Sense of belonging, cause of the Dictatorship.

Humanity is a victim of our ancestral knowledge based on an “us versus them” philosophy. Sooner or later, we must evolve beyond this curse—the sooner, the better. Today, we are learning that racism, gender bias, and prejudice are plagues from our past, and the remedy is equal human rights. These rights not only correct our wrongs but are also antidotes to them. This “us and them” philosophy is a foundational problem. Until we address it individually, one person at a time, we will suffer both individually and collectively. We need to convince individuals that they are more than just extensions of an ideology. Each person is a CEO of their own life, with the responsibility to manifest change. Our dictators are victims of an out-of-control sense of belonging to their groups, leading them to commit spiritual crimes against opposing human beings. It’s not only dictators who are guilty of these crimes; democratically elected governments and so-called religious nations do the same in the name of their groups. Until we learn as individuals that there is no “us and them” when it comes to humanity, spirituality, and God, we will not reach enlightenment.

Just as each food has its taste, and chefs mix edible foods to create new flavors, human societies mix traditions, customs, governance, and worship practices. The world is full of differences. The quest for improvement doesn’t stop with evolving tastes; we constantly seek betterment in all aspects of life. This ongoing quest leads societies to seek better ways of governing, which can push people out of their comfort zones and sometimes lead to conflicts and wars. After wars and cultural clashes, people eventually learn to live together, mingling and mixing like foods. Sometimes, this doesn’t work well and results in never-ending conflict, but other times, the new mix is better than the old ways of living due to tolerance and acceptance. Societies then benefit from this mix of knowledge, and a higher level of innovation can bring transformation for the better.

Western societies can be described as melting pots, with democracies that uphold equal human rights. Despite the current wave of protectionism, they have generally succeeded because they have created a culture that is more attractive than others. The brain drain from all over the world has helped them evolve much faster than their counterparts. These societies are particularly good refuges for people fleeing oppressive environments. When individuals migrate, they bring their unique contributions to their new homes.

In my opinion, people leaving oppressive societies are often alpha individuals who sacrifice their present or status quo to change their future. They put more effort into changing their living conditions. Having success-oriented people in one place enriches both humanity and the society they join, but it can also create individual and social issues. For instance, re-establishing themselves and striving for dominance can ruin personal relationships due to equal human rights. Job dissatisfaction can lead to unacceptable behavior, resulting in individual unhappiness. When individuals suffer, so does society, leading to progress in some areas but deficiencies in others.

The most important thing in a mortal individual’s life should be happiness. Wealth can provide one kind of happiness, but knowing yourself and understanding what is important to you is crucial. For instance, if you live in an oppressive society but value freedom of expression, wealth alone won’t make you happy. Conversely, if you have freedom but are poor, you won’t be content either. Pursuing happiness involves recognizing the kind of wealth you appreciate and choosing your path accordingly. Ideally, one should achieve inner and outer peace, happiness, and contentment. Success in life is incomplete without physical, psychological, emotional, spiritual health, and happiness. Financial freedom alone may not fulfill all your needs. Sacrificing other areas of life for financial success is not a good strategy because, eventually, you will have to leave it all behind.

Believing that our days are numbered can help alleviate fears of life, but we must understand that we have control over our actions, as evidenced by the increased average lifespan and the ability to commit suicide. If you eat poorly and hope it doesn’t affect your health, you may be relying too much on belief rather than reality. We can’t just will or pray ourselves to a longer or better life.

As individuals, we are the most important people in our personal lives, and our decisions significantly impact our lives, regardless of our belief systems. This power is available only after we take the breath given to us. Regardless of God’s invisibility, our belief systems are important realities, or at least they should be, because they help us live a quality life. Excessive fear can kill us with stress, while reckless behavior can lead to harm. It’s not death itself but the quality of life that matters. If your belief system enhances your life’s quality, it’s the right one. If it robs your quality of life, it’s your responsibility to change it. This doesn’t necessarily mean changing your religion or becoming an atheist, but rather bringing spiritual health into everyday life to find inner peace. Making necessary changes, no matter how hard, is crucial for attaining quality of life.

Our belief systems are popular because they offer helpful ways of living. In society, we all need equality and rights, which require rules, justice systems, and police to enforce these rules so everyone can live with dignity. Troubles arise when politics manipulates the justice system to favor certain groups.

As we evolve, our justice systems must evolve to meet our changing needs. Increased awareness helps us reevaluate crimes, such as how homosexuality is no longer a big deal in Western cultures, and how alcohol, gambling, and now marijuana have become government-regulated. This evolution is driven by group politics.

Societies are at different levels of evolution, but the internet is dissolving boundaries, leading humanity through rapid change. This fast-changing time is galvanizing conservatism and protectionism, creating conflict. Since the can of worms has been opened, we can’t put everything back, so this clash hasn’t seen its end yet. Our future depends on education, which is why conservatives fear ordinary individuals becoming educated. They oppose free education, connecting it to socialism like they do with healthcare and social assistance. Whether it’s socialist or not, I believe educated people become more moderate and peaceful. Education comes in various forms—emotional, financial, physical, and well-rounded awareness. Despite our educational differences, we all share basic human needs: hunger and love. Individual education is the most important factor after these needs.

Around the world, we see the mutilation of individual human rights by those in power. We all need the freedom of equality to maintain self-esteem. Without it, we devalue ourselves and follow mob mentality, leading to wars and social problems after the loss of love.

Education is the foundation of a successful society. Instead of making it a business, it should be free. Educate students from all over the world and send them back to spread knowledge. Better yet, use the internet for free education. I believe all developed countries should have a tax dedicated to eradicating poverty, improving health, and funding education worldwide. This could solve extremism-related problems, allow us to evolve together, and teach us to live as human beings.

If we want to combat terrorism, free education is key. It can shift our sense of belonging from exclusive groups to humanity as a whole, whether based on race, gender, nationality, or religion.

Recently, Fidel Castro passed away. People view him as both a hero and a villain. Even Justin Trudeau faced criticism for praising him. Castro may have been a dictator who committed atrocities, but he also educated his people as best he could. While I am not a fan of dictatorships, kingdoms, or authoritarian systems, I support anything that helps individuals become educated and free with equal human rights, regardless of the system’s origins in socialism or religion.

A key theme of this blog is that individuals should learn to belong to humanity as a whole rather than exclusive groups. Canada is a good example, with diverse people living together under the same rules. The next step is to belong to humanity as a whole. Imagine how well humanity could thrive if everyone contributed equally and lived with equal human rights.

Even drug cartels can have loyal followers. Dictators like Hitler, Saddam, Gaddafi, Bashar al-Assad, or Fidel Castro have many who view them as God-sent leaders. How can we change this? Not by putting them down, but by recognizing their contributions to humanity and addressing their potential for spiritual crimes in the name of group belonging.

Empires like the English, French, Roman, and even Genghis Khan’s in the past, and Russian and American empires today, all operate on this sense of belonging. They can be both heroes and villains. The solution is to learn to belong to humanity as a whole and not rob each other of love in the name of nationality or religion.

I am an idealist who hopes technology, especially the internet, can spread education worldwide. Educated people don’t need continuous help; they need the tools to fish for themselves. The solution to our problems isn’t hate, separation, and security walls, but love. Robbing others of love has always been and will always be a failed strategy.

The tax system should be seen as a spiritual endeavor, allowing people to see the impact of their contributions. Charities fluctuate with financial insecurity, which is why a steady supply of goodwill is needed. Tax may be resented, but understanding the good it does for humanity is essential. Abuse of the system by those who don’t work despite their ability creates resentment. Programs should ensure able-bodied individuals work and understand the importance of reciprocation. Long-term social assistance is a flaw that needs fixing by addressing mental health issues or system abuse. Everyone has a duty to reciprocate. This give-and-take is essential for both physical and spiritual life.

As individuals and groups, we need to learn a simple rule: if it hurts you, it hurts others the same way. Don’t do to others what you don’t want done to you.

Mixing God with justice systems removes the evolutionary process since most religions follow rigid, ancient rules. Politics involving God allows enforcers to escape blame, providing room for group politics because God isn’t there to defend Himself.

God left the care of the world to humans, but they often portray God as a punisher and enforcer, distancing responsibility. To understand God’s wisdom, we must evolve, take charge, and reach our potential.

If we don’t pursue our potential and take responsibility individually, we’ll never reach our potential. Undermining individuals has never been done by God, but always by other humans. God created us with evolutionary nature and potential; it’s up to us to realize it.

A spiritual being can’t afford to have innocent blood on their hands. Radicals would prevent evolution, but it’s not up to a small segment of the population. It’s up to the evolving human mass, as God intended. Our duty is to evolve, belong to humanity, overcome insecurities spread by political groups, and join hands through the internet to help each other worldwide. If someone needs help, humanity should be able to reach them.

2 thoughts on “Sense of belonging, cause of the Dictatorship.”

  1. Hello Naem, Thank you for your sharing. Maybe when we finally know who we truly are, all separate-ness, all the ‘we and them’ will begin to dissolve and we will find our connectedness, our belonging. Insha’Allah.
    There are so many paths that could lead to that knowing. We humans are, I am, hungry to know and often confused by the choices, the right fit. Do you find that yourself?
    May I share with you something that recently flowed through me onto paper in the form of a poem.

    All paths to God to Existence
    to wholeness are one
    The faithful teachers
    of all the ways
    pray to Deities with many wondrous names
    or exalt a certain approach
    Meaningful ceremonies and sacred rites and practices
    beautiful sacred objects
    precious crystals for healing
    nature’s herb, teas, and remedies to revive and restore us
    are all food for the hungry body and soul

    All ways have truths
    My thirst for truth and connection
    cause me to wander from one to another
    never putting down roots
    and often feeling completely lost
    connectionless

    Oh for the simple worship of trees
    or of fresh snow on roof tops
    or clouds
    or of squirrels flying across tree branches in the moonlight
    They bring momentary wholeness to my soul
    They silently connect me with All That Is
    Their Truth is Presence

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    • Hello Neda Gasper, This is one of my few replies, to the comments since I started writing this Blog. This poem compelled me to write back to you. One of the reason is that I am not that good with computers, second the other important businesses of life, so there is only so much time I can put into it. I have been in the same boat as you for a very long time, this thrust makes us follow what God had intended for the human beings. Last year I started to write, which makes me feel that I am doing my duty. If we have knowledge which can help others we should be able to share. Just like you I get inspirations to write, with the hope that someone would benefit from it. I am pleased that there are people like you out there, I was overwhelmed when I started writing because I could not reply to all the comments, but now I am getting comfortable with it. I try to make sense out of everything, if it does not, I question it in my way. I don’t want to take anyone away from their faith and belief system but I do want everyone to assume their responsibilities as a grown human being whom should know that why do we have free will. God is a reality of full stomach and anything ingrained in our DNA can’t function and yes even God can not flow through us unless we are alive and healthy, so our religious knowledge should be based on spirituality. If you look around and see what people are doing with their religions, it is totally political so we all look at each other with the prejudice and carry on with our ancestral way of doing things, which includes killing each other’s even innocents. This robbery of love creates perpetual animosity connected deeply to our emotions and hormones that is the reason it feels natural to keep following instead of evolving. Thanks for the nice comment and a poem. All the best, if you write more share with me I will keep eye on for it. NAEEM

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