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The Essence of the spirituality.

From the stories of the holy books to the modern day movies with the realistic special effects, our fascination has always been around. We spend a lot of resources to enjoy the fiction especially when it is realistic.

From the Dracula, Werewolf, Genie lamps, Witch craft and modern day Superman, Spiderman, Batman and so on. Our fascination and curiosity help us to evolve in all areas of our life, but when it comes to God or the things we can’t understand with our present capacity of understanding, some of us keep seeking but a lot of us accept the status co without questioning.

Our millions of years of civilization could not solve the mysteries of God, the promises of heavens and fear of hell. Kids don’t believe their parents when they try to instill the fear of God because the philosophy is wrong. Fear based control is no control at all. As soon as parents are not around the kids explode and they do the vary things they are told not to do.

Our societies are full of the spiritual crimes, we even believe we are the good guys yet our history shows and proves us as a violent creature. From social crimes to our wars don’t draw a very nice picture of humanity. But we should give ourselves a break, because we are still evolving. So far we have learnt about the compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love from the holy books but our religions use the politics of sense of belonging to make us go to holy wars and commit spiritual crimes.

Personally I feel like a human cell who wants to see the whole body, my curiosity wants to solve the mystery of God but if I don’t even have the eyes or enough understanding how can I see? Everything about God has been, is, and will be an assumption until we reach our potential. Spiritually God and man has the connection which can be felt with every sense with the desire, but can’t be touched, seen or heard physically because you yourself is the part of it.

You can watch a movie with some good special effects and get scared or you can think of how all this is created as a movie whether it is real or not? It is all about the perception and its effects on you.

If you seek God you don’t have to go very far, just look at yourself, and if you want to see the Devil, still you don’t have to go very far. All you have to do is to look at your actions. You may not have the horn or the halo but your actions make you God or the Devil. You play the politics of God and the Devil to avoid the responsibility of your bad animalist actions.

Does that mean I don’t believe in God? I whole heartedly believe that I am connected to God, but I take responsibility of being the third equation so I use my five bucks and don’t play politics of God or the Devil ( Read Five bucks).

Today if you look at the strongest trend of humanity, it is as powerful, if not more as any religion or governing system. It is the equal human rights and because of that the world is going through the changes. This chaos will be there until we evolve to our next level. The next level of evolution requires for us to cross the boundaries lines of the belonging groups and join the humanity as a whole. These changes are coming because, deep inside each and everyone of us is a reasonable individual who understands the fundamentals of spiritual justice.

Don’t do to anyone, what you don’t like getting done to you, is one the fundamentals of spirituality. That is why the notion of equal human rights is spreading and spilling over the boundaries of every community, nation or religion. I believe in it whole heartedly because I believe there is no one special race, gender, nation or a religion. It is all between God and the individual human being.

Human rights simply should be pure of politics of influences because there is a direct connection between the human individual and the spirituality. Everyone believes that there is a middle man between God and the ordinary man. Spiritually speaking there is a direct line between the man, God and the Devil it is man’s choice where to call.

If we are the seeds or cells of God, then why are our actions related to the Devil? Because it is all about the evolution of our understanding. Just look at our history; our good and bad has been changing, intertwining and still changing. For instance we don’t throw the virgins over the cliff for the God, prejudice and racism are becoming spiritual crimes yet not too long ago they were social rules. Human rights were unheard of, God’s words were the laws and the world was run by the kings. Today it is different and what brings tomorrow, no one knows. We accept, assume and predict just like we did for millions of years. Where are we going? If you ask a religious person he/she would tell you to the end of the world, not a good picture for the systems which are designed to preach hope. I believe in the humanity that we will evolve and come together to create peace and learn to live with each other regardless of our differences. We already do, just look at the western societies there are all kind of people living together. Their religions, color or sexual orientation do not dictate or are above the law. Ideally in every human society human rights should dictate the justice system. If it is possible for us to live together in the western countries why can’t we live in peace in all over the world? Why there are religious wars? and why can’t we over come the extremism.

Political arms of the religions preaches that you are better than others. Believing that you are going to heaven and every one else is going to hell is pure prejudice, which needs to change because we don’t even know the clear picture of the other side. If we don’t or can’t use our compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love, we will always be entangled in the prejudice and related actions and wars. Spirituality preaches equal human rights, if you look at Islam spiritually it is clearly for the equal rights because the prayers put every one’s head in each others feet, but when the politics takes over the whole hell breaks lose. A clear violation of the human rights.
I believe all religions should stick to the spirituality and get out of the business of the politics, because spiritually God is for the human being and human being is for the God. The essence of the spirituality is to see God in the person next to you regardless of the differences.

In the core human has a beginning of a wild animal, which is part of our make up.
Today when a baby cries the mother or father runs to comfort; whether to change the diaper, feed or just to hold. As human beings we catch on quickly even as a baby and demand continuously. If the demands are met everything is fine, otherwise the problems persist. If the caregiver is not understanding, he/she will raise the child with the over powering animal side. If the care giver looks at the time, and think I have just changed, fed and held, there is no need to attend, let him or her cry. Babies will cry for awhile and on realizing nobody is coming, the first step towards becoming a human has been taken. Self restraint is best learnt in the beginning. The balance should be understood by the parents. It’s not only good for themselves, it is good for the baby when he/she grows up. All our lives we have to deal with our desires, if the foundation is not set properly we will have a struggle, in weight management, relationships and of course with the law. By nature we have two competing sides, and the gift of free will to create balance.
Without the understanding and practical use of any knowledge keeps those words into words. Words only become wisdom when they are used in practical life.
People recite words from the Quran or the Bible and believe that would solve their problems in their living years and take them to the heaven after they die.
Belief systems have a placebo effect on human beings, but it does not work for everyone. When it works for someone he/she would not understand why others don’t believe like him/her. Strongly religious people usually try to fit the others into their shoes instead of trying to fit in the others. That kind of belief system is an extreme which takes us away from basic fundamentals of social life.
If you look at the knowledge from the holy books, it is mostly for the individual to be a good person and live for the others and God, meaning sacrifice this life for the others and there will be life after death.
Great philosophy of control to use people for the society’s well being. Nothing is wrong on the surface but everything including well intended knowledge has its consequences. The individual and his/her animal side would object to that. When the individual is forced to live life in a sacrifice mode the animal side explodes with the bad consequences. Deeply unhappy and strict these people are trying and struggling to have relationships with their children and people around them. (Read the Love triangle)
The vary essence of the holy book’s spiritual knowledge gets lost in the politics of it. The compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice and love take back seat when the emotions flare up because of the differences. These differences are deeply connected to our animal side. Strict parents force children to fear God and live for the after death, yet fail miserably. So where is the disconnection, yes the answer is the animal deep inside of all of us. The legitimate side of the man or a woman.
Our religions and other social systems have been hell bent to kill that animal for eons with no success. We are still banging our head even it is bleeding, after all the civilization. By now we should be wiser and acknowledge the legitimacy of our animal side and make deals with it instead trying to kill it.
I have been getting hundreds of calls from the people who want to teach me Quran. One of the caller called me a kafir, meaning infidel just because I questioned the knowledge of fasting and prayers. I said we live in north far enough that in summer the day light can last for twenty four hours. What should one do about the fasting month, we have to be able to make some amendments otherwise it is not good for the individual. Since our prayers and fasting times are connected to the sun light. I believe in the room for amendments in all kind of human knowledge including all constitutions and religions. Pope has changed his views about the homosexuality because logically religions, as spiritual systems can’t be against the human rights. Discrimination or even individual suffering from fasting twenty four hours a day is plain wrong.

FIVE BUCKS
Metaphorically speaking each and every one of us has five bucks. If there is a measuring device we can measure the smarts, strength and the ability to live for self and help the others around.

Say you are standing on the bank and you have to get to the other side of the river. First of all you have to think, plan and then act on your plan. You can gather some branches, make a raft and row yourself to the other side.
If the wisdom, power, energy and the ability to do everything is measured, metaphorically it is worth five bucks for each individual. If the whole community contributes their fiver to build a bridge, everyone in the community can cross the river whenever they want to.
Logically a single individual is weaker than the big family depending, if they get along and work as a unit. One can be very smart and have a lot of resources to hire lot of helping hands to function at a higher level. Either way that smarts still comes from the five bucks.
Fighting infectious diseases like Ebola out break, issues with Global warming, spread of internet or even building of space station is best functioning or its usefulness is meaningful if the humanity comes together with five bucks at a time.
An example, a human cell is meaningless on its own but with the right circumstances, it has the power to create a whole and functioning body of the human being with limitless potential. We each have trillions of cells in the body, individually cell may be insignificant but when work together the potential is limitless. There is a new world record of dead lift, someone just sent me on the face book and it is one thousand one hundred and fifty five pounds. I see there is a potential to spare, because I know for sure someone will break it some time in the future.

A child tries to mimic his/her parents and feels the limitations because of the comparison between him/her and grown up parent.
I am using this comparison between God and the human individual. Just like the child we put everything impossible for us on God’s shoulders. We expect that God should take care of every thing what concerns us.
In case of our inability to take care of the task at hand, we pray to God and ask for help. Believing that you are going to get help is great, but after you have used up your five bucks, just like the individual who built the raft to cross the river. The idea of building a bridge and community coming together is God speaking through the human individuals. That means all the advances made by the man kind is related with God as well. These advances are made because God and the mankind are evolving with each other’s help.

If you separate yourself form God which most religions believe we are. That is the reason even the most innocent of us is considered a born sinner and insignificant according to the belief systems. I believe each and everyone of is a third equation in the grand scheme of life and that is because of that fiver, it is not going to go very far if you believe that you are born in sin.

As an individual you have been put down for thousands of years, if you really buy into that you run the risk of being worthless, thus become the victim of the inferiority complex, which would give all the business and the powers to the religion runners. You want to see the proof just look at the majestic buildings of the religions, yet regardless of the head pounding or bowing down on your knees you can’t find God in there.

The real God is found in the practical help to the humanity. There was a survey in New York, what made people really feel happy? The over whelming answer was that when people could help an other human being in need. This is the spiritual happiness everyone is seeking when they go to the mosque of church. Ask yourself if you are spiritually getting fulfilled by going to mosque or church. If not go out and find a charity and pray practically, which is related to the God who lives through the humanity.
When you chew more than you can handle it is usually related with the fiver you have.
Ask yourself if you are the one who expects the community to provide you with bridges, or are you the one who can built the raft and row your self to the other side of the river.
Instead of sitting on the bank of the river, you should take charge and live your life on your terms. If you are waiting and expecting the community’s help, you don’t respect your fiver and have no idea of its value.
You think it is not enough to function at the level you desire so you fail before even trying. Society has brain washed you and you don’t even try to use your fiver to live your life. There is an attitude of inferiority complex and lack of self worth.
The trail blazers usually appreciate and value that fiver, they take charge and dive into the adventures of life fearlessly.

Happiness is usually related to the understanding of your ability to be flexible, when you accept your limitations and at the same time understand your potential. You can easily understand that, when you become a CEO of your life, other wise you are going to be swept away by the politics of God, Devil and the politician who is running the religion.
There is always a hidden picture, and it is you who has to clear all the influential fog of the time and era you are born in. After all you are the one who is mortal with all the responsibilities of your individual happiness and contentment.

If you get caught up in the personal strength and believe that you have way more than the five bucks. You became a doctor or a successful business man or a super star in any field by your personal efforts, or believe that you are doing everything by yourself is not acceptable to me, because I believe, you have been helped all along.

From helpless baby to grown up, there has always been help all along to keep you alive. The sky is not falling, the oxygen is still there yet you have no control over it. That is external, and the body is so complex internally that we still don’t know everything about it. At times the best doctors can’t save a dying individual whose time is up so running the show is not a task of the one single individual.

The functioning of the body is no less than a miracle, if you still believe you are doing everything you are making your life too simple, just ask the sick about the vulnerabilities, especially to the patient with the brain disease who had been the most successful in everything what he/she has touched throughout his/her life.
I am not humanizing God, I am trying to clear the clutter to make my case, so we can take our individual responsibilities and stop killing each other over unfinished and incomplete knowledge of God.
Your fiver is a direct connection between God and the man or a woman, there is no middle man everyone is blessed with the free will so it is not related with the religious beliefs it is deeply related with the personal spirituality.

The politics of sense of belonging and the knowledge about the falls securities has come to the point, that we need to cross the lines of group politics and enter into the zone where the humanity is an evolving organism and one entity. The God and mankind live through it.
As the human individual evolves and gain strength, God strengthens as well.
Today instead of throwing the innocent virgin over the cliff to please God we can save lives by predicting the path of the storms and tsunamis. We have a lot more knowledge about the earthquakes but no control yet, because we are a work in progress.

It may be against the popular beliefs but I personally don’t believe God punishes, is a destroyer or wants sacrifice, it is all related with human emotions and with incomplete knowledge. If God was responsible for everything, our five bucks, free will or our justice systems throughout  the world become meaningless.

Just think and feel if you use your free will everyday, what makes you to use the politics of God and the Devil? If you dig in, and be honest you will find your sense of belonging is getting the best of you. As a CEO, if you can strain out the politics of all kind you will find the spirituality.
Regardless of the differences humanity gets together when natural disasters hit. These are the glimpses of God through the human beings, only if one wants to see it.
We want God to protect us because we have been taught to put God in that position, where God can do any and everything, with this notion we take our five bucks out of the equation and sometime face with the disappointments.

A father or a mother protect the child with the best of their efforts but sometimes it’s not enough. A teen can be reckless and handful, regardless of the availability of the help, it can be difficult for them see and appreciate that help because of the hormones. No parents can help and control one hundred percent of the time. When a grown up human acts like a teen it is because of the incomplete knowledge and obviously the lack of understanding of the hormones. Our chemicals dictate how we feel, thus we get our egotistic emotions go wild when it comes to the knowledge of God.
Sure we have to know more about our emotions, the entity who runs the computer and uses the information has to have the upper hand.

Whether we like it or not there is new theme of religion, and yes that is the human individual rights, even Pope has to changed his tune because the world is changing. Just look at the Irish referendum, human rights are the number one reason a Catholic country allows a gay marriage.

I believe a religion is a spiritual system which should be pure of politics. Having to set the religious rules as the law belong to the political arm of the religions which has no place in spirituality. Religions have put their foot in their mouth because they connected God with their laws, thus can’t be changed. All laws have to have the reason and the foundation, and God is in the zone where no one knows for sure or I would say one hundred percent. That is what makes me against the capital punishment as well because our knowledge regardless of the area, is never complete. Killing someone with out the complete knowledge is not acceptable. The proof is in the pudding, just look at our everyday progress, from the technology to science to human relationships we are evolving into a new era regardless of the resistance put by the conservative and religious people.

DOTTED STORY: CONTROL VERSUS HAPPINESS
May24th 2015
I took the kids to McDonald’s long time ago, they use to give the coloring sheet with the meals. It had a maze, a picture and then an other picture with the dots and numbers. If you can read the numbers you can create the picture and then color it. I believe God has a picture for all of us but the numbers are not there for us, so it is the individual who has to connect the dots to create his/her respected picture. If you are lucky you can find the right one and stay healthy, happy and successful, otherwise you may follow the trends of the society and try to create a picture of influences, thus lose your happiness and eventually health. If you feel that you are successful regardless of your happiness or health it is your personal choice. As a mortal you can’t sacrifice your whole life for the other people’s approval, or spend whole life to fit in, impress them or be admired by them.

Imagine giving a picture to the child with no numbers. He/she would still have to connect the dots to create a picture but would have to rely on his/her imagination. If he/she is unable to create the picture, he/she will get frustrated which could further complicate the problem.

That is why there are so many frustrated people – we all have an idea in our minds of how we would like our lives to be, but we must use our imagination and connect the dots. We can also rely on outside sources, like our parents. If we are fortunate, we can figure out a pretty good picture. If not, we run the risk of messing up the picture and
spend our lives trying to fix it .

A less-than-perfect picture can create a personal struggle, which can last an entire lifetime. This frustration can cause adults to act like a child and mess up the whole picture, or even worse, walk away from it all. Patience is the key to avoiding this situation.

You also need to have faith in the picture you were given. You must examine if it is your desires that are causing you the frustration, usually the desires are related to the influences of the society. You need to accept the fact that nature plays a strong role in your life.
For instance, suppose you were destined to become a mechanic, but instead you became an accountant, or you were destined to become a professional basketball player, but your parents forced you to become a doctor. It is unrealistic to expect that everyone will be successful in every career they choose. As a temporary being you have to be happy at all cost. The measure of the right picture is your happiness and contentment.

The definition of a successful life is determined by how content and happy you have lived. If you knew that life was like writing an exam, and that happiness and contentment are the answers how would you fare by following the life style you are following. Life on earth, a temporary period, means knowing how to manage your life to ensure, that it is fulfilling.
By nature you are meant to be a CEO of your life, and you should not limit yourself to being a manager of one department. Being successful without the happiness or health is no success at all.

You need to map out your life with the vision of a successful CEO, who could mange all departments with equal or balanced attention. It may be hard at times but you have the potential. Each and every one of us has the responsibility and the ability to judge and make choices with the gift of free will. If you have neglected the department of health or spirituality along the way, because of you were too busy taking care of other departments, you may regret latter in life. Without health there is unhappiness and with out spirituality the deeper happiness and contentment of life are unachievable.

Yes, it is all a matter of happiness. We have it all wrong when we want to be somebody we’re not. Society places pressure on us – high hopes and a lack of faith pushes the individuals to sacrifice and spend whole life as if everything is on the horizon which never comes and then it is too late. We are in this world where the salesman mentality rules: Push, push, push, and you will succeed, succeed to get what? hopefully its happiness.

Just think for a minute about what success means to you. It’s happiness in all parts of life. Having all the money in the world will not bring about happiness. If you were to have a terminal illness, you would realize that you are not here for eternity. Life is temporary, so live yours to the fullest. Life is about more than connecting the dots. You have a limited time for every thing; you just have to break it down into our 24-hours a day. You have to work, sleep, eat and still leave some time for fun. You have to be a believer for your picture to be complete. Don’t be afraid to let fate play a role in your life.

When we have a target in front of us, we can shoot an arrow, and watch it hits the target. The result is immediate, but sometimes, we have to shoot the arrow at an unseen target. That requires skill as well as luck. A lot of people who are bad shooters think they are messed up and blame themselves for everything wrong in their lives. We are not 100% of anything, until we reach to our potential. We probably use twenty percent of our brain power which makes us far from potentially what we can be. I believe spirituality, for example, works against boasting or bragging because it is not only you, who is making it all happen. It is that little oxygen you breath in first before you are able to make things happen. There is always somebody that makes you make things happen, and this entity can make you fail as well as succeed. The difference between you and other people is not just the effort or strategies you put into things, it is also the luck and destiny.

You can play music all your life in the bars or become a child super star overnight, just look around how many people want certain profession but end up doing something else. Ever wonder why? that is the dotted picture. If you are unhappy try something else you may find peace with in by believing and letting it go. If you achieve inner peace you may become more productive and useful to yourself and the people around you. Ultimately that is the foundation of the deep and inner happiness and contentment. Bottom line, Being productive period…..

Sense of belonging verses sense of freedom.

This is a vast subject but I would try to some it up, I may write more about it in future again.
Say you are walking around and deliberately step into the dog poop, while you walk you stink. Others around smell you and think down about you. Life has its responsibilities, you have to pay attention while walking around and especially you don’t step into the poop with intention. You can’t just say you don’t give a dame about the others around you.
Sense of belonging compels you to care what others think about you.
From the name brand clothing to muscle building to anorexia to suicide bombing they all are related to the sense of belonging.

This phenomenon is so powerful that we do things automatically without asking the questions and while we are abiding by the sense of belonging we think there is no other way. From cheering for your team regardless of the performance to killing and dyeing for your religions or nations regardless of guilt is perfectly normal thing to do.

The opposing thing is the sense of freedom, not giving a dame, it has the potential to make you lose your freedom yet it is called the sense of freedom. From the real jail to the jail of obesity is usually connected to not giving a dame.

These opposing senses are ingrained in the individual naturally yet the individual is given the free will to balance the imbalances. Whether its physical, psychological or spiritual all imbalances are individual’s responsibility. The inner demons are related to being torn apart or having an imbalanced triangle. In the end of the day the individual who uses the free will has more responsibilities than we are taught.

A belonging group would always seek and keep the powers to keep the individual from becoming stronger and questioning everything, so its up to the individual to follow to be a sheep or become a CEO. A CEO who can buy into the politics or question to make a good use of the God given powers of the free will.
You can make life limited or simple by following one or the other sense, but its your duty to balance the inner conflicts or demons individually. For instance, if you join a street gang for protection and security, there is a bigger force out there who is looking for the interest of the whole community which has the power to land you behind the bars. The law and order is required in the human societies and we have more people working against the gangs, thus your security can actually become an insecurity. Naturally the next step you take is to join the community, obviously it is bigger than the gang but it has its limitations as well, because the provincial rules need to be followed. The next comes the federal or national level of community, which also has its limits because the religions spill over the jurisdictions of the nations. Sometime they conflict and sometime they can live in harmony but the power struggle has been always present.

The affiliation with the religions come with its own set of rules as well, thus it is related with the politics of the belonging group. Any thing related to any one particular group of people, is a pure political system for the security and the well being of that particular group.

This is like the animals marking their territories, we are still doing that regardless of the level of our civilization or evolution. This has been around for millions of years, so it is the normal thing for us, thus we can’t or would not think beyond our boundaries. This is the vary reason we always have wars and can’t get together as a humanity, but these days nature is forcing us to think beyond our sense of belonging to one particular group and rethink the politics, because we can’t survive unless we start to pull together as a humanity. From the infectious diseases to global warming to information highway and everything in between is forcing us to think like a connected humanity.

The group politics makes us to live in the ponds with the boundaries yet we qualify as human individuals, who is boundless. Just look at the achievements of the mankind.
With that free will each and everyone of us is a CEO who needs to understand the right side up triangle.
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sense of belonging sense of freedom

The CEO has the power to create a balance or choose a side with choice.

Cheering for your team regardless of the performance is one thing but killing an other human being regardless of the guilt for your sense of belonging is a spiritual crime. As an individual you are responsible for your actions regardless of power of the sense of belonging because you are blessed with the free will.

If you consider yourself as an extension of an ideology or a nation, you have a political identity but spiritual identity comes from becoming a CEO who is connected to the humanity as a whole.

If you choose to be Black, White, Muslim, Christian, American, Canadian or Pakistani, or crusader of gender equality these are your political choices. Sense of belonging to certain group of people whether it is to a gang, gender community, nation or a religion has the potential to make you live in a pond with the boundaries or like a computer without the connection to the internet. just like the justice should be blind we need to look at equal rights for the individual blindly.
You are born to a human family which qualifies you as a human being thus you belong to the humanity since the day you are born, if your parents or community paints you as a part of their belonging group, you are being limited and denied your potential, because potentially you are a human being who is a born CEO. Since you use free will, you have to question if and when you are asked to commit spiritual crimes on the name of your community, nation or religion. You are connected to the humanity by nature first, then your intellect makes you the part of politics of your belonging group which is second and it is you who is the CEO, the balancing entity.

From the health care to personal relationship to spirituality, it always takes two to tango.
Health care is a great spiritual and humanitarian thing, but it should come with the individual responsibilities. You can’t just believe that doctor would take care of everything regardless of your life style. Life still is lived but there are certain standards for the wellbeing and the quality of life. If you don’t participate in your own wellbeing you have a disconnection in several departments of your life. For instance God is in the same vicinity; if you believe in God it can be very useful in individual’s temporary life but just like the doctor, God can’t work alone. Whether it’s a doctor or God they need your input and cooperation.

Regardless of the disabilities, if you are putting too much emphases or reliance on the doctor or God, health and life in general will leave you behind. A doctor can suggest certain things to live better and God can help you to provide the oxygen but expect your input to have your life a successful story. Most people believe in God, pray to God for protection and believe that whatever is not in their control God can do it for them. The expectations of God are regarded as, all the impossible things are possible if the God is on their side true and questionable at the same time. God helps who helps themselves, that is what I learnt as growing up.
God has been on the pedestal, especially in the Eastern side of the world where people put a lot more on the God’s shoulders compare to the West. It is like you let the God drive your car, and have faith in surviving the accident. In the West, God is given a back seat or altogether dropped out of the car both are extremes and need balance. I believe God should be in the passenger seat as a guide. If you kick the God out altogether your life is quite heavy and burdensome. If God is your driver your purpose of having a free will disappears and you are not taking responsibilities given to you. For instance it is our responsibility to evolve, if we stop doing our share we can end up losing faith if God does not show up when needed regardless of the prayers.
A doctor can expect from you to put more efforts in your health area, but do you? You are expected to pull your end of the bargain, meaning your side of the wheel.
Whether it is relationship with your doctor, God or your spouse it takes effort from your side. If you think that the other side is pulling so you don’t have to do anything, your personal expectations can cause imbalances in your personal relationships whether it is with God, your doctor or your spouse resulting in your unhappiness.
In any kind of relationship, both parties have to pull, if one wheel is stuck, the cart will go in circle and you would not get anywhere. If you are a part of a couple pull the cart equally, house wife or a house husband is not the issue, its about pulling the cart equally. Don’t hold sex as a put out because it is not a favor card. Sex is the most loudly speaking proof of reciprocation which is for the two of you.
If everyone begins to put an honest effort, life can be much happier regardless of circumstances. You will be physically healthy because of your doctor and your efforts, your relationship would be stronger because the cart is being pulled by both sides and spiritually you would be happier and content with stronger faith in God, just because you took responsibility according to your abilities.
Whenever you feel proud of yourself, be humble because everything you have achieved or are achieving is done after you have taken in that little oxygen which is provided to you, and you have no control over it, inside or out side of you.
If you feel there is no God start looking at the abilities of your own body how it runs and how sophisticated it is. If you think it is still an accident that you are able to even think and retain memory, remember you are not a computer. You are the one who is running the computer. As a baby you are born with the computer and we all install or get the memory installed as we grow but you are complete before the installation of the memory. Scientifically or religiously nothing is complete because we have not reached our potential yet, the proof is in the learning new things, inventing new things and evolving everyday, so claiming whether there is or there is no God is still an assumption related with the probably twenty percent use of the capacity. When we reach one hundred present of our capacity then we can passionately argue about the existence of God, Until then don’t take pride and credit of the whole thing because you, your body, brain and all the installed knowledge is dependent on that little oxygen you are blessed with.

Ladder of Horizon and the River of Time.

Picture yourself you are in the river of time which has different levels of calm and turbulence. If you are born into the turbulence zone, just like your parents did or you somehow fall into it, you will have to struggle and put efforts to stay afloat. If you are in the middle zone where you have sometime turbulence and sometime calm, you get to work and relax sometime. If you are born in the calm where you can stay afloat without putting efforts. Since every single one of us is in this metaphoric river and we can see everyone’s status, we all know where everyone is. So struggle begins for most of us, if you are in the turbulence you want to get to the neighboring calm and  turbulence zone. When you reach there, its a given that you would want to get to the calm zone. Our focus makes the calm a destination, so everyone strives to get there regardless of the price or mortal nature. Since our focus has the potential to make us forget the mortality we end up paying a heavy price of losing happiness and contentment necessary for a mortal to accumulate. A mortal individual should have one goal and that is to obtain as much happiness as possible before passing on. Yet we come in this life and get caught up in day today life so badly that we put our life on a literal hold. Our hopes and desires become too powerful to handle, so we struggle to get to the calm area of the river at all price and forget about our mortal nature, and spiritually get lost which cost us later in life.

Regardless of your placing in the river, if you find out that you have got six months to live, everything will come crashing down and your whole life will change. So as a CEO of your life you have the responsibility to make decisions and choices along the way but keeping your mortality in front. If you choose to seek calm zone of the river as a destination you would just make your life limited to certain department. As a CEO who is able to see their life as a business project with several departments, you would not neglect happiness and contentment. You would choose to be happy and hopeful in all kind of circumstances or the turbulence of life. That means you would understand life at spiritual level. When the time comes to leave it all behind, you will have the satisfaction that you have done the best you could in accumulating  happiness and contentment.
Since I am a personal trainer, by no means am I preaching complacency. I expect from myself and my clients to do better than they have done previously, so I tell them about my metaphoric ladder of horizon.

 Inspiration along with appreciation.
Say you are climbing a ladder with a lot of people above you, you work hard to climb, may be too slow for you but if you are slowly climbing one step at a time you are still climbing. Even its slow but if it still moving upwards it is still acceptable, but there comes a time. No matter what strategy you use or how hard you try you just can’t climb any more simply because you are stuck. You get frustrated and angry but no go, that is where you lose happiness and contentment of your life. When you are there where you have lost happiness, now is the time to look down and see how many millions of people want to be at your spot where you already are yet you are still unhappy. This is where spirituality come to put things in perspectives so look up and compare with the people above you but in spiritually healthy manors and get inspired by their success. Look down and appreciate what you have in your life so you can be open to happiness and contentment. Never to forget your temporary nature of visit because the kicker is that no matter how high or how low you are on this ladder you will fall off the ladder because of your individual mortality. Yet the ladder and the people above or below would go on as if the ladder is a ladder of horizon which has no end.
Now whether it is a river or a ladder, you as a CEO have the responsibility to live your life according to the bitter reality of mortality. If you choose the calm as a destination do so but not at all cost and remember it is hard to leave behind, what you have been working so hard for all your life.

GOD- IS THAT YOU?
Don’t just buy everything what someone sells to you, be a CEO of your life and ask questions, especially when it comes to making a decision to sacrificing this life for the next.
No one has ever produced any physical proof of life after death. There are several theories basically based on assumptions, and they openly require the individual to follow blindly.
What happens after you die has been, is and will be a mystery because we are still in the process of evolution and not a finished product. Until we reach our potential, we need to push for our evolution. Since no one can come back and explain the experience we have to expand our comprehension which would require some hard work. There are several things like God for instance is hard to comprehend so God should be used and accepted in the area of placebo effects, works but don’t know how. So to the atheist, don’t just be reactive to the religions. Accept being a human being, who’s knowledge is in complete. Same for the religious individual using sense of belonging based ego, pride or honor does not complete our evolving knowledge.
Having a metaphoric basket would help. Whenever you face a situation where you need more knowledge and you lack the understanding or comprehension, just put it in the basket and carry that basket around. Not only it can help you deal with your ego, it can give you the inner peace you are seeking. Knowing that your knowledge is not complete should make you humble and compassionate, but when you are told your knowledge is complete you become slave of the knowledge you attained. When you run into the situation where you discover that you need more you feel inadequate thus very defensive and egotistic. You can’t be egotistic about the in complete knowledge because we are designed to be in the process of evolution. No religion, ism or a group of human beings can complete or speed up the process of evolution. Just like the muscle building you have to lift heavier and push harder with the intensity to go further, we have to dig, scratch and push our limits endlessly to keep seeking our potential. If we claim that our knowledge is complete we stop seeking, thus can’t reach our potential thus defy the law of the nature and God.
Today the cell phones with unbelievable technology and are essential for our daily lives. All this technology would be a magical thing to impress the population in the past yet here it is, in everybody’s hands. Man is still vulnerable because of mortality and complexity of all the processes it take to be alive. We can’t claim that we have achieved all this on our own, because everything is done strangely simple yet most complex ways, even the use of the cell phone depends on that one single and simple notion and yes that is that little oxygen we can’t live without. This alone should be good enough for one to be humble spiritually speaking.

The point is, it is a blind faith but with the power full effects on the individual. How and why it works, the way it works, it still is a mystery.
We dig and rob the tombs and the graves of the people who believed that there is after life, so they took their stuff with them, they thought they would need in the next life. From Chines to Egyptians and all over the world archeologists keep discovering and researching, yet everyone keeps believing in the after life. I believe in the spiritual world without any ego I use my basket of the unknown and keep dealing with my day today realities to do the justice to every department of my life. I believe in the existence of the physicality of this life first, not second because it is more important to live this life with spiritual morals instead of the rules set by the political arms of the religions. Logically you can’t kill someone physically over the unknown reality, because killing someone is a physical reality.

Part two of the God is that you.
There are grave yards all over the world in every community regardless of the belief system. The dead man owns a piece of land yet that there are living homeless in every community. The only creature who keeps on living on a piece of land even after death and then there are people cremate there dead, what happen to the recycling where it really counts. We always go to our religions when it comes to the life and death because the topic is discussed as if it belongs to the religions. Mortality is a reality, thus it should be discussed at all community level and nothing should go to waist.
As a human we have the responsibility to be useful to the max for humanity, even after we are dead. Owning a land after death is not a reality related issue, it is about the emotions and I would suggest if you want to go to visit your dead relative you can give some money to the poor or feed the hungry on the name of the dead so the dead one is still use full to the community.

You are born into the humanity as a human being as a physical reality, you are Muslim, Christian, Canadian, American or Pakistani because of your intellectual education. The education is great if it makes you a better human being. If it is taking you away from being a human being you need to take charge and be a human being before assuming any other identity, because that is what and who you are.

It’s not about believing or denying the existence of God, because it is way too easy, one way or the other. Without the comprehension or understanding God killing over it should not be acceptable, and using God for political purposes is just absurd.
According to my understanding it is highly dependent on our imagination, our individual insecurities and the politics of our sense of belonging. If we know more about ourselves, and be honest about it. That means being pure of the politics of sense of belonging to a group or our own kind. We would be better off if we look at it with the physical reality. It is with the use of our free will and our awareness we can qualify to be a human who belongs to humanity and who can change the way things have been done for thousands of years.

God came to existence with the man’s awareness or man was created and ripened as God himself, divided yet together just like a human body. Every human cell has individual identity, yet they work for the body. Several things exist in human societies from Devil to witches and werewolves to vampires; human imagination has the power to create things from the thin air with powerful effects on the individual. Just look at a child who feels scared from just watching a movie, or even as an adult we have placebo effects as realities. Even the bigger reality is that human being has inventions in all departments of life, they all came to physical reality from the imagination, so human imagination can’t be taken lightly. People have been killing each other over it for a very long time. As an individual we should know the value and the power of imagination by now, its ability to touch human beings so deeply is literally mind blowing. Personally I believe this phenomenon is related with the politics of sense of belonging. You can convince an individual to blow himself up over his sense of belonging. If the individual is convinced, attached, brain washed and compelled that he/she is nothing without the belonging group and his/her belief system, or we are nothing more than the extension of our group’s ideology, then we will always have wars amongst human societies. Oppression, suppression, individual insecurities, sense of belonging and suicide bombing are all part of the human politics. Human imagination has the power to kill, die and invent to eradicate life. The holy books of the religions have the prediction and prophecies about the human future. Ironically we have knowledge coming from holy books that stats, God will destroy everything, I can understand individual suicide but I don’t have the understanding, why God would commit suicide. Are we causing God that much grief and pain that even God can’t take it anymore? I can’t picture anything existing without human imagination or human. The existence of spiritual world is not without human being, because spirituality has everything to do with the humanity. If you take away the third equation then there is no triangle of God Devil and the Man. If the God is good, the Devil is bad and the Man is judging what is good and bad then the good and bad does not exist without the Man. If the man is not there no one is there to benefit from good, or hurt from the bad. If God kills everyone, it means God would commit suicide, I don’t believe God is going to commit suicide, God is evolving with the human being and living within us. Does that make me an atheist or a non Muslim, may be in some people’s views, but I believe in God and God’s prophets just not their knowledge was complete.  I believe it’s connected with the man his control, human imagination and his politics of fear. If the religion promises all the nice things after you die, you can imagine, believe and make a reality for yourself, to create comfort in this life. To be a good spiritual individual who helps the humanity and God, then it serves its purpose. The assumptions and belief systems both should be helping us to live this living life better, if the drugs and religions start to hurt the individual, they are not working for the man kind. If an individual becomes spiritual because of the religious knowledge then it has its merits, but if a mullah, rabbi or a priest says God will help the depressed individual, I would say there should be social work degree essential for becoming a religious leader or an authority.  Unfortunately even after all the technology and thousands of years of pursuit, we still don’t have any proof, if God does not show up for the individual in spite of the promise of mullah, one can lose faith in God not only religiously but spiritually as well. As an individual, if you believe that you are a cell of God, not only God is present for you all the time, you yourself know your value. We are all produced by our parents and they have been reproduced by their parents or their ancestors and so on. We are all here to work and evolve the humanity and God, so they can help the weak and vulnerable amongst ourselves. We are not here to drive them crazy to the point so they can self destruct or  commit suicide. __Let’s all cross the lines of our insecurities and join in as a whole humanity, because our sense of belonging belongs to God and humanity as a whole, not to the gangs, communities, nations, races, genders or religions.

Regardless of who you are, how powerful you are, or you have the best genetics, looks or the job title. All you have done and achieved in your life or doing the impossible things, you are a mortal. In the end of the day always remember, that it is not all you, it is all done because of that little oxygen you brought in with your breath. That life giving oxygen is not in your control thus you can’t take all the credit for all that you are able to do. You can deny or ignore egotistically, or value the facts of mortality by being part of a big picture or an organism.

There is no doubt that one has the free will to make decisions and choices but the ability is solely dependent on that little oxygen. No one has to believe in, or deny God’s existence but I believe that there is a reason why most of us are able to think, function and naturally want to be helpful to humanity.

One can say it is all old style thinking, there is no God, it is all human beings assumptions. Maybe, but not believing is an assumption as well, so I would rather believe to have some comfort in my living years and cross the lines of death with hope and fearlessly. If I am comfortable in my skin I can, not only be humble, I would be nice and accepting of the differences of others. Being egotistic is the first sign of the lack of humbleness which is found widely in the extremist factions of all religions. For the quality in my mortal life, I should have some optimism and hope for the life beyond my living years.

The knowledge should not only take my fears and related anxieties away, it should add peace in my living years. Should that knowledge be taken from the assumptions to certainties? That highly depends on the individual, I would not deny someone the inner peace if they can achieve it by believing in God. The placebo effects, love and God falls in the same area, where the present intellect fails to reach.

The belief of nothingness comes from the same ego which,  deny the importance of oxygen provider. I believe in the oxygen provider even if it relates to the area of unknown.

I carry the metaphorical basket of unknown, I accept my incomplete knowledge and still pursue for my potential. The ego of knowing everything has always been around, yet we all along learn new things everyday. Man’s knowledge is not and I say it again is not complete thus its all assumptions one way or the other. You can give scientifically proven medicine to the patient it may work for some but not for the others. You can believe in God one hundred percent, fifty percent or seventeen percent still it is unknown because our comprehension is limited.

I don’t believe in the caps of religions and constitutions because we evolve and as an evolving entity we have to grow and keep room for the growth. As I believe in God, I believe the reasons for the free will and my boundless potential.

When that same knowledge turns into a destructive blind faith, or when the religions stray from the spirituality to dabble into the politics it can lead to arrogance, prejudice, racism, human rights violations and spiritual crimes. That is happening right now, people are being killed not because of their guilt, but just because they have been born in different belief system. If you ask the killers or their victims, majority of them probably would not even know very much about their respected belief systems. The knowledge has nothing to do with realities of their belief systems, this egotistic behavior has everything to do with the politics of the sense of belonging to a certain group.

It is pain full to even acknowledge that the neighbours kill each other over the sense of belonging to a certain group, there is no sense of self or knowing being a human being, the real belonging is belonging to the whole humanity. This weakness is a gold mine for the politicians of those groups.

If everyone believes in belonging to humanity as a whole, today we would have absolutely different picture of the globe. The bitter reality is that earth is the home for the humanity as a whole. There are no physical boundaries or lines, it has always been, is and probably would always be the sense of belonging to a group, dividing us with political lines. Yet it keeps pointing towards one inseparable humanity with our problems which require joint efforts like global warming or fight infectious diseases. If you look at some of our good efforts to get together to make space station, save animals from extinction, fight infectious or other diseases or solve other problems by internet, charity organizations and spirituality.

Eventually human potential is going to be realized by crossing the lines of sense of belonging to a certain group to the whole humanity. If one individual at a time we over come the insecurities and prejudice we can appreciate the oxygen and humbly do our share to bring the humanity to its potential.

 

 

Self doubts and related influences rob the individual of confidence. If you always relate and compare yourself with the people better than you and buy into the education of the religions where the man is considered as worthless and sinner, you will actually start to feel inferior and worthless. But if you consider yourself as a useful and working part of God or humanity you will start to see the real self worth. Each and everyone of us is a working cell of God’s body, thus keeps the ball rolling for the spiritual and physical world of God.

Our education play’s a crucial role in pointing out the dead dog of our problems ( explanation see below).  How one looks at him/herself, is greatly related with the level of the conformation.  So the solutions of our several physical, mental, social and spiritual problems can be found in the life beyond those boundaries of conformation. Spiritual world knows no boundaries just like the space, religions may claim to be deep like an ocean, but if you become an extremist or a radical you make even the religion into a pond for yourself.

How a man or a woman looks at the security as a paramount issue of the life?  That dictates the cause of the boundaries. Yet in reality, even the oxygen for the survival is not in anyone’s control, thus security  is an illusion we seek in our own kind  which is created and promoted by all societies yet as a mortal individual we die from inside out.

Today we are starting to rise up to take charge for our environment, social justice and equality, interestingly the religious groups whom are usually conservatives don’t really believe in taking charge because of the belief system, yet fight against the change to the point that they kill over their beliefs.

God helps but not without the help of he man kind. There is continuous bickering and the difference of opinion which has been used openly and with the pride, even if it makes us prejudice and racist or even ignorant. This kind of attitude has been keeping us slower to reach our potential. Simply put, you can’t just stand on the mile twenty and claim about the details of the whole hundred miles you have not even traveled yet.

We have to stand on the right side of the history especially when it comes to evolution and the betterment of the humanity. Even our good or bad has been and  is changing, for the better but the speed of the transformation has been slow, we can do better.

The Dead Dog: Going after the cause.

There once was a small community, they dug a well for the water and lived around it. A dog fell in the well and died, no one notice until the water started to stink, everyone got worried and gathered up to investigate. One of the leader went down in the well and yelled that there is a dead dog in the water. Everyone looked at the mayor, questioning what to do, the mayor said take fifty barrels of water out then start to use it, but make sure that you take the dead dog out first.

As human beings we are an evolving entity, our knowledge has been, is and will always evolve as we evolve. We have been around for millions of years but we have always been claiming that we know everything there is to know yet we have been learning something new all along. We even passionately claim to know God, and kill each other over the knowledge of God yet for thousands of years, we have nothing to show as a clear picture about the life after death or God accept the assumptions. No one comes back with clear proof like video of moon or mars. The religions and other faith systems insist on to believe blindly in whatever they preach, so until we have some thing  concrete we all have a one way ticket. I believe in individual freedom so no one should be forced into believing into whatever is popular in the society, and especially no one should be killed over the belief system. It is highly personal, beneficial and or harmful to the individual. The individual should be left alone not only because of the human rights and individual liberties, in the end of the day society,  governments and religions get to carry on but the individual has a limited time to live. Our understanding highly depends on the ability to comprehend. If you stand on the mile stone number twenty you can’t predict what is at the mile hundred, especially when it comes to the knowledge of God. The dead dog of the this spiritual problem is the ego, pride and honor. These three kids of the sense of belonging are behind a lot of our social and personal problems, thus the sense of belonging is the mother problem or the real dead dog of our conflicts. B.R. Hergenhahn wrote this about the brain but I am using his quote just to describe the evolution of our knowledge. It can be used for the brain, God or anything we don’t clearly know or understand yet. I am using this example for our knowledge of God and life after death. B. R. Hergenhahn puts into words better than I would, so I would quote his words. The book is(” An Introduction to theories of Personality. Forth edition. Chapter one page 12.) “Quote.”. “ To illustrate, imagine yourself in a dark room in which you cannot touch a  complex object directly. As long as the room remains dark, you will know nothing about the object except that it is there. Now suppose that a faint light illuminates part of the object thus allowing you to see part of it. You now know more about the object than you did before but much remains unknown. Now another beam of light falls on the object, then another and another. You walk around the object noting what has been illuminated by the various beams of light. Because the beams are coming from different directions, many beams allow you to learn more about the object. Some beams are narrow and bright, concentrating on a small area but exposing greater detail. Other beams are broader but dimmer, allowing you to learn about a larger area but in less detail. Some beams may overlap others but all are useful. In fact the greater the number of beams and angles, the more information you will have because each beam illuminates a part of the object of interest that previously was dark.” (end quote). The ideas come to the human beings including our Holy men and Prophets bring the knowledge to benefit the general population. Then its up to the people to use the knowledge to harm themselves or benefit from it. When it comes to the religions why do we have the freezing caps? its all related to the politics of the sense of belonging. No one wants to be connected to the wrong knowledge thus everyone believes their ancestral knowledge is ultimate and correct thus they will go to heaven and everyone else would end up in hell. Whether the hell exists or not we sure are creating hell on this earth because of our differences. Since God is humanity we have given God an auto immune disease which means God is sick and the cure is in the hands of the individual. Are we up to the task to heal God by living with each other in peace? Can you take the responsibility to speak against your personal sense of belonging and related politics? Can you stand up against your own belonging group even if it is against your own religion? it is time to stand for the humanity not for your belonging groups. It is time to surpass the boundaries of your ponds, even conquer the depth of the oceans and put anchors in the space. That is what God has in order for the human beings and we are so caught up in our territorial disputes and who is right about after death. Its time to wake up and smell the void we are going to create with our disputes. God would not want the human being to disappear because it would be a suicide for God as well.

I admit that am an idealist but with plenty of sense of freedom to counter my sense of belonging to keep myself in balance. I like to question and judge everything with the best of my common sense knowledge.

I believe every child born is a seed of God and should not be judged as legitimate or illegitimate because things change according to the era we are born in. As long as you function physically, help and benefit human society you are the work horse of God. We are all born in the same process and are human individuals so we individually are not an extension of any ideology or a group of people exclusively.

You should never be victimized by the customs, traditions, rules of groups or religions. It is not only a matter of law and order or human rights, it is all about the spiritual justice as well because you did not have any control on your birth so you are a two fold innocent.

Same goes with the mixed or by racial children, our prejudice and discrimination is related to our education of sense of belonging. The day you are born as a human being you are part of humanity not a part of certain group of people whom discriminate against you. If man accepts and believes in God, then without the man even God’s importance disappears never mind the groups, nations or religions.

Somewhere, somehow somebody made the man inferior and God so superior that during the politics of control, things got lost and turned upside down.

Dictatorship, authoritarian governments and religions have power and control in common. They all believe in keeping the man from blooming into the trees so he/she can’t produce millions of seeds to make a forest which can grow out of control. They draw a line or metaphorically put and keep people in a jar as seeds. Regardless of their potential they are kept from blooming. It is all about the politics of sense of belonging and nothing but.

People with strong sense of belonging and weaker sense of freedom would accept those boundaries as God’s order thus stay into the self-created prison which robs them of reaching their potential. I believe it actually is against the God’s will, because each and every one of us is blessed with the free will of our own. If God wanted us to be in the jar we would not have the evolving and flexible potential, it is purely human politics to keep the power in the hands of few. When God is used in that politics the ordinary man gladly gives up his/her powers to the sense of belonging.

Man’s potential is actually God’s potential because through the men and women we progress to even make God almighty. For example today we can predict the paths of storms and tsunamis to save lives in past we could not even think about it so we through virgins over the cliffs to please God.

Its our potential which drives us to evolve and take charge to become a Godly CEO.  We create and invent something new everyday for the convenience of mankind. These are all miracles of God but through the ordinary man because the man is alive because of the things he/she has no control over. For instance the supply of the oxygen and internal health, a doctor can help but in the end of the day the complexity of life is not completely understood and on top of that our mortality is a bitter fact. Proof of our evolving nature is in the our new discoveries we have been making in all departments of our life.

If you look at the spiritual knowledge, it all came from the extraordinary men like great prophet Mohammad or Jesus whom had to sacrifice to the extreme to deliver their extraordinary knowledge. The resistance or hatred  of their opponents or even today’s conflicts are based on the same foundation and yes it is the politics of sense of belonging.

Unfortunately even our prophets could not stay away from the politics of sense of belonging. Politics of sense belonging takes over every group’s leaders so they resist changes for political reasons. New things and ideologies have been are joined by us but when it is politically convenient.

Interestingly religions have done the same thing what had happened to them in early stages. Killing to keep the status co is a conservative ideology with the politics of insecurities. A large segment of population don’t like the changes in the beginning, some adopt as the time passes but some just resist just because of being politically conservative.

Evolution is like a running water of river, it regenerates improves and keeps it from stagnation and form a boundless ocean. Stagnation is like a pond which inhibits the progress and evolution of the individual, keeps the individual weak enough so they can’t benefit themselves or the society so the powerful stays powerful. The hidden agenda of any political entity is based on the group’s insecurities, yet the real power for all groups is the ocean or in other words humanity.

As humanity evolves the changes come just to meet with the conservative resistance. These days world is dealing with the race, gender and sexual orientation issues. It is clear that conservatives are losing the battle, because today it is all about the human rights and no one can deny that politically.

Advanced and secular societies have stopped putting people in the jar to inhibit their potential because the new knowledge has proven that the more trees you have in the society better and more powerful the society becomes. Controlling societies are progressively becoming a thing of the past. The world is going through a change so it would be chaotic for a while, but things would settled as we evolve to the next level or to the new chapter of humanity.

Religious people have to accept the changes as the will of God and should not resist because in the end of the day God does the things the right way. It is the individual who is insecure and has doubts in really, really, really believing in God. The real belief takes the stress away installs hope and makes the individual soft, compassionate, forgiving, sacrificing and loving.

We all should ask ourselves questions about our belief systems, do they contain these jewels of humanity? if not it is time to surpass them come together as human beings. Intentionally killing the innocents even kids is not religious or spiritual it is totally political and controlling against the uncontrollable changes.