostly conservatives because they only want to change when there is no choice left.

In dead of the night if you start to seek answers about yourself even just to satisfy yourself personally. You will have a good chance of losing your faith in religions because we are an evolving entity with unlimited potential and religions put a whole lot of restrictions on evolution. Since evolved individuals minimizes extreme views of any human knowledge religious authorities take extreme path to control or to shun policies regardless of politics seeping into a spiritual belief system. In the end of the day an insecure individuals would submit because of their personal politics  of security.

If you do justice to your thought process it can lead you out side the boundaries of your religious beliefs. If you are not willing to go there because you don’t want to be labeled, shunned or even killed. You are being political and remember politics has nothing to do with truth or spirituality.

Religious world is riddled with politics, from religious wars to religious rules, traditions and customs they all can speak for themselves. You just have to be looking at them from outside. If you are not willing to go outside of the boundaries you are not following your God given  potential. You can spend all your mortal life in a subservient position or find yourself from within. The real you belong to God and God created human beings as an evolving entities so pursuing potential and evolving to the levels what God had meant for us is a spiritual path. Being pure of politics can help us become secure within our skins because we always are looking for security from our own kind yet belonging to other groups. If we can overcome politics of our sense of belonging to our groups and believe in personal and spiritual responsibilities we individually can over ride even the genetic demands to be with a group of people instead of with humanity as a whole.

Your every action is coming from your God given free will and with the blessings of God. Since God has given you free will you are responsible for your actions. Sure you need to be living and breathing for your actions so God’s will is involved in your actions all along by providing you oxygen and living breathing body.

Now the question is where do you think you stand personally? Do you own everything you do or your decisions are influenced by your religious beliefs? Do you or are you willing to kill for your religious beliefs and why? When you honestly look for the answers you will find political affiliations and politics of powerful sense of belonging behind your actions. You will find Ego, Pride and Honor and all three of them are born from the politics of sense of belonging to our groups. You will find bravery in your actions but just to fit in, impress or under the strong desire to be admired by your belonging group.

Its all to be accepted by the belonging group of people you choose to belong to. If that is the case then why not choose to belong to humanity as a whole because you as an individual are born as a human being which makes you as a part of humanity.

You can ask a national champion of any sport, what is the next step for you, they will tell you without any hesitation world championship. Why aren’t we able to look at humanity as a whole? It is because we all want our nation, religion or clan to rule the world. What does it mean? It means we just want to bring humanity together but we all are taught we want it but under our umbrella so the group politics still rules. Our attitudes have to change individually. It can only happen when we start to spiritually respect each other as an individual see God in every living human being because God’s spiritual work is done by the human individuals interestingly all the bad actions we claim are done by the Devil are done by the human individual as well. So far spiritually as groups we did not do a good job regardless of millions of years of evolution so understanding the value of our spiritual jewelry can help us individually to evolve to the next level to bring peace what humanity has been longing.

Beautiful and spiritual yet still a beast.

Someone posted that pornography is the cause of sexual ills in our societies and porn is effecting our younger generations negatively. I would like to know the reasons and facts of  this problem. I did not know the answer so I googled sexual crimes rates in different societies. Off course these are only reported cases. An interesting thing caught my eye that a Muslim county ,Oman and a Christian but secular country, Denmark were closer to each other in population and also in sexual crime rates.

Oman population is 4. 425 million in 2016 with reported rapes of  6.6 per one hundred thousand.

While Denmark’s population is  5. 731 million a bit higher but rapes rate 6.4 a little lower than Oman meaning population higher and rape rate lower means higher difference. Question that I ask is why is Denmark’s reported rapes lower than Oman’s?

How can sexual crime rates be higher or lower in such populations? This problem must have more to do with governing system or our traditional customs the education what is written in between lines of societies and not population size.  Is the difference in reported rapes per country a result of the type of religious rights or secular freedoms?

Lets find out where it connects.

Just like everything else, different societies have different ideologies, so in general everyone has an opinion as to what is the right way to live or govern. Since old style governing systems usually are influenced by our religious rules and our religious rules are founded on carrot and stick philosophy. Like heaven and hell or even strict and harsh punishments for social crimes to control society.

These days those harsh punishments are proven wrong in controlling social crimes. This is the reason why I am bringing in my reasons and causes of today’s problems. Since pornography was not around when our religious beliefs entered in our life, there is no way any one can prove that pornography as the reason for our sexual crimes because sexual crimes have been around since forever and invention of movie making is just a recent phenomenon.

Now if someone tells me that porn movies are the cause of social diseases like rape, I would ask for the facts and as you can see the proof is in the reason for these rapes there is no way of proving that there was no rapes before the pornography.Question is has the sexual crime rate gone up or down, how and what are the reasons. As civilized and evolved human beings we need to know what is behind our all kind of behaviors.

Denmark has no sexual restrictions on their citizens while Oman is a strict Muslim country where I assume porn is restricted and is not able to be watched by their citizens as Danish can choose to watch so why would this sexual crime rate be higher than a country that does not have restricted sexual viewing and has sexual freedom for all their citizens?

Looking at the Roman Catholic Priests and their sexual scandals or even go into our celebrities and politicians life and see why that happens and why some risk so much for it? Then look at the causes of these problems. It may or may not lead you to customary rule of celibacy but for sure there is a problem and it has been around since way before the pornography.

Personally I believe that the more you try to control sexual behavior, especially sex crimes, the rate goes up. It all boils down to our  education. Denmark has an openly secular education system. What is worse way of dealing with our social crimes carrot or a stick?   Is it Oman or Denmark?

I would lean towards that Oman population would be willing to coverup sexual crime rate more than Denmark because of strict punishments. If you are reasonable and educate your population that actions have their long term consequences and let them know what is a bigger spiritual sin it may prove my point that Denmark’s way may be better to reduce social crimes.  You can look at it the way you want to but this is my personal opinion.

Sexual problems are like smoking and drinking if you smoke or drink in your house it is fine with me and I have no problem with it but when you intend to harm others with your actions then I have a problem with it. Just like our modern day societies are imposing and enforcing rules to stop drunk driving or smoking in public places. The reasons of these rules are that you can do self harm but when you are willing to harm others society has the responsibility to protect others so we create and enforce rules . You can drink or smoke at home but you can’t take steps to harm others. If you watch porn masturbate all you want at home is not anyone’s business as long as you don’t harm others in the process.

Society should be open enough to give room to its citizens. Sex smoking and drinking is a problem when it start to harm innocent people. Rape, drunk driving and even smoking in public places with second hand smoke is wrong because it has the potential to harm others.

I am against sexual crimes just like anyone else but I would rather point towards the right causes of the problem. You can connect social problems with certain behaviors and offer certain solutions but first of all it would be an opinion of an individual or  a group of people. Second we as humanity is continuously evolving so any passionate opinion may have to change with evolving time.

By having so many schools of thoughts in so many human societies clash of opinions is bound to happen. So we have to know  as to what is the way one must believe. During evolutionary period one must keep this in mind that if we are exploring, learning, inventing and discovering all the time,  we can’t be completely evolved yet so it’s best to find facts and solutions about present day problems in present. We could have been still be monkeying around in the bush or caves if it was not for the people whom wanted to evolve and change for the better so don’t hold back or hold on to the belief that old days were better and hold the answer to all our present day problems. 

Looking for the solutions for present day problems in past related rules is plain wrong because it  may not match to solve our problems. We don’t even have clear answers for cyber crimes in present day mandates yet how can we find answers in our religions for internet related crimes. For instance criminals calling to con from all over the world, you can’t just catch those crooks because of the jurisdiction problems. Just like that you can’t blame porn for rape rate because porn was not even around when rape rate was even higher in past then today. Its our education what makes the difference.

Today’s societies have changed drastically. They have changed in population size as well as to information technology, and to individual freedoms and equal human rights. Everything is different! By looking at the past and declaring it to be a glorious time is a sign of a depressed humanity with a lack of faith in God.

We must remember that God and human beings are working hand in hand to evolve. If you don’t evolve with time you can’t find the solutions for modern day problems. As it is we are facing internet crime rate and global warming issues. Humanity has to evolve and work together to face and find solutions for these problems. If we bark under the wrong trees and look for the solutions of the problems, its like burying our heads in the sand hoping that  God alone will find all the solutions. The trouble is that humans, especially the religious ones, don’t really believe in this. That is the reason why they have such harsh and barbaric punishments for petty crimes and they still claim that we believe in God is doing everything. Sure God is doing everything but its all done by the help of human individuals so we as an individuals have a lot more responsibilities than a religious people have you believed.

First and foremost the reasons for our conflicts is that we don’t want our ancestors to be proven wrong. We egotistically defend and even go to wars with each other to prove who is right. Yet you can pick any group of people and dig into their past you will find problematic behaviors, not because of their fault, but because of their level of evolution so don’t blame each other’s ancestors and cross the lines by giving them a break. They did the best according to their level of evolution.

If an adult sexually abuses a child, that child learns from an action based education that it’s okay to abuse children when he becomes an adult. This type of action based education has nothing to do with porn movies but everything to do with the education taught by people who have been abused in the past. I wish I can claim its a modern day phenomenon but its not. Most people repeat behaviors that they have learned. For example a young person who was raised by alcoholic parents will often marry a person just like their parents who is an alcoholic.  If  society wants to fix the problems of rape then banning porn movies is like barking up the wrong tree. Blame and punish the right source. Don’t use band aid solutions to fix age old problems by blaming it on new situations. Sexual abuse has been around for thousands if not for millions of years and pornography has just been invented. If you go after the known cause of the problems you may find some solutions. Education, Education and more Education. Harsh punishments have not done it is not doing it and I don’t believe it is going to do it. Self regulation is the key and that is done only by the individual with Education.

Beautiful and spiritual yet still a beast.

Priests, Mullahs, politicians and celebrities are willing to risk everything just because they have given into their powerful animal side. They are not aware of the powerful monster living within themselves. Since we have been cleverly taught to blame God or Devil for our actions,  we cleverly blame the entities who don’t talk back to us. Sexual abuse is a bigger sin spiritually than masturbation so we should put things in perspectives. Religion or not it is a personal problem so individual has to be educated about the long term consequences of their actions.

You can blame your passionate nature or you can believe the Devil made you do it. Either way you don’t or are unable to respect the one who is residing within you to creates balance in how you become good or bad as an individual.

If I was God, I would know which one is a bigger sin or actually a spiritual crime. If Mullahs or Priests would not allow themselves to watch porn, masturbate and not sexually abuse children, then the world would be a much better place. Abusing children is a  greater evil than watching  porn or masturbating. The problem is that one chooses their inner demons. Sexual abuse is not known to be related to porn, otherwise sexual crime rates would be higher in Denmark than Oman. Don’t blame porn!  Find the proven causes of the problems. A larger or more powerful animal side would be mainly responsible for most of our social problems. For instance, if you are raised or are used to getting things  the easy way, you are not going to find a job to get things. From stealing to robbing to prostitution to corruption they can be connected to the voice coming from within you. If you have a human side  that is stronger that reasons and is compassionate towards others , you will not take the easy way out so ask yourself about your animal size to create peace with education.

When you start to dig into yourself individually you will find conflicting powers at work within you but if you don’t even try to look for the solutions, you are trying to mask or trying to sweep everything under the rug. An unhealthy but religious ways to look at the social problems. If you don’t educate your people with the right knowledge and force them to comply with the rules, sooner or later you will find them breaking the rules but if you educate them the numbers of crime rate would drop. Human societies can’t be controlled by having a police officer for each individual it is just not practical so the best way to deal with our social problems is to educate and encourage the individual to self regulate.

I would say deep inside most of us as an individual have some kind of personal conflicts. They can and should be resolved by the individual by understanding what it means to be a human being.  For instance animal side verses human side or sense of belonging verses sense of freedom. It can only be resolved by understanding what kind of entity we are? We are not only the body nor we are only the brain we are an entity which lives in a living body with the brain. We are the one entity who can create balance and act accordingly. In order to do so first of all we have to recognize that we are separate than our body and brain.

Say I ask you to move your finger you would have no problem doing that because brain and body is functioning, but if you ask a stroke patient they would have a big problem because their connection between muscles and brain has been disrupted. If you are def you would not hear me so that would be an other kind of problem but physical one. Now if everything is perfectly in order but you are dead you are not going to be able to perform what I have asked you. That is even a bigger problem, now if you are alive and everything is working you will be able to move your finger without any problem but you have to understand the process you have gone through. See our body is like a computer we have all the abilities and data in it but someone has to use it and that user is you who lives in the your body, and yes its not your brain because brain depends on data to be provided by you.

 If you want to understand it, it can be understandable otherwise you can be stuck in either living as an animal or as a spiritual entity. You are a human being who is a combination of both side. Angels example I can give, we are taught that being angels is a good thing so we should want and act like angels. Remember according to our religions angels have no free will to make choices so they will only do good but without choice. Human beings do good by choice so that is what makes human beings supersede angels. Choosing to be good for strangers or even enemies is a characteristic of human beings. Not common but still it is found in some human beings, it has been preached by our religions but our politics corrupts our way of believing in God so we choose to follow our animal side. Even if it is working against your animal side or desires, still its an ability possessed by human beings.      

Back to our spiritual and physical sides. A human body simply can’t live without the animal side or a functioning body and brain, neither an animal side can live without spirit living with in. They are inseparable so we have to live as a combination of both. This is the problem which we have been trying to fix for millions of years. We have gone through a whole lot of civilization with a whole lot of religious beliefs, isms and even different types of democracies.  Most of our religious beliefs, laws of our lands and civilization in general preach and per mote extreme to kill our animal side because we don’t want to be counted as other creatures. We have been taught that we are superior to all other creatures, this sense of superiority seeps into our being and an individual becomes susceptible to prejudice and discrimination. Personally I believe that is the foundational education which is mainly responsible of our prejudice and discrimination against each other among human beings. We are taught that if our behavior is similar to other animals we are bad and inferior.

With all the civilization and evolution our understanding should have changed by now but we are still stuck in the old political systems with the prejudice and discrimination in the foundation. Our best bet is to understand ourselves by educating about and accepting our animal side, its legitimacy and authenticity to achieve personal and inner peace from within.

Becoming a Chief Executive Officer  of their life can help individuals to create inner balance otherwise an imbalanced individual can end up making extreme choices like being slave of the animal side without any restrictions or inhibitions to be a human being or go to other extreme by removing self importance altogether and live or spend all their mortal life without any kind of enjoyment. 

How can an individual stand against the status quo if the politics of powerful sense of belonging is over whelming while personal sense of freedom is non existing? As a CEO we can achieve all that by putting everything including other people, religious affiliation, sexual identities, racial differences and nationalism as departments of our life. Instead of making them as the ultimate powers and reducing individual to a mare speck in the sand. Understanding free will can teach self importance as an individual and all about the spiritual  jewellery they wear. When you wear your spiritual jewellery you can become aware of self respect which can teach us all to evolve to the point that we can live as a mortal being who has the responsibility to enjoy a mortal journey as a human animal simultaneously but have the ability to counter our animal driven desires so one can live and let live in peace.  

We all should proudly wear what I call jewels of humanity like being compassionate, forgiving, sacrificing and loving. Since mass murder or extermination of our own kind has been part of our history so regardless of our spiritual jewellery we are capable of horrific spiritual crimes. Remember we have dropped Atomic bombs, we have used other weapons of mass destruction and even now a days we are constantly at war with each other. We even put the other creatures to shame with our out of control animal side. 

As we have been taught by our religions, controlling or killing our animal inside has not worked with millions of years of evolution. If it did not work till now why do we still believe it will work for us by following the same political ways of living.  Unless we as an individual create balance deep inside of us and achieve personal inner peace by assuming our duties of a CEO, things are not going to work or change.

In human societies we have all been taught politically to belong to a group of people to be strong and secure. If you look at it critically our past education has been pointing towards the sense of belonging to a group of people but not to humanity as a whole. Since it starts with the family and family’s connections to the others around it automatically is a group oriented education but as a human individual we all potentially can step forward and take a leap of faith in thinking of being part of whole humanity.

Only an individually thinking human individual can surpass politics of sense of belonging to immediate family, community, race, gender, color, religions or nations otherwise we can feel overwhelmingly and over ride our thinking ability. The evolution can teach us, we as an individual are the foundation for all the changes humanity has made thus far. 

Creating inner and outer peace is only possible if we as an individual step forward to understand ourselves as a being who is totally free when it comes to make decisions. Since we all are free individuals we can choose to belong to humanity as a whole but we have been taught to form groups of people for security. Physically we belong to humanity yet spiritually to God. If you belong to nationalism, or a religion which does not believe in humanity as a whole, you demote yourself and follow the politics of  groups instead of spirituality which is universal and directly connected to God. Crossing the lines of our traditional political knowledge of sense of belonging is in order, so we can evolve further into the next level and belong to humanity as a whole.

War against our animal side is a war which could not be won throughout the history of our civilization and the main reason is that it is an understanding not understood. Since you just can’t separate the two, there is only one option we have and that is to accept the legitimacy of our animal side being part of our make up and make deals with it instead of waging war against it. By doing that we can stop inner turmoil and bickering  to create inner peace individually first then collectively because it takes a human individual to start or stop the wars whether its internal or external. 

Since we have been misunderstanding an understanding we have been underestimating and denying the strength of our animal side. Our systems of law and order and rules of our religions have failed  us miserably in controlling social crimes and our wars. If you want proof just look around and critically look at our religious wars and their reasons.  War related spiritual crimes against humanity and in general crime rate of the human societies are the prime examples of wrong path we have been on. This failed approach has not worked is not working and will not succeed if it had not succeeded in millions of years of evolution. We have to learn more about ourselves to understand who and what we really are?. Why the animal is still alive and well regardless of our efforts to kill it?Even our mullahs, priests, politicians and celebrities can attest that our animal side is just too powerful to deal with. It has evolved and has become sophisticated which makes it more dangerous and destructive for humanity. Our weapons like guns and to advanced level weapons of mass destruction on one side and on the other hand the popularity of political sense of belonging to our groups should be a warning for all of us to take a crash course in understanding what is and what does it take to be a human being in modern day humanity. Regardless of our violent behavior with our smarts we are heading towards dangerous grounds of self destruction.    

Following explanation should be helpful in understanding the legitimacy and authenticity of our animal side.

 

Inception of Devil does not only  start with mother who loves her child. It has been there all along, it is a matter of nurturing and helping to flourish to one dominating side. For instance when baby cries mother feeds him/her, changes dipper and holds baby to sooth. As a baby we quickly understand that and learn to adopt with new circumstance at the same time we learn about our already  existing personal desires as well. We learn how to get the mother’s attention. If the mother or care giver keeps running to meet the baby’s needs or I should say desires, she is nurturing the baby’s animal side to flourish which automatically suppress, minimize or weaken the human or spiritual side.

If mother would have thought that, I have just fed, changed and cuddled there is no reason to run, let baby cry for a while and see what happens, what does baby do?.

Baby will cry for a while look around and then realize that nothing is happening so personally I believe baby will take first step towards becoming a healthy and balanced human being. Learning about the inhibitions, self soothing, delayed gratification, and patience makes us different than other creatures. You just cant teach any thing about delayed gratifications to a dog or a cat. I believe this is one of the root cause of most personal, emotional and social ills with deep connections to our imbalanced upbringing. Learning to understand these two personal sides is a crucial thing for every individual to live a happy, healthy, balanced and successful life.  As my first triangle says health, happiness and success. Remember without the health you can’t be happy and without health and happiness the success you have does not mean anything to you personally.

This fundamental education has been misunderstood or ignored by our personal and individual politics and is over powered by  our totally accepted, preached and loved our  loving emotions. Are these loving emotions good for us? Do they relate with the animal side or our spiritual side or maybe we are not evolved enough to totally understand distinguish and place them in proper order in our mortal life?

As an individual do we understand traits of our spiritual or our animal sides and do we have the understanding that we as an individual are the one who really calls the shots regardless of the our nationalism or religious beliefs.

The lines can be blurred easily for us as an individual when we totally and passionately buy into the education of our belonging groups. We kill each other over the politics of our belonging groups regardless of personal responsibilities to first understand who we are as an individual.

Back to the baby, after a little crying  baby looks around, nobody comes, so we start to self –sooth, entertain and  learns to control our desires. This is the first step taken by the human individual to be a human being, learning about the delayed gratifications and dealing with the inner animal to create balance with the human side it all comes from that first step taken by us.

Imbalance has far reaching consequences for baby and society simultaneously.  From obesity to brush with the law can be avoided if we are taught right in the beginning not only about the instant but delayed gratifications as well.

I heard these wise words as growing up in Pakistan, since I don’t know the source I would quote it as the author unknown.

“Quote” When the trunk of the tree is green it can be bent, but after that we should forget about molding and conforming because it would not bend it would break” End quote. 

Since it had been nurtured, the animal side has grown to the point where, if tried to be harnessed even by will power, it will rebel even back fire. In my job as a personal trainer I see people fail in their efforts to lose weight just because they try to ignore the power of the animal side. There have been weight loss companies for decades but our obesity rate has been climbing studly higher the reason behind is that strong animal side which can’t be harnessed. This is one of the cause of the higher crime rate as well because the instant gratification is a trade mark of the animal side of the human being. I don’t want to put the animal side down just like everyone else because I feel we have to acknowledge the legitimacy of our animal side to create balance so we can live like a human being. We need to do the justice to our both sides because our animal side holds the cards of mortality related knowledge it should be respected as well. Especially our religious education goes really against our animal side we are taught about the heaven and hell to control it yet there is no excuse given against the injustice a society does against the mortal individual. As mortal individuals God has given this life to the individual as a personal gift and these religious contractors of God are there to rob the individual of their animal side. Animal side is the one which allows the individual to enjoy a mortal life, food sex and feelings of love and attachments regardless of being temporary.

A good justice system is equal for all, which I connect to the spirituality. Political rules of our societies or even our religious rules should all be spirituality based, yet throughout the history and even to modern days we are openly preached to live for after life. Picture of God and Devil is drawn much larger to the point that human equation is undermined. Politics of nationalism and religions is there to push the individual not only to live life in sacrifice and deprivation but to do the dirty work for their respected nations and religions as well.

It is preached falsely that the group power is in the name of security which we have not achieved since the dawn of our civilization.  It has been is and will be for a long time that the individuals suffer, die and lose love all the time for belonging groups. Struggle to kill the Devil inside is an other issue the individual has to deal with so there is a constant conflict from within and its a continuum, yet the animal side flourishes out of control in the societies near and dear to you. We are told that you have to kill the Devil to be a good person, in the eyes of God. Well how do you justify and where do you fit your God given personal free will? Would you sacrifice your whole life trying to be a good person yet with a constant bickering inside? Why do you think going to extreme would bring you inner peace? Who benefits by your sacrifice? Does God has anything to do with internal and external turmoil? And finely why do you think you have been blessed with your free will?

No one really knows what God has plan for us, as a human individual. We are not created angles, so our make up says we are human and we each have a side which gets us in trouble, yet makes us better than angles at the same time. Since it is meant to be there by God, it is a legitimate part of us. Even God would not finish Devil because human still has to reach the potential to overcome hurdles to evolve further.

Since human beings give physical form to God and Devil whichever side is nurtured would become stronger. Parents and society in general should be aware of this sort of education, so if it is dealt with in the childhood period we would be a lot better human beings as grown ups. Always remember its the human being who acts Godly or Devilish so nurturing should be paid attention to.

When you are taught God and Devil are some outside entities and human being is just a puppet of them. This sort of education make the individual inferior and meaningless, when an individual takes this education to heart belonging groups gain power over them. We are taught the knowledge which is written in between the lines to be subservient, obedient and insignificant so we can be controlled politically.

Your individual actions are either Godly or Devilish because you are influenced from outside of you as a being so God and Devil become more powerful and who says all that? Is it the people who claim to be subcontractors of God. If someone does not follow them they are labeled as opposing side and they would be looked down upon. That is how God and Devil develop their following. Interestingly politically both opposing sides call the other sides as Devil followers yet they both commit Devilish acts. There is no war can be called spiritual war they all are political wars whether they are fought over a piece of land, nationalism or religion. After all we have a place for politics in our societies and politically we have a need for our identity.

As human being an individual has lost their identity because we have been labeled and are made to stay stuck into identity crisis. Either you are good or you are bad there is no in between because human beings have tendency to become extremist. You are taught that you can’t be both and you can’t be affiliated to both sides. It can be proven wrong by looking at individual’s life. Sometime people do bad or wrong things as young person yet as they evolve or grow up with different education they can become good. When you start to look into this window with questioning eyes things start to get clearer and your purpose of life start to emerge. Human identity is human being not an angel so try not to live like an angle otherwise you will have regrets in the end of your mortal life and you will learn and blame others for the failures of your life but it will be too late.

A physical body not only puts physicality into God and Devil, it helps the individual to enjoy their temporary visit as well so try to make sure that you take responsibility of your life.We are not here just to worship and nothing but, we carry the responsibilities of our mortal life as well. When you enjoy good things in your living years, its not Godly or Devilish it is a human thing. If you don’t do human things you have lost one of the meanings of your mortal life. If someone connects enjoying life to Devilish act there is always someone benefiting behind this preached sacrifice.

Look around and see how religions spend money lavishly on building majestic monuments as God’s houses and abuse powers to create extremism for us to kill each other. Who are these contractors and why they could not have not and can not eradicate poverty, hunger and disease? Regardless of the majestic buildings humanity still suffers and look for God somewhere outside of humanity. Mother Theresa had it right she went in the armpits of the humanity to help yet lived a simple life. Spirituality lives in humanity not in any man made building and God is spiritual so there is no house for God but humanity. Instead of building God’s houses build pipelines for water and life giving agriculture. Arab has a lot of oil pipelines but can’t build water supply lines to help people around so they can survive the harsh conditions. Unfortunately that is related to spirituality and we are use to political religions so if the neighbor suffer it is fine with us yet it is clearly preached in Quran that if your neighbor sleeps hungry your food is not kosher for you.

Political intentions have robbed religions of spirituality yet on top of that we are preached politics of sense of belonging to our belonging groups as most important subject of life. If you are told you are going to burn in hell if you listen to your inner animal and enjoy this mortal life. I would question this sacrifice related politics and find motives of the people who benefit from this kind of education because I don’t believe God benefits from a suffering human individual’s sacrifice unless it is done to benefit some poverty stricken individual in humanity. If all the religions were spiritual by now we would have no poverty, disease and wars related killings. Show me a time when there was peace in the world, we have been fighting either for our cunning animal side or defending ourselves.

Let’s see the reality, if you live like a spirit you can’t do anything physical so in order to make spirituality meaningful or practically functioning, you need to be alive and physically functioning yourself. This is where human individual becomes a main character in spiritual world and assumes the status of third equation.

In order to be useful to God a person has to be alive to create physically active spirituality. Dead people become spirit so they can’t perform physical actions so God’s work is not done without the living human beings. Now look at some people telling you, if you self indulge and  enjoy your life, you are following Devil’s way yet these are the people who are telling people to go kill others or even each other with passion in the name of God. It just does not make in spiritual sense to me but politically hell ya.

As I mention before God’s spiritual work is done by living human beings so question this to yourself. Are these people really following God’s will? Why would God want to kill people if people are the one making God meaningful.

Reality is that God is a spiritual understanding only if and when we start to come out of our insecurities related boundaries. An empty Mosque, Church or Temple is just a building created by other human beings I should say living human beings. Surpass religious beliefs God does not reside in any human made building or structures. Understanding itself lives within a living human being that means an understandable God lives in humanity where poverty, disease, disability, hunger, thrust, old age and a belief system lives. Where human helping each other to survive that is where God meaningfully exists. Our Mosques, Churches and Temples are the places where we politically gather to curse and plan how to kill other human beings just because we don’t agree about the path way or road to God. There is nothing but mass ego comes in the way of truth and humanity’s simple truth is that human individual makes God meaningful and our politically active religious leaders are hell bent to inspire us to kill each other yet in name of God.  If you ask me I would have a place where all religions, nations, races, genders get together to plan how they can help each other instead of worshiping or banging their heads to please God. God needs help to get God’s work done and only living human beings not the dead ones are going to be able to help God.

Its absolutely political to bring the worst out of us in order to serve sense of belonging, no wonder humanity can’t take a breather from its wars. If we start to believe that God lives in all of us as life force you just can’ t say God lives in certain race, gender, nation or religion related people, it would be denying an unbiased God. Same would continue as it has been so we would never be able to see God in other fellow human beings and we would never get out of the shadows of prejudice and discrimination related conflicts and wars. If you say how can God be living in a person who is Devilish start taking charge to nurture Godly side it is not only the responsibility of the individual it is the responsibility of the mother, society and humanity as a whole.

If God blesses you with an opportunity to live at higher level but you some how choose to live life at substandard level. Whatever you are told as growing up whether it is against God’s will to live lavishly or you believe you should be saving and hoarding everything for later just because you feel unsecured.  Interestingly human beings are quit opinionated and passionate to the point that they want others to live like a unit or as a part of a machinery. In reality our nature has set us totally free to choose the way we want to live the proof is that our umbilical cord has been cut and we all have been blessed with independently functioning body, free thinking brain with free will. Thought of the individual mortality goes out of the window if we don’t respect our individuality.

Anyone disobeying religious rules or traditional customs of certain groups of people does not mean that they are Godless people Politically you can call them whatever you want but spiritually you just can not because you yourself is not using full brain power and you have not evolved yet to your full potential. Scientists may say there is no God. This lack of belief system can be connected to their knowledge they have learnt but with their limited use of brain power in one area. They can invent or create a drug which can save millions of lives and serve humanity differently means they are being helpful to God so they can’t be called Godless by others who are not able to use their brain power fully. One can believe in God and other may not but can serve humanity is not a license to put each other down. Anyone blessed with an able body, free will and free oxygen is blessed by God regardless of their belief system. Remember things get done by the living individual still does not mean that individual is the one who is doing it so they deserve full credit. NOT SO FAST.  As a creature  we all depend on oxygen, able body and intact brain to live is like being in debt to nature at all time or in my beliefs God. Every action is a shared action its a dance we dance with God so no one can claim I did it. For now everything is done by us but it is done after we have taken a breath and in order for us to breath both universes internal and external have to be running in perfect order and we have no control non what so ever. As human beings we have no say or control on our life giving oxygen or on perfectly functioning universe at least not yet so we just can’t claim that I did it. We need to be humble and we should respect our mortality with our actions.

When we do something to someone what we don’t like done to us or our loved ones, it is a spiritual crime. Unfortunately when it comes to mass we become unable to see the injustice done to individuals. We have been brain washed by the politics of our sense of belonging to our groups. For an evolving entity like human beings there is no perfect way of governing but so far equal human rights based systems are best suited because of this spiritual content. If an individual can take the government to court and win, it is a sign of a spiritual system of governing and you just can’t deny that this society respect its individuals. It all starts and finishes with the individual if there is no respect for one individual life we as groups can’t see God in others so we just can’t cross that particular line which we need to cross to take the next step to become a spiritual being with an animal nature. We need this level of evolution to create inner and outer peace.          

   

 

Who is doing molding, Individual or God?

Watched a movie titled MUTE 2018 TV-MA

It started with an Amish proverb.

Quote” “In order to mold his people, God often has to melt them.”

Imagine you are a cheetah running to catch a deer. The hunt is on and you are running full speed with all your effort but the deer is running, turning faster than you and getting away. The thought comes to you that you have to feed your babies and you start to pray to God. God please give me some more speed and let me catch this food. Now imagine if you are a deer you are running for your life with all you have got and thought comes to you, God please give me some more speed and save me from this certain death as I have to stay alive to feed my baby.  Both sides are praying to the same God but for absolutely different reasons. This will put God in pickle in what to do. If God lets cheetah catch deer is this the same as letting Bambi starve to death? Is God mean and merciless for deer and its Bambi?  If the deer gets away, cheetah’s babies can potentially die of starvation so is  God mean and merciless to cheetah but merciful to deer and Bambi?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE ?

Everything is wrong when and if you bring this into humanity with really high expectations from God. Since we all have knowledge of our mortality, things are different. First of all its not a life threatening situation for us. Second we are evolved enough to understand. This is the reason why we can’t or should not shoot or drop a bomb on opposing groups and chant it in the name of God.

Our wars always have been, are and will always be on the bases of our group politics. In order to keep our group morale high we all tell the group that we belong to that we are good and our opponent group is evil.

Regardless of who is guilty, both sides use politics to convince their group and the opposing group is Evil  and our is good, so God is on our side. Both sides fire or drop bombs with chants that,” God is great.”   God has been put in by cheetah and deer. Cheetah and deer don’t have the same comprehension as human beings so when humans put God in that situation they are responsible for their actions. They are individually or collectively responsible for their actions because they are not at the level of Cheetah or Deer.

Human beings usually are cunning enough to put blame on their God or their Devil to deflect responsibilities of their political actions. We have been able to use our politics until now to kill each other, including innocents from both sides. It’s about time we came clean and accept our responsibilities whether these responsibilities are individual or collective.

 Putting God and the Devil on the top and human in the bottom corner is clever and political but not an honest or truthful. Deep inside we all individually and collectively know that as a human individual we are responsible for our actions because we have been blessed with free will. If we justify politically and hide our guilt behind the politics of our  our groups, we as an individual, would feel the power of guilt. That phenomenon has been seen in modern day war veterans with invisible disorders.( Many people who have returned to civilian life after serving their country in wars return home and they suffer trauma from their service. They live their lives in trauma and some kill or die because they cannot understand or get over their times they served in the war)

When it comes to Cheetah and Deer, it is matter of life and death so we need seriously look at it. If the deer gets caught than the cheetah will  have food to feed her babies . If it does not so cheetah will go hungry and may not be able to feed her babies. This dilemma will cause the cheetah  to come up with some new strategies to continue to evolve.

How much of a will or I should say free will is playing a role in this life and death drama? Is it sheer luck and God has everything to do with it or is it personal will?

If you put God on that high pedestal and say everything is done by God, even a leaf on the tree can’t move without God’s will. That means you should believe in God 100% in everything else as well. For instance if you believe in that, you should not or will not have a concept of revenge related to emotional reactions to punish. The concept of the justice system itself falls apart if we start to believe God is doing everything and human individuals have no say in what may happen. If that is the case, where would you fit God given free will and the ability to put personal efforts one puts in the game of life to survive?

Let’s take ourselves out of the bush and caves and come into an urban jungle. During this evolution of cave dwellings to high rise living a lot has happened to us. This journey has been a tough one but it has been a worth while process so far. If we destroy everything that we have built during this evolution, it would be a colossal mistake by a spiritual God or I should say humanity.

Just look at us, we can dig deep into the earth without claws. We can swim deep into ocean without gills. We can fly without wings where no winged bird can fly. This all is done by using free will to evolve. If we were to listen to the people who thought earth was flat, we would still be in caves fighting for survival.  This evolution has not been done by our prayers and worshiping. It usually comes from those so called “Religious People!” 

I respect religious beliefs and the fundamentals of mortal living. I also believe that free oxygen, free will and all abilities a living and breathing body has wit a God or no God.

Now let’s look at how and where God fits into our mortal lives.

Our awareness of personal mortality automatically creates a new world beyond the present life but it is all based on assumptions of the groups we have chosen to belong with. Our present ability to think takes us beyond our living years, especially when one starts to think spiritually. We have an evolutionary and exploring nature, with broad imagination so potentially we create our future with our present thinking. Most of us have the unrelenting need to know why, how, and what  happens, after we die so there are several schools of thoughts giving their versions or scenarios of what will happen. Since no one has been known to return from death and been able to tell us what happened when they went to Heaven , there is no evidence about what happens when we die. So it has always been dependent on the belief system of groups to in still in their members what will happen when they die and go to the heaven they believe in. Now it comes down to the individual whether to benefit or harm one’s living experience  and what they are willing to believe. 

How much efforts do you put into your personal life is almost always relevant, so do you use God?  Do you rely on God and have expectations from God to take care of your life’s everyday affairs? It is highly dependent on the knowledge you have been installed with as growing up as an individual.

Where do you fit in as an individual to take responsibilities related to your every day life? How much efforts do you put into your personal life is almost always relevant, so do you use God? Rely on God and have expectations from God to take care of your life’s everyday affairs? It is highly dependent on the knowledge you have been installed with as growing up individual.

If you are not taught to fend for yourself and evolve then are you taught not to follow your evolutionary nature? You are taught to believe that if cheetah catches the deer, that it is God’s will. If cheetah does not catch the deer, this is God’s will also. So logically you are taught that cheetah, deer and you have no personal free will.

Remember you can’t be believing half way in free will , either you believe that you have free will or you do not. You as a spiritual entity make a choice to create your physical actions, so if you are making things happen in your life, you are using free will. 

Just like our thoughts have the power to create physical changes in our bodies like the healing process and even creation of diseases. Spirituality creates physicality and physicality makes spirituality meaningful to complete a mortal circle of the human individual life. Always remember, the purpose of human and God is to make things happen physically. Good and bad is not an issue here, it is all about what is important for us as a mortal with a gift of thinking, breathing and a living body to experience this life. Should we mess it up or take charge to live this life with personal terms and responsibilities.

UNDERSTANDING IS REQUIRED.

If you don’t think you don’t create, say for security reasons human beings created cities in the jungle to survive from the predators, but forgot about the dangers from within the social settings from its own kind.

Sure we have removed ourselves from the food chain and no longer other animals can eat us. Unfortunately we are doing a pretty good job with our social crimes and wars to kill each other. Yet still its a so called human progress depending on how you look at it.

In favor of personal efforts verses prayers one has to be fair as individual, sure I believe in God given path or story of life because it is evident all around us.We all have different paths but they all lead to the same destination. All jobs are helping humanity so helping each other is our purpose of individual life. God does not need help but needs help from us to turn spirituality into physical actions so the importance of the human individual is beyond all the religious beliefs, isms or any and all systems of governing.

Society and God is made of human individuals so yes individual is the most important link. Just like a chicken can lay eggs to make more chickens human beings can create mass, societies or humanity so it may seem less important to you as an individual but in reality without the individual thread no fabric can be weaved so respect yourself, as an individual. As mass we need to respect the individual as well so we can survive as a mass.

For instance if you feel small and weak, you would think and want to build big muscular and strong body with higher levels of testosterone to become assertive and aggressive. Now think what would you do for it? Would you go to mosque or church to seek help from priest or mullah and pray or take charge, go to gym workout and seek help of a personal trainer instead of priest of mullah?

Its a common sense related decision, we automatically make choices even if we are very religious. God or not, religion or not there are certain levels of understanding we all have.

Free will, personal efforts and the use of brain has been around since the dawn of civilization, so is our politics of control and power. If you take charge and put efforts in your life, you automatically be ahead of those whom don’t put efforts. How do you justify the poverty regardless of efforts? Well here comes the politics. We have been using our brain powers to achieve control and power on others to create groups or belonging groups. We even have been and are able to pass onto our off springs other people as property just like kingdoms. Yes we still have kingdoms in present world and royal families have children to make sure their wealth stays in the family.

Modern day internet has opened up everything so everyone is exposed to the democratic values, equal human rights and sense of belonging to humanity as a whole. This modern trend is growing like an out of control and rapidly growing tree, majority of educated individuals want to flock under.

Authoritarianism, kingdoms or isms like communism and socialism, have to modernize their way of governing. From south Africa to Russia and China things are changing but the changes are slow for some and too fast for others. A changing world is like an open can of worms you just can’t put things back and close it so that means there is no going back. You can claim to be nationalist but world has been changing right before your eyes, especially with the internet and information highway nothing can be kept as secrets.

From flogging the blogger to dismembering the journalist are efforts to put the worms back in the can by the Arabs but they are not alone in that struggle. Americans are trying to go back in old days, British tried with Brexit as well, but question is how long can they hold on until changing times sweeps them away. Humanity is growing closer to each other, when UN leaders laughed at Trump, it was not about issues at hand it was laugh of the power of shifting times.

Problems like global warming and wakening of politics related to equal human rights can’t be controlled by big guns or high walls. These problems can only be dealt by united human efforts of all humanity. We have gone through full circle, if we don’t change according to demands of changing times our survival as a humanity would be in question. So there would not be a winning nation everyone would be a loser. Remember every single thing is valuable on the face of the earth because humanity puts a value to it. If planet is inhabitable nothing would matter. 

Say a whole city goes under water with climate change, all human beings rich, poor or middle class all will lose so it is time to care about the humanity as a whole. Our wars can destroy nations and their budgets but global warming related problems have the power to destroy beyond the borders of nations. The refugees have to leave everything behind to survive and assets left behind can’t be valuable until rebuilt and repopulated. A ghost town is a ghost town no matter how you look at it.

In the end of the day its a game of survival weather you are a cheetah or a deer you need to know that the free will is there to make a choice to put more efforts to survive. God stays out of your affairs after you have been blessed with an able body, oxygen and free will so take charge and make decisions of creating peace so humanity can evolve in all departments of life not only in war related weaponry. 

Sure there are things beyond human control but if we don’t simply acknowledge the value of our free will, we would end up going to mosque or church to pray for the bigger muscles or stronger bodies instead of a gym. 

Don’t let anyone tell you that human efforts are not meaningful. Just look into the history and even today every single progress has been and is made by the efforts of human individuals. Just to acknowledge the importance of God remember it is all done by able, living and breathing bodies. Since we can’t live without oxygen or able body nothing is done without blessings of God. So back to square one. Did the cheetah get deer with personal efforts and free will or did deer survive by personal efforts and sheer will. GO FIGURE but don’t be egotistic and believe that there is no God.

The question is, is God melting to mold the human beings or human beings are doing the molding by the evolutionary nature?

God has done Godly job by providing us with oxygen able body and free will, now its up to us to catch our food or avoid from becoming being food.

I believe in God who is merciful and has given me oxygen, able body and free will now its up to me how I live with a belief system to do my job without questioning the God’s existence. How I live my mortal living years is up to me. I just can’t blame or I just don’t want God to be blamed for my actions. I have been blessed from the get go so my molding is done by me, by me using God given free will.

Adopting and evolving according to demands of time and era I am born into is my quest. We should not have to be running from our own kind to survive, nor should we have to give a second thought to save our housing planet. Being a physical component of God human beings have a lot more responsibilities than religions have been teaching us. Since God’s work is done by us we need to get our acts together and take charge of the things what we have been assigned for.

STEPPING UP SPIRITUALLY.

 

Other than oxygen blessings of God  that come to us through other people that are like us all. All modern living and its facilities provided to us by our brains of past and present. We are planing to go to Mars. WE have nuclear weapons, our genetic code has been broken from stem cells to cloning to all the modern ways of living and the ways of transportation and communication has been changed. Nothing has stayed, or will  ever will stay  the same as we evolve.

Everything that people use to pray to God for or to achieve and receive has been provided to us by us. Since we are continuously evolving we still want more and more so we still pray to God and God is still relevant in our lives. This is clearly a logical explanation of our evolutionary nature. No matter what we achieve, we will still want more and explore further.

Sure we are doing it all but it is all done by living and breathing bodies. What does it really mean?  If you honestly look at it you will find spirituality which has been always there and still keeps knocking at your door of understanding, but you reject it because of your lack of understanding. How simple it can be?  Whatever you are doing with a living and breathing body and brain is not done exclusively by you. Is it hard to understand?  No, not at all, but just look around and see how shamelessly we all claim our achievements are ours and ours exclusively. Where does this attitude come from? It belongs to ego related half knowledge. Our half knowledge is related with our evolutionary nature. When we start to claim that whatever is happening we are making it happen. There is some truth to it because we are doing it but with the oxygen and a living body and just to remind you that they are not in our control period so whatever we do as an individual or collectively is all dependent on the whole universe going in favour, otherwise what kind of an ability a dead body can have.

Where did we learn all this from?  It’s our society and parents if they keep preaching to us that whatever you want to do you can do it if you put your efforts into it. When we achieve whatever we want to it sends a signal to our psyche that we are the one who did it. If no one explains how things are done in reality our own knowledge and belief systems would become impotent of spirituality.

Sure our present knowledge is important and a must. For instance, if a mother is breast feeding the baby to keep it alive, or someone teaches us how to survive in all kinds of circumstances like hunting and fishing in the past as well as modern day jobs of today are the skills we have learned from our belonging humanity. They all come from the people we are born from or belong to but there is always more to life to learn as an evolving entity. No matter how much we achieve it would never be enough until we hit our potential so we personally and individually should always keep our mortal nature in front to live a mortal life.

When you do something for the people you belong to, which I believe we belong to humanity as a whole, not to just a group of people. You are not doing a favour to humanity, you are reciprocating to God for a living breathing machine which survives with the fuel of oxygen and food so you are returning the favour through you actions during your living years.

Learning to at least respect the people who have been helpful to you like your parents and humanity you live in is not only a duty it is a common sense of decency. Your reciprocation is spirituality related game we all need to play. If everyone plays fairly with the sense of responsibility than humanity as a whole wins.

If you do the good things in the greed of heaven this works actually against your sense of personal responsibility then you can say that you am not going to work and live on the expense of others. You may be able to do that but deep inside of you, you are not respecting the requirements of being alive. You, Humanity and God ,who lives through the humanity. Understanding this is important that you understand that if you do not respect God or people around you, you actually are disrespecting yourself.

Disrespecting oneself stems from the knowledge based on a disease. I say that this disease is  created by the people who give all the glory to a spiritual God but disrespect the physical component of God. They glorify God and curse the Devil and take the human individual out of the equation just to make you insignificant so politically they can control you. If you feel that you are not worthy, you may fall victim to that education and lose self respect. You may let the others pull your share which puts you down even further to the point that you can think self disrespecting behaviour is normal. This behaviour may show up in your life just because you have learned that you are not responsible of anything. If everything is done by God and Devil, that makes you just a puppet ripped to be controlled. If the whole community or nation becomes victims of this politics. It’s a path to destruction and the end of the evolutionary process of human individual and community so I do not believe a religion should be a political system. Religions are spiritual systems and they should stick with the spirituality and spirituality exclusively. 

A parent would not be able to take care of their off springs and would not be able to teach them to fend for themselves  if the social fabrics is designed in such a way that no one is taking responsibility for their actions or themselves. It can lead to the point that even as communities we can’t take care of ourselves but thank God luckily we as human individuals that come equipped with a personal sense of justice and emotions of compassion so not everyone turns out the same way. Not only can we take care of ourselves we automatically grow responsibility to take care of others as well.

If parents or society helps too much to be relevant or politically strong it can hinder in the process of our kids growing their metaphorical wings to fly solo.

If you talk openly that you want them to fly without others help they may want to put more efforts into flying solo. We are like other creatures in the nature. We can get used to receiving help and learn and like to live as dependents. Whether it’s a policy for the controlling authorities to keep you weak or its your desire not to put efforts to fly higher and if these desires do not match with human nature because we are designed to evolve and evolution requires constant struggle to push and pursue to the next level.

That is where the conservatives or religious people get spooked because if everyone learns to fly solo and higher they would not be able to answer the questions asked by the higher flying individuals. They would not be able to create a fear of God or blame the Devil for your actions so they would not be able to control you politically. It’s not natural for human beings to stay put and feel good about it. We have a natural duty and we are programmed to reciprocate to feel good about ourselves. We all have a need to be useful otherwise we become self destructive, depressed and lose our zest to have a happy life. By nature we find deeper happiness when we are able to help those who need help.

Whether its socialism, communism or religions, they all promote ideas which clearly leave room for the spiritual injustice to the individual. As human individual we all come in life as a mortal so the awareness of the mortality would automatically make us insecure. Our insecurities show up in our actions of daily living. If these insecurities seep into the masses which usually is the case, everybody would want to secure their personal and collective life. Either way it just does not and can not stop at life preservation, it leads to hoarding of all sort. From the beliefs to take along the material things into the spiritual world to having to fear from hell and greed of heaven all is related to the knowledge of mortality and related insecurities.

This hoarding removes wealth from circulation which in the long run can be harmful for the society full of mortals. It is not about life of a mortal it is a business of living so we start to remove the wealth away. From the terms mattress savings to property to stock market to bank savings to retirement savings and on and on, even insurance in every aspect of life yet being mortal.

Interestingly we have systems set up that we leave everything for our off springs of family members or other loved ones. If we don’t have do this then governments are eager to take over. So far that is how the things work and that is the best humanity can offer. We can help those who can’t fend for themselves like disables and the sick.

As an evolving entity humanity is doing the best it can but individually and collectively our insecurities can take us to our three major problems.

As the Said-i Nursi said and I quote.

Mankind has three problems: Discrimination, Poverty and Ignorance. Discrimination can be solved with love and compassion,  Poverty can be solved with sharing and Ignorance can only be resolved by education”. 

My question is how do we share if we are bombarded by the education of insecurities? If everyone rich or poor are addicted to hoarding then no charity system can be evergreen. You can say survival of the fittest is a success,  I would say what kind of fitness and success?  Health happiness and success is the key. If you are not healthy or lacking oxygen you can’t be happy and success without health and happiness is useless. We are a social creature. It matters to us that we are useful to the people around us and a dog eat dog philosophy does not fit into spiritual human living. Physically you can feed your body and satisfy your brain by impressing others but if you are still unhappy or depressed, remember being unhappy is a spiritually deficiency. Being spiritually deficient, no one can live a happy or healthy and life. Without happiness and health then Life is a failed experience.

In spiritual worlds reality is a reality so I am putting ten things to remember.

1) Educate yourself about yourself.

2) Learn to live a moral life.

3) Don’t do to anyone what you don’t like done to you or your loved ones.

4) Make it a duty to reciprocate and be thankful for the functioning body and oxygen provided to you.

5) Look at the taxes you are paying as a spiritual reciprocation because you actually are helping others. Sure you should ask how that money is used.

6) Remember its not what you have accumulated in your mortal life its what you have consumed and used for yourself and the needy. In the end of the day that is what count for you.

7) There cannot be a human book which holds evolving knowledge that is Holy or otherwise. Only an evolving entity can gain more knowledge and find solutions for the present.  Evolving problems so locking, freezing or putting ceilings on the evolving knowledge and this is not only impossible to hold down,  its non-spiritual to suppress human evolution. We are heading towards our potential and its our responsibility to evolve to make God even more majestic, significant and relevant in our lives.

8) Politics of nationalism, religion or any other ism is related to our individual and collective insecurities and as a mortal we all have one destiny. Security is not part of it.

9) No gender, race, nation or religious identity is from God. There is nothing more spiritual than equal human rights because physical identity of God is humanity itself.

10) Killing each other in the name of race, nation or religion is not only a sign of lack of evolutionary but walks it down and makes it against God’s very existence. God’s meaningfulness comes to existence when human beings put their backs and shoulders together to brings physicality to spirituality to make it meaningful.

As mass or  a society we should have respect for the individual’s life because they come and go but as society or as a group we carry on.

Our traditions, customs whether they are religious or social rules are all designed to have peace and order in the society but they should not be on the expanse of the individual. For instance Sati was a custom or a tradition in India for the widows. They were burned alive with the dead body of their husband. Muslims and English both tried remove this  law that but with very little success. Practices like this should never be the rules of human societies because it disrespects the individual’s God given free will and mortal nature.

When God blesses you with whatever it is, it is yours to consume and use. For instance you come in this life with a functioning and a living body and brain. Its your to live however and whichever way you want to but when it comes to the people you come to, its a different story they are like parents they feel that they own you and your loyalties should be with them otherwise you should be shunned. 

Since everyone knows they are mortal they try to secure or take security to extreme. That extreme create a set of problems for the individual and society simultaneously. From parents to big brother everybody lays a claim on you and you naturally want to practice your individuality. Yet regardless of everything and every efforts from you your fact of mortality never changes.

Big brother related government and religion both are in a different kind of mortality. They are like empires or communism they exist beyond the length of human individual’s life but they are mortal as well. Our history shows with human evolution we have a grave yard full of empires and dynasties.

Ironically a parent does not want to lose a child because of the pain of love loss yet they send them to rob someone of love in the name of nation and religion. Our groups don’t want to lose of the individual yet build walls to keep the others away. Why these contradictions? Security related political control.

A bigger population from all and different schools of thoughts can be intimidating for the conservative governing authority. Yet the reality is in the end of the day we are all able bodies and useful to the societies where ever we choose to live. The real problem is the politics of sense of belonging. If we choose to belong to humanity as a whole these politics based problems vanish. If a society treats everyone with equal human rights people flock to those countries.

Sure there are different motivating factors and reasons but a house with the four walls does not make a home. Home is made with love and love can’t be forced all parents know that, all lovers know that but for some of us life with a love politics is a way of life. Governments, religions and big brother related authorities always have political agendas.  I believe they should learn that a brain drain has been is and will be a fact of life regardless of what era we live in, so respecting the individual with equal human rights is not and should not be based on the politics. It should be the law.

Equal human rights and a sense of belonging to humanity as a whole is a spiritual answer we all  should be looking for to sustain as communities. Humanity has been and is full of ghost towns for different reasons. Look around or as I said and look at the grave yard of the empires. The main character of all the glorious days has been is and always will be the human individual.

You can have every facility such as the following:  houses, roads, electricity, water and sewer systems, cinema halls, theaters, play grounds, schools, churches or mosques but nothing is valuable until a human individual gives value to them.

I know of a poem in Pakistan and it goes like this:

” A lily in the forest cries for thousands of years, it is very hard to find an appreciating eye in the garden in the forest”.

Personally I believe God is like that lily and human beings are or have an appreciating eye. God is a spiritual entity and God’s actions require human physicality otherwise it’s all useless. This is one of the most motivational reasons why religions promise to their followers an important spot in  heaven if they recruit an other human being for their belonging religion.

A while back I wrote a blog titled “God’s house for sale for one dollar”. It was triggered by the news from a town in the northern Ontario. Lack of attendance was the reason given by the sellers. Anyway God is meaningful and valuable only if humanity exists one individual at a time. Killing each others belonging individuals can’t belong to God or nor it can be spiritual. I would go this far to say its a spiritual crime and don’t you dare let anyone tell you or convince you otherwise. You can not kill in the name of your belonging groups especially in the name of your religion because you actually are told if you kill for your religion you are killing for God and you would be rewarded a spot in heaven. This can’t be further than the truth because of this example.

Imagine pulling one thread out a piece of fabric at a time, it may not make any difference in the beginnings but in the long run it will weakened and eventually make it vanish the fabric itself. Now imagine that fabric is God and you are the thread now ask yourself would you kill each other or pull the thread from that fabric?

Remember I said when life is given to you its your to live the way you want to. Are you strengthening God or weakening God by following your religious orders to kill each other.

Ask this question to yourself without the political pressure of your sense of belonging to your groups. It is to make you honest to yourself. If you still come up with the same feelings of sense of belonging to your group regarding this as that you have been brain washed and have no personal sense of being.

Being an independent individual is what God had meant for you. That is the reason why your umbilical cord has been cut and you have been blessed with an independent and functioning body and brain so you can make your own independent decisions. If you are not making a use of it, you are disrespecting yourself as a spiritual physical entity with the Godly powers.

Whether you are a nuclear scientist and don’t believe in God or you are a religious scholar and believe in God with all your heart, either one of you logically just can’t be pulling one thread at a time or burn the whole fabric just because of what you believe in.

Humanity and God has been put in a vulnerable situation because of your political affiliations so snap out of it and take responsibilities of being a human being. Remember we are a creature who has evolved from the bush and cave residencies so we should evolve from our bush and cave behaviours as well. Politics and belief systems aside your personal sense of justice should be able to overrule your desires to kill to feed your political sense of belonging to a group.

CONSERVATISM NECESSARY BUT SHOULD NOT BE ABLE TO HINDER EVOLUTION.

Conservatism is important but one must  be cautious when one attempts to explain its importance. As it is not natural to us nor its a God given trait. Conservatism is based on an insecurity related politics so it naturally is not for the evolving creature like human beings. We have been and we will constantly be evolving so conservatism is necessary to set the rhythm to adopt to this evolutionary process. Conservatism serves a purpose in our adaptation but sticking to it means that we must be loyal to some old rules of religions or political systems of governing our societies. Humanity has to evolve and adopt until we hit our 100% potential so in order to pursue our potential we need to break all our boundaries. Believing that living in the past is the safest and best thing to do is just plain wrong. During evolution there is no ultimate human knowledge, whether it be religious beliefs, national constitution or systems of governing nothing can be perfect because we all have to adopt and evolve according to the needs of times we live in. If we keep living in the past, it is like keep looking back and not paying attention to the things coming to us from the front. If you don’t pay attention sooner or later you will collide with something. That is what happening right now throughout the world. Conservatism is colliding with not only with the new generations but with scientific and technological evolution. From abortion to euthanasia to blood transfusion to stem cell to advancing knowledge of genetics is confusing the hell out of the conservative populations yet time is not stopping.

Contrary to popular beliefs loyalties are not usually for sale, nor is it a clap with one hand so they require the commitment from both sides to make some noise. When it is from both sides it can be thundering success. A belief system can’t be forced or enforced because of our evolving and changing awareness.

This adaptation to evolving knowledge is rare some have it most don’t because of our individual level of understanding. Our personal and individual loyalties are and should naturally be towards and simultaneously with God and humanity as a whole but we have been stuck into our past because of conservatism.

Race, gender, color, nation or religion are related with our installed knowledge. Dissecting our identity to the core of all the layers of our identities can bring some clarity to the individual. As a living breathing human being we all are a bundle of physical and spiritual combinations. I was watching an east Indian movie Delhi 6. I would like to quote, which would fit here.

Quote,

” In every speck shines his divine light

Look with in yourself, he is not far from you,

If you have love for yourself then embrace everyone

Because we are all in his form. That is worship.”

In plain and simple words, any system which brings glory to some of us but destroys others in the process, is not from God nor it is spiritual or natural.  It is influenced by human insecurity and related politics, individually and collectively. To me, humanity has been the victim of identity confusion because of our politically tainted beliefs and governing security systems.

Since the beginning of our awareness, our politics has been revolving around family, clan, community, nation or belief systems but these days with the internet and our individual evolution slowly but surely we are creating a global village. Some of us like the idea of venturing out but branching out for a vast majority is very difficult to process. Sure the change is in the air, you just have to look at humanity’s reaction to conditions such as the spread of Ebola, Aids and global warming. Our space station and satellites have been at work for a long time but what we don’t realize is that they are joint ventures of humanity as well.

When groups preach and promise superiority over the others to their followers by just being  part of the group, it is clearly preaching that other groups are inferior. Whether it is all related with race, gender, nation or religion or not, it is all related with the politics of prejudice and discrimination. You can say to yourself that personally I am not prejudiced but if you still consider that your group is better than others, you are under the influences of prejudice and discrimination. Either you are in spirituality or not it is that plain and simple. When it comes to equal human rights there is no little bit of prejudice and discrimination it is either or. When you go to a court of law you can’t say I committed a crime because I belong to certain group so I am not responsible trust me no one is going to listen to you. I believe its time to own our actions because we all have the same free will and sense of justice.

Equal human rights means that there is no differences in color, gender, race, nation or religious belonging. You can’t just claim that you are going to heaven and everyone else is going to hell after we die. No one can or should claim whether they are a little bit right or wrong. If a Justice system is blind and treats everyone blindly, you can’t and should not be a conservative or liberal when it comes to being a judge. It is all about the law, not about the politics and law should always be on a solid foundation of equal human rights for all.

Interestingly when it comes to religions we are taught to conform and believe blindly. If you question the authenticity of the rules or disobey, you are looked down upon by the leaders and other believers for not having faith in their teachings.  Some group mentality automatically takes us to a point where discrimination and prejudice teachings prevail regardless of which group you belong to. This looking down is not only to the outsiders of the group its for the insiders as well so they all suffer from this political injustice. That is why you can see several groups have sub divisions or sects come to existence. The groups within the groups and peoples loyalties to their sub groups can not be good for  humanity as a whole. Intolerance related violence and even our wars can be stopped if we start to take our individual responsibilities. The trouble is that we all are individually insecure and mostly it is because of our lack of political knowledge. Outside boggy man has been created by the groups, yet most of the people get hurt, mostly by their own kind.

Religious belief that attempt to divide people from each other is not related to the texts or Holy Books. It is born from the discrimination and prejudice related politics fathered by the out of control and non spiritual sense of belonging to the group we choose to belong to and follow.

Loyalty to family, clan, community, nation or a religion is considered and appears to be the right thing to do in a belonging group settings. In some other groups that would be equivalent to committing spiritual crimes. Still in some others it can be looked upon that their leaders as being good and right so it becomes a common practice for most societies. This is the main reason why humanity has been ripped apart in hundreds if not thousands of pieces.

To me the solution is not in looking for some savior, a dynasty, an empire or a super power to control, conform and overpower every race, gender, nation or religion. Remember I started it by saying loyalties are not for sale nor they can be forced or enforced, so the problems are related with our violent nature. We need to come to terms with it from within as an individual. No one should let anyone use them for their own political purposes.

First and foremost important an aspect of this picture is the individual so educating the individual holds the key. By helping them to evolve further and so they can see that the earth is round and has no physical boundaries or walls. Human beings along with other creatures are the residents and there is nowhere else to go at least not yet.

Passing on to the other dimension after death is an other story. For now we need the knowledge of evolution so we can learn to live with each other. Western societies are melting pot societies so they are the clear examples of our ability to live together and trust other human beings even they don’t belong to any one particular group. Genetically we all are matched. Scientifically we all are made of the same stuff and spiritually, well not clearly known but maybe alive by the or as a same entity. Like human body as God and us as cells, because we live, get old and die the same way as our cells and body provide the living conditions.

All the differences belong to or caused by our taught and installed knowledge coming from our ancestors who survived from being the food to on the top of the food chain. The main thing they had to pursue was their security not only from the predators  but from their own kind as well.  Since then security has become the main and the only thing to live for our societies so our trust has been compromised by our ancestral knowledge. They lived and survived like other creatures so being connected to our conservative knowledge we still are following the same path or the ways of living. It’s time to forge ahead and embrace the changes, sure it is not easy to take chances but we have no choice but to evolve.

We mark our territories and fight over the markings just like they did, but my trouble is that now we have sophisticated chemical and nuclear weapons. Our weapons don’t even respect the walls of communities, other creatures and off limits innocent beings whether they belong to our own or opposing groups. This human dilemma is strongly related with group politics. We consider our belonging group is it, or is the main authority so we are all influenced by the education of long held beliefs of prejudice and discrimination. I believe its time for a change because we as a  humanity need to evolve to the next level so we can overcome short comings of our ancestral knowledge.

Can we solve our social problems? For sure not as groups because we have been trying for millions of years to be on the top of all the humanity and it has never worked.  As a group we always have been are political so unless we change the path there would always be prejudice and discrimination against others.  As an individual we can hope to be educated enough to learn to belong to humanity as a whole.  This goes against everything we have been taught and believed as a group so it will be an uphill battle for humanity to overcome the old ways of doing things. Judging what is going on in the external world each and everyone of us has a constant battle going on inside of us as well.

Changes are needed by individuals from within. We all evolve differently and at a different pace. You can see most of our societies suffers from conservatism and they are politically divided so they go back and forth as the hands of power change.

Iran is a good example. Just like other nations, they want to have nuclear power with all the scientific advancements but they try to keep their population in control by conservatism as well. Before the revolution that society was quite advanced but things changed when the conservatism got hold of the power. Now Turkey and America are going backwards and British voted to leave the European Union and formed Brexit as well.  Whatever is going on is all related to the same way an animal marks their territory with the fear related old style systems of governing. I personally don’t play political games.  I just look at everything with a spiritual angle so to me equal human rights and justice to all with boundary less earth for one humanity is my game. I may be an idealist but that is what I believe in.

As individuals we all come in to live in this life we all are blessed with. We bring along certain traits from before birth. Sense of equality, personal sense of justice and understanding of reciprocation. With awareness of our sense of personal justice we should be able to oppose every prejudice and discrimination related political system. How can you dislike prejudice and discrimination against you but it is okay for you to be commit the same against others?

It is mind boggling to me that most religious people who should be spiritual with others in society are not spiritual when it comes to choose political parties. They choose to openly oppose helping the needy in their time of need and then they have the nerve to call the liberals Godless people. Going for spiritual things like equal human rights or universal health care is openly opposed by Conservatives and most religious people vote for conservatism.

My problem is that I can’t help but to point out, people attend to a mosque or church with a desire to become Godly but choose to act against the helping of the weaker or old ones or vulnerable ones in need is quit contradictory. Social Services are opposed as well by the Godly people.

To the other extreme leftists who believe in socialist agendas but neglect to do the justice to the individual. They always go for the mass and individual lose their value in that system. When it come to spirituality there is no injustice, so equal human rights is the best spiritual system for governing. Sure we will have to choose between individual’s rights and collectively human rights as societies but sacrificing individual human rights is not spiritual, so I am for the individual to be able to take the state to the court to fight for their rights.

Evolutionary nature tells me that we are not perfect. Would we become perfect when we reach our potential?  That is the question can’t be answered without assumptions but I believe in doing the best we can with the best of our knowledge. What future holds is not a present related thing so I would not bet on it. In order to deal with present problems we need present related solutions. If we keep looking into the past for solutions, we would never change and would never be able to bring humanity together because we have been taught prejudice and discrimination as ancestral knowledge or wisdom. Even this day and age our schools have been teaching us religion and nationalism before anything else. In the past we have been and still are following group related politics, whether its related with race, gender, nation or religious beliefs they all eventually breed prejudice and discrimination. Personally no individual would like to be treated with prejudice and discrimination, yet the people who treat others that way are the people as well so it comes down to the spiritual rule one- o- one. “Don’t do to any one what you don’t like done to you or your loved one”. To me its a personal and individual problem as it  has been is and will always be related with personal  security if everyone feels secure we would be naturally for the equal human rights.

As groups if we don’t have discrimination and prejudice based politics we can educate individuals to connect with humanity as a whole but logically a group would never go for that because they lose political powers. So it is not going to come from the top down. It has to be from the bottom up by the educated individual.

Picture it, if no one does that to others what they don’t like done to themselves, what will happen to humanity?  I can just imagine all the wars disappearing and we will find internal and external peace. Well to me, it is a stretch for now and I may not be able to see that much human progress in spiritual sections. To create peace, whether its internal or external, is in the grasp of all of us but do we really want it? That is the question we all individually should be asking to ourselves in the dead of the night when we are all alone with oneself.

Remember our sense of belonging has three kids, EGO, PRIDE AND HONOR. They always make us weak individually and its all blessings of our out of control sense of belonging to our groups. We can’t stand up against our groups even when they are doing wrong. Emotions are power but ego is the power which can cut both ways so it can be weakness as well. To explain I can say when you think what others are going to think about you when you take action of any sort you will become the victim of either one of the three kids. If we dig into the causes of our actions these children of sense of belonging would show up to let you know that you have been put into the bottom of the triangle by the politics yet you should be on the top corner or the triangle. I am talking about the who flipped my triangle.

I believe in individual strength which makes people question all the socially accepted truths and related rules. If we don’t have people questioning the things we do, our societies would never change or evolve. The whole evolutionary nature gets questioned by the conservatives all the time, if no one had proven it to them they would still be believing in flat earth. They can’t see that all the progress of humanity has been gifted to them from the evolutionary people. They shamelessly use all the technology but still can’t accept enough to give credit where it belongs. They can use drugs to live with the disease but oppose any kind of medical advancements. There are people who are against  blood transfusion, ask anyone how important this is in saving lives yet they still would want to live in the past. All the progress made in science, technology, medicine and social sciences has been coming from the people who broke away from the confining boundaries of conservatism. Most scientists don’t even believe in God to me it is a matter of how you look at God and what does it mean to you?.

Conservatives will use all the facilities provided by the boundary breakers but stubbornly reject to accept evolutionary nature. I believe we are designed to break all our own rules. Our rules are there for one reason and that is that they are intended for social control to slow the rhythm.  So we can adapt and evolve rhythmically without ripping ourselves apart. Conservatism is necessary but it should not be a thing to get stuck on. Getting comfortable in those boundaries is not only unnatural for human beings, it is totally influenced by the fear related politics. If you look back, no power has ever been able or could stop this human phenomenon. Evolution is in our genes and it can’t be harnessed so we need to follow our nature instead of  just resisting it in the name of conservatism.

Sure religions have enjoyed and to a point they are still enjoying their popularity but they were not and still are not able to stop the changing humanity. Where we were they wanted us to stay  but we are compelled by our nature to evolve. We can’t stay wherever we are either, things like honor killings are progressively becoming questionable . Our wars are not acceptable by certain segments of populations in all groups, nations or even religions.

By looking broadly into  history and even present days, we are becoming aware of our behaviors. We know now that conservative style politics compels individuals to commit spiritual crimes against the opposing groups in the name of sense of belonging. A person may not want to kill the loved one but they have to live in a society where people point fingers at them so they are compelled to commit spiritual crimes even against their own loved ones. So yes even as societies we need to change this kind of out of control sense of belonging related crimes.

The real war is going on inside of the modern and changing human being. This is to stay in the boundaries or change with changes. I believe our evolving nature is powerful enough to bring changes, it may take time but we have been, are and will always be evolving. Would we be able to change conservatism? Well it has changed already. There is no conservative party in the political systems of the world anymore. They have to become a liberal or progressive conservative party to survive. If you look at the agendas of the conservatives, they have come in the middle to win otherwise in the western nations there is no room left for them. Humanity has moved on to the changing times so no one wants to be left behind.

 

 

 

YOU BODY AND BRAIN PART TWO.

Since its a continuation from a previous writing of mine called ” YOU, BODY AND BRAIN ,” I am going to begin with a quote from Jiddu Krishnamurti. I watched a movie  titled, “The Last Shaman,” in 2016 on TV-MA. I will quote a passage from this movie.

In oneself lies the whole world and if you know how to look and learn, the door is there and the key is in your hand. Nobody on earth can give you either the key or the door to open except yourself”.

Personally I believe that knowledge is knowledge and it should be regarded as humanity’s treasure to pass on for the coming generations. Since it is not a material thing but has all the powers to benefit or harm human individuals, it should be carried as an asset. It is passed on to us from our known and unknown sources and there is no one particular way to own it. You can go to school, read books, think, explore, expand and stretch to adapt to evolutionary nature or lock yourself into the cult like rules oriented by conservative ways of living and let everyone pass you by or reach out and break all the boundaries.

We have some rules created by the groups we choose to belong to and patent or copy write it, but it is impossible to hold on to them because of our individual mortality. There has been a big shift and changes since the internet came into our lives. From music to books to movies, they all had to change to adopt to the changes. Some people did not succeed in life while others did have success and many became very wealthy  yet humanity still carries on and expands and adopt to the new ways.

One thing is for sure we should respect and credit that person who taught us regardless of where they are from or which group they belong to. All humanity should respect the source whether to let them be billionaires or in general help them to explore to take all of humanity to the next level.

I believe our knowledge related discoveries help and hurt us simultaneously, depending on how you look at it. The differences in our weapon of war as well as the side effects of our medicine,  scientific discoveries and the way we govern our societies. All this constantly evolving human knowledge is a proof of our imperfections. We always have been and we still claim that our home group has the perfect and better knowledge over  all others groups.  We go to wars and test our lethal weapons on other human beings just like lab animals are used to determine how chemicals and gases along with nuclear will affect others.     

I learned as a young child that you don’t get poor by sharing one special thing and yes that is our knowledge. Today, in the patenting and copy writing world things have changed. I respect anyone’s knowledge if it is for the benefits of humanity as a whole, but not as a group of people who just want to rule the world by force. As groups we have been trying to patent and copy write every knowledge in all fields of knowledge. From war weaponry to spyware to internet related hacking to satellites to space station and everything in between, we have authenticated along with our exclusive holy books for our groups for thousands of years. You may find the same knowledge with individuals and political related twists in every human knowledge.

One of my goals is to prick the bubbles of politics related sense of belonging to our own groups. I believe everyone of us should be able to see what is under all the layers of identities? Regardless of all the politics related hypes, deep underneath we all are human beings. Logically all human individuals are born from the humans into the humanity so we all belong to humanity first.

Group politics has been and stems form old time survival related problems. You can see that clearly in the other primates living in the bush doing the same thing to fight for their territory and kill each other to keep control of their territory. What is the difference ? Other than our sophisticated war weaponry and political rhetoric thinking ,nothing is different. Politicizing and following group politics may not seem unnatural either but our realities are real. We need to evolve a little further to overcome these urges of animal of the animal kingdom.

Today we are able to extinct ourselves and we are going to take other species along with us if we don’t evolve in our hormones related emotional reactions. I learn along the way from reading something about our personalities that a one thinker can save a ship full of feelers. We need not to act on emotions exclusively because our politicians have been and they can reap the benefits from using us as puppets for their hidden agendas. All they have to give is a fiery speech to get us all going and stop us from thinking as individuals.

As human individuals, we don’t grow horns or wings. Our evolution happens right before our eyes. Unfortunately we kill each other for different reasons but our emotions, whether they are individual or collective, are the biggest culprits, so we all get taken by our emotions.

Just imagine if we stop that and work together as one entity. We will reach further and faster to achieve whatever we are here for. Surely group politics was a tool to survive and simultaneously find our rhythm to evolve by slowing down to adapt but humanity has to evolve and take a plunge into the next step.  We can stop our barbaric practices against each other to prove that we are an evolved specie who do not believe in group politics.

We are one humanity.

There will always be problems with someone evolving faster than others individually or collectively. We may believe differently but if we learn to believe that we all are human beings and we belong to one humanity as a whole and this can lead us to the point that we can overcome at least our politics related wars. The United Nations is already there but it is meaningless if there is no consensuses because we have few groups of people, or in other words nations with the political powers of veto and it is not based on population either.

We should live honestly, not only individually, but as groups as well. We should reciprocate not only as individuals but as groups as well so we can make each other and everyone in the world collectively to humanity’s better life.

As a soul God does not need your help but when you help each other and the less fortunate around the world you are reciprocating with God for your free oxygen and a good healthy and functioning body. It should never stop at the individual level. If you believe you belong to humanity and God as a whole, it does not matter who or what you are born as which I mean, as your identity. You automatically over ride everything and become a human being. I believe no one has to change or feel bad about their identities as a race, nation, gender or religion or should feel inferior or superior compared to others if you whole and kindheartedly learn your real identity.

A MORTAL BEING.

I would rather appreciate my living years to be useful to all of humanity before I die. If we worship for status, power, control or the material things what we don’t have or lack in our living years it is self defeating. It is a kind of defeating the purpose if we want them after  we die because we don’t really know, or it is not a common knowledge what is really deeded or what do we even enjoy as a soul. If you think rivers of honey and milk  or even virgins would do it for you, you would have to remember one thing that those things are for a physically living body and brain not as a soul or a dead body and brain. You can only appreciate and enjoy the taste of food, sex or the feelings of having material possessions or power over others while we have a living and functioning body. Without the living and physically functioning body all bets are off and if you fear from the heat of the fire or the torture of the grave, it only burns and hurts the physical body as well. Do you believe that would it hurt as a soul? Not if you have lived your living years honestly without committing spiritual crimes. Personally and logically I don’t believe you can burn a soul unless you have committed some crimes that your soul is burdened with.

To be honest I have no idea and no I have not met anybody that came back from the dead. To date, we do not have video evidence that confirms what happens after we die. To me I don’t know because I am not dead yet, so I can’t be so sure about it.  I can’t tell you for certain anything about dying and coming back to life. If someone is telling you for a certainty that they are lying to you because an evolving entity can’t be certain for anything.

For now what I know that love loss related pain hurts deeply in the core to all living human beings so I would relate that pain as a pain of the soul. If you commit a crime that hurts someone at that level you are committing a spiritual crime which has the potential to hurt you as well.

Robbing someone of their loved ones especially if they are innocents has to be and should be recognized as a spiritual crime. When this it is done in Holy Wars we politically justify and call it that is done in the name of God. To me this is the biggest lie coming from emotionally and politically tainted religions. 

It is plain and simple that it can not be justified regardless of what and how you politically twist it because, I believe even one innocent’s blood is and should be pricier than all the religious beliefs put together. If you believe that you will go to heaven by robbing someone of love especially if they are innocent ones, it is highly unlikely and yes even if it is done in the name of your belonging religion. Spiritually and logically it can not be true because we all have been personally and individually blessed with a free will by God. Free will comes with personal responsibilities so following your group’s political views emotionally and blindly has a price to pay because it could lead you to commit spiritual crimes. 

When people pray, sacrifice and worship for good things in their living years it can makes sense to me. When they pray for the same things like security and easy living in heaven or life after death, they must put their honest efforts to achieve whatever they want to achieve in their lives first and then get their ducks in line to know what is needed in life after death. Life after death surely does not need material things.

When it comes to what they want after their living years or what they want in heaven, they should know the clear differences between the needs of physically living years and needs of the things as a soul. When you have no physical body how are you going to enjoy honey, milk or even virgins? To me logically it just does not make any sense. If it does to you, you have to learn more about the reasons why would God granted us a free will and an evolving living body and brain to human beings.

I know religion starts where our logic fails. It is a clear difference in the needs of  living individuals and the dead ones as souls. As it is, its a complex issue. Why would you put God through a task to give you a new and permanently young physical body?

After our loved one dies, why do you think we divide the material things of the dead one among their children or other loved ones? It is because those things don’t mean anything to the dead one or their soul.

Now look at it this way, if for whatever reason you are lacking whatever in your living years and you want it in the heaven, do you think this is possible? From security to nice foods and even virgins or whatever you value in your living years their value changes to nothing after you lose your living body and brain.

You will have to have heaven just like the earth and with a physical body to enjoy material things like a nice house with the bricks of Gold and silver.  To have good food and an obedient wife or a husband or have them by the dozens,  is this what you expect when you die than you should always remember you have to have a physical body to enjoy these things.

If you don’t even believe in reincarnation how would it be possible for God to please you after you are dead? I want everyone to come out of their pigeon holes and ask these tough questions, not only to themselves but the groups they choose to belong to as well. These group leaders will point to the Holy Books as proof that this will happen. Regardless of what they say in these Books, this killing each other business has to stop with our knowledge holy or not. If our holy knowledge could not stop it in more than two thousand years, why do you still believe it would do it in next two years. Our problems are not only related to the holy books or some isms or democracy. Our problems are related with our evolving nature so our knowledge could never be frozen or encased, nor we can have an ultimate knowledge until we reach our 100% potential. If you believe science has debunked the use of minimal brain power theory my question is, then why are we still learning about new things everyday? We may be are using our brain power but what about the evolutionary nature?

We still are not able to comprehend what is before birth and after death other than the religious scenarios and we have no capabilities to understand how are we able to pass our intelligence, even to our babies, we are smarter these days even as new born. I just wrote a blog about a toddler problem solving as getting down from a bed by throwing pillows to the ground for a soft landing and remembering  to take along a soother.  It is not a good thing to even argue about never mind kill each other over our evolving knowledge.

Egyptians and Chinese believed that they would need their material possessions even in their life after death. We, in our living years, are able to see tomb robbing taking place while the owners cannot do anything about it. Maybe there should be a movie about the mummy’s revenge for tomb robbing. The point is that we need to put things in perspectives because it is a serious matter.

A soul’s needs are not known by a physical body and brain needs are not known also. Read Your Body and Brain.

As a living being we need to feed all three and if you try to feed the wrong things, you need to judge and clearly define what is for. A physical body and brain would always push you to fit in as well as attempt to impress others or you would be under a strong desire to be admired by others around. Feeding your soul can’t be achieved by feeding a living body and brain. Knowing, clearly, defining and understanding the YOU part in the equation can help to know the differences.

My main goal is to make a case about not to kill each other over your belief systems.Do not put doubts in anyone’s religious beliefs. I believe, as an individual, we all come into life with free will related responsibilities. Our actions have consequences so by not doing what we don’t like done to us or to our loved ones we can create peace and that peace is not only for between conflicting groups it can help us to evolve socially enough to respect each other.

If you are told to commit a spiritual crime in the name of your  group, you are not supposed to act until you have judged it individually and looked at it with your personal and logical sense of justice. Whether it is right or wrong, that is your personal choice because you came with free will. Your sense of justice and the knowledge that you have a personal responsibility of your own actions. If you are told that you will be rewarded by God in heaven, always remember you will always be responsible for your actions because God can easily say you have been blessed with free will for a reason. If you are acting in the name of your chosen group and yes even if it is for your religion, it still  is going to be you who is responsible for your actions. If you expect God would reward you for killing and robbing someone of love, you have been sold to the politics of sense of the group you have chosen to join and follow their rules.

When you learn to own what actions you take, you will accept and understand that you are following God’s order because you are within yourself a mini God. You just have to open that door with the key you have been provided with. Robbing someone of one’s love especially if they are innocents is clearly related with politics and God would not have anything to do with it. You can be hurting yourself at the soul level if you just blindly follow anything this group asks you to do. Your Body and Brain will stop hurting if you die but if you are hurt at the soul level all promises of your  groups become questionable and you can suffer from within and maybe for eternity.

Live life with a clean soul so you can be in your personal heaven in this life and even after the death of your physical body. Better yet, try to live this life nurturing all three parts. These parts: Body, Brain and Soul  must be nurtured in your living years so you don’t have to worry about  these parts after death. The greed of the things that matter in your living years and wanting those things in heaven just does not make sense because you don’t understand what a soul enjoys after the physicality of the body and brain has been taken away.

Love triangle part two.

One of my client was married with his wife for a long time, unfortunately she got sick and passed away. He went to spread her ashes on her favorite spot that she loved to visit when she was still alive. A year later he went there to keep her memories alive. 

Since we have been talking in the past and he respected my opinions and suggestions he was open to some of my suggestions. I suggested that he should give some money to feed the hungry, doing this in her name or memory every year instead of visiting her favorite spot. That way the living can benefit from your contribution at the same time. He agreed that this was a good suggestion so he decided to do that instead of visiting her favorite spot. I believe going to the grave site may feel good but helping someone in need in the name of the dead loved ones is a lot more meaningful.

Love is something we need to explore and understand so I came up with the idea of a love triangle. My understanding is that we all are encased with it from all angles of our being, regardless of what we are deep inside. Love can have a profound impact on us whether we lose it or gain it. Our passionate love is with our life or even a temporary partner. If we have children or family our love evolves into instinctive love. Going a step further, we love our beloved humanity as well ,so I call it a universal love. I divided it into equal parts so as a (CEO)  (individual who is in charge of my life) we don’t have trouble solving our love related problems.

You can’t even comprehend the word of love if you can’t trust never mind the meaning of love. Understanding human relationships depend on the meaning of love. You can learn from parents, society, and eventually from a lover or lovers in your life but you only learn their version of it, you can only experience your version within yourself but without trust it can be meaningless. 

The real love enlightenment is within you, if you can ever get a chance to get there. You can hear stories, read books, watch movies, TV or go to internet and Google everything about it. By the time you get to the age to know love you have already learned about the other social ills as well, they can effect or dictate your ability to love. Parents install knowledge not to trust strangers, society says life can be ugly because you have to learn about the social and spiritual crimes. Then the money issues come along. From class, race and gender inequality to religious extreme and nationalities to conflicting groups or our wars can really rob the trust not only with each other and even with God simultaneously.

Everyone preaches love is a good and Godly thing yet they punish people for straying from the family values, religious boundaries and class differences and still claim love without God’s will is not possible. When you grow up listening to hypocritically preached knowledge of love without the trust, God without the presence of security, how can you love unconditionally and how can you believe in God blindly.

Most people around want to see others live like a perfect being yet personally its okay to be imperfect. This is not only hypocrisy at its best, its a mental health issue. If you are taught love and trust simultaneously its fine with me but if you are taught otherwise you have got a problem of not trusting meaning you personally are unable to love, or even have faith in God because blind trust and love go hand in hand.We don’t know anything about God if we don’t trust yet we are taught to believe in God blindly.

If you can’t understand your self or your standing in your life, your ability to reciprocate with God or even understanding of God can be questionable. Regardless of the faith system you are born into, you have to understand the purpose of your life. As you can see everyone has a life story, some good some bad and some a combination of both and some change their life story with making choices at will. If you can think beyond your day today life you will be able to see the personal and individual importance.

You are taught and you may feel that you are only connected to a group of people you belong to but in reality you are an independent entity and are directly connected to God.

We all come in life yet we don’t know how we end up alive or feel being alive. The line between life and death is so thin that you are alive one moment and dead the other yet the humanity still carries on with or without you. When we reciprocate with God we help each other but we sure kill each other as well. We help to raise our children and feel great about doing it. Ever wonder why do we feel good to help others? If you can understand that, you have taken your first step to understand love and the purpose of your life.

If your love triangle is still intact you can love, trust and actually believe in God otherwise it is hard to understand God, personal and individual meanings of life and love.

Its everyone’s responsibility to understand the meanings of our lives yet we have been bombarded with the conflicting education to love. Dog eat dog philosophy has been preached as a knowledge written in between lines. We are taught to love but without given love, we are taught not to trust your fellow human beings but believe in God. As if God is some foreign entity who can come and solve all our problems by just believing in God. If you look for God out there, up in the sky or in the space somewhere without digging into yourself or trusting your fellow human beings you would never solve this riddle. If you put God on the pedestal and believe in perfect God just look into our history how many innocents have been killed in the name of God. Our religious wars have been taking tole on humanity a lot more than we can even think. We kill in the name of nationalism as well so count and put the blame where it belongs.I don’t blame God to be imperfect because I believe God is evolving with us, so perfection of God will come with our evolution. If we understand ourselves we will create a God no one can complain about.

I believe and insist that all human knowledge should be used for the betterment of the humanity. If we need to enhance even our religious knowledge we should do so. So no caps, ceilings or freezing on the human knowledge especially when it comes to constitutions, and religions. It may not be possible in my life time but that is where humanity should be evolved. We are evolving but it is not with the balance.  When you look at the history it draws quit a grim picture of God yet it is a picture of humanity in evolution. That is why I believe in no caps, ceilings or freezing on any kind of human knowledge so we can rise up to the challenges as they arise.

I believe throughout our history we have been making the individual inferior, valueless and unimportant. We have been labeling them as sinners as well so they seek external authority to belong to, to feel valuable. They have been brain washed to the point that they have accepted to be puppets to be controlled as if they mean nothing as an individual. They will gladly commit spiritual crimes in the name of their belonging groups, they have no self identities because that is all they know and made to feel.

If you give them value, respect their intelligence and help them to understand their importance they will take charge to be responsible for their actions, otherwise they will stay just like other creatures. They mark their territories, may not be by pissing but same thing in different fission. We spouse to be an evolving entity even as God, just look at us what we have been and are doing to each other. Lack of trust within you is a problem created by our authorities for political reasons. You are to believe yet can’t trust is a conflicting knowledge so only you personally can fix your inner problems by reaching within, knowing and trusting yourself.

Any group of people unless it is the humanity as a whole is a political entity regardless of what they call themselves. Naturally they all want the political power and control. It may be a state or a religion, its all about politically controlling the population. Whether its race, color, gender, nation or religion they can’t be pure of prejudice or discrimination because of the political power. The question is why we are so hung up with our group politics and identities? Why human beings can’t seem to evolve beyond this hurdle? Is it our individual insecurity and if it is we need to start to empower the individual by educating about their real identity.

Why we all want to worship the same God differently yet as individual’s our practical prayers are the same we serve others to please God yet feel good about ourselves. Universal language is spirituality it has no religious patent or superiority related issues.  Its not the way you say or what language you say  your prayers. Its your spiritual actions what makes a meaningful prayers, not bowing down in obedience to God. From personal satisfaction to benefiting other human beings to pleasing God, it is all related with you as an individual and being beyond your group politics.

There are plenty of people who try to intellectualize life by connecting problems to certain behaviors, events or circumstances and try to give solutions into all societies but they never cross the lines of their sense of belonging to their belonging groups. Our history has been, is and will be full of books we even have holly books, we have lots of knowledge to go around but personal mortality related common sense has been hijacked by the politics of our sense of belonging to our groups.

Any and all human knowledge individual or collective should be for improvements and enhancement of the individual and humanity simultaneously for living years. From roads and bridges to every scientific, technological, medical, social and spiritual knowledge is all there and it should all be accommodating to the changes to our evolution. Our advancements in scientific, technology or medicine are all based on perusing our evolution. Unfortunately we seem to take advantages to use our knowledge to construct some to destruct other human beings. Its just because of our out of control politics of our sense of belonging. Even if we somehow are able to cross these lines to join humanity as a whole we still will have to deal with individual greed and power as well. Understanding personal mortality can help but as young individuals, either we are not taught or we just ignore the facts of life because we feel that we are going to live forever. We keep stepping on others to climb up yet just to disappear.

Before conception, or after death may seem vivid by the explanations of our religions or belief systems but still it is not worth putting all our eggs into that basket and killing each other over it. We need to spiritually evolve so we can get out of our group politics to join humanity as a whole. Is it possible? Dam right it is possible just look around but beyond our religious differences and wars. Few years ago when Ebola was spreading whole world came together to stop it because it was going to spread beyond the borders, humanity comes together but our political leaders want to stay in power and be elected again and again so the personal interest override the interest of humanity as a whole. Our space station is not run by one nation nor our internet is one nation game. The problems humanity is facing can’t be stopped by building walls, global warming can’t be fenced in. Right now we are worried about the political refugees, what are we going to do when global warming related migration happens.

If you still feel for your race, gender, nation or religions, those days are gone so you should learn to get with time and smell the stink of the major changes in the air building walls are not going to cut it. Humanity has a lot bigger fish to fry.

Universal love is one of the main component of love triangle, if you don’t learn to balance your love triangle, you would not only individually but collectively suffer and that suffering is not only soul related. We don’t just need to learn to trust each other as an individual we need to learn to trust each other as humanity. If you are stuck in the group politics, it is time to learn beyond the installed knowledge because you are not the installed data as an individual you are way way beyond all that.

Just took a break and watch some TV Fareed Zakaria on CNN was taking to rock star Bono interestingly about the same thing what I have been writing. Fareed Zakaria on GPS 9-23-18.

Bono said and I quote

Europe needs to go from being seen as bore, a bureaucracy, a technical project to being what it is: A grand, inspiring idea.”

And an other place he said and I

Quote” “Europe is a thought which needs to become a feelings”. End quote.

I believe it is not just exclusive to just Europe, America, or another continent it is all about the whole world as one planet. You can love to be connected to certain nation or religion but love can’t be separated from the human beings, regardless of whether its passionate love, instinctive love or universal love its all coming from the human individuals so believing that some out door entity like nation or religion is going to educate us about love is false because we all come ripped with it from before our birth. Without human beings any idea of love to nation or religion is a fools idea because of our evolutionary nature.

Human beings have been trying to deal with love with by intellectualizing according to their presently acceptable and given knowledge of their belonging groups. Which I believe is always evolving so the consensuses can’t be found. Just like the religious knowledge we just can’t agree and it is not because of what it is, it is because of the powerful sense of belonging to our belonging groups.

Love and hate go hand in hand and the biggest problem is that you can’t just intellectualize emotions with emotions. If we are going to do that, not only you can see in the history as we evolve individually you feel the feelings at different level personally even at different age in the same life time.

When the knowledge is written in between the lines of your scripture and if you belong to a conservative belonging group, you are not going to be able to read everything the same way you think you should. Emotions would dictate even your way of thinking. Logical or illogical is a separate issue, but I believe you still are the one who is responsible for your actions individually.  Should you be punished for what you have been taught? Yes if you don’t use your free will and you are a grown up but are ignorantly passionate about your sense of belonging to the politics of your belonging group. A spiritual crime is a crime yes even if you have committed it for your belonging group.

Our politicians known this human weakness since beginning, so they manipulate the emotionally charged populations by manipulating the truth. According to my understanding this problem has one solution and that is individuals educating themselves not only above and beyond the politics of sense of belonging but about the deep inside of themselves as well to find out who lives in their body. If you feel too much about everything and are passionate even about your sport team, national politics and your religion. You are taught to believe that you belong to the best of the best and you should be the best and treated as such, you are heading towards spiritual discourse even your intentions are good.

Its time to acknowledge our personal shortcomings and take charge to become responsible for our personal actions. Feeling passion is one thing and acting out is an other, especially when you join in as a mob to commit spiritual crimes against innocent beings for the politics of your belonging group.

My explanation about who is an innocent being may not be agreed upon by some but I am going to mention it anyway. It is not only the children of the opposing groups it is each and every individual who does not politically agree with their own belonging groups policies. So bombing indiscriminately against the opposing groups which is a common practice in our conflicts, is totally wrong at least spiritually. Is it easy to deal with the conflicts spiritually? No its not but the facts are facts, we are an evolving entity and we will have to go through learning process. In my opinion you just can’t mix spirituality with politics. In politics you can bend the truth but spiritually you just can’t even lie to yourself and there is no middle ground plain and simple, its between you and you.

Either you choose politics or spirituality to function in everyday life, you can choose to feed your brain and body to live comfortable life as just a creature and neglect the you part by ignoring spirituality or you can create balance to be comfortable in your skin spiritually as well.

Religious extreme is a politically tainted action that means it is not spiritual so do you want to do good things as an individual in your living years? If you do you have to learn to be honest to yourself. When you strain out the politics from your religious beliefs you will find real spirituality.

Now look at it how many innocents get killed in our political conflicts, and I call all religious conflicts political conflicts because you just can’t mess up spirituality with insecurity related individual or collective human actions. My question is are we evolving or devolving because of your belonging religion? You be the judge because we use to kill each other with the swords, spears and arrows one individual at a time, today it is a different ball game. Yes it does matter that you take charge and become responsible of your individual actions.

When your group starts to even put sanctions on others it hurts the same way to the innocents. Never mind the wars and killings hurting someone innocent even financially is a spiritual crime. If you want to bring opposing group to their knees so they conform to your belonging group‘s needs is a non spiritual action. Human beings  have been committing this spiritual crime since the dawn of civilization and its time to wake up to see the wrong is wrong no matter who is committing it.

Political wars are not fair as the old saying goes everything is a fair game in war and love, I think its time to grow up from those old sayings and take our individual responsibility. If you are part of it individually you have to know about spirituality for yourself.

Our wars are all designed to hurt the opposing group indiscriminately so if your belonging group is spiritually hurting innocents, that means it is not only hurting others it is spiritually hurting you as well.

When you punish someone just because the way they look like or they belong to the opposing group regardless of their individual views of life, your actions are automatically related with the prejudice and discrimination. Prejudice and discrimination has no borders it is in all human societies so these are the  collective problem and should be eradicated with collective efforts from all humanity. It sure is not going to happen from the top down because we are in this predicament because of our group politics for thousands of years. So far it did not bring peace on earth, so it is a failed experiment. Now it is  up to the individuals to educate themselves with the self value, importance and authority because we all have free will and we are the foundation of our groups in today’s world popularity of the equal human rights is a clear sign that the individual is waking up to assume the power from our typical authorities. 

We need to find the individual guilty for their individual actions not just because the way they look like or the way they believe in God. That is why I believe prejudice and discrimination is a clear violation of spirituality and equal human rights and yes even if it is coming from our own religious knowledge.

Each and everyone of us has to draw the personal line with the personal sense of justice to point out to our authorities  when they cross the lines to commit spiritual crimes.

Since human beings have free will we all are personally responsible for our actions. All our justice systems would collapse if we as individuals ignore and commit crimes. Law and orders of the lands is one thing but spiritual crimes are an other. It highly depends on the individual to assert and take charge of personal actions, individually. We should not let the politics of our belonging groups override our personal values and spiritual sense of justice. Unfortunately our passionate feelings towards our belonging groups override this personal sense of justice and personal values. We get all worked up by the passionate speeches from our passionate leaders of our belonging groups. People still feel the need to belong to a group of people because that is all we have been taught and we know.Belonging to humanity as a whole is a new paradigm and it would be fought passionately by the people in authority position.

A human being is not like an other creature who just need to eat, shit and reproduce, we all are an entity within. Who has a free will and is able to think and feel at the same time. We have memory and we are able to create not only future but create comfort or chaos for coming generations. We are an entity who functions way above the animal instincts. Since our thinking create our feelings we should make sure our knowledge produces good feelings for us as an individual and everyone around not regrets related mental health issues.

We have evolved from a past where we needed hands, backs and shoulders of our belonging groups to survive. Today we don’t live in the bush or caves and are not threatened by the creatures to be eaten, we have evolved to the point that we help the wild life to survive. We have built mega cities for our convenience. We have advanced in our modern scientific, technological and medical knowledge but our past is like an old wound some people don’t like it to heal so they keep scratching it.

Just imagine if you have a kid who has a wound and he/ she keep scratching it you are going to say stop it and let it heal, because you know it has the potential to get infected or leave a permanent scaring. Now imagine if it is you who does not want that wound to heal or not only it is you, it is your family, community and religion who does not want it to heal how would you feel about that accusation?.

Are you contributing in the healing process or it is the other way around?. Should we let that happen? Not only it is wrong for us as an individual or community it is wrong as a humanity as well. As human beings or as humanity as a whole we have to understand our evolving nature. We don’t just have memory we can remember history so it is kind of inevitable to have past which is not so perfect. If everyone has a past history of violence with the memory we can’t evolve into peace. We have people right now morning the loss of prophet Mohammad’s grandsons which had happened fourteen hundred years ago. So yes we have and have the potential to carry on the scars of past by scratching them for thousands of years.

It is like a group mental health issue you just can’t help it by individual interventions. Not easy to deal with because a depress individual always thinks that past was great but just that incident can’t be overcome but if I only can go back to my glory days things would be just perfect to be happy.

NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. The problem is if an individual does it, its not as bad as it is when we do it collectively. Since we have the potential to kill each other for the rest of our existence THEN I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT. I don’t care what religious back ground you have, naturally human beings are to evolve and evolution requires peace and harmony. If you just can’t come out and take responsibility of your present actions either way you are a hindrance not a contributor to the human evolution.

Its like beating the trail a snake has left behind fourteen hundred years ago. Logically we all should stay in present, I tell my clients that you are standing in your mortal life one foot forward and one in the back. Front one in the future and the back one in the past, remember future is not here so it is not a reality yet and past is gone to a place where you can’t go back to change anything for your liking, so don’t piss on the present to make your whole life as a bad experience. Your actions today will go long way for you individually. If for whatever reason you have had a bad day, you will add that to your life as a bad day. If you make a habit of ruining your day because of the fear and anxiety of the future or with a bad memory of the past, you may end up looking back at your life as a failed experience and you have the responsibility to be a CEO of your personal life.

Since you are blessed with the free will from God and your umbilical cord has been cut, you are it, you are the big kahuna, a CEO who calls the shots so don’t let any one individual, a group of people or a belief system make your life a miserable or a failed experience. It is yours and it is exclusively between you and God. Since God did the job by blessing you with a functioning body and oxygen now it is up to you how you manage your life as an individual.

Bring some spiritual purity to your thoughts so your feelings are on the solid foundation of spirituality related sense of belonging to humanity as a whole. Politically tainted race, nationalism, and religions are political entities so spirituality runs from them regardless of what they claim. You are an independent entity who is directly connected to God and you are it yourself. You don’t need identities you are wrapped up with, peel them one at a time and you will find a good decent human being living inside of you, who wants to give everyone, seek and receive equal human rights. Don’t let anyone scratch your wounds especially yourself and let the healing begin because you are responsible for your successful experience of living years. 

I remember growing up during this time I went with my friends to watch people flogging themselves with the chained knifes to bleed for the mourning the loss of Imam Hussein who was the grand son of prophet Mohammad. They recreated the whole seen that happened fourteen hundred years ago. After all that time has passed people still scratch those wounds and still kill each other over what had happened.

Middle eastern conflicts may appear to be oil and energy related but underlying conflict has always been between Shea and Sunni sects of Islam. They have been fighting and killing each other for a far too long time. Ireland religious conflict went on for a long time as well. My question is that why do we fight and kill over our belief systems so passionately? Sure we are taught to protect and preach to keep our differences alive for our belonging groups survival but what about our evolutionary nature. Are we going to kill each other with our modern weaponry to finish the job and blame God for it? When and how are we going to evolve enough to put things behind or in perspective?

We as an individual come into this life to live and let live with equal human rights period. Why our religions can’t get it? Why we can’t solve our conflicts especially when it comes to religions, just look at the Israel, Jerusalem conflicts has been going on for more than two thousand years or even more. Where is the disconnection? I believe what I have been pointing towards in this whole blog is closely related to the individual who is passionate to stoke the fire of conflicts rather than taking charge to become a CEO who speaks their mind to put the belonging groups in their place. Especially give evolutionary knowledge to the extremists of every,race, religion or nation to join in for the humanity instead of a group of people. The political interests of the groups has not served the humanity for the better for thousands of years so it is time to change the course of belonging to humanity as a whole instead.

If we as an individual stop passionately stoking the fire of conflicts we can change the way we govern our groups. If as individuals we don’t let ourselves be used by the group politics and stop scratching our political wounds humanity will cross the boundary line which we need to cross to step into our new paradigm. It is time for the individual to see it clearly and take charge of humanity as a whole. Our responsibilities, our placings and our abilities have been undermined by the politically controlling authorities for far too long.

To me humanity is like a human body it has lots of different kind of cells, they all contribute in the well being of the body. Say a brain cell says to all the other cells hey I am the most important one without me you can’t function or live so I need some respect and special treatments from all of you. Heart jumps up and says no, no and no if I don’t supply you the oxygenated and nutrient rich blood you can‘t even function and survive. Skin cell speaks up and says if I don’t protect you all from infections there is no way in hell you can survive in this hostile environment. Liver says I need some respect as well I clean up your mess all the time to help you live, if I am not there the internal chaos would kill you all. Eventually colon had enough so it says you are all full of shit if I don’t provide you the nutrition you will die of starvation. Then the real you speaks up and say you are all important to me if you all are not there functioning I can’t live in this body and if I leave the whole game is over for all of us.

You can’t build the walls to function in the hostile environment yet even our modern-day medicine does that all the time by treating symptoms we all need to take responsibility to do our share, a doctor can help but we all need a life style to help ourselves as well. Simply put body needs soul and soul needs a body to live they both go hand in hand.

Now imagine humanity is the physical cells of the body of God, and we are killing each other, its like God has an auto immune disorder or disease whatever you call it, it is a sickness regardless. Since God is the soul for the body, body can’t function without it. If we seize to exist God can’t function either. We need to come together to understand our personal existence as a mortal being. We all especially as an individual are responsible for our actions because even God can’t survive without us. If some one says otherwise they have political intention to make the human individual worthless, inferior or even a sinner to control the population to rule so in the end of the day it is all political religion or no religion.

If it is a mullah, a priest, simply a regular religious extremist or a politician they all seek power and control. For sure they don’t want to lose it if they already have it, so they will come up with all what they have to control the general population. They will passionately help you to scratch your past related wound so you never heal and step into the new paradigm, which humanity needs so badly for thousands of years. They would keep the individual ignorant by preaching prejudice and discrimination against all other human beings. The question is would you let them to do that to you, what they have been doing for thousands of years? And what cell would you like to be if you were to live with your belonging group of cells? I would rather choose to be that entity who lives in a body to keep everyone functioning regardless of my mortal nature, so I can be compassionate to all human beings or the cells to keep living in harmony  to make God meaning full and alive in our mortal lives.