Who Flipped My Triangle?

A mortal individual with free will and the knowledge of mortality simultaneously gives birth to fear-related control and an imbalanced sense of belonging. These root causes are connected to social, emotional, mental, physical, and personal spiritual ills.

Being temporary should make us humble and kinder to each other, but the spirituality of being kinder never takes root because it is based on the understanding of mortality. Our sense of belonging, tied to ego, always gets the best of us. The politics of a sense of belonging have overpowered the insecure individual who was supposed to be a free-willed CEO of their own life.

I hope that as we evolve, individuals will see the importance of personal and inner harmony—personal music where you speak when it’s your turn and stay quiet when you should, thus becoming a CEO. This way, you can balance the sense of belonging with the sense of freedom. Be a part of the ocean instead of a pond, prefer spirituality over religion, and take responsibility for personal actions. Understand the politics of carrot and stick hidden under various rules and self-regulate to become a spiritually evolved individual. Become a citizen of humanity instead of a victim of fear and control-based politics of belonging.

An insecure individual automatically runs to a belonging group to feel secure, yet there is no security and control for the mortal individual—no one can avoid this reality.

The individual loses their individuality and sacrifices personal potential, even their life. We seek and take pride in being part of a religion, race, or nation. These days, race, gender, sexuality, or like-mindedness form the foundation of belonging-related prejudice.

Heterosexuals multiply to keep humanity, God, or all kinds of groups alive, while homosexuality works against multiplication. That is not reason enough to hate and violate their human rights. You can’t simply condemn people who are not following the norm because our norms have been changing as we evolve. Just look at history and compare it to today’s societies.

I believe in reciprocation, which can be done regardless of sexual orientation. It is the responsibility of the individual to contribute and receive in their mortal lifetime because this relationship is at the core of humanity.

No one should panic about the actions of certain segments of the population. If one does, as religious people do, they focus on it as if God or humanity will die due to homosexual behavior. If that were going to happen, it would have happened long ago, and it would not be because of homosexuals.

Another thing shown by religious responses is that humans are the only ones making life happen. This is where real faith, or meaningful faith, comes into play—to truly, truly believe in God.

This lack of trust in God has been and is our major pitfall; this problem exists from the individual level all the way up to entire religions. We try to control everything with every fiber of our being, and only when we can’t control it do we say it is the will of God. Our downfall throughout history has been that we don’t really believe in God. Why can’t we reach that point before judging and killing each other?

Life is not only happening because of human intellect alone. I have a hard time understanding the religious stances against real belief in God. The controlling and strong actions against human free will are a clear sign of lack of trust and belief in God’s work, which trickles down into the behavior of individuals, causing a host of social and personal problems.

Believing everything is done by the individual is a pitfall, especially in the West. I personally believe it connects individuals to anxiety and frustration. When these take hold, individuals turn to God and pray according to the teachings of their religions. When they still can’t control their environment despite their prayers, lack of belief in God starts to grow.

This situation confuses them to the point that they start to lose not only their faith in their religion and God but also their confidence. The faulty belief system is related to the carrot-and-stick control philosophy heavily taught by most religions. In the process, the individual loses the status of a CEO, which they were blessed with from the beginning. A CEO self-regulates and becomes a good citizen without needing the fear of hell or the greed of heaven.

This personal lack of faith and confidence leads individuals to lack trust in all kinds of belief systems, including personal fiber and potential. If you are constantly told you are worth nothing and you accept it because it comes from authority figures, you will really believe you are worth nothing. So, you find your worth in your belonging groups. You feed into the politics of a sense of belonging and thus lose the value of your God-given fiber and free will.

Just think why each of us is blessed with free will and why some are stronger and more successful while many are not. You will find differences in personal belief systems.

If you carry fear-related control into your pit, deep inside you know it. You may get some symptom relief by going to a mosque, church, or any other place of prayer. You can see a counselor or get medication from a doctor, but if you don’t go into your pit and deal with the dead dog of your problems, it will always be symptom relief, which is acceptable to specialists. When the cure is not even a goal, individuals who are suffering should take some responsibility for personal care. If you go into your pit and put two and two together regarding your mortality, you will start to live a mortal life with some quality instead of quality-robbing control.

The fundamentals of personal strength are understanding the responsibilities of your life and your CEO standing. Most of us have the ability to pull ourselves from situations, events, or circumstances and look into our problems from the outside to truly judge the importance of having free will.

Only a CEO can make even big things small through the thinking process. If you are having a hard time processing and dealing with your personal problems, you need to see yourself as an independent entity instead of an extension of the society you belong to.

If you don’t produce certain chemicals, you need to get help from medication because your way of thinking has created a physiological situation that needs to be addressed. If you deal with your problems with a multipronged approach, it should involve spiritual health as well.

Just like a community is stronger with stronger individuals, God is stronger with stronger human beings because we are the physical expression of God.

You may enjoy it if I say God lives in our imagination, especially if you are an atheist, but just look around and see where human imagination has brought us. What our imagination has created for us is so powerful that no one can deny it. If you still can’t see the power, you are missing out on the realities existing right before your eyes. You can’t benefit from them because you are limiting the power of the placebo, which is beyond understanding. Remember, we still can’t access the full functioning of our brain powers, so don’t underestimate the power of imagination.

Adding happiness and contentment to a mortal life is an individual responsibility. It can rob you of the most important treasure in a mortal life, or it can pay a big dividend by having a belief system of hope and optimism. Whether you choose to believe or not is your free will. Always remember that free will is there for you to make choices, and during a temporary visit, you want to accumulate some good times. If there is something—an entity, education system, or even personal behavior—robbing your happiness, hope, and optimism, you must always keep your mortality and the value of free will in front of you so you can guard your most important asset: your personal happiness and contentment.

If, in general, you consider yourself a realist but are a perpetual pessimist and constantly think about worst-case scenarios, you are missing the important rules of mortal life.

Hope and optimism take you where God and belief systems live. Your attitude has the potential to use God or a belief system as a treasure to help you live a mortal life without the fear of death. This is the zone of your imagination that you should be using to make a mortal life worth living.

Just imagine if we did not have imagination. There would be no progress or evolution. We would still be on the food chain of other creatures, living in the bush or cave, leading small and meaningless lives without cell phones.

Modern life did not just happen; it evolved from that zone where I believe God exists. This is the whole internal universe, which we minimize with our limited intellect—or I should say limited use of our brain.

If somehow you separate the individual from all the inventions and think that you are powerless or meaningless, think again. It is you, the big kahuna; it is you who made things happen and still is making things happen, good or bad.

If you feel weak and useless, you need to look at yourself with a brand-new belief system from within. You can’t buy into something you were previously sold by political authorities.

Since we need law and order in our societies, we must have some rules, but buying into something like being a born sinner and worthless is not in your favor. Entities like religions or senses of belonging to a group disregard the individual over their belief system. Thus, it is the individual who has to take responsibility for the self-esteem-robbing education.

It is the individual who suffers from self-esteem-related personal problems like pessimism, hopelessness, and discontentment, even the most valuable gift of life despite having free will.

Be a CEO, take charge, know everything behind the rules—even the politics. Question everything, learn to ask why, and yes, including your personal behaviors, should be questioned by you. Self-regulation is the best way to abide by the rules we need in society. Not only is it impossible to have a policeman or woman for every individual, but it is also the most respectable way to live a mortal life.

Acceptable Adjustments: Reflections on Pet Ownership and Human Nature

When my daughter found a stray cat, she called the humane society and decided to keep him. We took care of everything necessary, and now he is called Ben. Very soon, Ben went into the washroom, grabbed hold of the toilet paper, and you can guess what happened. Now, the toilet paper goes in a basket, and my towel, which keeps getting dropped on the floor, is placed on a door hook instead of a hanger.

Blind strings were pulled, picture frames from tables were broken, some ornaments were thrown out because they were damaged, and we had to adjust to the need to become nose-blind. Despite these many acceptable adjustments, we still have a cat named Ben.

Ever wonder why we make these acceptable adjustments? Why do we get a cat or a dog and take the responsibility to walk it every day, regardless of the weather? And the kicker is that we have to pick up the poop as well. Why is it so important for humans to take care of their pets? Why do we sometimes care more for our pets than for other human beings? What is the driving force behind all this? These questions made me think about acceptable adjustments.

I was surprised that it took a cat to inspire me to understand acceptable adjustments. When you think about flexibility, we all have it inside us to make acceptable adjustments. It’s just that some of us can’t adjust and accommodate changes, thus can’t see the potential and power of love. Naturally and directly, it is ingrained and connected to our core, where we are raw animals. (Read “Love Triangle”)

As social creatures, we can’t live our lives relying solely on intellect. The power of our nature can rob us of happiness and contentment. Ignoring our emotions and the chemical-related satisfactions of life leads to substandard living. As intellectual beings, we also can’t live without intellect, so it’s up to each individual to create balance.

I personally believe in zigzagging through intellect and nature because emotional intellect holds very powerful cards, especially in a mortal life.

Love is a core element, not just installed by our education but brought along from before birth. Our education can change people and turn them into beasts. By nature, we are actually ripened and dressed with potential human jewelry before the fear-based education of prejudice. Just look at us interacting as babies.

There is another reason we can’t ignore the importance of love: it affects our emotions and can bring extreme happiness, sadness, and mental health problems. If a child loses love, it can have a permanent impact on their life.

Watch out for the loss of love or robbing others of love in the name of God or your belonging group. In my view, robbing someone of love is a spiritual crime because if it hurts you, you shouldn’t inflict the same pain on others.

Ask yourself why it hurts to lose love, and you will open up a different book you haven’t read yet. Emotional intellect is needed to solve our modern-day problems. Our wars, individual animosities, and related tolls on humanity are all related to the loss of love. (Read “Love Triangle”)

Your life is your project, and you are the CEO. If you have a problem, recognize it, acknowledge it, accept it, own it, and then do something about it. If we all start doing something about it, we will go places we’ve never been.

If you have extreme beliefs, always remember your mortality and your jewelry of compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice, and love. That is what makes you human. Wear your jewelry not only for your belonging group but for yourself and all humanity, because you are the thread of that fabric. The stronger you are, the stronger the fabric.

If you have prejudice in you, still acknowledge your mortality because a temporary journey should not be accompanied by inner demons of judgment. They don’t only harm others; they also have the potential to rob you of your happiness. In a temporary life, there is nothing more important than your inner happiness and contentment.

Thinking you are superior to others can erode your happiness because, in the end, you know deep inside that you will live and die like everyone else. You have been fed the wrong information to believe you are better. If you are better, why do you share the same fate? You get hungry, sick, old, and die the same way. What makes you special is that you are a spiritual part of the same body of God or humanity. Genetically, you have passed the same test as others, so own it to be a human being. Wear your jewelry with pride, even if your parents have the disorder of prejudice. You don’t have to be exactly like your parents.

Our problems are related to our education, so accepting that we are evolving organisms would help acknowledge that our knowledge has never been complete. Straying from ancestral education is actually addressing the foundational problem.

If an individual’s family instills prejudice, he or she has to work against it as they become adults. A logical look at prejudice involves understanding its source: the misunderstanding of our sense of belonging, which is the culprit in the foundation of our wars and collective disputes. So, start making some acceptable adjustments.

I saw the Blue Jays’ excited fans on the news, screaming and literally out of breath with emotions. I couldn’t help but think about the sense of belonging and the mixed blend of fans and even the team. Looking at the athletes, they are all mixed: Black, White, Latinos, or from other parts of the world, but they play for the Blue Jays, a Canadian team. The fans were from all races but proud of being Canadian.

The teams are composed of players from all over the world, but they play for certain nations. Nations can be proud or upset about winning or losing, so what is at play? It is the sense of belonging to the nation, which has changed significantly in the last fifty years. The teams are created by players to compete for a prize. You could be a Canadian playing for the Americans, or vice versa. What is blending all the differences? Is this the evolution people are afraid of? If it is harmless in sports, it is harmless in countries and religions as well. We just have to overcome our prejudice. We need to keep evolving to spread tolerance. This can only happen if we all learn to make some acceptable adjustments.

If we are all given total freedom and equal rights, we should be able to live in melting pot societies. This is only possible with the education of the sense of belonging to humanity as a whole instead of a group. Israel can only solve its problems with equality. By force, there is a lot of love lost, leading to perpetual killings and more love lost. Behaviors can’t change. The conflicts can continue for thousands of years if we don’t acknowledge the ramifications of love lost.

The majority of societies, especially the developed ones, have changed. Just look at the populations. There are not only people from all over the world, but also mixed and biracial new generations. These factors compel societies to accommodate changes and adapt to the changing times.

Conservatives lost badly in the elections because they are not changing according to the population. Equal individual human rights should be a must in every political party. Conservatives shamelessly, unethically, and unlawfully chose Christians from the Syrian refugees because they want the country to be religious. Canada is a secular democracy with laws that protect individual human rights.

Fighting change is conservative and rooted in old group or religious ideologies. Make sure not to stand on the wrong side because time will judge you in the future. Make some acceptable adjustments now, or time will leave you behind, just like the Bloc Quebecois. Language policing in this day and age is a joke and is related to extreme prejudice, which is against human rights. We all need acceptable adjustments to help us cross the lines of prejudice and become part of humanity.

I learned at an early age about the power of being a social creature. I always went to the movies with friends. Once, I wanted to go, but my friend did not have money, which made me realize that I was willing to pay his way regardless of not having much money myself.

Sometimes we need to understand the purpose of money. It is there for us to use during our living years, and whatever makes us happy, we need to buy that. If we look deeper, we willingly spend money on others: family, friends, community, nation, and religions all get their share.

Mates have an even bigger share because, as men or women, we go to school to get a job, buy a home, find a mate, and make a family. It’s almost like we are hypnotized. There was a term called “twitterpated” that I heard in a cartoon program while watching TV with my kids.

By the power of nature, we dance to the rhythm of life yet believe we are using our free will. The orders of nature have so much power that we can’t control them, regardless of our education and evolution. Babies keep coming.

We work hard to get a mate, yet we don’t respect and trust their contributions. We look at them as enemies and react strongly with hate because of our potential love loss. We care more about pets, pick up their poop, and do whatever is needed, but not for our mates. If everyone put the same effort into their relationships with their mates as they do with their pets, we would have a very different divorce rate. It is the love loss that makes people hate each other and unable to make acceptable adjustments.

I did not want to go to the movies by myself. Why? There is a big why. Why do we gladly spend our money on our social needs? Why do we invite friends? Why do we get together? What makes us want to have pets? Why does a dog get special treatment, taking it for a walk and picking up its poop? What is so powerful behind all that, making us make acceptable adjustments?

We go far for a dog or a cat but not for a mate. Is it really the mate or our ego? It is our self-pleasing, pleasure-seeking nature, with hormones running the show. Once we lose the chemistry, we start thinking with our mind and how much it hurts to lose the love we had. The pain is related to self, not the mate. What we lose is love; hence, it is love that gives happiness and contentment, not the mate. We have to continue to change and adjust if we want to stay happy.

There is another culprit that I found in my young life: the dependency on our partners. We change partners and hate them once the partnership becomes dependent. Love changes to dependency; hence, we start hating. We only lose love when we become dependent, but if we share our lives equally, without burdening each other with all the responsibilities, love does not change to dependency. This is another important acceptable adjustment in our personal life.

There is another area of prejudice: a child born out of wedlock. I recently met someone who had this problem in his life. He went through major grief because of this. People need to understand that we are not created by the couple alone but are part of nature’s will. Nobody should be treated as though they don’t belong or are not welcome. We must remember that we don’t own this world; we are only passing through.

When you look at human history, there are many prejudices related to class, caste, and economic situations. Those born into poor families are considered worthless, yet there is nothing wrong with being born into a poor family. We are not here by choice but by nature’s will. When you think about this, it’s easier to understand the logical necessity of acceptable adjustments.

We must accept that people need equal opportunities and a sense of belonging in the overall fabric of society. The internet revolution can serve this purpose by eliminating misinformation and showing the richness of diversity. Acceptable adjustments are necessary to become a part of humanity. We must extend the same courtesies to each other as we do to our pets because we all belong to the same social network.

If we start acknowledging the reality of our interconnectedness and our mutual need for love and support, we can make the necessary acceptable adjustments to create a more tolerant, loving, and inclusive world.

I want to start this with a story I heard from Dr. Wayne Dyer on TV. I don’t remember his exact words, but the idea remains.

“A man was walking along and noticed a butterfly trying to get out of its cocoon. He watched it struggle for a while and decided to help. He ripped open the cocoon, but instead of flying away, the butterfly just hobbled around. Its wings weren’t strong enough to lift its body. The body was still too heavy for the little wings to fly. The man’s help was not what the butterfly needed. Sometimes, the wisdom of nature needs to be understood before we act.”

The man made a mistake out of compassion. As human beings, we can make mistakes and learn from them, but our intentions should be for the betterment of humanity. Unfortunately, many people don’t realize that clipping someone’s wings is a mistake. From parents to politicians, and society to religions, this mistake is often repeated with or without good intentions. Many social, religious, and governing systems are designed to control individuals. They shamelessly use the politics of belonging to undermine individuality.

I believe in interdependence, but with a balance of reciprocation to achieve full potential. If an individual has potential but is controlled, they can’t reciprocate, which I view as non-spiritual. An evolved human strengthens humanity and God more than one who is controlled. Our traditions and customs often overprotect, ripping the cocoon or clipping the wings of even our offspring.

Each of us, if we have five dollars, is potentially a CEO and destined to contribute to humanity and God while benefiting ourselves. Gender is not a limitation unless imposed by some entity, society, or oneself. Stigmatizing even one individual through stereotyping removes many potential contributors from the equation. For instance, if women don’t work and are limited to just bearing and caring for children, they become dependent. This removes a significant portion of the potential workforce that could help society progress. Consequently, it keeps the individual and society at a substandard level. This can be seen globally; it just requires the ability to think, see, and judge.

My focus is on equal human rights and the spiritual reciprocation of all individuals, so we can collectively evolve to reach our potential as intended by God. Every cell in our bodies has a job, receiving nutrients and oxygen to survive, function, and reciprocate. We, like our body cells, must function to help humanity and God.

If any political practice, tradition, custom, or rule—even from religions—prevents individuals from reciprocating, it is against God, humanity, and spirituality. Even a functioning God is meaningless without human reciprocation. If you are a female and believe you can contribute more than just bearing children, you see yourself as the CEO of your life. Reproduction is essential, but life is not complete without reciprocation.

Reaching our potential individually and collectively is the purpose of our lives. The destination is not what religions preach; it’s about living years where you benefit and help humanity and God move forward. The belief in life after death gives hope and courage to push through life’s difficulties. However, life after death is unknown and based on assumptions. Living for the afterlife without reciprocation is misguided, especially when beliefs are imposed by force. Forced beliefs are political, not spiritual, because they block individuals from reaching their potential to serve humanity.

Religions often impose rules to control individuals, which is fear-driven, showing a lack of trust and optimism. This lack of belief contradicts the trust in God’s will. If you truly believe in God, why control outcomes according to personal choices? Either you believe in God’s will or you don’t. The main reason God and religions have endured is that belief systems help individuals.

To reduce life’s stresses, you must genuinely believe. Only then can God and religion remove deep-seated fears. Yet, popular religions often instill rather than remove fears. This reflects the politics of belonging, existing so individuals give up their potential for a promised spot in heaven. This political manipulation undermines the individual.

As a religious leader, you are first a human being and the CEO of your life. If you preach to suppress others, you follow outdated rules, not your personal spirituality. Questioning, thinking, and creating is a PhD; following a book without personal thought is a master’s degree. Help as a whole individual, not as an ideology’s extension. Everyone has similar abilities, so choose to be a CEO.

Believing in something is one thing, but the harm of those beliefs to others is your responsibility. Teach and preach for the benefit of humanity and God, not to suppress others. If education robs self-esteem, it hinders contributions to humanity and God. Dependents can’t help God’s work due to a lack of reciprocation.

You can’t just pray for change; God has given you the potential, and you must know its value. Humanity has achieved so much with our intellect; it should not be undermined by religious stigmatization. Our justice systems are separate from religions, but religious political control persists. Conflicts like the niqab case in North America highlight this struggle. Individual rights protect such practices, even against popular opinion.

Conservatives need to recognize societal changes. Refugee selection based on religion, not individual suffering, is divisive politics. Belonging to one group should be outdated; we need governing systems protecting equal human rights.

We must first recognize our humanity before learned identities. The niqab debate is exaggerated by fear-based politics. If we dictate appearances, we infringe on personal freedoms. Polygamy exists due to individual rights, despite societal opposition. We must allow personal choices without harm to others.

The politics of security is prevalent, but real identity lies in being human. Peace comes from individual understanding, not group politics. War and conflict often stem from the loss of love, leading to revenge. This perpetuates violence and emotional turmoil.

Our intellect must guide our actions, not just emotions. Political decisions, like the Iraq war, have far-reaching, uncontrollable consequences, causing suffering and conflict. The true damage is the loss of love, fueling hatred and prejudice.

Human conflicts often disregard emotional and love loss. Our emotions drive us, sometimes overpowering intellect. To solve conflicts, we must embrace our humanity and reject divisive group politics. Each person can be a CEO, solving personal and collective issues by belonging to humanity, not just groups. Understanding ourselves and our potential can extinguish conflict and promote peace.

Say no to innocent killings and suffering. Support systems that consider individual emotions and love. Conflicts arise from the politics of belonging, but peace comes from balancing belonging with freedom. More CEOs lead to better outcomes.

We need to create a balance within the individual so that their group’s politics cannot corrupt them. This individual is my ideal chief executive officer (CEO). If we let ourselves be treated like cattle, we cannot realize the potential that God has in store for us.

A sense of belonging is a legitimate and powerful aspect of our lives. Each of us has duties and responsibilities as we grow up, serving while receiving from the society we belong to, or, as I should say, the group we belong to. Just as a newborn’s umbilical cord is cut—a natural, undeniably logical fact and a real sign of independence—our physical umbilical cord is severed, but the invisible cord belonging to our groups is hard to separate from. As individuals, we grow to become part of the working machine, especially concerning the politics of group belonging.

As I said, cutting the umbilical cord is a natural, undeniably logical fact, so each of us should be able to be an independent CEO. How many of us are the real CEOs of our lives? Are you a CEO who chooses to belong to humanity as a whole instead of exclusively to a group? Would you change your way of thinking if I make sense to you?

Since we are all produced and built the same way, we are all mirrors. If you look at me with prejudice, racism, and hate, you are looking at yourself in the mirror, seeing the same thing. There is counter-prejudice related to racism present all over the world as well.

Turning the other cheek is a mythical reality. In the real and practical world, it is hard to find people who would turn the other cheek for you. Most of the time, you get what you see in the mirror. If you are full of hate, prejudice, and racism, you can’t possibly see the opposite in other people.

I talk about human jewelry: wear your compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice, and love so we all start to see humans adorned with what separates us from other animals. Wearing these jewels would make you see your personal reflection in others, not because they don’t have the jewelry, but because of what you feel inside, you see in others. For instance, you may carry anger because of the circumstances or the story of your life, and you see anger in all people. If you carry love, you may see love in all. It is not what others carry that matters; it is about what you carry inside.

If you don’t trust yourself and feel insecure, you will not be able to trust others, and your lack of trust and personal insecurities will only harm you. It is not what goes on outside; it is all about what goes on inside of you. There is a lot more in your hands than you have been led to believe.

Personally, I think some people feel better about themselves by joining a group of like-minded people, a sports team, a religion, or a nation. Some people feel better by following and taking on a cause, while others feel better by opposing it all. Whether it’s related to the sense of belonging, ego, or deeply seated inferiority complexes and self-esteem issues, one has to understand self-related issues and take charge to balance the sense of belonging with the sense of freedom because the natural umbilical cord has been cut.

The strength of the belief system, the amount of passion, and the desire to be right are simply measured by the sense of belonging. Lack of or disregard for a sense of freedom is a sign of self-disregard and inner imbalance of the individual. As evolving organisms, being imbalanced can influence individuals to rob themselves of happiness, even if they are aware of being mortal. The collection of these individuals in one place can be downright destructive and dangerous. If we all individually learn to deal with our inner demons, we can potentially and actually solve our collective problems. That is why I believe in strengthening the individual so we all can become the CEOs of our lives.

My logic against prejudice and its origin is to work against the politics of the sense of belonging, which gets the best of us. Yes, it even got our Prophets. Regardless of our level of spirituality and evolution, we as nations, races, religions, and even genders can’t get around prejudice because, right from the start, leaders of our families, communities, and even our religious leaders sowed the seeds of prejudice. For instance, they taught that if you join us, you somehow become better than others and will go to heaven.

By joining a larger group, an individual may get some temporary false self-esteem, security, and hope but become entrenched in believing they are better than others. To me, this is the foundational flaw of the education system, which has been and still is costing us dearly. As humanity, we are still paying the price of prejudice with blood and can’t come out of it.

I blame our past leadership styles and politics for today’s problems. I may not blame the Prophets because of their spiritual education but I blame our past and present religious leaders who let their group politics override spirituality. To cause for yesterday’s, today’s, and hopefully not for future killings because I have expectations, at least from the holy and the wise, to foresee the future implications of their teachings. Our religions talk about humanity but most of the time under their umbrella. Personally, I think it’s highly political, yet religion should be strictly spiritual and just. We should leave politics and logic to our governing systems.

Humans came together because of their social nature and the need for security, but in the process, they gave up many crucial elements of their individuality. In return for their contribution to society, society protected and provided for them. As populations grew, the need drove groups to move towards regions with more comfort and resources. This need for resources and security has existed as long as societies have, and migration still goes on. Yet, people still mark their territory just like less evolved beings or other animals. We have nearly two hundred countries with conflicting factions within the same countries, races, religions, and nations. Nowadays, conflicts are even found between genders. It may appear that we have improved and evolved from our past, but the death toll is an ongoing and consistent process.

Today, if one looks at societies, the people in them seem molded and brainwashed to follow ancient customs and traditions. Every society judges others and finds them inferior just because previous generations thought so. One set of extremists thinks that since they pray to God and make sacrifices, they will go to heaven, and others who do not will go to hell. The other set of extremists thinks it is regressive even to think about the existence of God. Both sides try to mold their young ones to follow the same way of living they have followed for thousands of years, even if it has been destructive, barbaric, and against the evolutionary nature of human beings.

An individual is not able to judge whether something is right or wrong because of their society’s commonly accepted views and their personal strength of the sense of belonging. That is the fundamental cause of prejudice in an individual’s life. This flawed education system of societies has haunted people for thousands of years, yet we still want to follow the path our ancestors have carved for us. We follow it not because it is right or wrong, but because of our strong sense of belonging.

If one has to live in a society, its rules have to be followed. Here, a person does not even value their own views. For instance, the liberated women of the West would never want to be like the women in the East because of their way of living. Similarly, women from the East would think being wild and liberated is against their values. Both sides look down upon each other because of their upbringing, education, and the sense of belonging influenced by their respective societies.

Social influences have the potential to dictate personal values, so there is little focus on personal happiness and contentment. This makes it dangerous for an individual, especially if the individual is mortal to begin with.

Who is right or wrong has always been the cause of our problems, which is why we have been fighting and killing each other. If you look at it logically, we have been fighting each other and killing innocents because of our ego. Since ego is not limited to the individual, it has its tentacles collectively in all societies as well. It is a proven fact that humans are evolving entities, and our knowledge is constantly evolving. Thus, claiming present knowledge is complete and ultimate is egotistic, especially when it comes to religion.

Once, I picked up a Christian magazine, ‘Awake,’ dated April 22, 1993, to read about religion’s role in wars. The article began with this quotation: “There have never been a people that did not have some form of religion.” The line was from ‘The World Book of Encyclopedia,’ 1970. Yet historians Will and Ariel Durant wrote: “War is one constant of history.” So, are the two constants, war and religion, related? Indeed, throughout history, they have been inseparable. On the next page was a quotation by Anne Fremantle from her book, Age of Faith: “Of all the wars men have waged, none have been more zealously undertaken than those on behalf of a faith. And of these holy wars, none have been bloodier and more protracted than the Christian Crusades of the Middle Ages.”

Recently, I was reading Time magazine and found a quote I feel is important. In the issue of April 25, 2011, Jon Meacham has an article headlined “Is Hell Dead?” He quotes Rob Bell, a pastor at Mars Hill Bible Church: “When we get to what happens when we die, we don’t have any video footage. So let’s at least be honest that we are speculating, because we are.”

The individual has been domesticated by their belonging society. The individual has suffered. They have been made to feel inadequate and dependent. They have been taught that God, religion, politics, and society are more important than themselves. When one becomes part of a group, one automatically becomes inferior and leaves behind what God has created them to be, robbing themselves of the privilege God has given them.

One must understand that the Creator created things universally, like oxygen, water and food as the necessity for all living beings. Especially when it comes to being a human being, we all know that not only do we need oxygen, water and food we also know our aging and mortal nature as well. Therefore, we all may look different but we need everything the same way to live. So, regardless of our looks, we have been given the same rights and freedom to live according to our capabilities. Since the umbilical cord of the individual has been cut at birth, an individual can’t be limited to a group, so we have developed societies and nations. If we belong to any particular religion or race, we are taking away our right to belong to humanity and the right to live our individual life freely.

An individual has to recognize their importance in the larger scheme of life, they have to know that they are the one who convert spirituality into physical actions to be meaningful..

I read a poem while growing up, although I don’t recall the author. It goes something like this:

“Na khudaa he milla na visaal-e-sanam Na idher kay rahay na udher kay rahay.”

The author says:

“Neither I could find God nor I got to my love, I lost from both sides.”

Religions often claim that everything written in their holy books is the word of God and, therefore, unchangeable. They assert that God is in control and that humans are insignificant. Religions have used this belief for political purposes to control people.

Today, this is backfiring as moderates and extremists within each religion are at war. Religious leaders find it hard to remain relevant if they cannot make necessary changes.

Spirituality, on the other hand, remains consistent. Humanity helping each other to evolve elevates the concept of God to an even higher level. I believe in God’s existence and almightiness, but not without humanity. The two are like positive and negative wires needed to light up a bulb; separated, they are worthless.

When you stray from spirituality and delve into the politics of belonging, you inevitably end up in predicaments like the Pope recently found himself in.

Ideally, the Pope should not be caught in controversy because either you are accepting equality, or you are religiously promoting prejudice. I would like to see some media investigate the claims of the lady who said the Pope thanked her for sticking with her religious convictions, even when they were against the law and spirituality. It is against spirituality because all people are created equal for the same purpose. Whether you are a brain cell, heart cell, skin cell, liver cell, lung cell, or colon cell, your purpose is to make the body live. In return, the body provides you with life, so no cells are superior or inferior in the survival of both. If you believe you become better or superior by believing in a particular religion, think again. Even the colon cell has its importance; if it fails, the whole body comes crashing down because no life-giving food comes in. A religion, race, gender, or nation does not make a person better or superior; personal character makes the difference.

The sense of belonging is a powerful phenomenon, so it is naturally hard for an ordinary individual to overcome. That is why even the Pope can’t stay away from politics. Not too long ago, he said not to judge homosexuals or women who have had abortions. Now, he meets and encourages a lady who refused to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. The sense of belonging to religion is the ultimate goal for a large segment of the population, so politics cannot be separated from religion.

That is why I believe spirituality is pure and free from politics. If a religion can’t stay away from politics, it is no longer spiritual. They will lose compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice, and love. Without these jewels, there is nothing left but politics. Can you find these jewels today? Just look around and see the killings in the name of God—pure and simple politics of belonging and nothing more.

There is nothing wrong with politics in running a community or country, but when mixed with religion, it can be deadly. This has been proven repeatedly, and the ongoing wars, individual sufferings, and refugee crises are living proof that politics and religion should not mix. Religions should remain spiritual, respecting and valuing individuals above even God because, without individuals, God loses His miracle workhorse. Without individuals, nothing can be materialized, prayers can’t be fulfilled, and the poor can’t be helped. The whole notion of God comes crashing down because there is no one left to believe in God.

Religions, spirituality, and other governing systems should benefit human beings both individually and collectively. Look around and go through history—does this happen? Religious and political killings continue, regardless of our evolution. The main reason is the politics of belonging to one particular group instead of humanity.

We have worked hard to remove ourselves from the food chain, but the only predator we can’t get rid of is ourselves. We commit suicide, kill, and get killed individually and collectively by our own kind. What will it take for us to evolve from this level? Our religions have failed us miserably, nationalism causes grief, and racism and prejudice remain prevalent despite the popularity of equal human rights.

The necessity of the time calls for all of us to become CEOs of our own lives, harnessing our out-of-control sense of belonging to our groups and dealing with present-day problems by joining humanity as a whole.

As a CEO, you can see the problems behind the problems. Our sense of belonging to our respective groups causes many unresolved issues. When someone commits suicide because of what others think of them, it is a sign of an out-of-control sense of belonging because you want to belong, fit in, impress, or be admired by those around you. If you balance your sense of belonging with a sense of freedom, you can achieve the status God intended for you.

A CEO understands the role of brain chemistry, overrides personal insecurities and learned social knowledge with spiritual knowledge.

I have said it before, and I will say it again: it is time to take the next leap of faith with spirituality to overcome all kinds of prejudice. The process has already started with the emergence of melting pot societies and individual human rights becoming the new religion.

If the Pope can’t discourage prejudice, he should at least not encourage it. In melting pot societies, if you don’t have human rights above all else, it can’t be a melting pot. Humanity should be above all groups, whether a gang, community, nation, religion, or sect.

A while back, I saw a gay man promoting Quebec’s charter. I thought it was odd and contradictory because if you support individual rights, you can’t promote one particular group’s interests over humanity. In Quebec, the promotion of equality and strong opposition to the niqab coexist with a so-called language police. It is a jumbled mix of politics and belonging. You can’t promote something for one group if you want a prejudice-free society. Homosexuals and extremely religious people with polygamy or niqab are protected by the same supreme court laws. It is twisted but clear: to live in a melting pot society, you must respect individual rights. We can’t solve the bigger issue of polygamy, which no one discusses as a political and women’s rights issue, but the niqab has taken the front seat in politics. Polygamy has been a religious issue for a long time, protected by human rights laws. Some may say it is against women’s liberation and a sign of oppression, but it persists in North America. I believe it is a bigger issue than the niqab.

We are going through changing times and will flip-flop for a while to get it right. Until then, we must bear our contradictions collectively.

When extreme religious beliefs rob individuals of love by killing their loved ones, I must stand against all kinds of extremism and bigotry because healing from love loss wounds is not easy.

The longer the killings continue, the more people suffer from love loss, leading to more passionate revenge killings. This perpetual emotional war could lead to self-destruction. Ironically, this destruction is predicted in most holy books. My question to humanity is: are we going to follow religions because of these predictions, or do we have a say in changing them? I believe each of us is blessed with the CEO status, so it is up to us to decide and change the predictions. Can we do it? Yes, if we can shift our sense of belonging from a group to humanity as a whole.

Ego, pride, and honor are formidable forces on their own. However, when they come together, they can overpower even the strongest individuals. This trio has been the downfall of many throughout history because we care too much about how others perceive us. This concern often leads groups to undermine or exploit individuals more than any external threat.

Belonging to a group—whether it’s a country, nation, race, or religion—can politically manipulate, use, and abuse individuals to further its agendas. This spiritually destructive way of living has created not only insecure individuals but also insecure societies worldwide. We kill and destroy our own kind due to group insecurities. We justify these actions with twisted politics of survival and peace, but there is often more behind these agendas.

Ego, pride, honor, and the demand for respect are all linked to violence, whether related to gangs, nations, or religions. These elements have been part of all human societies. Such senseless killings also give rise to perpetual revenge killings. In the larger scheme of life, our systems of governance and religion should address the root causes of our problems to prevent them. If every society justifies its systems—be they religious, traditional, or nationalistic—there is little room for compromise for humanitarian and spiritual reasons. Thus, the tradition of violence continues, regardless of our level of education or evolution.

The issue is that as our technological knowledge evolves, it outpaces our emotional intelligence, spirituality, and politics of belonging. This imbalance creates a dangerous and potentially deadly situation.

Why do people act the way they do? Because society keeps individuals weak to control them. Weak individuals don’t want to change the status quo, so they obey and conform to the politics of their groups. This stalling of individual growth hampers our evolution or even causes regression.

Individual weakness fosters the belief that one’s group possesses the most complete and best knowledge in history, leading to a sense of superiority. This prevents individuals from questioning their group’s knowledge, creating a major obstacle to world peace. Until individuals learn to stand up and question their perceived knowledge and step outside their boundaries, the world will continue to function as it has for millennia.

Killings in the name of God, ego, pride, honor, or enforced respect are part of daily life due to our sense of belonging to specific groups. It’s time to evolve and address issues like the refugee crisis with new perspectives to eradicate the underlying problems.

All nations should understand that people leave their countries because they can’t live without security and peace. The net loss of each individual leaving is a net gain for the society receiving them. Although the harms or benefits may not show immediately, they will have an impact eventually. For instance, Germany, with its aging population, would benefit immensely from the influx of new blood, one individual at a time.

Successful societies have long attracted talented people from around the world, while underdeveloped countries suffer brain drain as their populations leave for better opportunities. This is similar to villages supplying people to mega-cities, suffering loss one individual at a time. Warring factions should understand that ego, pride, and honor can be detrimental, draining the life out of their communities. They should recognize the value of individuals and explain the loss and gain to their populations.

Dr. Wayne Dyer described four levels of consciousness: owning, believing one’s own is better, asking what’s in it for me, and asking what can I do for you. The “what’s in it for me” mindset is found at all levels of politics of belonging. For instance, charity work by religious organizations often comes with strings attached, and advanced nations loan money to others to maintain control.

Selfishness leads to loneliness as people are left behind regardless of their wealth and power. Spirituality, however, connects us all. We need each other individually and collectively. Our mortality is not just an individual phenomenon; entire kingdoms, dynasties, and empires have also vanished. Graveyards aren’t only for individuals; history’s graveyards are filled with governing systems, religions, and empires.

Only spirituality has stood the test of time because it lives within individuals who keep it alive in all societies, regardless of religion. This is why I believe we are all cells of God. Our differences arise from a lack of understanding or misinterpretation of spirituality within religions.

Differences of opinion are the root of many problems. Even within families, differences exist. Both sides often fight for the same thing: fear and insecurities masked by political agendas. Despite claims of seeking equality, politically correct racism persists in every race, gender, nation, and religion. When it comes to human rights, I support equal rights for all, whether in a democracy or not.

Every governing system has flaws, but justice should never be denied to anyone. Individuals should have rights and freedom, but groups should not enforce their ways of living to trample others’ rights. I believe in freedom for all, equally.

When forming a group with shared insecurities, do not replicate the wrongs done to you. Jews, for instance, having been treated unequally by Germans in the past, should not do the same to Palestinians. It is natural to form protective groups, but it is wrong to perpetuate injustice.

Religious extremism, like nationalism and other governing systems, is dangerous when it enforces beliefs on others. We should stand against enforced beliefs because they are not physical realities; harming or killing individuals is.

I oppose any form of extremism because no knowledge is ever complete. If you take pride in your past, remember others do the same. To change others, start with yourself. Set standards for yourself before demanding them from others. True equality comes from not pushing political agendas of belonging groups.

Protecting French language and heritage is an example of politically correct racism. We are all victims of the same problem: an imbalanced sense of belonging. Embrace humanity by removing politics. If you claim land because you were there first, remember everyone’s ancestors were once newcomers.

Earth is our home; remove political divisions to find peace. Geographical lines are political, not physical. Humanity speaks one language: spirituality. Intentions and actions define humanity. The race, gender, nation, or religion survives due to individuals’ good deeds. Seeking special group identity is against human rights. True safety and security lie in the ocean of humanity, not in isolated ponds. Racist and nationalist education breeds fear and division, leading to deadly consequences. History proves this with countless wars and deaths.

As rain joins the ocean, individuals eventually return to humanity. We should leave behind a legacy of peace, not destruction. The primary desire is to raise a family in peace, understanding mortality. Political systems, based on insecurities and control, need fixing. Ownership of land, even for graves, makes little sense given our mortality. Ancient civilizations claimed ownership, yet their graveyards remind us of their impermanence.

Countries and humanity are stronger together. In peaceful times, we can evolve faster and reach our potential.

If you are seeking answers in texts written thousands of years ago, compare them with present scientific advances. Neither offers the perfection you seek, illustrating that humans are far from being a finished product.

Despite thousands of years of religious knowledge and evolution, we still witness tragic events, such as the little boy found dead on the beach, fleeing religious extremism.

For millennia, we have struggled to clearly understand or see God as an obvious entity, mainly because we have perceived God as separate from us. If God were obvious, mankind’s actions wouldn’t matter. Yet, from miraculous healings to technological advancements and the merging of biology with computers, all knowledge stems from humanity. Man seeks perfection and progresses despite inherent imperfections.

As individuals, our lives are mortal. Constantly seeking perfection should be tempered, as perfection is not worth sacrificing life or health. Yet, our sense of belonging often imprisons us in a living hell.

Consider relationships: a perfect stranger can enter your life, alleviating loneliness and offering love, companionship, and children. These are invaluable gifts, yet we often throw them away because society dictates our happiness and contentment. Imagine if you were born 5,000 years ago or 500 years in the future—would you break up a relationship over others’ opinions? Ultimately, your happiness is your responsibility, not society’s decision.

People live under various religious settings. For example, the Canadian government lost a human rights case regarding the hijab or niqab, and we have polygamy and other lifestyles within our so-called civilized society. We can’t trample on anyone’s rights. Ironically, the same laws that protect gay marriage and sexual freedom also protect polygamy. Conservatives often avoid discussing polygamy because it’s all about the politics of belonging. We must respect differences, but when extreme beliefs violate others’ rights, we must prioritize our humanity. Treat others as you wish to be treated.

Each of us is capable of breaking free from personal imprisonment. Be a CEO of your own life, prioritize happiness, and recognize that social norms should serve individuals, not cause hardship or discontent. If your sense of belonging causes unhappiness, override it—you are in control.

Years ago, I watched Dr. Wayne Dyer speak about the four levels of human evolution:

1. Owning: As children, we learn to own things—my mom, my toy, etc.
2. Comparing: We claim, “mine is better than yours.”
3. Self-interest: We ask, “what’s in it for me?”
4. Service: We ask, “what can I do for you?”

Spiritually and socially, religions have helped us evolve. In science and technology, we owe much to scientists. Despite our progress, we remain stuck at the second level, comparing and competing. This learned behavior stems from our belonging groups, not from our nature.

Why do we believe we are better because of our religion, race, or gender? This knowledge is taught. Overcome it with knowledge. People resist being told what to do, yet gladly imprison themselves in their sense of belonging.

Until we recognize our self-worth, we can’t discover the God within us. Viewing God as external makes us feel insignificant. Recognizing God within raises self-esteem and fosters mutual respect.

Who benefits from our weakness? Other humans, through the politics of belonging. The concept of God confounds even the best minds. Some embrace it, others deny it. To believe in God, look within. If you feel inadequate, reconsider how your religion presents God.

If you are an atheist, ask yourself if your disbelief is a reaction to enforced beliefs. If you continually learn, you are not a finished product. Denying or affirming God’s existence is an assumption. We are evolving, using a fraction of our brainpower, continually inventing and learning.

Religions teach that humans are insignificant, but remember that a single cell can cause cancer. Similarly, humans are integral to God’s existence. Picture yourself as a bottle of alcohol; the alcohol inside is God, making you dance. Feel empowered but responsible.

Everyone carries a God molecule, essential for life. As humanity evolves, so does our concept of God. Some fear destruction, but I am optimistic about our growth.

Religions and science can intoxicate us, leading to extreme behavior. Believing you are part of God’s process fosters spiritual awareness, humility, and wisdom. Each individual must prioritize self-survival to contribute to God’s work. We are more useful alive, then we serve society or God.

Why do religious extremes exist? They stem from ego, a product of our sense of belonging. Ego can drive success but also hinder progress. Embrace your journey, break free from societal chains, and seek a balanced, fulfilling life.

 

There is a ritual of marking territory in the animal kingdom. We call ourselves an evolved species, but I question that notion. Are we truly evolved? If so, why do we have wars, guns for personal security, and weapons of mass destruction?

By now, we should understand what humanity, God, and spirituality are all about. Yet, we are still in a state where we feel the need to mark our territories and arm ourselves for protection against our own kind.

Look at the way we live in our communities, nations, and even religions. There are strict rules for individual privacy, and like the jungle, there are those among us who break these rules. If we were evolved, we would see that life is a precious gift to the individual from humanity, accompanied by responsibilities to serve humanity. In turn, humanity has the responsibility to care for the individual in times of need, whether as a child, the elderly, or the sick. A community that cannot care for its sick is itself sick due to its promotion of selfishness.

Animals fight over territory because one or another disrespects the boundaries. Similarly, people violate and disrespect each other’s rights, leading to conflicts over property and physical crimes, escalating to wars over territories. What is the culprit behind most of our social ills? It is the uncontrolled inner animal, yet we love to call ourselves evolved creatures. (In the near future, I will write more about this inner animal.)

This inner animal causes personal insecurities and the desire to dominate others, just like in the jungle. Security and control are the two main problems for the individual, and they are the dead dogs for our internal and external wars.

From being torn apart inside as individuals to being depressed as religions or nations, we can’t shake the past. We keep scratching our wounds so they never heal because we don’t know peace and therefore don’t allow healing. We fear peace and play the victim to enjoy sympathy.

For instance, every year, Shias remember events from over a thousand years ago. I used to watch these passionate religious plays and wondered why people spill blood over something so long past. They reenact the entire scenario moment by moment to remember, but this flaw prevents healing and peace.

My logical side says punishing those who committed atrocities is fine, but none of those who committed the crimes are alive, so we have no choice but to move on. Our modern court systems don’t punish the families of offenders, let alone generations. This highlights the need to keep the politics of a sense of belonging alive.

As humans, we need healing and cures for all kinds of sicknesses, and we are perfectly capable of achieving this. The responsibility lies heavily on the shoulders of the coming generations. They must defy traditions and customs to find their own path of evolution because our previous and current generations have not fulfilled their responsibilities by merely following ancestral ways of thinking.

New generations need the knowledge and willingness to overcome the past. I call it a mental health issue, and it is not limited to the individual. All the symptoms, even collectively, are the same, just on a larger scale. Our leaders must recognize this and find cures for their communities.

The key is to learn to belong to humanity. I cannot stress enough the need to overcome the politics of a sense of belonging to any particular group. Imagine if everyone or every nation remembered everything that happened thousands of years ago. The Chinese would kill all the Mongols, the Native Americans, or the entire world, would be at war with England, and Jews would fight Germans instead of Muslims. These are just a few examples from our past.

I believe Shia-Sunni wars and Middle East crises are perpetuated by those who exploit political religions. They don’t want to solve individual problems or create peace, even if the future of their coming generations is at stake.

How can we overcome the past? Our evolutionary nature holds the key to peace, but some use the politics of belonging to work against nature, continuing to kill each other over ancient grudges. We should evolve to see all people as part of humanity, regardless of differences, and stop hurting people because of ancestral wrongs. While our justice system has caught up with equal human rights, our religions, their sects, and nations lag behind. It’s time to leap into the future to create peace for future generations.

We must evolve individually, especially beyond the politics of religion and nationalism. Replacing one addiction with another, like nationalism instead of religion, still plays into the same old politics of belonging to one group, which does not solve our prejudice-related problems.

The individual must rise to assume the role of CEO, recognizing that we are all human beings first and foremost. The politics of belonging has flipped our triangle upside down, making us act worse than other animals, all in the name of religion and God.

They are so accustomed to war over thousands of years that they know nothing else but killing each other. It’s like they are in a stinky room but have become nose blind. They seem to love their wounds, not knowing what a peaceful life would be like.

The key to solving these problems lies within the individual, not in the hands of religious or political leaders. The individual must become the CEO, stopping the cycle of depression and not being part of depressed groups. Their understanding of belonging needs to include human qualities that make a human a human. They need to learn about compassion, forgiveness, sacrifice, and especially love. Even with these qualities, they must understand the sense of belonging so as not to be swept away by prejudice.

The sense of belonging should be to humanity as a whole, not to a particular group. Right or wrong is not the question; it relates to our foundational knowledge of survival, security, and animal aggression. Personal and communal security is essential to reduce stress, both individually and collectively.

We all have responsibilities as individuals and communities to create peace for future generations. If everyone puts the “com” back into compassion and relates to humanity, we should be able to heal our wounds. Every community, nation, race, and religion has committed atrocities against others. All of this was done by less evolved people. Today, we save whales and other endangered species, for God’s sake. Where are the people who have a say and remain silent due to the politics of belonging? No one wants to stand against their own groups.

Logically, human security is constantly evolving, and our security system evolves with us. We have come a long way from obeying or disobeying the law of the jungle to practically and successfully removing ourselves from the food chain. Today, our security is no longer just a personal matter but a communal one. This is both a blessing and a curse because we become victims of our politicians.

We are damaging humanity; our wars have killed and continue to kill, especially since organized religions began dabbling in politics. Unaccountable individuals have been killed by religious extremism. Since we don’t want people killing each other in cities, we collectively want gun control. These days, our security is designed by our communities.

While we need some systems of home security, we mostly rely on our communities to arrange and take care of our security needs. This is why we need to understand our emotions and the importance of gun control in modern society. Every human knowledge is subject to change over time, regardless of being written in religious texts or constitutions.

We are emotional beings, and emotions can make even the most even-tempered person volatile. When upset, judgment can be clouded by emotions, which should not define an individual as a whole. We are told that guns don’t kill people; people kill people. This is true, but temporary anger should not result in someone being killed or becoming a killer.

If lethal weapons are readily available, it can be a problem for the community because these days, the community is responsible for our security. This is why all communities want gun control, but individual rights often come in the way. Since it is impractical to have a police officer for every individual, total control over individual and communal security is not

Are We Truly Evolved?

In the animal kingdom, marking territory is a common ritual. We consider ourselves an evolved species, but are we really? If we were, why would we have wars, personal guns for security, and weapons of mass destruction?

By now, we should understand the essence of humanity, God, and spirituality.

This is related to the little boy who was found dead face down on the Turkish beach, trying to come to Canada. All I want to write is curse words and swear words. I could not resist because my whole theme of writing is related to evolution, so we don’t have to go through these kinds of tragedies.

So here it is, and please ignore the English, stay focused on the content.

I heard a Punjabi song a while back, and the verse stuck in my head because I think it is related to the education of the sense of belonging to a group, which most people take pride in:

“Baki gullan baad ch sonyain, pahalaan serdar hann.”

The translation is:

“Everything is after, first I am a Sikh.”

Since I understand Punjabi, I know what it means. I grew up in Pakistan, and being a Muslim, we had the same education. If you are a Christian or Jew or American or belong to any other nationality or religion and you think your identity is not as a human being first, get it straight: you are on the wrong path because you were born as a human being to human beings first.

The education we all grew up with, and are discouraged from thinking beyond the belonging group’s interest, is totally political even if it says it is our religion first.

We all qualify by our genetics as human beings first. This is the disconnection that needs fixing. This is the fundamental flaw in our education systems and the dead dog of our past and present problems, and I hope it gets solved so it can’t be carried on into our future.

All the prejudice, religious extremism, racism, and related wars and social problems stem from our education at home.

It is crucial to learn about deeply ingrained and conflicting senses from within. It is time to learn to harness the emotional response that makes us rob each other of love. It is time for each and every one of us to assume our responsibilities and become a CEO: one who can do justice beyond emotions and conflicting senses.

To the impotent politicians of the world: look at this picture and see where you are going wrong. Get your act together. Take your responsibilities seriously and recognize the issues, especially the ones that can’t be swept under the rug.

Just like Obama said, if you use chemical weapons, that would be a red line to cross, but nothing was done. Everything was swept under the rug, out of sight out of mind. This boy’s death is a living example and a message to the whole world: don’t sweep conflicts under the rug.

The formation of ISIS is another example of not addressing issues promptly. The veto system in the United Nations is another failed system to blame as well.

Where are those powerhouses who created Israel, divided Iraq and Kuwait, formed a new map of the Middle East, and created over two hundred countries all over the world? Why can’t we think beyond religions and nationalities? Aren’t we human first?

It may not be simple and easy, but if you take religion out of politics and politics out of religion, you would be able to treat everyone with justice and compassion.

I have written before about human jewelry:

1. Love
2. Compassion
3. Forgiveness
4. Sacrifice

If you take these off, what you have left is an animal. All religions talk about these things, but looking at history, they actually remove the “com” from “passion.” Thus, we are in predicaments like these innocent deaths. We have been fighting passionately and killing innocents, exactly the opposite of what religious education talks about.

Their punishments for crimes are harsh, with no compassion, only passion. They judge the individual and claim everyone is a sinner and needs forgiveness. The pope just said we should forgive the women who have had abortions. Who are we to punish or forgive? I strongly believe if a child is coming, it is God’s will. If it is God’s will, why should one be punished or forgiven? I believe God lives through humanity; thus, every child born is a new cell of God to reproduce God. Blaming the individual for simply playing a role in the bigger picture is not spiritual; it is political.

Why change the tune now, why not fifty years ago or a hundred or a thousand or two thousand years ago? It is because we have to evolve, especially when the tide is turning. People are refusing the extremes of religions as they become educated.

Personally and spiritually, I am against abortion and euthanasia because we are all part of an organism as well as independent entities. As long as we are useful to humanity, we should hang on to do our jobs.

But at the end of the day, the individual should have more say in his/her life. You just can’t order or condemn without educating people. Life is not just the human doing; it is happening as well. Just look at conception—what are the odds for a sperm to become a human being? Even after becoming an individual, we rely on oxygen, which is not in our control. When we inhale it, millions of things have to go just right for us to be living. It can be simplified, but it is not that simple. Regardless, individual rights are still on top of my agenda. If you want to kill yourself or have an abortion, it should be your choice as well as your responsibility to be a living cell of God, the real organism we belong to.

Religious orders should not be orders; they should be choices and without any punishments because I believe our justice systems should be separate and above all our belief systems. A belief system does not follow logic; its foundation is literally on believing in something, which is beyond the understanding of present-day brainpower usage. So killing over a reality that is not understood is and should be against all logical justice systems.

Religious people are against education. My mother told me she wanted to go to high school, but her father denied her, even though he was a teacher himself.

My hats off to Malala Yousafzai because she took a stand for education in a culture that still stands against equal rights for all, whether it be education or work.

I believe we will always have differences of opinion, but our problems can only be solved with our evolution and education to get ahead in all departments of life. People working openly against education are usually in cultures of control. Like the Taliban in Afghanistan and Pakistan in the east and in the west, we have Hutterites and Mormons who want their people to live simply, obey, and follow the rules of their religions. I have nothing against it until they take it to the extreme and end up in a place where human rights are violated.

It is all fine if there is compassion in the passion; otherwise, it is all politics, no spirituality, because religion without compassion has nothing to offer to the individual to become a better person.

Our civil wars are strongly related to a distorted sense of belonging. The responsibility of this lands on the shoulders of the individual who makes the final decision to join the group to fight and kill other human beings regardless of innocence or guilt.

Lack of individual knowledge, especially when it comes to balancing inner and conflicting senses, should be recognized by the individual. So we all should know exactly who we are and what we are capable of. Each and every one of us is a born CEO who makes decisions every day with free will, but some of us don’t when it comes to the politics of the sense of belonging.

This little boy is telling the story that we all have to cross the lines to create balance between our sense of belonging and sense of freedom. He brought the “com” back and put it into the passion.

I hope the people who think that refugees are burdens will see what he showed with his death. I would add that communities, cities, countries, and religions are not made of buildings, houses, roads, and bridges; they are made of people because each and every one of them carries a worth. When you take the people out of the town, it becomes a ghost town.

Any system that diminishes individual power inevitably leads to dictatorship, monarchy, extreme authoritarian religious rule, or communism, all of which have been proven failed systems for human societies. As we evolve, we must assume higher-level responsibilities, yet we often cling to ancestral knowledge without acknowledging the need for change. In reality, the world is constantly changing before our eyes.

In mortal life, we cannot simply choose one path or the other. I believe that as individuals, we must navigate between our nature and intellect, recognizing that living naturally is actually an intellectual pursuit.

Apologies for forgetting the author’s name. In the October 2012 issue of “Good Times,” on page 16, an insightful quote was published: “We are interdependent in our society, and if you can lighten the load by bringing many hands, shoulders, and backs to the task, you can be successful.”

Each of us contributes a metaphorical “five bucks” to share in the success, benefiting both society and the individual. This process, which I call the core process of evolution, is mutually beneficial.

This “fiver” is fundamental yet often underestimated in value by both society and the individual, largely due to political influences, which have the power to distort our priorities.

I once heard on the Discovery Channel that “spruce trees don’t really have a deep root system, but they can withstand big storms and harsh weather” because their roots entangle to support each other. This natural phenomenon is mirrored in human beings. Despite feeling weak and vulnerable as individuals, we are integral parts of humanity’s true strength.

It pains me to see news of refugees fleeing war-torn zones, only to drown or die in trucks during their escape. These tragedies are often caused by the politics of belonging and religious extremism. Compassion, sacrifice, forgiveness, and love are the jewels of humanity. The United Nations should intervene in conflicts early to prevent such crises. Ideally, free education should be available worldwide to empower individuals to think critically and resist being herded like sheep.

If you closely examine the foundations of empires and the recruitment philosophies of religions, you’ll see the importance of the metaphorical “fiver” held by each individual. Communities are not merely composed of buildings, roads, and bridges; they are made of people. Ghost towns serve as reminders that people, not structures, form the essence of communities.

Melting pot societies are today’s reality, so people must overcome their prejudices to learn to live together. Every country’s political system should prioritize human rights above all else.

A higher population means more hands, shoulders, backs, and “fivers,” thus more productivity for barren lands. Everyone has the right to live in and raise their children in peace without being treated as second-class citizens.

When it comes to migrant security, it should also entail the responsibility of securing the host community. The best way to achieve this is through education that fosters a sense of belonging to humanity rather than to a political group, whether it be a nation or a religion.

Our reliance on the community and the community’s reliance on the individual may become confusing for individuals if they have been educated to feel weak and inferior. Regardless of size, gender, color, nation, or religion, the person who resides within the human body, holding the “fiver,” is equal.

The fabric of the community depends on the strength of the individual thread. While communities may have agendas to keep individuals weak for control, if everyone depends on the community, how will the community gain strength? It is essential for the community to strengthen individuals so that it does not perish with them.

Any system that diminishes individual power often leads to dictatorship, monarchy, extreme authoritarian religious rule, or communism—all proven failed systems for ruling human societies. Any governing system that does not align with human nature will ultimately fail.

We have a natural desire to be free as individuals, yet we also have a deep social need to belong to a community. Balancing these opposing needs requires action from individuals themselves, not coercion from the community.

The traditional top-down methods of discipline used by patriotic systems have led to social chaos and wars. Today, the control exerted by these systems is being questioned, resulting in modern societies flooded with unresolved human rights issues.

If individuals can self-discipline, the community does not have to impose its agendas, reducing the burden on social and justice systems. It all depends on education; we need to encourage individuals’ deeply ingrained and ripened spirituality so that they can function independently yet altruistically.

Looking at it from a different angle, modern science has been discovering things from the inside out. “The Economist” (August 18th, 2012) featured a front-page story titled “Microbes Maketh Man.” This reinforces the view of God as a human society or humanity, with humans and other creatures as part of the whole picture.

Nature provides food for every creature for survival. If we start feeding lions grass, it would have unknown consequences. Nature has its intellect; if meat-eating predators stopped preying on herbivores, the balance of nature would be disrupted.

Human evolution towards its potential is ongoing and dynamic, with room for improvement in every aspect. Scientifically proven facts can be updated, and religious rules can be adapted to changing societies and times.

In the journey towards human potential, there are no limitations, and nothing is set in stone, not even the Ten Commandments. Everything is subject to change, and as we continue to progress, we may learn more of life’s wisdoms.

Our present technological advancements only scratch the surface of what the future holds. We are merely at mile ten or twenty in a journey of a hundred, or perhaps even more. Only time will reveal what lies ahead, and we must exist and survive to witness our progress and technologies.