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Mortal individual with the free will and the knowledge of mortality at the same time, gives a birth to fear related control and imbalanced sense of belonging. These root causes are related with the social, emotional, mental, physical and personal spiritual ills.

Being temporary should make us humble and nicer to each other, but the spirituality of being nicer never gets its footing because it stands on the understanding of mortality. Our sense of belonging related ego always gets the best of us. The politics of sense of belonging has over powered the insecure individual who was spouse to be a free will using CEO.

I hope as we evolve the individual can see the importance of the personal and inner harmony, personal music where you speak when its your turn and stay quite when you should to and become a CEO, so you can balance the sense of belonging with the sense of freedom. Be a part of the ocean instead of the pond, prefer spirituality over the religion and take the responsibilities of personal actions. Understand the politics of carrot and stick hidden under the rules of all kind and self regulate to become spiritually evolved individual. Become a citizen of the humanity instead of becoming a victim of the fear and control based politics of sense of belonging.

An insecure individual automatically run to the belonging group to feel secure yet there is no security and control for the mortal individual and simply put no one gets around it.

The individual loses his/her individuality and sacrifices personal potential even his/her life. We seek and take pride of being a part of a religion, race or a nation. These days race, gender or even sexuality or even like mindedness is the foundation of the sense of belonging related prejudice.

Heterosexuals multiply to keep the humanity, God or all kind of groups alive, and the homosexuality works against the multiplication. That is not the reason enough to hate and violate their human rights. You can’t simply condemn people whom are not following the norm because our norms have been changing as we evolve. Just look around in the history and compare it to today’s societies.

I believe in reciprocation and it can be done regardless or sexual orientation. Its a responsibility of the individual to contribute and receive in his/her mortal life time because this relationship is in the core of the humanity.

No one should panic about the actions of certain segment of the population. If one does or as religious people do, they are only focused on it as if God or humanity is going to die with homosexual behavior. If it was going to happen it would have happened long time ago and it would not be because of the homosexuals.

Another thing shows from the religious responses, is that the human is the only one who is making life happen. This is the area where the real faith or I should say meaning full faith comes to really, really believe in God.

This lack of trust in God has been and is our major pit problem, this problem exists in the core from the individual to all the way up to the whole religions. We try to control with every fiber of our being and when we can’t control it then and only then we say it is the will of God. Our down fall throughout the history has been and is that we don’t really believe in God. Why can’t we get to that point before judging and killing each other.

Life is not only happening because of human intellect alone. I have hard time understanding the religious stances against the real belief in God. The controlling and strong actions against the human free will is a clear sign of lack of the trust and belief in God’s doing, which trickles down in the behavior of the individual causing a host of social and personal problems.

Believing everything is done by the individual is a pit problem, especially in the west, I personally believe it connects the individual to anxiety and frustration. When these two take hold of the individuals, they turn to God and pray according to the teachings of their belonging religions. When he/she still can’t control their environment in spite of the prayers, lack of belief in God start to grow.

This situation confuses them to the point that they start to lose, not only their faith in their religions and God, their confidence starts to go down as well. The faulted belief system is related to the education of carrot and stick related control philosophy which has been heavily taught by most religions. In the process the individual  loses the status of a CEO which they have been blessed to begin with. The CEO self regulates and becomes a good citizen without need of the fear of hell and greed of heaven.

This personal lack of faith and confidence leads the individual to lack of trust in all kind of belief systems including personal fiver and potential. ( Read Five bucks) If you are constantly told you are worth nothing and you have bought it just because it is coming from the authority figures you will really believe you are worth nothing, so you will find your worth in your belonging groups. You would feed into the politics of sense of belonging thus lose the value of your God given fiver and free will.

Just think why each and everyone of us is blessed with the free will and why some are stronger and successful yet a whole lot of us are not. You will find the differences in the personal belief systems.

If you carry the fear related control into your pit, deep inside you know it, you may get some symptom relief by going to mosque, church or any other place of prayers. You can go to councillor get some advice or meds from the doctor, but if you don’t go into your pit and deal with the dead dog (read the dead dog)  of your problems it will always be a symptoms relief which is all a okay by the specialists. When the cure is not even a goal, individual who is suffering should take some responsibilities of personal care. If you have to go into your pit and put two and two together of your mortality, you will start to live a mortal life with some quality instead of quality robing control.(Read the Dead Dog)

The fundamentals of your personal strength is to understand the responsibilities of your life and your CEO standings. Usually most of us have the ability to pull ourselves from the situation, events or circumstances and look into our problems from out side to really judge the importance of having a free will.

Only a CEO can make even the big things small with the thinking process, if you think you are having hard time processing and dealing with your personal problems, you need to look at your self as an independent entity instead of the extension of society you belong to.

If you don’t produce certain chemicals, you need to get some help from the meds because your way of thinking has created a physiological situation which needs to be looked after. If you deal with your problems with the multipronged approach it should involve spiritual health as well.

Just like a community is stronger but its even stronger with the stronger individuals, God is stronger with the stronger human beings because we are the physical expression of God.

You may enjoy if I say God lives in our imagination especially if you are an atheist but just look around and see where human imagination has brought us. What our imagination has created for us, is so powerful that no one can deny, if you still can’t see the power you are missing out on the realities existing right before your eyes. You can’t benefit from them because you are limiting the power of placebo which is beyond the understanding. Remember we still can’t access our full functioning of our brain powers so don’t underestimate the powers of imagination.

Adding happiness and contentment in a mortal life is an individual responsibility. It can rob you of the most important treasure in a mortal life or it can pay a big dividend by having a belief system of hope and optimism. If you choose not to believe or believe, it is your free will. Always remember that vary free will is there for you to make choices and in a temporary visit you want to accumulate some good times. If there is something, entity, education system or even personal behavior is robing your happiness, hope and optimism, you have to always, always keep your mortality and the value of the free will in front of you so you can guard you most important asset and yes it is your personal happiness and contentment.

If in general you consider yourself a realistic, but are a perpetual pessimist and think about the worse case scenarios all the time, you are missing the  important rules of mortal life.

Hope and optimism take you where God and belief systems live, your attitude has the potential to use God or belief system as a treasure to help you live a mortal life without the fear of death. This is the zone of your imagination, you should be using to make a mortal life worth living.

Just imagine if we did not have imagination, there would not be any progress or evolution, we still would be on the food chain of the other creatures, still be in the bush or cave living a very small and meaningless life without the cell phones.

Modern life just did not happen it evolved from that zone where I believe God exists. This is the whole internal universe which we minimize with the use of our limited intellect or I should say limited use of our brain.

If somehow you separate the individual from all the inventions and think that you are powerless or meaningless, think again. It is you the big kahuna, it is you who made things happened and still it is you who is making things happening. Good or Bad.

If you feel weak and useless you have to look at yourself with the brand new belief system from within you. You can’t buy into something you have been sold previously by the political authorities.

Since we have to have a law and order in our societies we have to have some rules but buying into something like you are a born sinner and worthless is not in your favor. Entities like religions or senses like sense of belonging to a group disregard the individual over their belief system. Thus it is the individual who has to take responsibility of the self esteem robing educations.

It is the individual who loses from self esteem related personal problems like pessimism, hopelessness and discontentment or even the most valuable gift of life regardless of having a free will.

Be a CEO, take charge, know everything behind the rules even the politics, question everything, learn to say why and yes including your personal behaviors should be question by you. The self regulation is best way to abide by the rules we need in the society, not only it is impossible to have a police man or a woman for every individual it is the most respectable way to live a mortal life.

 

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Its quit a sight if you see a boxing or ultimate fighting championship match, where the fighters are extremely tired and can’t lift their arms to hit the opponent because of the lactic acid build up. We all watch with a great desire to find out the results. We pay big money to buy the tickets, ever wonder why do we do that?

We even watch the dog fights, cock fights, and even the little birds fights and gamble over it. We watch action movies because they inspire us to become brave and honorable like the hero or heroin even if we have to kill the bad guys. What does it say about the level of the evolution and civilization of the human beings.

Right now I am not judging, questioning or taking side for the right or wrong. I am simply stating the fact that we fill the stadiums and pay a lot of money to watch people fight, the bloodier it is the better, violence in the movies is okay as well just look at the popularity of the action movies. I assume it is in our nature and nature is very powerful to deal with so we keep paying for the violence. Yet in general we want our governments to get rid of all the crimes from our societies. Quite a contrast we say we don’t want it but we like it to the point that we pay money for it.

Where do you think you stand personally? Ask the question to yourself and seek the answer, but be honest because it is after all learning about yourself. If we all know about ourselves, we can deal with our problems a lot better than we are doing right now.

If we fill the stadiums to watch all kind of sports especially the big ones, from pay per view to filling up the bars to watch wrestling, ultimate fighting championship or boxing makes these martial arts a big money entertainment.

The entertainment, what, an entertainment give me a break. This day and age, with this level of civilization and evolution in our belt. We still are dealing with the animal inside because it is that animal inside who enjoys the competition.

Stepping up a little further, I saw the diplomats meeting to find the solutions to stop the Syrian war. They were sitting and trying to negotiate the deals. Just could not help but to think that the whole world is a spectator who is waiting to find out who wins. I thought that the dead  little boy who was trying to come to Canada would be enough to people against the war but no the news of the Russian plan crash which killed several children takes over. We will talk about it for a while but we all have become so numb that even the death of the innocent children don’t effect us. We just keep robing each other of love and stay in the whirl pool of perpetual killing. (Read love triangle)

I saw it on TV news that the whole world has been watching the fighters trying to kill each other for four years, just watching people being killed by all means some drown trying to escape including that little boy now no one is talking about.

Over 250,000 dead, 11 millions homeless, according to the united nation in October 2015 alone 218,394 refugees arrived to Europe by sea. What is wrong with this picture, why do we let our politicians and the inner animal take over.

It feels like I am standing on the highway of civilization or evolution, hypothetically 100 miles long reaching to the mile one hundred is the full potential, when we reach there our knowledge would be complete. Until then all our conflicts are based on our incomplete knowledge. Where do we stand? Regardless of disproportion advances in our technology we are standing in the beginning of our journey, we still kill each other just weapons have changed. Our crimes are actually worse than before, I would say that because you can expect an animal to kill but a civilized human being is spouse to be above all the primitive desires or better than the  other creatures but we just keep acting like a bunch of baboons and can’t get over the primitive nature.

How are you doing as an evolved human being with the primitive foundation? Are you dealing with your inner animal? What do you think about yourself as an individual, do you fare as a good evolved human being? or you just follow the things your politicians or religious leaders say. Do you have a good sense of self or you feel you are just an extension of your belief system nation or race?

I personally like the action movies, I don’t go out of my way and pay to watch the fights but if it is on I would not turn the TV off yet I still consider myself well adjusted human being. Knowing that I find it entertaining to watch the action movies and fights makes me think, maybe I am not so evolved after all. I am in the process of evolution and not perfect yet, but I find it appalling that our conflicts can go on for that long,  cause that much damage and regardless of the use of exterminating weapons we sit and watch news of suffering. We openly pick sides and help the fighting instead of pushing our politicians to help in stopping the individual sufferings and consider joining the humanity not a group.

As long as its not happening to you its a game, especially if it carries a content of entertainment. We all have to individually evolve from this primitive behavior and come up with the world order which starts from with in the human individual one person at a time.

Our united nation should not just be a chatter box, it should have a justice system with law enforcement so we should have the ability to stop the conflicts like Iraq and Syria. Veto power to few nations is not a good example of democracy. By no means I believe democracy is the answer to all our problems but up till now this is the best we human have come up with, is it perfect to offer our coming generations I would say maybe because we want to give them the freedom of choice and dignity.

I believe if an individual has to follow the rules of the community, the communities have to follow the rules of humanity. No one individual, community, race, gender, nation or a religion should be above the law.

Our major problem is our politics of sense of belonging to our belonging groups, if we all as an individual start to believe that we belong to the humanity as a whole then and only then we can change our ancestral and primitive education of insecurities.  

After four years of chaos and all the loss we are still sitting talking peace, as a humanity, we can do better than that. All we have to do is to overcome  or at least balance the politics of sense of belonging and evolve to the level of today’s demands.

Every country, community or nation should review their constitutions, if the equal human rights don’t top the agenda or are a priority they should rise up to accept the responsibility to make changes. Law and order should be above and beyond the individual’s belief system. If any group insist to stick with the prejudice riddle governing systems they should be forced to change with the changing times by their own populations.

Evolution requires stress, so these people have to bring in the changes with their own efforts. If united nation is really a united nation with the constitution, justice system and police force to enforce the law of justice, then the people will follow. If there are select few privileged nations there can’t be peace and respect from the other nations. Most if not all human conflicts start from love loss, injustice and disrespect. Not everybody works together or effectively if people have to fight to get their justice or even the freedom.

If you individually see yourself as a cell of the God’s body, it would solve a lot of personal problems like sense of belonging, self esteem, control and ego-related issues. You see others and yourself at the same level and standings. You will be able to see others as the cells of God with the same purpose as yourself. You will  know the value of each and every cell of the body, you will know and accept their strengths and vulnerabilities, thus gaining from, and giving respect to everybody.

If you stay stuck in the politics of us and them, you belong to the politics of a certain group, especially when it comes to the race, gender, nations and the religions. This behavior actually belong to a low level of civilization or evolution.

According to Dr. Wayne Dyer there are four levels to understand.

1- You learn to own, you know this is my mom, my dad, my toy, my school, friend.

2- You learn to say that mine is better than yours, my dad is stronger than your dad, my school is better, my toy is better than yours.

3- You look for what is in it for me.

4- What can I do for you.

Personally I think when it comes to our sense of belonging to our groups we are taught and we actually believe that we are better than others. This behavior belongs to the level two on the scale of human evolution. This is where you always compare and claim that mine is better than others.

This has the potential to take things to passionately charged conflicts. If we all passionately believe that we are better than others, we all are guilty of prejudice and bigotry.

How and when, will we overcome these human shortcomings? Religions are God’s word, thus can’t be changed by anyone. If we cannot change them, then will we kill and destroy each other regardless the status God had blessed us. Yes each and everyone of us is potentially a natural CEO? According to God’s words we are a predictable, out of control human animal that is going to be extinct. I personally believe there is a reason for our free will and we are blessed with decision power to choose, so should one choose to use the free will and disobey the texts of God or obey and become extinct by choice. 

I like to understand everything, but only a certain amount of time and energy can be spared to worry about some things. Believing in God is one such thing, but creating rules for society and putting them out as God’s words is another thing. Human societies have been victims of their own group politics. Controlling population has been the goal and so different philosophies have been used. So far the best policy has been the human individual’s self-regulation which can be achieved through education. Religions have been using fear of God, fear of hell, strict rules and rewards of heaven to keep the individual in control. Should one buy that, automatically God becomes the judge who will reward or punish. This carrot and stick philosophy belongs to human being with all his/her insecurities and control. It has nothing to do with God. In spiritual world there is no politics. Period.

God cannot be feared or bribed, but humans can be. Spirituality is purely based on love and only love. The relationship between God and man is like negative and positive wires. You cannot light the bulb of knowledge with one. Interdependence is the foundation of human civilization. How and when God became a judge and a punisher? This is a human phenomenon. In God’s spiritual world, love is the only ingredient; fear and control is connected to human input. Human knowledge not only evolved from man or God; separately they both contributed in the human evolution.

Love is meeting of souls in the corners of the triangle. In passionate corner, a couple can enjoy the ultimate experience nature has to offer. Regardless of our great knowledge, the desire of reproduction is immense because it is beyond human intellect. Sex is in that vicinity where all creatures including human beings, passionately dance in the natural rhythm. Reproduction continues to replenish God’s body with new blood. But the best part is that as humans, we get to enjoy each other regardless of reproduction. This gift keeps people close to each other and love regardless of age. Society encourages that because the individuals can help each other and are not burden on others.

If you go in the corner of instinctive love, you love your children and family. But they are all separate souls, which is why you have differences. Otherwise nobody will be able to leave their family and form a new family. This process creates universal love which is the human family. If you look at each other with judgment, your knowledge and expectations have been formed by the education of the society you belong to. The trouble is that humans don’t just act with the hormones; we have a powerful memory as well.

Our actions are influenced by the education we receive from our elders, society and life experiences.

Our intellect has an impact on one’s happiness and miseries simultaneously. Morals and ethics are founded by our intellect. Not following the nature is not intellectual because if we deny ourselves from natural desires, we die in deprivation because of our mortality. People who live in deprivation like to push that education to everybody around. They go to the lengths to say that it is God’s wish that human beings should live in total control as they have been living. If you look at it critically, controlling people is the most miserable thing and is the cause of all the unhappiness in their lives. They actually want everybody else to live that way as well, even by force.

God created man in balance with the animal side, thus making the animal side legitimate as man himself. That is the bitter pill they cannot swallow. They have been consistently and openly criticizing the animalistic instinct. Yet it is very common to see the scandal-riddled lives of religious people. The people who live their lives with strict rules, morals and ethics feel that, they somehow are better than others, and if others follow what they preach the others will become better than the one whom don’t follow their education.  Becoming , thinking and believing  better than others is a flawed education in the core of our education systems. This the foundational flaw which causes prejudice, racism, nationalism and all the religious wars, and is a plague that humanity should get rid of.

If the body of God works with human individuals, then every man is serving God regardless of their belonging group. They all have a purpose to serve God, for some it may just be reproduction and another can have great impact on humanity in future even after their passing.

Spiritually everybody should be respected as a soul. If you live in a melting pot society, you will see mixed children everywhere. Behind all that is the power of love, the one comes from the soul and is not judgmental. It looks at human being as a human being who is a part of God’s body; different cells maybe but the same purpose of life, the restoration and survival of the humanity or the God’s body. You can cross all the lines, boundaries and rules of your belonging group to serve humanity and find your identity at the same time.

In the world, you have to be a CEO to understand the politics of religions, which is usually coated with spirituality. If you are a real priest, live a celibate life, sacrifice your life for God. It is your personal belief system . People are told that we are trying to save the soul by recruiting people in the religions. I believe it is a political trick to get you converted. If people really believe that they are doing God a service, they should look for spirituality. In spiritual world there is no judgment. If you feel that you are better than others, you are already committing a spiritual crime. Your good deeds should make you feel good about yourself which is a reward in itself. You cannot do that out of fear of God, in greed of heaven, to impress or for the admiration of people around you. You have to know the power of the politics of the sense of belonging.

The more knowledge you attain by receiving high degrees from universities, the more biased you become. Yet it should be the other way around. Humbleness should be the necklace worn by highly educated and evolved people. But they become a victim of sense of belonging by giving in to the ego. Their legends are influenced by their sense of belonging.

All our religious leaders have been the victims of this. They serve their belonging group, yet as a CEO, they should have seen the wars and killing of innocent people by the conflicting education they have forwarded. They created divisions by preaching that whoever converts to their teachings becomes better and goes to heaven. To me this is more political than spiritual. Living life to serve God is not limited to a certain group of people. It belongs to the whole humanity and everything we are connected with.

My logic against the prejudice and its origin is the sense of belonging which gets the best of us; yes even it got our prophets.

Regardless of our spirituality and evolution, we as nations, races, religions and even the genders can’t get around the prejudice, because right from the start our leaders of communities and eventually our religious leader sewed the seeds of the knowledge of level two, that if you join, you somehow become better than others and would go to heaven.

An individual may get some temporary false self-esteem, security and hope but getting them trenched into believing that they are better than others. To me this is the foundation of prejudice and in service to God all mankind is one entity.

I blame our past leading styles and politics for today’s problems, yes I blame our prophets as well for yesterdays todays and hopefully not for future killings because I have the expectations at least from the holy and the wiser men to foresee the future implications of their teachings.

Our prophets talked about the humanity but it was under their umbrella, personally I think it’s highly political, yet religions should be strictly spiritual. We should leave the politics and our logic for our governing and justice systems.

A solid CEO can understand his placement in the grand scheme of life and can judge himself as well. If you analyse every bit of your knowledge, what it belongs to and where it came from, you will be able to see and feel the power of sense of belonging. If you are able to understand your compulsions you will be able to stand above and assume your status of a CEO.

There is nothing wrong with belonging, as long as you belong to humanity and the source before everything. Your actions should be pure of judgmental knowledge you have piled up in your memory. Being a CEO, you can evolve yourself with the evolving knowledge, otherwise you will stay stuck with the forced upon knowledge.

Your identity is a CEO, not the individual who is influenced by the archaic, divisive and confrontational knowledge of prejudice. Remember, if you think or feel that you are better than others for whatever reason, whether it be a great religion, nation, color, race, nice body or looks, it is a sign of inferiority complex because you are trying to be someone who is looking for an identity. Being a CEO you know and have a strong connection directly with the source God or humanity you don’t have a hidden identity crisis.

Your identity is connected to the source, not the group you belong to. If you feel otherwise, you got some spiritual deficiencies to achieve the CEO status because you can’t challenge the status quo because of the lack of belief in the source. By attaining your CEO status, you can see yourself as an individual not a warrior ant or worker bee.

It is not a matter of believing in the holy books, nor is a question of whether they are God’s words. Humans are an entity with free will you can believe but you do not have to agree with. Question comes how can you disagree with if you believe?

The answer is the free will. Why human has been granted the free will?

Man can believe and not agree at the same time. If God is the creator, there must be a special wisdom behind this human power. The example of this relationship is at home. A father and or mother have created you knowing well that, when you become an adult you do not have to or you are not going to follow their rules. Parents know well in advance that you are born with the potential and they will respect your freedom. They actually feel pride when they see you making decisions. When you have your own opinion and wisdom, it means you have grown up. Being grown up means you have accumulated the knowledge from parents and belonging group, you have graduated and now you have the wisdom to even write. With this personal wisdom you can contribute to the well being and evolution of humanity.

This is the main reason why God has us blessed with the free will. Parents put themselves in vulnerable positions knowingly. They know their children would be free to live their lives as they choose. They can hope for the better but they do not have control on their children, as they become adults. God has bestowed free will because he has confidence in humans. But so far we have caused a lot of pain because of our divisions and wars, we kill each other it is exactly like an autoimmune disorder for God . God is just like a parent who would suffer from unhappiness if the children suffer.

Each and everyone of us is designed to be a CEO.

For thousands of years, humans have been brain washed to believe that the individual is meaningless and weak entity. Every governing system including religions has been trying to reduce the individual into a hamster on the wheel in the cage. Yet man is the third equation and has a CEO status by the creator. How one can reclaim the God given right to be a CEO?

1. Understand God’s wisdom behind the free will. Not only you will be able to see your responsibilities and potential but also the third side no one wants to talk about. If you become the third equation and you assume your status of a CEO you would be harder to control.

2. Everyone, including God and Devil, has a place in your life, but you still are the CEO.

3. We have a flexible nature and we need to know how to be politically correct. But our spiritual side will not let us live in peace if we make unwise moves.

4. Remember your mortality at all time we do want to be like angels, but they are inferior to the man because of his/her free will.

5. Respect yourself.

6. Religious teachings are fine if they help you live this mortal life better, but be aware when they make you believe that you are insignificant are born sinner, always remember all the God’s good work is done through you, you are that important don’t let anyone sell you what can cost you your self-esteem.

 7. If they tell you are better being a Muslim, Christian or Jew, it is untrue spiritually. It is just a political statement, you are measured by your character not by your belonging group.

8. Heaven is to live honestly with inner peace, and hell is to live with inner conflict.

9. You are connected to God in such a way that God has to live through you.

10. Our ethics are influenced by rules and rules change as we evolve so nothing is written in stone for the evolving human beings.

11. Sense of belonging is the mother of all egos. So keep your sense of freedom alive to offset the extreme and stay in balance. Young people with a strong sense of belonging can easily become extremists because of raging hormones. They consider themselves as an extension of their belonging group instead of being the individual, who is a CEO.

We all have a CEO inside us, but it is just a matter of education. This is the reason why suppressed societies are terrified of new education.

We are not going to grow horns or wings with the evolution. Knowing your authority as a CEO can pave the way to new horizons. Today, with Internet, groups are being swept away and  losing their powers even religions are being questioned yet the spirituality is growing.

Just like jihad against poverty, we should collect funds to fight against religious extremes. No country can fight terrorism alone. It should come from individuals all over the world.

Small communities can have some taxes to educate individuals, because everybody benefits in the long run. Rich and poor can only live in peace if the individual is educated to respect the other’s property.

Ego, pride and honor are the three children of sense of belonging to a group. If you can understand the mother you will know its  children thus you can understand more from the inside out instead of outside in.

If you are not impressed by your nature and have doubts about your potential, start with looking at yourself, and learn how do you function and what potentials you have.

From stoning to death to corporate punishment and everything in-between is done to conform and control the populations throughout the history. Somehow it is acceptable for the religious people to use force and fear of God for disciplining the young. Whether right or wrong, it is up to the individual to decide. Is it coming from God or is a manmade? One thing is clear to me is that in God’s world, everything is done in the language of love. If you pray to God out of fear, you will deviate sooner or later. If you pray or do good things for the greed of heaven, it is morally wrong because you cannot bribe God. Logically, it should be done out of love and sense of responsibility of the reciprocation.

You suppress your urges and can control your animalistic side better if you are at peace. Love is a spiritual gift from God. Humans supersede angels because of their ability to act out of love, not control, fear, greed or politics.

My daughter found a stray cat, called humane society, and decided to keep the cat. We then got everything done that was needed and now he is called Ben.  Very soon Ben went into the washroom, got hold of the toilet paper and you know what happened. So the toilet paper goes to the basket, my towel keeps getting dropped consistently on the floor. so now it has to be placed on the door hook instead of the hanger.

Blind strings were pulled, Picture frames from the tables were broken, some ornaments were thrown out because they were damaged, and the need to become a nose blind are the few things to talk about. To make it short there has been lot of acceptable adjustments, and regardless of all that we still have a cat name Ben.

Ever wonder why we make these acceptable adjustments? Why do we get a cat or a dog and take the responsibility to take it for a walk everyday regardless of the weather; and the kicker is that we have to pick up the poop as well. Why is it that important for the human beings to even take care of their pets? And why some time we care more for our pets than the other human beings? What is the driving force behind all that? These questions made me think about the acceptable adjustments.

I was surprised that it took a cat to give me the inspiration to understand acceptable adjustments. When you come to think of flexibility, we all carry it inside so we can make acceptable adjustments. Its just some of us can’t adjust and accommodate the changes, thus can’t see the potential and power the love. Naturally and directly it is ingrained and connected to our core, where we are raw the animals. (Read love triangle)

As a social creature we just can’t live our life choosing our intellect alone. The power of our nature can literally rob our happiness and contentment right out or our living years.

If we ignore our emotions and hormones or the chemicals related satisfactions of life we end up living our mortal lives at sub standard levels. Being an intellectual entity we can’t live life without the intellect either, so it falls on the shoulders of the individual to make the choices to create balance.

I personally believe in zigzagging through intellect and nature because emotional intellect holds very powerful cards especially when it comes to a mortal life.

Love is one of the core element not just installed by our education alone we bring it along from before birth. Our education changes people and turns them into the beasts. By nature we actually are ripened and dressed with the potential human jewellery before the fear based education of the prejudice. Just look at the us interacting as babies. There is an other reason why we can’t ignore the importance of love, since it effects our emotions it can bring extreme happiness, sadness and without a doubt mental health problems. If a child loses love it can have an impact on his/her life permanently.

Watch out for the love loss or robbing others of love in the name of God or your belonging group. In my views robbing someone of love is a spiritual crime because if it hurts you, you don’t want to inflict the same pain on the others.

Ask yourself why does it hurt to lose love, you will open up a different book you have not red yet. Emotional intellect is needed to solve our modern days problems. From our wars to individual animosity and related toll to the individual and the humanity is all related with the love loss. (Read love triangle).

 

Your life is your project and you are the CEO, if you have a problem you recognize it, acknowledge it, accept it, own it, and then do something about it. If we all start to do something about it we will be going places where we have not been. 

If you have extreme beliefs, always remember your mortality and your jewellery of compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love that is what makes you a human being. Wear your jewellery not only for the belonging group, but for yourself and all humanity as a whole because you are the thread of that fabric so the stronger you are stronger the fabric.

If you have prejudice in you, still acknowledge your mortality because a temporary journey should not be accompanied with inner demons of  judgements, they don’t only harm others, these inner demons have the potential to rob you of your happiness as well. In a temporary life there is nothing else more important than your inner happiness and contentment.

The harms of thinking superior to others can erode your happiness because in the end of the day deep inside you know that you are going to live like everyone else in the same boat. You have been fed the wrong information to believe that you are better than others. If you are better, then why do you have the same fait. You get hungry, sick, old and die the same way. What makes you special is, that you are a spiritual part of the same body of God or humanity. Genetically you have passed the same test as others did, so own it to be a human being. Wear your jewellery with pride even if you have parents with the disorder of prejudice. You don’t have to be exactly like your parents.

Our problems are related with our education so accepting being an evolving organism would help to acknowledge that our knowledge has never been complete. Thus straying from ancestral education is actually doing something about the foundational problem.

If the individual’s family installs the prejudice he/she has to work against it, as he/she becomes an adult. A logical look at the prejudice is understanding the source, misunderstanding of our sense of belonging is the culprit in the foundation of our wars and collective disputes so make sure to start making some acceptable adjustments.

I saw the blue jay’s exited fans on news, they were screaming and literally out of breath with emotions. Could not help to think about the sense of belonging and the mixed blend of the fans and even the team. Looking at the athletes, they are all mixed, Black, White, Latinos or from other areas of the world but the blue jays, and the fans were from all races as well but proud of being Canadian because blue jays are a Canadian team.

The teams are mixed with the players from all over the world but they play for certain nations, the nations can be proud or get mad about the  winning or losing, so what is at play?

It is the sense of belonging to the nation and that nation is not the same what we have had even fifty years ago. The things have been changing very fast so we have to change with the changes.

The teams have been created by the players to play for a price. You could be a Canadian but play for the Americans or vice versa or you can be Russian and play for the Americans or vice versa so what is blending all the differences. Is this the evolution people are so afraid of, if it is harmless in the sports it is harmless in the countries and religions as well we just have to over come our prejudice. What we need is to keep evolving so it spreads the tolerance. It can only happen if we all learn to make some acceptable adjustments.

If we all have been given the total freedom and equal rights, potentially we all should be able to live in a melting pot societies, but it can only be possible with the education of the sense of belonging to the humanity as a whole instead of a group. Israel can only solve the problems with equality, by force there is lots of love loss thus perpetual killings thus more love loss so the behaviours can’t change. The conflicts can go on for thousands of years if we don’t acknowledge the ramifications of the love loss.

Majority of the societies especially the developed ones have changed, just look at the populations. There are not only people from all over the world there are mixed and bi racial new generations. These factors compel the societies to accommodate all the changes and adopt to the changing times.

Conservatives lost badly in the elections because they are not changing according to the population, the equal individual human rights should be must in every political party. Conservatives shamelessly, unethically and unlawfully chose Christians from the refugees of Syria because they want the country to be a religious country. Canada is a secular democracy with the law and order which protect the individual human rights.

Fighting the changes is conservative and old group or religious ideologies so make sure not to stand on the wrong side because the time always judges you in the future. So make some acceptable adjustments now, otherwise time will leave you behind just like the Block Quebecois. Language police this day and age is a joke it is related with the extreme prejudice, and against the human rights. So we all need acceptable adjustments to help us cross the lines of prejudice to become a part of the humanity.

I learnt at early age about the power of being a social creature, I always went to the movies with the friends. Once I wanted to go, but my friend did not have the money, which made me realize that I was willing to pay his way regardless of not having very much money myself.

Sometime we need to know what is the money for, it is there for us to use it for our living years and whatever makes us happy we need to buy that. If it is looked at a little deeper you will find we all willingly spend our money on others, from family, friends, community, nation and religions do get their good share.

Mates have even bigger share because as a man or woman we all go to school to get a job to buy a home to get a mate to make a family. It is almost like we are hypnotized there was a term called twitter pated, I heard in a cartoon program while I was watching TV with my kids.

By the power of our nature, we dance with the rhythm of life yet we believe we are using our free will. The orders of nature have so much power that we can’t control, regardless of our education and evolution babies keep coming.

We work hard to get the mate, yet we don’t have the respect and trust for their contributions. We look at them as an enemy and react strongly with hate because of our potential love loss, we care more about the pets, pick up poop and do whatever is needed but not for the mates.  If everyone put the same efforts in the relationship with their mates as the pets we would have absolutely different divorce rate.  It is the love loss what makes people hate each other and makes them unable to make acceptable adjustments.

I did not want to go to the movie by my self. Why? there is a big why, Why do we gladly spend our money for our social needs. Why do we invite friends? Why do we get together? What makes us want to even have pets. Why a dog gets special treatment you take it for a walk and pick up the poop, what is so powerful behind all that, that we all have to make acceptable adjustments?

We can go that far for a dog or a cat, but not for our mates, we all have the ability and capacity to love, so we should have a little more respect for our mates especially when we have children with them. If you have to spend money, its there to spend for you on the things they are important to you.

Don’t use each other because you lose respect not only for each other you don’t have respect for yourself either, so it is not a good palace to be. The disappointments usually don’t exist if you don’t have expectations, so stand on your legs and respect your fiver so you don’t use others to get what you want, remember it is all about the reciprocation all around whether it be with God, society or mate.  Understanding the value or personal fiver should not be underestimated. There is a big difference between needs and wants so be a good CEO to know the difference.

The CEO with a free will looks at the whole life not at a department, moments, situations or circumstances. It is the requirement for the CEO to be able to look at life beyond the present issues, including mortality, if you can see life as a temporary period your perceptions can change and your response to your life circumstances can potentially be different. 

If you can’t look at your life beyond your relationship to any one particular department, you are underestimating and undermining your potential and potentially you can become destructive to your happiness department just because you are looking at your life as a small department.

It is like picking a tree in a big forest and running around it until it becomes so big and important that you even forget that the whole forest is there for your consumption. You just can’t limit your life to stop the journey of your potential.

If one does not start to look beyond that one particular department of life, he/she has the potential to make him/herself feel out of control, fearful and hopeless. Without hope we are spiritually bankrupt, any life style promoting a total control works against hope thus spirituality. Without personal hope and spirituality man is naked and is susceptible to self-destructive behavior, like listening to and becoming a victim of politics of the sense of belonging without the questioning.   

Personally I believe any individual who has knowledge which is extraordinary and coming from unexplainable source ranks in the lineup of Godly people. Einstein was a gifted man so was the Mozart or Leonardo da Vinci depending on how you look at the knowledge. Their extraordinary knowledge came to them from the same channel. I don’t compare science or music with each other or with religion but I like to look at the transformative power of knowledge, which can transform the  humanity.

The whole process of exploration is not completely understood or known. Extraordinary knowledge of science, music or religion is assigned for select few, not everyone has the ability to tap into the next level of horizon.

An Aa Haa moment or opening of the gates of inspirational knowledge has been the key for our evolution and destruction at the same time, yet we still are not able to explain with our rational knowledge.

I am naturally very curious and have had the thirst for the knowledge all my life. If any knowledge can help humanity, I am all for it. I respect spiritual side of all religions, but when it comes to politically charged argument I would like every individual to learn to separate spirituality from politics. I want everyone to know that the unaccountable number of human individual death and sufferings brought on to the mankind has always been related to the political side of the religions. Every religion claims that their knowledge is complete and is the way to God.

This vary statement is political and it stimulates the sense of belonging to the group not to the whole humanity.

If you ask any religious person, they will tell you that they wish the whole human population can come to their religion. What does that mean? It means that everybody else is wrong and only we are right.

If every religion is right that means, we would never be able to get out of our pigeon holes and will always stay in a competitive mode so we can conquer the world. This archaic politics has to change because we don’t go to war with the swords and spears any more.

Competition is not the only way to excel even that is the only way we have learnt from our ancestors. The knowledge of putting more efforts and succeeding into anything is not true for everyone. What happens if we don’t succeed regardless of the efforts, it could have the destructive implications on the individual.

From losing self-esteem to living a discontent life to unhappiness and resentment against God, these flaws are called spiritual deficiency.

To fix these deficiencies individual has to become a CEO so he/she can read lines as well as in-between the lines and understand all the knowledge as a whole not partially. 

How much control a man has? (It’s up to you) If you can claim that the next breath is in my control you have control, otherwise your control is dependent on the oxygen you breath in and you don’t have any control or even any contribution into the supply line of the oxygen.

I think as a CEO the individual should consider himself as a note, and God as an empty space. Then he should write a melody he can enjoy for his mortal life. The CEO has a responsibility to speak or sing when it’s his turn and be silent when the silence space is needed, to make a perfect harmony.

The harmony may be different for each individual, but the responsibilities are the same. As a CEO it’s your responsibility to create the melody what suits you in this temporary life. If you function best with more silence space in your life, that means you want the God to drive the car of your life. If it ends up in the ditch to you, it would be meant for you, but that is what God did not mean, because God created man as a CEO with the free will.

If you are on the other extreme you may be banging your drum without any rhythm, a lot of noise may make you feel in control but a lot of control makes life smaller than it can be, because if you are constantly running you may cut your life shorter and rob the quality you may have with the a good melody. By allowing the silent spaces to play a role  you make your temporary visit happy and healthy and potentially longer. You may enjoy your mortal life better than otherwise by using God’s wisdom to create a nicely rhythmic melody by using acceptable adjustments.

If you kook for the reasons of the popularity of the religions you will find the knowledge of civilization, which has brought us up from a savage beast to self sacrificing lamb, there is no doubt the religions have helped us to step up but it has taken us too far on the other side because now we have become victims of our sense of belonging.

After all the civilization and evolution we have learnt nothing more than the divisions, and surprisingly enough we are still entrenched, ready to kill and die for our religions.

As a CEO we need to look at our actions, if they cross the lines of humanity we have gone too far from the spirituality. Why does it take to an earthquake or a tsunami to bring us together? Why can’t we shake off the shekels of the politics of the sense of belonging? Why has politics taken over the spirituality of religions?

If the religions can’t come together to accept their differences and serve the humanity with spirituality as they were supposed to, then we all should become a CEO to compel them to follow the spirituality and nothing but. If we fight over who is right and who is wrong, it’s time to seek the knowledge pure of the politics of sense of belonging.

The biggest hurdle in the way of real civilization and spirituality is the sense of belonging. An individual has the most difficult time standing up against their own belonging group, because they can be labeled and condemned as traders.

No politician or a religious leader wants to lose the power so the individual has to become a CEO so he/she can judge the politics and vote for the whole humanity and spirituality over the clan, race, gender, nation and religions.

Please ignore the English and stay focus on the content.

I am going to start this one with a little story I heard from Dr. Wayne Dyer while watching him speak on TV. I don’t remember the same words but the idea is there.

“Quote”

A man was walking along and he noticed a butterfly trying to get out of its cocoon, he watched the butterfly struggling for a little while, then he decided to help it out. As he rips the cocoon, instead of flying away, butterfly just hobbled around because the butterfly’s wings were not grown and strong enough to the point that they could lift the body to fly. The body was still too heavy for little wings to fly. Thus it was not the help butterfly should have gotten. Some time the wisdom of the nature needs to be understood before actions.”End quote”

That man made a mistake but it was out of his compassion. As human beings we can make some mistakes to learn and understand more, but our intensions should be for the betterment of the humanity. Yet in reality we have people, whom don’t even think that clipping wings of some one is a mistake. From parents to politicians, to society to religions they make the same mistake with or without the good intensions. We have lot of our social, religious and other  governing systems designed to control the individual. They shamelessly and openly use the politics of sense of belonging to undermine the individual.

I believe in interdependence, but with the complete balance of reciprocation to achieve full potential. If the individual has a potential but has been controlled from reaching, in my views he/she can’t reciprocate, thus I would label it as non spiritual because an evolved human being strengthens humanity and God more than otherwise.Our traditions and customs are notorious to over protect yet in the process we rip the cocoon or clip the wings of even our own off springs.

If each and everyone of us has a fiver (read five bucks)  we all potentially are a CEO and are destined to contribute to benefit the humanity thus God while benefiting. Male or female has no limitations unless they are imposed by some entity, society, someone or even oneself.

If you stigmatize even one individual because of the stereo typing, you take a whole lot of fivers away from the equation for instance if the women don’t work and are limited to just bare the children and look after them they, themselves are dependent so a whole lot of people are taken out of the potential workforce which can help the community to progress and grow. Thus it has the potential to keep the individual and belonging society at substandard level or behind. You don’t have to go far to see these societies they are all over the world. One just has to be able to think, see and judge.

By no means I am joining any one particular group to judge, my focus is mainly on the equal human rights and the spiritual reciprocation of all fivers holding individuals, so as a humanity we all evolve to reach our potential what God has installed in all of us.

Every cell in our bodies has its assigned job, and it receives nutrient and oxygen rich blood to replenish and remove the junk by the completely functioning body to survive, function and reciprocate. We are in the same boat as our body cells, we all have to function to help the humanity and God to function.

If any political practice, tradition, custom or rule of governing, even if it is coming from the religions, keeps the owner of the fiver out of the ability to reciprocate, I would say it is against the God, humanity and spirituality simultaneously because even a functioning God is meaningless without the reciprocation of the human beings.

If you are a female and you think you can contribute more than just baring the children, you automatically are looking at yourself as a CEO of your life. Yes reproduction is a must for the God’s existence but life is not done just by the reproduction it is not only incomplete it seizes without the reciprocation. 

Reaching our potential individually and collectively is the purpose and meaning of our lives. The destination is not what the religions preach, it is all about the living years while you benefit and make the humanity and God move ahead towards the potential. The belief system of life after the death is important to give us hope and courage to push through the difficulties of living years. BUT 

After death is a world we don’t know anything about other than assumptions, so if someone lives for after death without reciprocation while alive they are on the wrong path, especially when you have people whom impose their belief systems by force. Forced belief systems are completely political thus non spiritual because if someone is blocked from reaching his/her potential to serve humanity by some entity or individuals they would be against the spirituality.

Religions usually impose and some societies allow the rules to inhibit the individual to reach his/her potential so he/she can be controlled. Control in my views is a fear related reaction, which means lack of trust and optimism and yes logically even lack of belief and God’s will.

You can’t just say that God is great and even the leafs on the trees can’t move without the will of God. Yet in your actions you don’t trust God, you have to take charge and control everything around yourself. I always have trouble understanding this logic of the religious people. They control, even kill over the control yet believe in God, if a leaf can’t move without the will of God, then why, and where does control come from, why do we have the extreme need for control. If you really believe in God then why would you want to change the outcomes according to your personal choices. Where does the will of God stand?               

Either you are in or you are out, either you believe or you don’t. The main reason God and religions have been around for a very long time is that the belief systems help the individual.

If you want to reduce the stresses of your life, you have to really believe, only then God and religions can actually play a role in removing deeply seeded fears. Yet the popular religions work the other way around to install instead of removing the fears. In the nut shell this is all about the politics of the sense of belonging and it is there for the individual so he/she can happily give up the fiver to the belonging groups in exchange of a spot in the heaven after the death. No matter how you look at it there is a big stink of politics against the individual to be used.

If you are a Mullah, Priest or a preacher of any religion, first of all you are a human individual and are a CEO of your life especially as an educated authority figure you have an identity and you are not an extension of an ideology first. If you believe other wise just look at it this way you came into life from two human beings then you were taught whatever you have learnt.

So it is established that you are a human being first and if you preach to rob someone of their fiver and keep them in suppression, you may be are following some rules created thousands of years ago but you are not following your personal spirituality. Thus you are not a CEO yet potentially you are created as a CEO.

Questioning, thinking and creating is a PhD, following a book without personal thinking is a masters degree.  So help as a whole individual not as an extension of an ideology, and always remember PhD is higher than a masters degree. Potentially each and everyone of us comes with similar abilities but we choose to choose, so choose to be a CEO.

Believing in something is one thing but consequential harms of those beliefs to the others land on your shoulders so you don’t want to carry the burdens of guilt. Teach and preach them to be useful to the whole humanity thus God. Not to clip their wings with the education of suppression because they can’t fly solo if they are not taught. If you rip the cocoon, even with the good intension the harmful passion can be destructive for the needy who looked up to you for help.

If the education you are providing to the people, robs the self- esteem, their contribution to the humanity and God is not there and you to be blamed. If you have a chunk of the population as dependents God’s work can’t be done because of the lack of reciprocation.

As an individual you just can’t sit and pray to change your life, God has given you the fiver and you have a duty to know its value. Why do you think you are blessed with the brain which moves the mountain, fly in the space without the wings, swims  deeper in the oceans without the gulls, digs in deeper than any creature without the claws.

Religions have been undermining to stigmatize man as a meaningless and worthless sinner for thousands of years to have political control. Some how the times have changed the political systems our justice systems have been separated from the religions.  Our governing systems want the religions out of the power and the political religions are fighting back for the power so the war is on. Everyday we have the examples, religious people lose in the court of justice and even an ordinary individual can take the government to the court to fight the system. The niqaab case is interesting because the religion is protected under the court of law not because of being an entity it is because of the equal individual human rights. We have polygamy existing in north America not because it is popular, it is protected because of  the individual rights.  Even the general population is against it, still an individual’s rights trump the opinion of others because it is the law. Yet interestingly extremely religious people still don’t recognize the court of law.

Conservatives don’t just get it, the society has been changing right before their eyes for a long time. They have done a good job to change with the time by becoming as progressive conservative but bringing in more refugees by selection of religion not by the individual suffering is a dirty, low and divisive politics which is not only immoral it is against our equal rights legal system as well.

Sense of belonging to a one particular group should be an outdated politics because it is based on the prejudice. It is important to know that first of all, we all are human beings and we all need a system of governing and governing parties with the manifestoe which protects the equal human rights.

Learnt knowledge can be changed with the new knowledge but being a human being is a fact and first reality so niqab or no niqab is an issue exaggerated by the politics of fear.

Logically, if we are going in a direction where we have to tell people what to wear, not to grow beard or get a hair cut certain way, don’t get piercing or tattoos, don’t wear turbans or base ball hats, who are we to tell people how to live, or what to believe in. What about the polygamy, it is here right in the middle of so called advanced civilization, I can’t tell anyone how to live their mortal life but unfortunately or fortunately not everyone thinks like me. I strongly believe in freedom of choice because it is after all our individual responsibility and to boot we are mortal. We as an individual pass on and lose life yet society lives on so it does matter how an individual lives. If someone wants to live in polygamy or marries a younger man or woman as long as they don’t break the law and don’t commit spiritual crimes to harm others they should be allowed.

The same old control, religions and traditional societies have introduced to us, we are still following that but these days we have it with a little twist. The politics of security has been played all over the world.

The image of the Palestinian boy shot in the chest on his knees comes to mind, Israel may be protecting and controlling its people yet killing one for the other is not a solution. Palestinian, Israeli, Muslim, Jewish, Christian is an identity, learnt with the prejudice form all sides. It is time to learn and understand the real identity of the human being.

A real CEO is the individual, so it is time to stand up against the politics of our belonging groups to join the humanity. Peace is not going to come from our groups, it will come from within the individual, because all groups want political powers. If human beings come together the map of the world can change for the better especially our wars would stop. 

If you keep killing each other, remember each and everyone of us is someone’s loved one, so robbing someone’s love will create perpetual killings because a person who’s love has been robbed he/she can easily fall out of the humanity and act like an animal. That is why people kill each other because they know it hurts. They have experienced the pain of love loss so they want to inflict onto the others in revenge.

Do you want to take off all the jewellery what had made us the human beings. When it comes to revenge our compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love takes a back seat thus we act under just the emotions our intellect disappears with our jewellery. (Read love triangle)

These days emotional problems need counselling collectively because it is not an individual politics it is an issue of prejudice, unequal rights and injustice. We need to understand the importance of the love loss in the human individuals.

Thinking about the consequences can help to navigate through life better but some of us look at life with the an accountant’s eyes where two plus two is four, but some time numbers don’t add up because human being is a complex entity especially when he/she is still in the process of an evolution.

The biggest example I can give is the Bush, Rumsfeld, Chaney and there machine thought the Iraq war as a project with a little acceptable damage, but look at it now it had spun so out of control that it is spreading and may lead to a world war. Who is responsible for all the death and destruction. The crisis has been evolving to cause death and destruction to the innocent individuals, if it is acceptable damage to you just ask the one who has lost the loved one.

I say the most damaging aspect of the conflict is the love loss which is constantly fuelling the fire of hatred and prejudice. In all the human conflicts, grossly underestimated component is the human emotions and the love loss.

Regardless of the knowledge of the mortality we still don’t care about the life loss, we just get too wound up with the emotions our intellect can lose its importance. From suicide bombing to the lengthy and constant conflicts even for thousands of years, we carry on just because of our out of control emotions fuelled by the sense of belonging to our respective groups.

If each and everyone of us is a potential CEO then we are the one as an individual who can solve our personal and collective issues. If you can understand yourself more intimately you can refuse to give into the sense of belonging to your belonging groups and start to belong to the humanity as a whole instead. Where there are no boundaries, of the race, color, gender, nation or religion. You are a human being who is the most important factor which can fuel or extinguish the fire of the conflicts.

If you are order to shoot a kid who is protesting to have freedom, equal human rights and not to be occupied you have to individually understand the concept of drunk driving.

Drunk driving is a crime and is a choice, so is making a decision to join a gang, a militant group or military or police force, because sooner or later you would be faced to the dilemma of being a compassionate, forgiving, sacrificing and loving human being or just being a part of the controlling machine.

As a human individual we have a lot more responsibilities on our shoulders than we are lead to believe, depending on the level of civilization and evolution we all have to be responsible for our actions.

The justice systems all over the world would be meaningless if we are not responsible of our actions, just like you can’t say in the court of law that Devil or God made me do it, you can’t hide behind your sense of belonging to your belonging group. A crime is a crime when it is committed by an individual who is a grown up and understand spirituality.

Compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love are our jewellery and these are the one make us human beings, without all that what we got left is just an animal. If you consider yourself individually higher than that, then wear the jewellery proudly and be a responsible human being who is a CEO not an extension of a religion, nation, race or certain group.

Say no to innocent killings and sufferings and put the people and entities who don’t consider or disregard emotions and love loss of the individual, in their place.

National, religious or any group conflicts are related with the individual love loss and sense of belonging and they both can be understood by the CEO who can balance the sense of belonging with the sense of freedom and wear human jewellery to extinguish the fire of revenge. The more CEOs you have better the out come can be.

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We need to create a balance with in the individual, so that his/her group’s politics is not able to corrupt the individual. This individual is my ideal chief executive officer (CEO). If we let ourselves be treated as cattle, we cannot feel the potential God has in store for us.

Sense of belonging is a legitimate and a powerful fact of our lives. Each and everyone of us has duties and responsibilities as we grow up to serve while we receive from the society we belong to or I should say the belonging group.

Just like when a child is born the umbilical cord is cut, a natural, undeniably logical fact and real sign of the independence. We have the physical umbilical cord cut but the invisible cord of the sense of belonging to our groups is hard to separate from. As an individual we grow up to become a part of the working machine, especially when it comes to the politics of the sense of belonging to our groups.

As I said cutting of the umbilical cord is a natural, undeniably logical fact, so each and everyone of us should be able to  and should be an independent CEO.

How many of us are the real CEOs of our lives is the main question? Are you a CEO who chooses to belong to the humanity as a whole instead of belonging to a group exclusively? Would you change your way of thinking if I make sense to you?

Since naturally we all are produced and built the same way, so I would say we are all mirrors. If you look at me with the prejudice, racism and hate, you are looking at yourself in the mirror to see the same thing. There is counter prejudice related racism present all over the world as well.

Turning the other cheek is a mythical reality, in real and practical world it is hard to find the people who would turn the cheek for you . Most of the time you get what you see in the mirror, if you are full of hate, prejudice and racism you can’t possibly see the opposite in the other people.

I talk about the human jewellery, wear your compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love so we all start to see the human all dressed up with what makes him/her separate from the other animals.

Wearing these jewels would make you see your personal reflection in others not because of that they don’t have the jewellery, it is because of what you feel inside, you see in others. For instance, you may carry anger because of the circumstance or the story of your life, you see anger in all people, if you carry love you may see love in all. It is not what others carry matters, it is all about you what you carry inside.

If you don’t trust yourself and feel insecure, you would not be able to trust others and your lack of trust and personal insecurities would only harm you. It is not what goes on outside, it is all about what goes on inside of you. There is a lot more in your hand than you have been lead to believe.

Personally I think some people feel better about themselves by joining a group of like minded, sport team, religion or a nation, some people feel better by following and taking on a cause, yet still some people feel better by opposing it all.

Whether it’s related to the sense of belonging related ego, or deeply seated inferiority complex and self-esteem issues, either way one has to understand self-related issues and take charge to balance sense of belonging with the sense of freedom because the natural umbilical cord has been cut.

The strength of the belief system, the amount of passion and the desire to be right is simply measured by the sense of belonging. Lack of  or disregard of sense of freedom is a sign of self- disregard and an inner imbalance of the individual.

As an evolving organism, being imbalanced can influence the individual to rob his/her own happiness even he/she is aware of being mortal. The collection of these individuals in one place can be down right destructive and dangerous. If we all individually learn to deal with our inner demons, we can potentially and  actually solve our collective problems. That is why I believe in strengthening the individual to so we all can become the CEOs of our lives.

My logic against the prejudice and its origin, is to work against the politics of the sense of belonging which gets the best of us; yes even it got our Prophets.

Regardless of our level of spirituality and evolution, we as nations, races, religions and even the genders can’t get around the prejudice, because right from the start, leaders of our families, communities and even our religious leader sewed the seeds of prejudice. For instance that if you join us, you somehow become better than others and would go to heaven.

By joining a larger group an individual may get some temporary false self-esteem, security and hope but getting them trenched into believing that they are better than others. To me this is the foundational flaw of the education which has been is and still costing us dearly. As humanity we are still paying the price of prejudice with blood and can’t come out of it.

I blame our past leading styles and politics for today’s problems, yes I blame our Prophets as well for yesterdays, todays and hopefully not for future killings because I have the expectations at least from the holy and the wiser men to foresee the future implications of their teachings.

Our Prophets talked about the humanity but it was under their umbrella, personally I think it’s highly political, yet a religion should be strictly spiritual. We should leave the politics and logic for our governing and justice systems.

Humans had come together because of their social nature and the need for security but in the process, they gave up many and crucial elements of their individuality.

In return for their contribution towards the society, the society protected and provided for them. As the populations grew the need drove the groups to move towards regions with more comfort and resources. This need for resources and security has been there as long as societies have existed and migration still goes on, but people still mark their territory just like less evolved beings or other animals. We have over two hundred countries with conflicting factions with in the same countries, races, religions and nations and now a days conflicts are found between the genders. It may appear that we have improved and evolved from our past but the death toll is an on going and consistent process.  

Today, if one looks at societies, the people in them seem molded and brainwashed to follow ancient customs and traditions. Every society judges others, and finds it inferior too them just because the previous generations thought so.

One set of extremists thinks that since they pray to God and do sacrifices, they will go to heaven and others who do not will go to hell. The other set of extremists think it is regressive even to think about the existence of God.

Both sides try to mold their young ones to follow the same way of living what they have been following for thousands of years, even if it has been destructive, barbaric and against evolution.

An individual is not able to judge whether something is right or wrong because of their society’s commonly accepted views and his/her personal strength of sense of belonging. That is the fundamental cause of the prejudice in an individual’s life.

This flawed education system of societies has been haunting people for thousands of years, yet still we want to follow the path our ancestors have carved for us and we follow it, not because of the right or wrong we follow it because of our strong sense of belonging.

If one has to live in a society, its rules have to be followed. Here, a person does not even value his/her own views. For instance, the liberated women of the West would never want to be like the women in the East because of their way of living. Similarly, women from the East would think being wild and liberated against their values. Both sides look down upon each other because of their upbringing, education and the sense of belonging which are influenced by their respective societies.

Social influences have the potential to dictate personal values so there is little focus on the personal happiness and contentment. This makes it dangerous for an individual, especially if the individual is a mortal to begin with.

Who is right or wrong has always been the cause of our problems, which is the reason why we have been fighting and killing each other. If you look at it logically we have been fighting each other and killing innocents because of our ego, since ego is not limited to the individual, it has its tentacles collectively in all societies as well. 

It is a proven fact that human is an evolving entity and his/her knowledge is constantly evolving thus claiming present knowledge is complete and ultimate is egotistic, especially when it comes to religion.

Once I picked up a Christian magazine, ‘Awake’, dated April 22, 1993, to read about religion’s role in wars. The article began with this quotation:  and I quote.

“There have never been a people that did not have some form of religion.”

The line was from ‘The World Book of Encyclopedia,’ 1970.

Yet historians Will and Ariel Durant wrote: and I quote

 “War is one constant of history”.

So, are the two constants, war and religion, related?

Indeed, throughout history, they have been inseparable.

On the next page was a quotation by Anne Fremantle from her book, Age of Faith: and I quote

 “Of all the wars men have waged, none have been more zealously undertaken than those on behalf of a faith. And of these holy wars, none have been bloodier and more protracted than the Christian Crusades of the middle Ages.” end quote. 

And recently I was reading time magazine and found this quote I feel is important.

In the ‘Time’ magazine’s issue of April 25, 2011, Jon Meacham has an article headlined ‘Is Hell Dead?’

He quotes Rob Bell, a pastor at Mars Hill Bible Church. “When we get to what happens when we die, we don’t have any video footage. So let’s at least be honest that we are speculating, because we are.” End quote.

The individual has been domesticated by his/her belonging society. The individual has suffered. He/she has been made to feel inadequate and dependent. He/she has been taught that God, religion, politics and society are more important than him/her.

When one becomes part of a group, one automatically becomes inferior, but a society is made up of individual units so the strength of the society is the individual, if the individual is weak the society can fall apart easily. Thus it is the individual’s responsibility to do justice to him/herself and the society he/she belongs to.

As an individual we have come into the world with the right to live in peace and raise our children without any threat to our loved ones. Hence, our rights are above any religious opinion regardless of our country, race, gender or sexual orientation.

We grow as the world turns. No race is inferior or superior. We are one spiritual entity, one life force, which an individual carries within or which carries the individual from within.

At that level, everybody is the same. We can differ in size, gender, color, race, nationality and religion, but we all because we are provided the oxygen, food and ability to use it, we get hurt, bleed, live and die the same way.

I am an idealist. I see the world with idealist’s eyes, which do not see the boundaries that mark today’s world. There are no political lines in the natural and physical world. It is us who have created boundaries, we mark our territories, and like weaklings we give up our sense of freedom, liberty and powers to our belonging groups to feel secure.

Looking at our evolution in various areas, our feeling of security should have evolved as well, regardless of all the signals from the nature, internet, space and everything in between, we still believe in belonging to a gang, community, race, gender nation or religion would make us secure. Yet the death toll of the individuals can’t be counted, so did the individual find security in the belonging to a belonging group. Never and still no, we have sought not only security but comfort and development as well but regardless of all the progress and evolution in all other departments, we are still killing each other.

We are social creatures. We cannot live alone. We feel endangered, not from external elements or other animals but from each other, with all our weapons and wars and threats of annihilation.

The question is with all these socio-political boundaries, these societies, countries and religions, are we making ourselves more secure or more insecure?

Every law and every religion came into being on the basis of justice in a society but gradually, laws and religions became complicated and were compromised by group politics.

Most of today’s problems are related to injustice. Somebody’s land has being taken away; somebody is murdered and revenge is sought. It all comes down to people seeking justice for wrongs done to them.

To attain peace—external and internal—one must not do things, one does not want done to oneself. A person has to live a just life. If you start living with yourself this way, you will let others live the same way too. If that happens at individual level it can spread collectively as well. 

A good CEO is judged by his or her actions. It is important to establish one’s identity as an individual so that when you have to make a decision, you do not have to follow an order or let the sense of belonging take your sense of justice away from you.

If you are asked to kill an innocent person in the name of God, would you, or you have to follow an order because of you are in military. Drunk driving is an offence because you have the power to make decision to drink and drive, to join the military or pick another carrier, either way you have to think logically and certain realities should be in front of you.

God is a reality no one fully understands. No one should kill an innocent individual because the individual is a physical reality. You cannot kill someone over a reality you do not understand. So listening to a politically-charged leader and acting on it unjustly, is a self-demotion from your CEO status.

Since God is like an alcohol for us, just like the catnip is for a cat, it is important to understand the concept of free will, because with free will we can choose to drink a social drink and enjoy it or drink to get drunk on it.

We all know that drinking to get drunk is destructive, not only for the drunk and but also for the people around.

With free will, we strive to be the CEO of our lives and evolve as the world evolves. It is one’s duty to understand how to be the CEO of his or her life.

An other fundamental fact of our life is that we are all mortals, but we break records, discover new things and technologies and invent new things all the time for our comfort.

The brain and the body points towards the limitless potential. We are like an ocean: you cannot see the shore when you are in the middle of it.

That is why I believe God lives through us and evolves with us. As a cell, we are part of a bigger picture but the strength of the fabric depends on the  strength of the thread.

We research on the knowledge of the past today. After having been proven wrong again and again, we still claim to be right.

The Egyptians took their belongings to the tomb, believing in afterlife they will need their stuff. Today, thousands of years later we rob the same tombs and research about their lives and beliefs. Yet, we continue to believe in afterlife. The Mayans and the Chinese have similar stories. Does this mean we should not believe in afterlife? I believe in it too, but in a different way.

I leave the unknown of before birth and after death as unknown, and accept the limitations of my knowledge because of its evolving nature. Instead of arguing egotistically about the things not clearly understood by our present capacity of the brain power we are using, I would like to know about the real tasks at hand which keeps me pursuing for more knowledge as I push to learn more and evolve. I would be able to use more of my brain power to understand more if I pursue. If I believe whatever I have been told I would not gain more knowledge.

The bottom line is that we learn more as we reach our potential. In the meantime, we should not fight and kill each other over what is unknown. Looking at our technological advancements makes me wonder why we have not made any progress in the religion department. Why God is still as elusive as he was thousands of years ago. Why are we still insisting that our way is the right way to God?

A physical fact is that, the minute the umbilical cord is cut we all become an independent entity. This independent entity is a CEO gathering his/her abilities to run the show.

We have to cut the unseen umbilical cord of our sense of belonging to our respected groups as we evolve, some of us just can’t do it thus we have the on going problems with the individuals whom feel and think that the others or the people of the opposing groups are not human beings, that in itself is a zone when you yourself leave the humanity behind.

We all have the responsibility to know what is it all about, what is the reason behind everything. In the end of the day it is all about the reciprocation, you have to share your fiver because that is there for a purpose. You are alive for a reason and there is a reason why you have the ability to help others around.

Being the cell of God human being has the duty to use the fiver to contribute in every body’s everyday life including self. For whatever reason if you choose not to, you are not reciprocating. It is unspiritual thus unethical business. You have been receiving and are receiving but not giving back. The reciprocation helps the humanity and God to reach our potential. Its a responsibility of the individual, or I should say a purpose of life.

If any governing, religious or political system keeps the individual from reaching his/her potential it is unspiritual, because there is a potential to reach and everyone of us is blessed with that fiver for a reason.

Today we are talking about the Euthanasia and Abortion and Suicide, most religions and conservative rules are against all that, but individual rights have the power to trump what a society wants. When the umbilical cord gets cuts the real individuality starts even we are still dependent on the people around.

These are the issues I feel I am going to put in my I don’t know basket until I feel comfortable talking about. I am torn because I strongly believe in individual rights but at the same time I believe we are all cells of God and God has to be reproduced and we need to reciprocate as responsible CEOs.

My illogical and blind belief says that you are just a man or a woman there is a lot more going on than your doing.  If you decide to shoot the doctor who perform the abortions, it is still a murder and a crime. The extreme religious views are that we should punish the people who don’t follow the religious way of living. If you look at it logically it is actually a sign that the extremist don’t really believe God is doing anything because they take matters into their hands by punishing the wrong doers. Either you say nothing can be done without the God and everything is God’s will or you just play politics to keep the population in control by punishing.

Do I believe man is not responsible for his/her actions, I believe we all have a big say but only after we have taken a breath we have no control over, thus we have the rights and responsibilities at the same time.

All religions are full of stories to teach us some spirituality but most of it is about the rules of the belonging group.

Religious stories and political disagreements can create a group within a group. For example in Muslims there are sects and one of them is the Shia. The Shia sect came into being after a political war which resulted in the killing of grandsons of the Prophet Mohammad.

These stories are the wounds nobody wants to heal. It’s a known fact that a person who carries wounds of the past would become depress and deny him/herself happiness . I find it hard to understand why an entire society fails to see that if past wounds can take away individual happiness, what devastating effects it can have on a group of people. Unless they aim to benefit from the politics of division.

Collectively, by now we should have the knowledge to heal the individual and society. The individual should know that political entities reap benefits from the conflicts. If you keep scratching the wound, it does not heal, even as thousands of years pass by.

We are passionate about the atrocities committed on our groups, disregarding all the fundamental religious teachings that ask us to be compassionate, forgive, do sacrifice for others and love all human being.

Societies should evolve from the politics of division, usher in peace and enter the future as one evolving organism.

From the actions of Genghis Khan to Adolf Hitler, from the tragedy of Hiroshima and Nagasaki to Darfur, we see the human capacity to forgive and carry on, to excel and evolve or devolve to act worse than the unevolved animals. Chinese are exceling regardless of the atrocities committed against them by the Genghis Khan, Jews are not at war against Germans because of the Adolf Hitler, Japanese are not supressed and depressed because of Americans have dropped Atomic bombs. No one is scratching their wounds to keep them from healing. 

An individual suffering from anxiety, depression or trauma due to the past is one thing. One can deal with this through medication nutritional help and counseling. But when nations and races have problems due to the past, one needs to come up with evolved thinking, such as international counseling, for mature solutions and healing. If you never acknowledge the existence of the problem, how are you going to solve it? So it time to cut the invisible cord of the sense of belonging to anyone particular group and join the humanity as a whole with the acknowledgement of the equal individual human rights.

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I read a poem as growing up so I would say the author unknown. And I “quote” in my language.

Na khudaa he milla na visaal-e-sanam

Na idher kay rahay na udher kay rahay.

The author says

” Neither I could find God nor I got to my love,

I lost from both sides. ”

Religions put their foot in their mouth by saying everything we have in the books is God’s words thus can’t be changed. God is doing everything and man is insignificant. Religions used God for political purposes to make the man controllable.

Today it is blowing up on their faces because the moderates and extremists are at war within each religion. It is hard for the religious leaders to stay meaningful if they are unable to make amendments.

Spirituality on the other hand stayed consistent, man kind helping each other to evolve brings God to even mightier level. I believe in God’s existence and almightiness but not without the man. The two are like the negative and positive wires to light up the light bulb, if separated worthless.

When you stray from the spirituality and dabble into the politics of sense of belonging, sooner or later you get into the predicaments like pope got himself into.

Ideally pope should not be caught in the controversy because either you are accepting equality or you are religiously promoting prejudice. I would like to see some media people investigate the claims of the lady that pope had thanked her for sticking with her religious convictions even it was against the law of the land and against the spirituality. I say it against spirituality because all people are created equal for the same purpose. Regardless you are a brain cell, heart cell, skin cell, liver, lung or colon your purpose is to make the body live in reciprocation body provides you life so their is no superior or inferior cells in the survival of the both sides. If you believe you some how become better or superior by believing in some religion, think again even the colon cell has its importance in the body if it fails the whole body comes crashing down because there is no life giving food coming in. A religion, race gender, or nation does not make a person better or superior it is the personal character what makes the difference.

Sense of belonging is a powerful phenomenon so it would naturally be very hard for the ordinary individual to overcome. That is the reason why even pope can’t stay away from the politics, not too long ago he said not to judge the homosexuals or the women whom have had abortions.  Now he meets  and encourages the leady who refused to issue marriage licences to same sex couples. Sense of belonging to the religion is the ultimate goal for a large segment of the population so the politics can’t be separated from the religions.

That is the reason I believe the spirituality is the one which is pure of politics, thus if a religion can’t stay away from the politics, it is not spiritual anymore. They will lose the compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love, and without these jewels their is nothing left into them other than politics. Can you find these jewels today? just look around and see the killings go on, on the name of God, pure and simple politics of sense of belonging and nothing but.  

There is nothing wrong with the politics in running a community or a country, but when it is mixed with religions it can be a deadly mix. It has been proven over and over and still all the wars related killings, individual sufferings and refugee crisis are living proof that politics and religions should not be mixed. Religions should stay spiritual and respect and value the individual over even the God because without the individual God loses his miracle work horse. Thus nothing can be materialized, prayers can’t be fulfilled poor can’t be helped, the whole notion of God comes crashing down because there is no one left to believe in God.

Religions, spirituality and all other governing systems should be for the benefits of the human being singularly and collectively at the same time. Just look around and go through the history and see if it is the case? Religious and political killings are still an on going process, which has never stopped regardless of our evolution. The main reason is the politics of the sense of belonging to one particular group instead of the humanity.

We have worked hard to remove ourselves from the food chain, but the only predator we can’t get rid of is ourselves. We commit suicide, we kill, get killed individually and collectively by our own kind. What will it take from us to evolve from this level. Our religions have failed us miserably, our nationalism is causing us grief, from racism to prejudice are still prevalent in our societies regardless of the popularity of our equal human rights.

The necessity of the time is calling for all of us to become a CEO individually so we can harness our out of control sense of belonging to our groups and deal with our present day problems by joining the humanity as a whole.

Being a CEO you can see the problems behind the problems. Our sense of belonging to our respected groups is the cause of our several unsolved and seemingly unresolvable issues. When one commits suicide because of what other people think of him/her it is a sign of out of control sense of belonging because you want to belong, fit in, impress or want be admired by the people around. If you can balance your sense of belonging with the sense of freedom you can achieve the status God had in mind for you.

A CEO knows about the brain chemicals roll, understands and over rides personal insecurities, personal chemistry, learnt social knowledge with the help of spiritual knowledge.

I said it before and I am going to say it again, its time to take the next leap of faith with spirituality to overcome all kind of prejudice. The process has already started, the emergence of melting pot societies and individual human rights are becoming new religion of the day.

If pope can’t discourage the prejudice, at least should not encouraged it because in the melting pot societies if you don’t have human rights on top of everything it can’t be a melting pot. A humanity is and should be above all kind of groups whether its a gang, community, nation, a religion or its sects.

A while back I saw a gay man was promoting Quebec’s charter, I thought it was odd and contradicting because if you look for the individual rights you can’t have any one particular groups interest other than the humanity as a whole. In Quebec the promotion of equality and strong opposition against the nikaab and even this day and age they have a so called language police. To me it is kind of jumbled up mixed politics of sense of belonging. You can’t be promoting something for one particular group if you want to have prejudice free society. I explained previously that homosexuals, extremely religious people with polygamy or nikaab are protected by the same law of the supreme court. It is twisted but very clear, if you want to live in a melting pot society you have to have respect for the individual rights. No doubt we can’t solve the bigger issue of polygamy, no one has talked about the polygamy as a political and women’s rights issue but nikaab has taken the front seat in the politics may be it coming from the Muslims exclusively but polygamy is and has been a religious issue for a very long time but human rights protect this practice. Some may say it is against the women liberation and is a sign of oppression, but why it is still in the north America, I feel it is a lot bigger issue than the nikaab.

I believe we are going through the changing time, we will flip-flop at least for a while to get it right, until then we have to bare with our contradictions collectively.

When it comes to extreme religious beliefs robing the individual of love by killing the loved ones, I have to stand against all kind of extreme and bigotry because individually healing from the love loss wounds is not easy.

The longer the killings go on, the more people with the love loss, the more love loss the more passionate revenge killings. This perpetual emotional wars may take the human being to self destruction. Ironically the destruction is what has been predicted in most of the holy books. My question to all mankind is that, are we going to follow the religions just because of whatever is predicted for us to do, or do we have a say to change it all? I personally believe, each and everyone of us is blessed with the CEO status so  it is up to us to decide and change the predictions. Would we be able to, yes if we can learn to switch our sense of belonging from a group to the humanity as a whole. 

 

The Ego, pride and the honor  are quit strong individually but when they come altogether with their mother as a family they can over run even the strong individuals. This family has been the down fall of the individual strength for a very long time because we all care how people around us think about us. Which leads to the group to zap or rob the individual more than the fiver.

Sense of belonging to the group country, nation race or religion can politically manipulate, use and abuse the individual to further their agendas. This spiritually criminal way of living has not only created insecure individuals, but insecure societies around the world as well.

We kill and exterminate our own kind over, our group insecurities. We justify the killing of others with the twisted politics of survival and peace but in reality there is a lot more behind these political agendas.

Ego, pride, honor and forcefully demanded respect, they all are related with the killings, weather they are related with the  gangs, nations or to the religions they have been part of all human societies. Its not only senseless killings, they give birth to the perpetual revenge killings as well.

I believe in larger scheme of life, our systems of governing and religions should look at the causes of our problems. So they can be prevented. If every society justify its system, whether it’s related with religions, traditions, customs or national pride, they have very little room to compromise for the humanitarian and spiritual reasons. So the tradition of killings goes on regardless of the level of our education or even the evolution. The problem is that, as we evolve our technological knowledge is evolving much further than our emotional intelligence, spirituality and the politics of sense of belonging. A very dangerous situation and potentially deadly.

Why people do the things the way they do? Because the society keeps the individual weak, so he/she can be kept in control. It has two problems for the individual, weak individuals don’t want to change the status quo, so we not only obey and bow down to the politics of our belonging groups, we actually stall from the journey of our evolution or even regress from whatever we have achieved.

The individual weakness is the cause of the belief, that our belonging group has the most complete and best knowledge in the history of the world, thus we are the best. A bad mix all around, if an individual can’t judge and question his/her own belonging group’s knowledge there is a major problem or a hurdle of the prejudice, in the way of achieving world peace. Until the individual learns to stand up and ask questions his/her perceived knowledge and don’t come out of the boundaries, world would function same way it has been for thousands of years or even millions of years.

Killings on the name of God, ego, pride, honor or forceful respect have been part of our daily lives because of our sense of belonging to our respected groups. Its time to evolve to the next level and look at the refugee crisis with different lenses so we can eradicate the dead dog of the problem. ( Read dead dog.)

All nations should know that their people are leaving because of they can’t live without the security and peace. The net loss of five bucks with each individual leaving is a net gain for the society receiving and accommodating them. They should know that loss will bite the coming generations of the group. The harms or the benefits may not show initially but eventually it will have the impact. For instance German has an aging population and would immensely benefit if the new blood is pumped into the society one fiver at a time.

If you want to see the proof, just look around if your country is well off look at the population, the talented people from all over the world have been coming to the advanced countries for hundreds of years to make them the successful societies.

Look at the underdeveloped countries their populations has been and are leaving their countries to join the most successful countries. It is just like the villages supply the people to the mega cities and suffer the loss one fiver at a time. I call this is the real brain drain, so warring factions should know their is more price to pay. Ego pride honor and their mother can be a blood sucker and they can suck the life out of their communities. They should know the value of their individuals both sides should explain to their populations about the loss and the gain with the individual.

Dr. Wayne Dyer had explained four levels. I ” quote” 

First the owning, second mine is better, third, what is in it for me, fourth what can I do for you.

What is in it for me, can be found not only at the individual level, it is found in all level of politics of sense of belonging as well. For instance

charity work is done by the religious organizations with the strings attached. Advanced nations loan money to the nations to keep them under their thumbs.

One of the reason for the loneliness is that selfish people always fish for self, thus others leave them behind regardless of their wealth and power people don’t respect them. That is why spirituality is not a smiling matter over as a stupidity. We are all connected as an organism. We need each other individually and collectively, countries need people or I should say the individual because of the mortality, our mortality is not just for the individual, seemingly impossible but kingdoms, dynasties and empires vanish from the face of the earth as well. Our grave yards are not only limited for the individuals, just you look and dig into our history there is a grave yard of the governing kings, isms religions and empires as well.

Only spirituality have survived the test of the time because it lives within the individual and individual keeps it alive in all human societies regardless of the religions. That is an other reason I believe we are all cells of God. Our differences are based on our lack of knowledge or I should say misunderstanding of spirituality being in the religions.

The difference of opinion is the cause of all our problems, as human beings we would always have difference of opinions even in the same families. If you look critically both sides are fighting for the same thing. The fear and insecurities are masked with the political agendas or the other way around. Both sides claim that they want equality yet absurdly it is not true because I see a politically correct racism in every race, gender, nation or religion. When it comes to human rights I would pick equal human rights any day democracy or not.

Every human governing system has flaws but no one can or should deny the justice to all human beings. Every individual should have the rights and freedom, but when they form a group to further their agendas of control and enforce their ways of living to trample other’s rights they should be controlled and harnessed. I believe in freedom but for all equally.

When you go and form a group with the people whom have had the same kind of insecurities you should not do the same things to others what has had happened to you. Jewish had been treated unequally in the past by the Germans they should not be doing what they are doing to the Palestinians, but it is natural to form a group to protect your own group or belonging people.

We can say that we have to stand against the religious extreme, because of our experiences, since every religion has been against sexual freedom or matter of fact any kind of freedom. Personally I am against the political arms of every religion, if they are only standing for the spirituality I would gladly join them, but when it comes to human rights I would stand against any and all kind of oppression regardless of the belonging group.

Just imagine if the gay community starts to do the same things to the straight individuals, because of what had happened to them. Human rights are against the mob of any kind, whether its religions, race, gender, group of any kind or even a nation, I would stand for the individual’s rights. If you go for the cause of equality you should take all kind of politics out and go for the humanity.

Religious extreme is bad when it’s enforced upon the others, so is anything else like nationalism and other kind of governing systems, because they all have the potential to bully the individual.

When religious people push and enforce their belief system they trample the individual’s rights, we should stand against enforced beliefs because they are not the physical reality, hurting or killing the individual is.

I am first to stand against any kind of extreme because I believe our knowledge has never been complete no matter what religion nation or race you belong to.

If you care and take pride of your past, the others are doing the same thing. If you want to change others to blend in, you have to do the same. If you set the standers for others you have to start with yourself. If you can’t change your own heritage you can’t demand others to change. It’s great to have equality, I am for it 100% but, not pushing your own belonging groups political agenda.

There was a big news some years back about protecting and enforcing French language only.

Protecting French language or heritage is politically correct racism. We all are victims of the same problem, imbalanced sense of belonging, if you remove the politics you would embrace every human being as a humanity. If you claim it’s your land just because you were here first just how far back you want to go. Is it true that France is an ocean away? So is the England your ancestors came here just like these new comers.

Earth is our home remove the politics of divisions, you will see the peace. If you see the earth there are no physical lines it is all politically divided because we want peace, but we have been chasing it the wrong way. The more divisions you have more conflicts you would have because mankind can’t stay out of each other’s business.

Everybody and their belonging group promotes and fights for their language and identity, yet humanity just has one language and yes that is spirituality. Intension and action are the real essence of humanity. The race, gender, nation or a religion only survives because of the individual’s good deeds. Asking for being a special group identity is racist and against the human rights. The real safety and security of the individual is not in the pond, it is in belonging to the ocean of humanity. If you fear from drowning in the ocean, this fear is caused by the racist and  nationalist education, which has been wrong for the individual and the humanity, because it has been and is deadly. The proof is in our history we can’t count the death toll of the wars and killings related to our politics and religions. There is a constant climb in the number of deaths but some leave the mark on people just like the little boy on the beach in Turkey who wanted to come to Canada. 

While you are looking at the history just look how many empires have been victors and victims of this phenomenon. In the end of the day ocean is where everybody ends up just like the rain drop. We all as an individual or collectively pass on but we leave the people behind whom are following our footsteps so we should not leave something for them which can be destructive and harmful for them and humanity.

 

The main desire for the individual is to raise family in a peaceful land because he/she knows the realities of mortality. It is the political systems we need to fix because they are all based on the insecurities and control. Logically as an individual you just can’t own a piece of land because of mortality, yet the system is set in such a way that a dead human owns a piece of land as a grave, even hundreds of years have passed by. Does it make sense to anyone? There are living homeless but dead one owns land.

All the ancient civilizations have claimed owning land yet we find grave yards of them, we should be softer to the humanity so we should not be judged harshly.

Countries and humanity can be stronger if we all pull together, if there is peaceful time we can evolve much faster to gain more of our potential.

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If you are seeking the answers in the texts written thousands of years ago, you just have to look at the present scientific advances and compare them with the knowledge provided. Both are not able to give you the perfection you are seeking. It is simple to understand that the human beings are no where close to be a finished product.

Regardless of all the religious knowledge provided to us and for thousands of years of evolution we still find a little boy dead facing down on the beach trying to escape from the religious extreme.

In thousands of years we have not and can’t clearly understand or see God as an obvious entity, it’s just because we have been looking at God as an outside and separate entity from us. If God was that obvious then nothing would be done through the mankind. Yet from miraculous healings to technological advances to the knowledge of biology merging with computer to predicting the path of the storms, all kind of knowledge in all fields have everything to do with the man. The man who is seeking perfection and thus progressing and making advances regardless of the presence of imperfections.

As an individual we have a mortal life ,so seeking perfection all the time should be harnessed because perfection is not worth the life or even the health but our sense of belonging makes us live in living hell. 

For instance in a relation ship if you think outside of the social norms, you can clearly see a perfect stranger comes in your life and helps you to live life easier. Your wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend  accompany you to remove your loneliness, paying for you, offering you their bodies, bring you the passionate and even the instinctive love by giving you the children. (Read Love triangle). As a mortal these are the most valuable things one can have, and you just throw it all away because of your sense of belonging to the society you let it dictate your happiness and contentment. Picture if you would have been born five thousands years ago or five hundred years from now how would you perceive your life. Would you be breaking up a relationship over other people’s opinions. What is right or wrong for you, ultimately it is not society’s decision it lands on your shoulders.

People live in all kind of circumstances or religious settings, Canadian government could not win a human rights issue in the court of the law. The hijab or nikaab is one thing we have polygamy and other religious or non religious ways of living right in the middle of our so called civilized society. We just can’t trampled anyone’s rights ironically Gay marriage and sexual freedom come under the same confusing equal human rights law which protects both sides of extreme but you would not hear from conservatives about the polygamy because it is all about the politics of sense of belonging. We have to respect the differences but when it comes to violating someone’s rights with our extreme beliefs we have to resort to our being a human being first. Don’t do to the others what you don’t like done to you.   

Each and everyone of us is capable of living beyond that prison so why you don’t or would not. Be a CEO and break those chains of unhappiness and decide for yourself that your life is temporary and the accumulation of the happy moments is and should be the goal. Trends, friends, customs, traditions, religious and social rules or norms should be for the convenience of a mortal individual not for the hardship, unhappiness and discontentment. If you are causing the hardships or robbing your own happiness because of your sense of belonging over ride it because you are the one who is driving your car.  

Several years ago I was watching TV and stumbled upon, Dr. Wayne Dyer, speaking about the four levels of human evolution. I don’t remember the whole thing but I would try what I understood from him. He said and I” Quote ”

First level is owning, we all learn to own, as a child we learn this is my mom, my dad, my home, my toy, my food or best friend etc.

Second we compare and claim mine is better than yours.

Third is that what is in it for me.

Fourth level is that we start to ask what can I do for you”? End Quote.

If you look at the spiritual and social levels our religions have helped us to evolve, and if you look at everything else we have scientists to thank for. Where our science and technology is going we still have to discover a lot more than we know.

Religiously and socially we are stuck in the rut of level two where we compete and say to each other that mine is better whether it is a religion, nation race, or even these days gender. Just like the child we don’t really know but we assume and claim our religion, nation, race, gender or even everything we own is some how better than others. Where did this all come from, did we bring it with us or we learnt from our belonging groups. I believe it is taught because as babies we don’t discriminate.

Why do we passionately think that we somehow are better than others just because we are Muslim, Christian, Jew, White, Black, Brown, Yellow, Male, Female or in-between. Why? and who installed this knowledge into us? if it is because of the politics, its our knowledge, not our nature so we can over come this knowledge with knowledge, I am attempting make my case to achieve that by this writing. People don’t like to be told what to do until it  comes to religions and nationalism they can hate the imprisonment but gladly put themselves in their own prison of the sense of belonging.

Until we discover our self-worth as an individual we can’t discover the God inside of us. If we keep thinking that God is some outside entity we will always think that God is all mighty and majestic but we ourselves are worthless and insignificant. If we think we are the work horse or a cell of God the self esteem would rise, then and only then we can, not only have self respect we would respect the person next to us as an equal because we would be able to see God in them.

Who benefits from our being weak is always the other human beings, and its done through the politics of sense of belonging. The perception of God has been confusing for the best of the human minds, some buy it whole heartedly and some downright deny the very existence of God.

In order to believe in God all you have to do is to look at yourself. If you don’t respect yourself or feel inadequate because of deep insecurities, you have got to look at God from the different angle than your religions have been preaching.

If you are an atheist, just question yourself,  are you just being rebellious or your belief system is a reaction to the people enforcing you to believe what you can’t see?

Remember if you learn something new regularly you are not done, are not complete and would not be a finished product until you have reached your potential so no human has completed his/her knowledge. Denying or believing in the existence of God one hundred percent is an assumption because we are in the process of evolution to reach our potential. We are using a fraction of our brain powers, the proof is in the pudding because we are always inventing and learning new things all the time.

Religions preach that God is everything and the  human is meaningless in the grand scheme of life. Just remember that it takes a single cancer cell to start the cancer which can bring down the whole human body. Just like the body you are part of the God. Human has to exist in order for God to exist because without the human being everything comes crashing down.

Picture yourself as if you are a bottle of alcohol and the alcohol inside of you is God which makes you dance, if you feel drunk from it, it is your provocative, but you can’t be drunk and driving, or killing others because someone told you that others don’t belong to the God or God does not exist in them. If you are a functioning human being there is a reason, a purpose and a need for you to be alive.

Everyone, just like you, carry the God molecule which keeps the body functioning, if God or the body is damaged to the point that it can’t sustain life, we as an individual die. We as humanity is evolving the God to the next level, we are discovering and creating new things to enhance life. Some may say we are heading to destruction I feel optimistic about our growth.

Religions and science can drive the individual to be a drunk to the point that one can become crazy, and it’s all about the assumptions until we reach our full potential knowledge.

If you believe that you are a part of the process and potential God, your belief system can change and bring you into deeper spiritual awareness, make you humble and full of wisdom of living and loving life. Logically as a living individual with the free will each and every one of us has the responsibility of self-first to survive, because we are more useful for the God’s work alive, it’s second that we have the responsibility for the society or God.

Why do we have such extremes when it comes to our religions? It’s not only a religious phenomenon, it shows up in our customs, traditions and even our social or medical and scientific knowledge as well. The cause of all this is the ego, which is one of the child of our sense of belonging. Our ego whether it’s related with the individual or society, cuts us both ways, it can help us to excel but at the same time it hurts us by slowing us down and keeping us behind in our evolutionary process.

 

 

 

 

There is a ritual of marking territory, in the animal kingdom. We call ourselves an evolved specie but I question that notion, if you really ask yourself are we? If we are then why all the wars, guns for personal security and weapons of mass destructions for our communities.

By now we should have understood what humanity, God and spirituality is all about but we are still in the zone where we have to mark our territories and have guns and even weapons of mass destruction for security from our own kind.

Just look at our way of living in all human communities, nations and even religions. There are strict rules for even privacy of the individual in human societies and then just like the jungle there are those of us whom break the rules. If we are evolved we would be able to see that life is precious gift to the individual from the humanity but with the responsibilities to serve the humanity and the humanity has the responsibility to reciprocate by looking after the individual while he/she needs help. The individual is in need being a child, extremely old hungry and sick, if the community can’t look after its sick, it is sick itself because of the promotion of selfishness.

The animals fight over the territory because one or the other disrespects the markings, so do the people violate and disrespect each others rights to invoke conflicts on all levels from property to physical crimes in the community to collectively going to wars over the territories. Who and what is the culprit behind most of our social ills?

Behind all that is the large and out of control inner animal, yet we love to call ourselves evolved creatures. ( In near future I will write more about this animal inside).

This animal inside is the cause of personal insecurities and the attempt to dominate others just like in the jungle.

Security and control are the two, I call them the pit problems for the individual and even I would call them to be the dead dogs for our internal or external wars. (Read the Dead dog)

From being torn apart inside as an individual to being a depressed religion or nation, whom just can’t shake the past. They keep scratching their wounds so they never heal because they don’t know the peace, so they don’t allow the healing. They fear from it and play victim and enjoy the sympathy.

For instance every year Shias remember what happened more than a thousand years ago. I use to go to watch all the passionate religious play and wondered why these people passionately spill blood over something happened so long ago.

They play the whole scenario moment by moment to remember, but I would pin point that is the flaw which would not allow the healings to take place to create peace.

My logical side says to punish someone who committed the atrocities is fine but non of those whom committed the crimes are alive, so we have no choice but to move on.

Our modern court systems don’t punish even the families of the offenders, never mind the generations. It is a big example of keeping the politics of sense of belonging alive.

As humans we need healings and cures of all kind of our sicknesses and we are perfectly capable of doing that. I think there is a lot more responsibility on our coming generation’s shoulders. They would have to defy all the traditions and customs to find their own way of evolution, because our previous and current generations are not fulfilling their responsibilities by just following the ancestors way of thinking.

New generations need the knowledge and willingness to overcome the past. Yes I call it the mental health issue and it is not limited to the individual. All the symptoms even collectively are the same, just at larger scale. Our leaders have to recognize that and try to come up with the cures for their communities.

The key is to learn to belong to the humanity, I can’t address enough the need to over come the politics of sense of belonging to any one particular group.

I can picture it, the whole humanity would have the mental health issues if everyone or every nation would remembered everything what happened thousands of years ago. Chines would kill all the Mongols, Natives would or I should say the whole world would be at war against the England, Jews would be fighting against the German instead of the Muslims these are a few of the examples of our past.

I believe Shia Sunni wars and middle east crises has always been related with the problem people, whom are in the business of the political religions. They  don’t want to solve the individual problems or create peace even if their coming generation’s future is at steak.

How can we overcome the past? Our evolutionary nature is holding the key to the peace but, some of us use politics of sense of belonging to work against the nature and we still kill each other over the ability to carry the very old and out dated grudges.

We are and we should evolve to think about all people as a humanity regardless of the differences, and you just can’t hurt people because their ancestors did bad things to your ancestors. Today our justice system has caught up with the equal human rights but our religions their sects and nations have been lagging behind. Its time to take a leap into the future so we can create peace for the coming generations.

Its time to evolve individually especially from our politics of religions and nations. Sure people have been replacing one addiction to the other by joining Nationalism instead of the religions, but it is the same old political music of sense of belonging to one particular group and it does not and would not solve our prejudice related problems.

The individual needs to rise up to assume his/her duty of the CEO to recognize all that and understand, that we all are human beings first and then anything else not the other way around.

The politics of our sense of belonging has flipped our triangle upside down to make us act worse than the other animals, and the kicker is that it is all done on the name of the religions and God.    

They are so use to of having wars for thousand and a half years they don’t know anything else, other than killing each other. It is like they are in a stinky room but became nose blind. It seems like they are in love with their wounds, that they don’t know what it would be like to have a peace full life.

The key to solve these problems are within the individual him/herself not in the hands of the religious or political leaders. The individual has to become  a CEO, so he/she stop stoking the fire by not being depressed or being part of the depressed groups.

Their knowledge of sense of belonging needs some understanding of human jewels what makes a human, human being. They need to learn about the compassion, they need to know forgiveness, sacrifice and especially love. Even if you wear all these jewels you still need to understand the sense of belonging so you don’t get swept away with the prejudice.

The sense of belonging is not to the group it is to the whole humanity. Right or wrong is not the question, it just relates with our foundational knowledge of survival, security and the animal aggression as well. Personal and communal security is as essential as it can be to keep the stress down individually and collectively. 

We all have responsibilities as an individual and as a community to create peace for the coming generations, so if everyone puts the com back into the passion and relate to the humanity we should be able to heal our wounds. I believe every, community, nation, race and religions have committed some atrocities against others. That all was done from less evolved people, today we save whales and the other endangered species for God sake. Where are those people whom have a say and would not say because of the politics of sense of belonging. No one wants to stand up against his/her own belonging groups.   

Logically and closely looking at the human security, I found that we are constantly evolving so our security system has been evolving with us as well. We have come long way from just obeying or disobeying the law of the jungle to practically and successfully removing ourselves from the food chain.

Today our security is not a personal matter alone anymore, which makes it a blessing and a curs at the same time because we become victims of our politicians.

We are doing the damage to humanity, our wars kill and have been killing for thousands of years, especially since the organized religions started to dabble with the politics. Unaccountable individuals have been killed by the religious extreme.

Since we don’t want people killing each other in the cities as well we collectively want the gun control, because these days our security is designed by our communities.

Sure we have to have some systems of home security but most of the time we rely and depend on the  belonging community to arrange and take care of our security needs. That is the reason we need to individually understand our emotions and the importance of gun control in our modern day society. Every human knowledge is subjected to change according to the time, regardless of being written in the religions or constitutions.

We are a package of emotions and they can bring volatility to even the most evenly tempered person. If we are upset and remember we all can get upset. At the time you are emotionally upset your judgement can be influenced by the emotions. Which can not and should not describe an individual as a whole human being especially not as a CEO.

We are told that guns don’t kill people, people kill people, which is true but a temporary anger should not make some one end up dead or being a killer.

If you have lethal weapons openly available it can be a problem for the community, because these days they are the one responsible for our security. That is the reason all communities want the gun control but the individual rights come in the way.

Since there can’t be a police man or a woman available for each individual it is impractical to have a one hundred percent control on the individual and communal security so it is up to the individual whom need to be secure in his/her skin. How can that be achieved, is going to be tuff without the education and the real and optimistic belief system of living, personally I would not want to spend all my energy to learn martial arts for the hypothetical scenario.

I believe, first of all people should have personal knowledge which includes emotional knowledge as well and then the understanding of the prevention.

If a parent hides or keeps the guns away from the kids, it is exactly like a community wanting to have the gun control.

Say you want to make a high rise building, what would you put in the basement or the foundation, it would have to be something solid, like steel and concrete so it can handle the volatility to withstand the disturbances.

As a human individual our knowledge is that foundation, if we put our emotions in our foundation we can potentially have some big problems in the future like the collapse of the whole building over a miner breakup. The politics of gun control is related with the emotions so it should be looked at, as a community whom is responsible for the individual security.

If you place your emotions as a foundational materiel just like religions have done for thousands of years, we can have a whole lot of social problems. From failed relationships to extreme beliefs to emotional, physical, mental and spiritual health problems are a few to mention. As an individual and collectively as a society we have the duty to evolve, if it is not done for whatever reason we all pay the price.

Always remember if the community or a religion gets a reputation of an insecure community there is good chance that people would start to move away from it. Just look at our refugee crisis, a war can be handled by the people for a short period but if it persists the people start to move away from it because in the end of the day we all are here to raise our families in peace. Each and everyone has the right to live in peace but with the responsibility to follow the philosophy of, live and let live.

If the community can’t provide security, the new people would not move into it. Prices of the homes can drop or the mosques and churches would go empty and in the long run community would suffer as a whole.  That is why human societies have come up with unique communal security system which other creatures don’t have. Like police, armed forces secret services etc. and we all individually contribute into the community by paying taxes or working to protect our communal interests.

If we are totally evolved emotionally we probably can handle our guns and or even weapons of mass destruction but human beings are far from it, just look at our conflicts and the sheer number of gun related killings. If one is insisting to have a gun he/she is concern about the person security and since the government can’t provide that fail proof security, it is a pickle for modern day society.

To reduce the crime rate individual education, security and related necessities are communal responsibility so in my opinion education, education and education should be the mantra.

If we want the individual freedom, it comes with the price of personal insecurity and if you rely on the community, you still have to pay the price to give up some of your freedom.

Whether we like it or not some times it can cause problems as well, just like police brutality and corrupt cops etc. or lack or non existence of the laws according to the demands of the times.

As the time changes our law enforcement and justice system should change as well, because after all the security system is for the individual and in the end of the day it is the individual who pays the taxes to pay for the whole security system literally. That means police and all the security systems should respect the individual even someone is on the other side of the law because it relates with the human individual equal rights. The passionate policemen or women should not be a part of the street policing because mistaken identity can be a problem, just like the tennis pro case.            

If you look at the reasons of our wars mostly they are related with the group security interests and politics. Life is not regarded or valued at the individual level, yet the group is formed by the individuals so the individual rights should be regarded by all governing systems period.

How, when and why did the individual lost his/her powers to the group? The answer is not in the history it has always been inside the individual. Whether you are a victim or a victimizer it is because of your deep insecurities or your vulnerabilities to the sense of belonging. The antidote for you is to become a CEO of your life, who knows the value of the philosophy of don’t do to anyone what you don’t like done to you.

You may go through a process of learning to stand on your legs with your own justice system to live by. Eventually you will get the sense to speak the truth for yourself, your belonging group and yes even for your enemy group as well.

What would it do to the politics of the world is another thing but it sure will transform you and your world from the inside out. From inner peace to guilt free life is rewarded for you and in the long run, peace in general for the world.

In your mortal and temporary life the purpose of your life is not for you to just succeed in personal gains of materiel wellbeing, it’s a mutual balance for both individual and collective mass you can call humanity or God.

You can secure your finance but you can only eat so much use resources so much and in the end of the day your reality does not change. The mortality is a fact of life and it still remains regardless of your financial success or collectively our medical advances.

You come in life you get oxygen and when the time is up you lose that. Simple truth so wise up and really enjoy the ride, and no it is not just to get drunk and be happy, in reality it is strange but true that the deep individual happiness and contentment  is in the reciprocation, meaning serving the humanity would bring you deeper and fulfilling happy life.

If you find yourself doing too much to achieve more and more, you may have a problem with the over powering sense of belonging. The strong desire to fit in, impress or to be admired are clear signs of personal and spiritual imbalances.

Seeking and changing frequent partners is not just the animalistic thing, it can be related with  the distorted planning of living life permanently. If we all look at life as it really is, we would not sacrifice our life for the social trends, friends, traditions, customs, or especially following the rules of the religions. Our temporary life is not just for the belonging groups alone, it is individual’s responsibility to be a good friend to the self as well. Life is God’s gift to the man for the reciprocation, you do your share to care for the community but you have the right to enjoy the visit as well. There are forces whom want to deny you that, with  their political agendas, using you,  praising you and then discarding you, has been around since the dawn of the civilization.  It is your duty to understand your standing especially in your mortal life so be a good  CEO.      

Human race, religions or nations praise there heroes and sheroes, whether its sport star or a military individual. Interestingly we compare them with the predator creatures like lions and eagles, we glorify their bravery; write poetry to inspire our new generations so they keep following  our ancestral knowledge of sense of belonging.

Why do we have the deep desire to be predators? Why do we feel inspired by the stories of the bravery of our ancestors? And why don’t we question the behaviors and philosophy of conquering the other human beings? Aren’t we evolved enough as an individual so we can see behind our communal politics which is based solidly on the philosophy of prejudice and denying the other human beings their basic rights.

My understanding about this behavior is that if you look at yourself as a physical creature and you are not evolved yet you would compare yourself with the predators and be proud of it, and if you consider yourself as a spiritually evolved entity you would seek the equal human rights and yes even if it is for your foes.

The confusion would always be present for the individual if he/she has an imbalanced sense of belonging which has the potential to make the individual an extension of an ideology and nothing more. Yet a human being is a lot more than our present understanding. Just look at the advances we are making in all departments of our life and it is all happening because of the individual.

A balanced individual would be called a human being. We are the creatures ripened way before our birth with the compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and the capacity to love all ingrained, a creature with the ability to evolve to be a God like spiritual entity. It is individual’s responsibility to live life with the individual balance, so his/her temporary or a mortal life is a harmonious melody for self and the community around simultaneously and I mean the whole humanity not just the belonging group.

Since we can’t be spiritual, being dead our first priority and responsibility is the survival, so if you live in the bush, just like other creatures you have to survive even by eating other creatures as food. If your fridge and cupboards are full of food products, you don’t have to kill anything or rob others to survive.

You can go and take matters to extreme and kill other creatures just because you can or for the fun of killing but personally I think by now we should be evolving much further than that. People go for sport fishing they catch and release, it shows that I can but I would not. Its individual evolution, if you take what you need to survive is one thing and sport killing is another and I feel our dentists are highly educated people so it is not only our education it is our spiritual education that matters.

Back to comparison with the predators, if you kill to eat and feed your off springs is a survival but playing with the live food is not an evolved act we as human beings should never compare ourselves with less evolved creatures because we are better than that or at least we should be.

We are in the process of evolution and during the process of evolution nothing is one hundred percent right and wrong, so we can’t just judge or defend our knowledge as the ultimate, with our evolving thus limited knowledge. This conflicting knowledge especially during the process of evolution can be quite confusing for the individual, so we want to believe our religious and general knowledge is as complete personally I think it relates with the sense of belonging which gives birth to ego, pride and honor.

For instance if we reward acts of bravery with the medals, it is to encourage others to do the same for the belonging group and it is promoted as a duty. It has a strong smell of the politics, especially when it comes to reward the war crimes committed by the individuals for the belonging group. Killing opposing groups human beings regardless of innocence, is not only a war crime, it should be counted as a spiritual crime as well because it has the potential to hurt the hurters as well. As human beings we all commit it, because we know it emotionally hurts when you rob someone of love. That is the reason why as the wars persist the passion rises and the conflicts can carry on indefinitely.

Every evolved society has the law and order with the justice system which calls for the punishment for the same acts in a civilized world. It teaches us to work against these killing urges yet we hand the guns to the young people to do our dirty political work and save them behind the walls of security, but it is harder to save them from themselves.

The soldier suicide is so common it is mind blowing. One of the problem is that we want them to grow up as nice young people who care and be a law abiding citizen for the belonging society yet kill other human beings. Being human beings they have the decency inside but are worked up by the politics to help their belonging community. After they have committed the acts of so called braver deep inside they know it was wrong, thus they carry the guilt with the knowledge of spiritual wrong doing.

I like to see where is the disconnection? This contradicting knowledge of human societies creates confusion and actual internal conflicts, especially when it comes to the evolved individuals.

If we can’t balance the beast and the spiritual entity residing inside of our physical body, we need to evolve to become a CEO, who can balance, foresee and evolve towards the potential.

The biggest problem is the hurdle of the sense of belonging, which can only be harnessed by the individual one person at a time. This balancing act is within the reach of all individuals with the equally powerful sense of freedom, if he/she can understand and overcome the belonging group’s politics.

If your group is always singing songs of honor, pride and ego related  bravery, remember it’s all about the sense of belonging which can give you false self esteem and sense of superiority but deep inside you can become a ticking time bomb for yourself. If you live by the ego, it has the potential to cut you both ways, it’s not only harmful to the others, it is harmful for the individual in the shape of guilt which an individual has to carry for the rest of his/her life.

Today it needs to be figured out by the individual and the humanity collectively that a single spiritual problem can show several signs of mental health, we can make them docile by prescription drugs but addressing the cause is the best medicine. The word we have been hearing and recognizing is the PTSD a phenomenon which lingers in the individual’s life way after he/she has served his/her community as a job.

Drunk driving comes to mind, if and when you hide behind the job, if you think that you are just doing your job for your belonging community you are hiding behind the community as an extension, yet you know that you are more than that, because you are a decision making machine. Since your actions are solely your responsibility, your confusions need to be cleared by you individually other wise you may be charged by the drunk driving if not by your community it would be by you the real you who lives in your body and rules everything including your brain.

It’s time to evolve to come out of the group mentality, because this philosophy has done enough damage to the humanity. It is time to join the whole humanity as one entity, it’s time to rethink past or ancestral knowledge for the sake of coming generations because we have armed them with the a whole lot of guns, nuclear and other weapons of mass destruction. If they continue on the same path as we are on, the holy books predictions can come true.

Personally I look at God as humanity not some outdoor entity who is hell bent to destroy the humanity to commit suicide.

I optimistically believe we have the power to change the outcome by evolving to the next level and that is going to come from the bottom up not from the top down and by that I mean, individual becoming a CEO to change everything, from our religions to our politics of nationalism.

Today internet has connected the humanity in such a way; we can turn things around to change the path to heaven on the earth instead of hell on earth. Our previous knowledge is sure way to the hell because we are creatures who has the potential to kill for fun but at the same time we have the ability to evolve to unchain ourselves from the ancestral knowledge. With the help of internet we can connect with each other beyond the walls and the boundaries all nations and religions.

The so called security a belonging group, nation or a religion provides is a mirage in the desert, the real security is within the skin of the each and everyone of us. 

Every race, religion or nation claim to be separate and different than others, and put a lot of efforts to keep their identity especially with their clothing just look around. They all are proud of their heritage regardless of the past cruelties committed by their ancestors, they put fuel on the fire by reciting the bravery in their history books as the good guise.

This brings this question to my mind that how far back we have to go to claim the land we live on. Remove the politics, you will end up with raw nature and if you go further back to science of carbon, there is no one but one. Even other creatures who mark their territories can’t sustain the territory the way we do, heck we even own a piece of land hundreds of years after we have been dead.

Survival and awareness should be enough to help us respect each other. If you feel special and God sent with the special rights, you are stuck in the politics of physical life, you need to introduce some spirituality in you day to day life.

Get out of the same old become spiritually aware and evolve. Ask a hundred year old dying individual, if his/her material things matter, the land title, business and expensive jewelry can stop their dilemma.

Passing your riches to your loved ones may make sense on the surface but in reality it is still political. Taking care of others while you are living is the real spiritual thing to do. The spirituality has the benefits not only to the others, its good feelings for you as well. Bring peace to yourself from within in your living days because life is not only for living, for afterlife. Being fearful of God or sacrifice today to buy luxurious life after death is not and should not be more important than living years it is all about reciprocation now not later.

It’s all about making contribution to the humanity while you are alive and useful. The real reason of human’s life is to help humanity reach its potential. The real prayer is not bowing down to some majestic and unknown God, it is to help God in practical way so God can help the needy in their living years and you are the helping work horse God can’t live without so respect yourself. Your are told that you are nothing, it is because if you really believe that you would be easily controlled very smartly put together political theory.

After death is an other story full of unknown and assumptions, if you are good and save money to give it to the religious leaders you are going to heaven. Right, well no one comes back and tells the real story what is beyond our living years. If you really want to contribute to help, help the living instead of building big and majestic mosques and churches. Which is going to help you to create peace from with in. You can choose to support the religions so they can keep us kill each other or you suck the air out of their sails and stop the wars by adding com back into the passion which they had taken out. Being spiritual will bother you to see the image of the little boy who died trying to come to Canada.

If you help all human beings and other creatures regardless of the politics of the belonging group you are a CEO. Just like the medicine men, scientists and the individual’s whose inventions helped the humanity progress and evolve. For instance airplanes, cars, computers, insulin, antibiotics and all kind of medicine etc etc.

As individuals we all have that CEO in us, it just needs to be recognized by the individual him/herself. If you start to look at yourself as you really are, you would not want to retire or quit working because it is all about being useful to the humanity.

The real feelings of fulfillments are in the zone where you help someone in need. This a natural phenomenon which should be understood by all of us.

The trend to look forward for the retirement is common, as human beings we are all connected with the humanity, whether we like it or not. From birth to death there is a constant give and take connection. You may think you are working and getting paid, but in reality you are helping the humanity and humanity reciprocates thus you are being a spiritual being even if you believe that you are an atheist.

We can’t just say oh I did my job, so now I deserve to do nothing. The economics is one thing but spirituality is the real thing to connect the man to real and meaningful happiness. If you feel that you can’t help others by not going to work, never forget that you have the ability to always be helpful to the humanity with your life experiences. Teaching others is a spiritual duty and no one should be free of it. It can be done regardless of age, working or retired life. Its the duty of the local politicians and the society to find the ways to match the people to help each other and be productive, feel good and help in the process of evolution so we all can contribute in reaching our potential.

It is not only the individual potential we should care for, we need to evolve as humanity as well so we can do our part what has been, is and will always be the purpose of the individual’s life. Yes even collectively we have a duty to follow our potential if we start to kill each other for whatever reason we go against God’ will because it would slow down the process of reaching our potential. God would have not put an evolutionary nature into the human beings if it was not the responsibility  to reach the potential.  Eeven if you are told otherwise by your religions you still have to evolve to reach that potential. 

This is related with the little boy who was found dead face down on the Turkish beach, trying to come to Canada. All I want to write is curse and swear words.  I could not resist because my whole theme of writing is related with the evolution so we don’t have to go through these kind of tragedies.

So here it is and please ignore the English stay focus on the content.

I heard a Punjabi song a while back the verse was stuck in my head because I think it is related with the education of the sense of belonging to a group and which most people take pride in.

Baki gullan baad ch sonyain, pahalaan serdar hann,

The translation is

Everything is after, first I am a Sikh, since I understand Punjabi I know what it means.I grew up in Pakistan and being a Muslim we had the same education, if you are a Christian or Jew or American or belong to any other nationality, or religion and you think your identity is not human being first, get it straight.

You are on the wrong path, because you were born as a human being to human beings first.

The education we all grew up with, and are discouraged to think beyond the belonging group’s interest is totally political even it says it is our religion first.

We all qualified by our genetics as human being first. This is the disconnection need fixing. This is the fundamental flaw in our education systems and the dead dog of our past and present problems and I hope it gets solved so it can’t be carried on into our future.

All the prejudice, religious extreme and racism and related wars and social problems stem from our education at home.

Its crucial to learn about deeply ingrained and conflicting senses from within. It is time to learn to harness the emotional response which makes us rob each other of love (Read Love triangle). It is time for each and everyone of us to assume our responsibilities to become a CEO. The one who can do the justice beyond the emotions and conflicting senses.

To the impotent politicians of the world look at this picture and see where you are going wrong, get your act together. Take your responsibilities seriously and recognize the issues, especially the one can’t be swept under the rug.

Just like Obama said, if you use chemical weapons that would be a red line to cross, but nothing was done. So everything was swept under the rug, out of sight out of mind. Well this boy’s death is one of the living example and is a message to the whole world don’t sweep the conflicts under the rug.

Formation of the Isis is an other example of not attending the issues promptly. The veto system in the united nation is an other failed system to blame as well.

Where are those power houses whom created Israel, divided Iraq and Kuwait, form new map of the middle east and created over two hundred countries all over the world. Why can’t we think beyond the religions and nationalities aren’t we human first?

May not be simple and easy but if you take out the religion from the politics and politics out of the religion, you would be able to treat everyone with the justice and compassion.

I have written before about the human jewellery,

1- Love

2- Compassion

3- Forgiveness

4- Sacrifice

If you take these off what you got left is an animal. All religions talk about these things, but looking at the history they actually remove the com from the passion thus we are in a predicaments like these innocent deaths. We have been fighting passionately and killing innocents. Exactly the opposite of the education religions talk about.

There punishments for the crimes are harsh, no com but passion. They judge the individual and claim everyone is a sinner and need forgiveness. The pope just said we should forgive the women whom have had abortions. Who are we to punish or forgive, I strongly believe if a child is coming it is God’s will, if it is God’s will why one should be punished or be  forgiven. I believe God lives through the humanity, thus every child born is a new cell of God to reproduce God. Blaming the individual for simply being playing a role in the bigger picture is not spiritual it is political.

Why change the tune now, why not fifty years ago or hundred or thousand or two thousand years ago. It is because we have to evolve especially when the tide is turning people are refusing the extremes or religions as they are becoming educated.

Personally and spiritually I am against the abortion and euthanasia because we all are part of an organism as well as an independent entity so as long as we are use full to the humanity we should hang in to do our jobs.

But in the end of the day the individual should have more say in his/her life, you just can’t order or condemn without educating people. Life is not just the human doing, it is happening as well. Just look at the conception what are the odds for a sperm to become a human being. Even after becoming an individual we rely on the oxygen which is not in our control and when we inhale it, after that their are millions of things have to go just right in order for us to be living. It can be simplified and we do with our present understanding but it is not that simple. Regardless individual rights are still on top of my agenda. If you want to kill yourself or have an abortion it should be your choice as well as responsibility to be a living cell of the God, the real organism we belong to.

Religious orders should not be orders they should be choices and without any punishments because I believe our justice systems should be separate and above all our belief systems. A belief system does not follow logic its foundation is literally on the believing in something, which is beyond the understanding of the present day brain powers usage. So killing over a reality which is not understood is and should be against all logical justice systems.

Religious people are against the education, my mother told me that she wanted to go to high school but her father denied her, even he was a teacher himself.

My hats off to Malal Youssef because she took a stand for the education in a culture which still stands against equal rights for all, whether it be education or work.

I believe we will always have difference of opinions but our problems can only be solved with our evolution and education to get ahead in all departments of life. People working openly against the education is usually in the cultures of control. Like Taliban in Afghanistan and Pakistan in east and in the west we have Hutterites and Mormons, they want their people to live simple, obey and follow the rules of the religions. I have nothing against it until they take it to the extreme and end up in the place where human rights are violated.

It is all fine if there is com in the passion otherwise it is all politics no spirituality because religion without the compassion got nothing to offer to the individual to become a better person.

Our civil wars are strongly related with the distorted sense of belonging. The responsibility of which lands on the shoulders of the individual whom makes the final decision to join the group to fight and kill the other human beings regardless of the innocence or guilt.

Lack of individual knowledge especially when it comes to balancing the inner and conflicting senses should be recognized by the individual. So we all should know exactly who we are and what are we capable of. We are all each and everyone of us is a born CEO, who makes decisions everyday with the free will but some of us don’t, when it comes to the politics of the sense of belonging.

This little boy is telling the story that we all have to cross the lines to create balance between our sense of belonging and sense of freedom. He brought the com back and put into the passion.

I hope the people whom think that the refugees are burdens they would see what he showed with his death. I would add to that, as

I believe communities, cities, countries, and religions are not made of buildings, houses, roads and bridges, they are made of people because each and everyone of them carries a worth(Read Five bucks) what makes dead things alive and when you take the people out the town it becomes a ghost town.